Scorpio Man too tired for sex? (Page 2)

Posted by Whatu
I'm looking forward to the thread that's made when the first sting comes around, also why has no one mentioned that hes testing the shit out of her, clearly she thinks he is submissive so he is giving her the ole sexual dominance I can make you go mad with my penis game

He has stung me already, after a jealous moment out in public. He chose his moment quite a few hours after this happened and went straight for the 'gonads' (oh look, I did it again, referring to male anatomy) I called him up on it, asking if I had hurt his feelings and he hasn't done it since.
Being stung is not new to me. It hurts for a short while, but I recover quickly.

Besides, I understand the hurt behind the sting, which is why I don't take it personal.

geez give it a break already.
we don't nee

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..need to fuck every second of the day..
yes, sometimes cuddling is best.

Posted by Sag89
Sex in relationships is going to suck. ( You heard it first here, you're welcome )


Cause they aren't based off that. If he's feeling down, why and not and try to find another form of intimacy. Like cook him a nice dinner or nice back rub? I'm hoping you know how to cook right? I'm surprised at the amount of females who don't these days, like OKAY. smh. Another way of turning him on besides sucking his d*** you know?


It's not gonna be fire works and nights of endless pleasure all the time, man. I know it's what you want, and in you're head it's possible but it's not real life.



Thats what affairs are for. If you're in this long term I doubt this will be the last time this happens. If you can't accept that reality or don't want to, just be single till you're ready to handle real intimacy. Sex is very small part of it.



-My brain

I read you loud and clear, you make some very good points. I was in a very long term relationship before scorp, so being single and having affairs is not appealing to me personally.
That's why I'm here, you see 😉

I understand that as a sag, you put yourself of the highest pedestal when it comes to all matters of being a Stepford Wife, but please understand that you cannot assume that any other woman besides yourself does not participate in good old fashioned treatment of a man.

If we want to get all astrological stereotype here, don't forget that cancer is the sign of nurturing.
Not only do I cook for him, he also gets home cooked meals in advance so he doesn't have to go home and cook after a long day.
Or I will sit with him and enjoy the 'man' channels on TV to help him unwind. Little things like that.
It works, he says so. Even just turning up out of the blue eases his stress.

I don't pressure him. Just riding this wave out and going with the flow so I can understand him better.

Posted by ryu8
(got cut off...)

..need to fuck every second of the day..
yes, sometimes cuddling is best.

Simple and clear. Ta

Posted by LunarEmissions

Posted by Sag89
Sex in relationships is going to suck. ( You heard it first here, you're welcome )
Cause they aren't based off that. If he's feeling down, why and not and try to find another form of intimacy. Like cook him a nice dinner or nice back rub? I'm hoping you know how to cook right? I'm surprised at the amount of females who don't these days, like OKAY. smh. Another way of turning him on besides sucking his d*** you know?
It's not gonna be fire works and nights of endless pleasure all the time, man. I know it's what you want, and in you're head it's possible but it's not real life.
Thats what affairs are for. If you're in this long term I doubt this will be the last time this happens. If you can't accept that reality or don't want to, just be single till you're ready to handle real intimacy. Sex is very small part of it.
-My brain

I read you loud and clear, you make some very good points. I was in a very long term relationship before scorp, so being single and having affairs is not appealing to me personally.
That's why I'm here, you see 😉
I understand that as a sag, you put yourself of the highest pedestal when it comes to all matters of being a Stepford Wife, but please understand that you cannot assume that any other woman besides yourself does not participate in good old fashioned treatment of a man.
If we want to get all astrological stereotype here, don't forget that cancer is the sign of nurturing.Not only do I cook for him, he also gets home cooked meals in advance so he doesn't have to go home and cook after a long day.Or I will sit with him and enjoy the 'man' channels on TV to help him unwind. Little things like that.It works, he says so. Even just turning up out of the blue eases his stress.
I don't pressure him. Just riding this wave out and going with the flow so I can understand him better.

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aw i honestly do the same things for my husband. it must be 4th house or something. plus, massage too on top of that. He just eats that up and it sure helps him after a long day. ^_^

Posted by xvll27

Posted by LunarEmissions
He is very quiet and submissive by nature, and has actually said that's it's nice to just cuddle sometimes.

Can any scorp guys (or girls) please help me out here?

Damn I have to re-write this again Because No edit option is available

Okay I'm Not Scorpio but ...

Some times when I'm a relationship I need my alone time and I do avoid kissing even

Holding hands and looking each other eye to eye makes me feel comfortable and intimacy is just not about sex It's about soul connection

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Posted by LunarEmissions

Posted by Sag89
Sex in relationships is going to suck. ( You heard it first here, you're welcome )


Cause they aren't based off that. If he's feeling down, why and not and try to find another form of intimacy. Like cook him a nice dinner or nice back rub? I'm hoping you know how to cook right? I'm surprised at the amount of females who don't these days, like OKAY. smh. Another way of turning him on besides sucking his d*** you know?


