Scorpio/Scorpio relationships

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Truth be told I have not seen too many Scorpios together, apart from my male colleague who is married to a lady Scorpio.

We have worked together for the last 12 years....I have admired the relationship they have. He is so tender, caring and romantic with her it's unbelievable. As an example every Valentines day, he will send her a card from a "secret admirer" I cant tell you how many of us in our department have each taken turns to write out this card and post it from the areas where we live to make the postage location different each year and then he still buys a card that is personally from him. It's the sweetest thing ever.

From conversations we have had, I often think to myself that she is perhaps the one who holds all the "power". No not that power... but that he seems to do so much for her and yet sometimes it's almost not good enough. If she says jump, he says how high. Don't misunderstand that I think she is controlling him in the normal sense but the dynamics of this pairing just seem as though the lady Scorp will have the upper hand. Where a male Scorp with any other Sun sign pairing will always have the upper hand.

My question therefore is, if you have seen this couple before, do you think in your opinion that the woman Scorpio will be the one in control of the relationship or will it be him?
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on. They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)
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have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
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Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
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i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?
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I agree with Warangel.... Scorpio men will submit and do anything for you to make you happy and give you all of the power and control to please you entirely... because they allow it. Because once he doesn't want it that way, tantrums, I mean problems begin.

Being with a scorpio was emotionally fulfilling but i didn't like calling all of the shots like that, I wanted to submit to him, not him to me. So it was a constant "whatever you want" and no action made because both of us were on the same page.

I dated another scorpio and he was great honestly, funny, kind, charismatic.

Evolved Scorpio/Scorpio works!
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?

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Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
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I am a Scorpio married to a Scorpio. When I say I found my best half, soul mate, and missing part, it is true. No person from any other sign clicked with me like my spouse did. I don't have the worry and doubt with my Scorpio like I did with other signs. What I give, I get back in return without having to say anything. Love, loyalty, and consideration is abundant. I wouldn't trade my Scorpio for anyone or anything. There is no upper hand here because we are equals. I'm there for my spouse and my spouse is there for me. No words needed. Scorpio and Scorpio works when there is humility, trust, and no ego.
Its nice to hear there are such success stories between this coupling. Glad you guys have found such happiness together :-)
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
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my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
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I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?
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nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?


nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
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I do see your point, But friendship dynamics are built up over years. I think and will use Scorpio as an example being that the thread was made to highlight Scorp and Scop relationships. Scorpio don't trust easy if at all....so its not a case of him coming into the office and blurting out what is wrong in their relationship. It's also not a case of him speaking about his "problems" It's my perception of their relationship from things he has said in conversations with me (not necessarily talking about their relationship in general it also does not mean that the conversation was to moan and groan about her. It could be something he says in any conversation we may have, I hope this is making more sense?

I like the fact that I can have these sorts of relationships with people you work with. Its not about coming to work and spewing out our worries and troubles. :-) I'm sure you have conversations with your friends about something and they will say something in or during the conversation that will make you think ...
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?


nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
I do see your point, But friendship dynamics are built up over years. I think and will use Scorpio as an example being that the thread was made to highlight Scorp and Scop relationships. Scorpio don't trust easy if at all....so its not a case of him coming into the office and blurting out what is wrong in their relationship. It's also not a case of him speaking about his "problems" It's my perception of their relationship from things he has said in conversations with me (not necessarily talking about their relationship in general it also does not mean that the conversation was to moan and groan about her. It could be something he says in any conversation we may have, I hope this is making more sense?

I like the fact that I can have these sorts of relationships with people you work with. Its not about coming to work and spewing out our worries and troubles. :-) I'm sure you have conversations with your friends about something and they will say something in or during the conversation that will make you think ...
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yeah but i focused on the gift giving thing to show the world how wonderful he is.

but in your original post you are wondering why the woman always wears the pants.

controlling you mean.



and remember there's MANY different types of scorpio men.

i highlighted the two big break ups of last year this year and two were scorpio men. one scorpio man with sag moon libra venus libra mars regretted his "threesome" with wife. (do you think that was his idea or hers?)

and why regret it if they wanted to do it? and then why the break up?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/break-ups-for-2018-late-2017-10610445/?checkpg=1
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?


nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
I do see your point, But friendship dynamics are built up over years. I think and will use Scorpio as an example being that the thread was made to highlight Scorp and Scop relationships. Scorpio don't trust easy if at all....so its not a case of him coming into the office and blurting out what is wrong in their relationship. It's also not a case of him speaking about his "problems" It's my perception of their relationship from things he has said in conversations with me (not necessarily talking about their relationship in general it also does not mean that the conversation was to moan and groan about her. It could be something he says in any conversation we may have, I hope this is making more sense?

