scorpio woman pondering aries man

I wonder if this guy is really iterested or not after 6 years...no sex but we are very close...talk all the time, he knows me very well more than my friends...but should I give him a chance, or just forget it and move on? It does not kill me, but I always wonder what this guy wants..I am doing nothing..I have attempted to spend time with him, but something always stopped me from being with him....

Six years and nothing's happened because 'something' always stops you from being with him. Call me crazy (and they do!!!!!), but I do believe that's a "sign." One of you has made a decision that's prevented anything from happening, even if you don't know what that decision is. You don't seem to understand your own motives in this particular relationship, i.e. the set of decisions you've made/beliefs you have about the world that have manifested this particular situation/pattern. IMO, that's the only real problem. For anyone. Ever. But answer for yourself these questions and your difficulty will end if you really want it to. What do you really want from your relationship him? Are you getting it NOW? Just sit with the questions until you're still (this may require some time, even up to say multiple units of commmercial breaks!!!!). Open yourself up to whatever answer reveals itself, even if it surprises you. You'll know what to do, and only you. No one can answer the questions for you.

Basically.


Except with the added suggestion of a concrete, easily-practiced technique grounded in an explicit framework of psycological insight. But yeah. Basically.


By the way, Aprilbaby. You seem familiar... aren't you that groupie from Branhfest?

As promised, Aprilbaby I apologize. I spoke from a place that was rude and self-important. I had forgotten that you are my sister. No more and no less. Death stalks all of us just the same.