It's not gonna be fire works and nights of endless pleasure all the time, man. I know it's what you want, and in you're head it's possible but it's not real life.



Thats what affairs are for. If you're in this long term I doubt this will be the last time this happens. If you can't accept that reality or don't want to, just be single till you're ready to handle real intimacy. Sex is very small part of it.



-My brain

I read you loud and clear, you make some very good points. I was in a very long term relationship before scorp, so being single and having affairs is not appealing to me personally.
That's why I'm here, you see 😉

I understand that as a sag, you put yourself of the highest pedestal when it comes to all matters of being a Stepford Wife, but please understand that you cannot assume that any other woman besides yourself does not participate in good old fashioned treatment of a man.

If we want to get all astrological stereotype here, don't forget that cancer is the sign of nurturing.
Not only do I cook for him, he also gets home cooked meals in advance so he doesn't have to go home and cook after a long day.
Or I will sit with him and enjoy the 'man' channels on TV to help him unwind. Little things like that.
It works, he says so. Even just turning up out of the blue eases his stress.

I don't pressure him. Just riding this wave out and going with the flow so I can understand him better.

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Why are you complaining on a form than if you have so much "experience " let alone already dated this same sign?

@LunarEm, also since it sounds as if you don't live with him....
My husband does come home to ME, so well, there you.

I didn't date the last one. It was on a deep level but we weren't in a relationship like this.

No one is complaining here. I'm stating the parts of him that I feel I understand. If I understood the rest, I wouldn't waste my time posting

Posted by LunarEmissions
I didn't date the last one. It was on a deep level but we weren't in a relationship like this.

No one is complaining here. I'm stating the parts of him that I feel I understand. If I understood the rest, I wouldn't waste my time posting

Well good luck.

Posted by tiziani
Sorry but I don't understand the point of this thread either as you've added details to your story. If what you do works, and he says so... why not just stay loyal to that and believe him?


"It is easy, too easy"


So of course, we have to go look for problems where there are none. Life.

LOL

Posted by LunarEmissions
Lol, I am aware that's an impatient moon. I actually go away and give him enough breathing room to the point where he is vocal about missing me and wishing I was there.

He is a sag moon, with a lot of sag placements but he is very serious and intense. Very scorp, but hardly any fire to him

Dated a Sag moon/Sag Venus/Sag Mars Scorp before.
He was a bit wily, yet easy going.
He was very loquacious, which I don't like in men.

I think you just wanted to vent and get some insight into what he's feeling.
Can't figure out why folks want to fight with you over a man who's not theirs.

Sag moon and Aries moon should be compatible and there should be a feeling of understanding.
How about planning a vacation together to see if that makes a difference?

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by LunarEmissions
Lol, I am aware that's an impatient moon. I actually go away and give him enough breathing room to the point where he is vocal about missing me and wishing I was there.

He is a sag moon, with a lot of sag placements but he is very serious and intense. Very scorp, but hardly any fire to him

Dated a Sag moon/Sag Venus/Sag Mars Scorp before.
He was a bit wily, yet easy going.
He was very loquacious, which I don't like in men.

I think you just wanted to vent and get some insight into what he's feeling.
Can't figure out why folks want to fight with you over a man who's not theirs.

Sag moon and Aries moon should be compatible and there should be a feeling of understanding.
How about planning a vacation together to see if that makes a difference?

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that's alot of FIRE, with your FIRE. it's like combustion.

Posted by Rabbit
It's mind boggling how many posts this thread has.

I was thinking the same thing..

A post titled Scorpio Man too tired for sex

...150+ replies stating Scorpios are not all about sex

...7 pages demonstrating that - although Scorpios (like any other sign) do indeed get too tired to have sex - posters on the Scorpio forum are never too tired to talk about sex 😛

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by Rabbit
It's mind boggling how many posts this thread has.

I was thinking the same thing..

A post titled Scorpio Man too tired for sex

...150+ replies stating Scorpios are not all about sex

...7 pages demonstrating that - although Scorpios (like any other sign) do indeed get too tired to have sex - posters on the Scorpio forum are never too tired to talk about sex 😛

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**11 pages

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by LunarEmissions
Lol, I am aware that's an impatient moon. I actually go away and give him enough breathing room to the point where he is vocal about missing me and wishing I was there.

He is a sag moon, with a lot of sag placements but he is very serious and intense. Very scorp, but hardly any fire to him

Dated a Sag moon/Sag Venus/Sag Mars Scorp before.
He was a bit wily, yet easy going.
He was very loquacious, which I don't like in men.

I think you just wanted to vent and get some insight into what he's feeling.
Can't figure out why folks want to fight with you over a man who's not theirs.