I like the fact that I can have these sorts of relationships with people you work with. Its not about coming to work and spewing out our worries and troubles. :-) I'm sure you have conversations with your friends about something and they will say something in or during the conversation that will make you think ...
yeah but i focused on the gift giving thing to show the world how wonderful he is.

but in your original post you are wondering why the woman always wears the pants.

controlling you mean.



and remember there's MANY different types of scorpio men.

i highlighted the two big break ups of last year this year and two were scorpio men. one scorpio man with sag moon libra venus libra mars regretted his "threesome" with wife. (do you think that was his idea or hers?)

and why regret it if they wanted to do it? and then why the break up?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/break-ups-for-2018-late-2017-10610445/?checkpg=1

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I read some of that thread, but its hard to comment on celeb couples when all you really know about them is what you read in the papers and we know how accurate the papers and gossip is. Its a little different when you applying the same to couples you know in real life and what they are saying to you is true.

If you focusing on the gift giving ill give you an example. He buys anniversary gift. We comment on "Oh that's nice I really like that". His reply is oh he is not sure, he can never tell if she likes this or that. I once got her this and she hated it and it's never worn/used etc. Now I am never sure if what I get will be something she loves or not.

In my OP i was asking ARE all scorp/scorp relationships similar to what I perceive from theirs as in she wears the pants in their relationship.
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?


nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
I do see your point, But friendship dynamics are built up over years. I think and will use Scorpio as an example being that the thread was made to highlight Scorp and Scop relationships. Scorpio don't trust easy if at all....so its not a case of him coming into the office and blurting out what is wrong in their relationship. It's also not a case of him speaking about his "problems" It's my perception of their relationship from things he has said in conversations with me (not necessarily talking about their relationship in general it also does not mean that the conversation was to moan and groan about her. It could be something he says in any conversation we may have, I hope this is making more sense?

I like the fact that I can have these sorts of relationships with people you work with. Its not about coming to work and spewing out our worries and troubles. :-) I'm sure you have conversations with your friends about something and they will say something in or during the conversation that will make you think ...
yeah but i focused on the gift giving thing to show the world how wonderful he is.

but in your original post you are wondering why the woman always wears the pants.

controlling you mean.



and remember there's MANY different types of scorpio men.

i highlighted the two big break ups of last year this year and two were scorpio men. one scorpio man with sag moon libra venus libra mars regretted his "threesome" with wife. (do you think that was his idea or hers?)

and why regret it if they wanted to do it? and then why the break up?

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/break-ups-for-2018-late-2017-10610445/?checkpg=1


I read some of that thread, but its hard to comment on celeb couples when all you really know about them is what you read in the papers and we know how accurate the papers and gossip is. Its a little different when you applying the same to couples you know in real life and what they are saying to you is true.

If you focusing on the gift giving ill give you an example. He buys anniversary gift. We comment on "Oh that's nice I really like that". His reply is oh he is not sure, he can never tell if she likes this or that. I once got her this and she hated it and it's never worn/used etc. Now I am never sure if what I get will be something she loves or not.

In my OP i was asking ARE all scorp/scorp relationships similar to what I perceive from theirs as in she wears the pants in their relationship.
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from what i have seen...yeah she wears the pants. But i only know the scorpio woman and other sun sign. and she wears the pants usually.
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His chart is as follows if it makes a difference.

22 Nov Scorp... but

Asc Aqu

Sun Scorp - 9th house

Moon Pis

Merc Scorp

Venus Sag

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Leo

aw look at that chart. lots of squaring in his chart. moon pisces, venus sag, mars virgo. and he's a 9th houser. he seems more sagittarius /piscean. with virgo touches.

highly mutable.

needs to bend to his woman.
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His chart is as follows if it makes a difference.