Sag moon and Aries moon should be compatible and there should be a feeling of understanding.
How about planning a vacation together to see if that makes a difference?

that's alot of FIRE, with your FIRE. it's like combustion.

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Both very strong willed and unwilling to bend

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by LunarEmissions
Lol, I am aware that's an impatient moon. I actually go away and give him enough breathing room to the point where he is vocal about missing me and wishing I was there.

He is a sag moon, with a lot of sag placements but he is very serious and intense. Very scorp, but hardly any fire to him

Dated a Sag moon/Sag Venus/Sag Mars Scorp before.
He was a bit wily, yet easy going.
He was very loquacious, which I don't like in men.

I think you just wanted to vent and get some insight into what he's feeling.
Can't figure out why folks want to fight with you over a man who's not theirs.

Sag moon and Aries moon should be compatible and there should be a feeling of understanding.
How about planning a vacation together to see if that makes a difference?

that's alot of FIRE, with your FIRE. it's like combustion.

Both very strong willed and unwilling to bend

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Yes, Lunarmaiden, insight was what I was after, thanks for sharing your experience with those placements. He talks, but not overly so which is nice.

I think there is a lot of fire beneath the surface for both of us. (like Whatu said, magma) He is compromising in many ways but will never bend in others, but that's fine with me.
Being a doormat for a partner is never attractive.

I appreciate all the responses, regardless of what they were, as it put everything into perspective.
Sometimes that's all that is needed. I am not expecting to figure him out to his very depths.

*RABBIT; You've pretty much hit the nail on the head with the mommy issues thing.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by LunarEmissions
Lol, I am aware that's an impatient moon. I actually go away and give him enough breathing room to the point where he is vocal about missing me and wishing I was there.
He is a sag moon, with a lot of sag placements but he is very serious and intense. Very scorp, but hardly any fire to him

Dated a Sag moon/Sag Venus/Sag Mars Scorp before.
He was a bit wily, yet easy going.
He was very loquacious, which I don't like in men.
I think you just wanted to vent and get some insight into what he's feeling.
Can't figure out why folks want to fight with you over a man who's not theirs.
Sag moon and Aries moon should be compatible and there should be a feeling of understanding.
How about planning a vacation together to see if that makes a difference?

that's alot of FIRE, with your FIRE. it's like combustion.

Both very strong willed and unwilling to bend

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aww maybe one with dominant air for you next time?

this stereotype could survive ww3. i'm pretty sure.

op??_ my ex scorp was the saaame??_ exact??_ way. but it didn't really bother me. or, i should say, it took a long time before it started to mess with my head. get creative, woman. fish net thigh highs, thongs, porn??_ or, grab a dildo.

with my sweetie, i do all the driving when he's too tired.

like i stole it 😈

Posted by CreepyPants
this stereotype could survive ww3. i'm pretty sure.

op??_ my ex scorp was the saaame??_ exact??_ way. but it didn't really bother me. or, i should say, it took a long time before it started to mess with my head. get creative, woman. fish net thigh highs, thongs, porn??_ or, grab a dildo.

with my sweetie, i do all the driving when he's too tired.

like i stole it 😈

That's just awesome!
I get it now, it's something I had to wrap my head around as my long term relationship was with a Taurus who would happily give it up regardless. There could be WW3 and he'd still be all systems go. This is a great lesson for me, to calm my fire a little.

FWIW, I love the whole kit, personally. There are some wonderful suspender sets with the high tops stockings, and I love the knee highs with boots under a long dress. The little surprise elements.
I agree with doing the driving... I'm quite happy to take the wheel.

Posted by CreepyPants
this stereotype could survive ww3. i'm pretty sure.

op??_ my ex scorp was the saaame??_ exact??_ way. but it didn't really bother me. or, i should say, it took a long time before it started to mess with my head. get creative, woman. fish net thigh highs, thongs, porn??_ or, grab a dildo.

with my sweetie, i do all the driving when he's too tired.

like i stole it 😈

😛

it's awesome to read that scorpio men who are ex's are the type who make alot of us women sing....

"who's crying now?" "the one who got away", "please don't let me go!" "come back to me baby!"

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by LunarEmissions
He is very quiet and submissive by nature, and has actually said that's it's nice to just cuddle sometimes.

Doesn't sound like a Scorpio to me - aside from the quiet part.

Contrary to popular belief, all Scorpio aren't sex crazed with high stamina. They are capable of celibacy and fatigue just like everyone else.

Posted by Reincarnation

Posted by LunarEmissions
I like it firey, I want him on the chair, in the shower, spontaneously and when the mood calls (I'm one who rarely ever does not feel like it)
But I notice that he shies away from that

I much prefer a dead fish over a woman who is frantically moving her hips back and forth.

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Now this.. is unusual.

I've never met a quiet submissive Scorpio. I have seen them behav as if they were but only in the presence if a.woman they were terrified of. The nutty, murderous for no reason type of.woman.