22 Nov Scorp... but

Asc Aqu

Sun Scorp - 9th house

Moon Pis

Merc Scorp

Venus Sag

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Leo

aw look at that chart. lots of squaring in his chart. moon pisces, venus sag, mars virgo. and he's a 9th houser. he seems more sagittarius /piscean. with virgo touches.

highly mutable.

needs to bend to his woman.
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I also feel more sag vibes😁😂
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His chart is as follows if it makes a difference.

22 Nov Scorp... but

Asc Aqu

Sun Scorp - 9th house

Moon Pis

Merc Scorp

Venus Sag

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Leo

aw look at that chart. lots of squaring in his chart. moon pisces, venus sag, mars virgo. and he's a 9th houser. he seems more sagittarius /piscean. with virgo touches.

highly mutable.

needs to bend to his woman.
I also feel more sag vibes😁😂
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the "pleasing" your woman and buying gifts seem more libra though, he could be a libra rising.

there's something libra about him.
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I think that a man who truly loves his woman will treat her like royalty. Don't be fooled though, he allows it.

When I was with the Scorpio woman, she preferred to be the woman and me the man in the relationship. I think it can work if both are prepared to be with each other. 🙂
They really do have a beautiful relationship. But I just feel so sorry for him sometimes when it sounds like what he is doing is not good enough. He always tells me that the gifts he buys for her are wrong (anniversary, birthday etc). Perhaps I am just getting the 1 sided story but I can tell you, I know they both worship the ground they walk on.They really are a stunning couple. I admire everything he does to keep her happy.

Thank you for your sharing :-)


have you watched the Betty Broderick movie? that's exactly what she was doing. O_O

getting upset that the gifts aren't to what she wanted.



your emphasis on "such a beautiful this and beautiful couple" this.... is that what you want from a man?
Oh god no not at all. I need a man who has a much stronger personally than me. If we can't hold conversations no amour of tender this and that will cut it. Perhaps I'm just witnessing a Scorpio who truly loves the person he chose to be with 🙂 I want a man who won't put up with my shit if that makes sense lol

I've not seen the movie so will check it out.
i dont really like the way he loves her, to be honest. always trying to 'Please" her.

like he's guilty or something.

and he has to tell you, some co-worker or acquaintance of their relationship. i dont like that.

i mean are you his mother/grandma ect that he needs to tell you the intimacy of their relationship? and their problems?


Oh gosh no, it's not a case of telling me his problems. It's the impression I get from from conversations we have had. It might sound weird speaking to a colleague but you must remember we have been working together for the past 12 years. When you spend 90% of your time at work you get to know people and you become friends. Granted we don't go out and jolly it up like "friends", but you become friends in the sense that you are comfortable to talk to someone about personal life :-) I value the conversations we have as I in turn have also shared many personal stories with them.
my husband never talks about anything on our relationship at work but then again he doesn't like to associate with the neighbors either, and keep everything at a distance. and also he doesn't work alot at the office, more home-base. but his close friends he keeps close, and even then no talk about it. just jokes sometimes, for humour. So even implication of giving the "impression" of gift giving like you have to "prove"something is a bit fishy for some reason. I dont like that either. Why does the colleagues at work need to know that? So they can get the impression of a happy marriage? Just like what you're doing now? 😕

that's why it sounds fake.

although with your case i guess cause he works there 90% of the time he needs to tell everything. even implication so that's probably a given.
I guess I can see why you may think its fake but I think you need to know someone on some sort of level before you can really say that it could be fake. I do believe they have a happy marriage, remember I have also met her so have seen them together... I am getting the impression that you not so keen on having any friendship relationships with the people you work with which might be more the issue here?


nope. but maybe it's just the men. Because his scorpio male cousins are the same, no talk about personal life to others. Also, the women might be more forthcoming cause women like to chat it up.

the males dont even know who is married, when they do find out, they are like, oh ok. fine. It's only close friends circle. women are more into relationships in general.
I do see your point, But friendship dynamics are built up over years. I think and will use Scorpio as an example being that the thread was made to highlight Scorp and Scop relationships. Scorpio don't trust easy if at all....so its not a case of him coming into the office and blurting out what is wrong in their relationship. It's also not a case of him speaking about his "problems" It's my perception of their relationship from things he has said in conversations with me (not necessarily talking about their relationship in general it also does not mean that the conversation was to moan and groan about her. It could be something he says in any conversation we may have, I hope this is making more sense?

I like the fact that I can have these sorts of relationships with people you work with. Its not about coming to work and spewing out our worries and troubles. :-) I'm sure you have conversations with your friends about something and they will say something in or during the conversation that will make you think ...
I'm a Scorpio and I can relate to what you say.

Scorpios do not trust easy and especially at work.

I have made a Scorpio friend at work and within a matter of 5 6 months of working relationship I hang out with this Scorpio and we both know about each other's personal stuff

The point being it's about trust and faith not the time spent together.

Regarding the gift thing, well that's a thing with Scorpios we do tell others (those we trust) what we have planned for those we love and we do moan About the ones we love to those we trust BUT try moan about the ones we love to us .... WELL actually don't EVER do that to us because we will chase you to another corner and sting you so hard you won't even ask for water !

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Lol I can actually get what you saying lol. It's like I'm a scorp I can say it but it's not for you to say it to me 😉

Thank you so much for sharing
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His chart is as follows if it makes a difference.

22 Nov Scorp... but

Asc Aqu

Sun Scorp - 9th house

Moon Pis

Merc Scorp

Venus Sag

Mars Virgo

Jupiter Leo

aw look at that chart. lots of squaring in his chart. moon pisces, venus sag, mars virgo. and he's a 9th houser. he seems more sagittarius /piscean. with virgo touches.

highly mutable.

needs to bend to his woman.
I also feel more sag vibes😁😂
the "pleasing" your woman and buying gifts seem more libra though, he could be a libra rising.

there's something libra about him.
It's not that to be honest - it's Scorpio devotion.

I'm a Scorpio and have been with a Scorpio who did similar things for me.
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yes but i really do feel it is a libra trait though. there's something libra about it.

gift-giving. even if the scorpio has scorpio stellium, but if they have libra, they are very very adamant about gift- giving in terms of anniversary, birthdays all special events which i think is great btw.

i dont have libra so i am not into the anniversary thing until the 25 year mark. we sometimes forget our anniversary. it's not a huge thing for us.i try to remember family's birthdays because it's important so i have the in the journal calender that kind of thing.

and only because i learned that it is important to do that. Otherwise i dont care for schedules and duties.

i have libra family members who are scorpio dominant and scorpio with libra dominant. they have a similarity of schedule and dates, and stuff./planning.
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Truth be told I have not seen too many Scorpios together, apart from my male colleague who is married to a lady Scorpio.

We have worked together for the last 12 years....I have admired the relationship they have. He is so tender, caring and romantic with her it's unbelievable. As an example every Valentines day, he will send her a card from a "secret admirer" I cant tell you how many of us in our department have each taken turns to write out this card and post it from the areas where we live to make the postage location different each year and then he still buys a card that is personally from him. It's the sweetest thing ever.

From conversations we have had, I often think to myself that she is perhaps the one who holds all the "power". No not that power... but that he seems to do so much for her and yet sometimes it's almost not good enough. If she says jump, he says how high. Don't misunderstand that I think she is controlling him in the normal sense but the dynamics of this pairing just seem as though the lady Scorp will have the upper hand. Where a male Scorp with any other Sun sign pairing will always have the upper hand.

My question therefore is, if you have seen this couple before, do you think in your opinion that the woman Scorpio will be the one in control of the relationship or will it be him?

No.

I would bet behind closed doors it's the other way around. In my experience the "power" dynamics in Scorp/Scorp pairing often ebbs and flows.
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I am a Scorpio married to a Scorpio. When I say I found my best half, soul mate, and missing part, it is true. No person from any other sign clicked with me like my spouse did. I don't have the worry and doubt with my Scorpio like I did with other signs. What I give, I get back in return without having to say anything. Love, loyalty, and consideration is abundant. I wouldn't trade my Scorpio for anyone or anything. There is no upper hand here because we are equals. I'm there for my spouse and my spouse is there for me. No words needed. Scorpio and Scorpio works when there is humility, trust, and no ego.

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Truth be told I have not seen too many Scorpios together, apart from my male colleague who is married to a lady Scorpio.



We have worked together for the last 12 years....I have admired the relationship they have. He is so tender, caring and romantic with her it's unbelievable. As an example every Valentines day, he will send her a card from a "secret admirer" I cant tell you how many of us in our department have each taken turns to write out this card and post it from the areas where we live to make the postage location different each year and then he still buys a card that is personally from him. It's the sweetest thing ever.



From conversations we have had, I often think to myself that she is perhaps the one who holds all the "power". No not that power... but that he seems to do so much for her and yet sometimes it's almost not good enough. If she says jump, he says how high. Don't misunderstand that I think she is controlling him in the normal sense but the dynamics of this pairing just seem as though the lady Scorp will have the upper hand. Where a male Scorp with any other Sun sign pairing will always have the upper hand.



My question therefore is, if you have seen this couple before, do you think in your opinion that the woman Scorpio will be the one in control of the relationship or will it be him?


No.

I would bet behind closed doors it's the other way around. In my experience the "power" dynamics in Scorp/Scorp pairing often ebbs and flows. click to expand
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I wondered about that and thought it must be dependent on the situations and circumstances. I've seen him get wound up in a work situation and obviously not the same but what would an argument between this pairing look like lol
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Truth be told I have not seen too many Scorpios together, apart from my male colleague who is married to a lady Scorpio.





We have worked together for the last 12 years....I have admired the relationship they have. He is so tender, caring and romantic with her it's unbelievable. As an example every Valentines day, he will send her a card from a "secret admirer" I cant tell you how many of us in our department have each taken turns to write out this card and post it from the areas where we live to make the postage location different each year and then he still buys a card that is personally from him. It's the sweetest thing ever.





From conversations we have had, I often think to myself that she is perhaps the one who holds all the "power". No not that power... but that he seems to do so much for her and yet sometimes it's almost not good enough. If she says jump, he says how high. Don't misunderstand that I think she is controlling him in the normal sense but the dynamics of this pairing just seem as though the lady Scorp will have the upper hand. Where a male Scorp with any other Sun sign pairing will always have the upper hand.





My question therefore is, if you have seen this couple before, do you think in your opinion that the woman Scorpio will be the one in control of the relationship or will it be him?



No.



I would bet behind closed doors it's the other way around. In my experience the "power" dynamics in Scorp/Scorp pairing often ebbs and flows. click to expand



I wondered about that and thought it must be dependent on the situations and circumstances. I've seen him get wound up in a work situation and obviously not the same but what would an argument between this pairing look like lol click to expand
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Well I would guess "sudden" and abrupt (seemingly out of nowhere). Water sign tends to be passive aggressive with loved ones until feelings spills over, so it comes off as "sudden". Refer to all the "he suddenly disappeared" threads for reference. In contrast, we are usually very direct with people we could give a sh*t about when upset. The reason there is a difference would be for another thread.
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scorpio men I come in contact jerks.
Posted by Sooner_or_Later
Posted by LaMadrina
I am a Scorpio married to a Scorpio. When I say I found my best half, soul mate, and missing part, it is true. No person from any other sign clicked with me like my spouse did. I don't have the worry and doubt with my Scorpio like I did with other signs. What I give, I get back in return without having to say anything. Love, loyalty, and consideration is abundant. I wouldn't trade my Scorpio for anyone or anything. There is no upper hand here because we are equals. I'm there for my spouse and my spouse is there for me. No words needed. Scorpio and Scorpio works when there is humility, trust, and no ego.



^this is really beautiful, but also has me really curious - how did you two meet? click to expand
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@beautifulritz
7 Years

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Definitely agree. I would want to be with someone who I could look upto. Sometimes, the control can be consuming, I would want a man who can dominate over me but I have always held the reins of the relationship despite being the demure one while they appear all macho to the outside world.
Posted by ScorpioTruth
That has been my experience. I never really understood all the hype about Scorpio men. I’ve had the upper hand anytime I was with a Scorpio man. But I think that Scorpio men like dominant women. But Scorpio women don’t like men that allow us to dominate them.