
Not a huge fan of the scorp moons



Posted by ellessquePosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
OMG i don't think i want to be in a relationship. not really 😕
😕
id go with ur gut. if u dont feel like something isnt right, talk to him about it. if after that, shit still dont smell right, bounce.
it's not him. it's me.click to expand


Posted by PecheressePosted by Sagittarius89
Not a huge fan of the scorp moonsclick to expand
Haha dont hate me Sag.
Never 🙂
Posted by ellessquePosted by lnana04
@Elle, i wonder if it's his scorpio venus making you go back and forth with what you feel? is he too intense for what you want right now?
i think so. there is nothing relaxed about this. nothing easy. he expects me to return sentiments and i just can't. they can't be forced and the more you look at me disappointed because i can't fake them, the more i retract and feel like i'm forcing feelings. i start forcing feelings and i become totally numb to anything.
he's on his way over. we're spending the evening together. been planned all week. i've been in anxiety all day because i really don't want to see him :/click to expand


Posted by DazedScorpPosted by ellessque
it's like....
Him - I missed you *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - I was thinking about you today *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - You waited all day for my call, didn't you? *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Really—
He needs some heartbreak or something.
I used to be like that. That damn Gem moon taught me that you can't be like that.
That bitch has hardened my heart.click to expand

Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by ellessquePosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by westside
this thread should have been named
"HOW TO CRUSH A MANS HEART"
LMAO!
I LOVE your new pic 🙂
Awww, thank you. 😄click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by ellessque
it's like....
Him - I missed you *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - I was thinking about you today *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - You waited all day for my call, didn't you? *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Really—
He needs some heartbreak or something.
I used to be like that. That damn Gem moon taught me that you can't be like that.
That bitch has hardened my heart.
Really? I fee like gem moons are the only people understand my leo moonclick to expand

Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕

Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕


Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉click to expand

Posted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.

Posted by ellessquePosted by Sagittarius89Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
Why not happy elle?
scorp with venus libra - one foot in, one foot out. constantly. frustrating as hell.
supposed to be happy because everybody says so but that stupid libra mixed with the scorp weighs everything, even things that are not there.click to expand



Posted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?

Posted by ellessquePosted by MebsPosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
insecure or in between relationships?
You have a point. But in a world where you can slip out a text message in the bathroom...sheez. He really couldn't say anything?
i'm thinking he hasn't cut ties with someone.click to expand

Posted by ellessquePosted by Sagittarius89Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
Why not happy elle?
scorp with venus libra - one foot in, one foot out. constantly. frustrating as hell.
supposed to be happy because everybody says so but that stupid libra mixed with the scorp weighs everything, even things that are not there.click to expand


Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lol

Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?

Posted by ellessquePosted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.click to expand


Posted by MebsPosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.click to expand

Posted by MebsPosted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
I can't believe this is what it's come to. Why am I not married? The dating scene sucks salty nuts.click to expand
Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.
my issue is getting over myself.

Posted by Mebs
^^^^^ whoops my comment got cut. You have a point. But sheez show a little class for goodness sakes. I don't know when consideration became pass?.

Posted by DMVPosted by ellessquePosted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.
i agree. i dont do things like this. but for some odd reason im attracted to men who like to walk all over me.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
i hope ur joking
She does seem to be a fan of the 'sharing is caring' approach though ?
Different strokes ?click to expand

Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.
my issue is getting over myself.

Posted by ellessquePosted by DMVPosted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
i hope ur joking
(aries moon, of course she is 😉)click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.click to expand

Posted by MebsPosted by DMVPosted by ellessquePosted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.
i agree. i dont do things like this. but for some odd reason im attracted to men who like to walk all over me.
So did this guy become more enticing from what he did?click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lol

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by MebsPosted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
I can't believe this is what it's come to. Why am I not married? The dating scene sucks salty nuts.
Because most people are pathetic (this is in no way aimed at you DMV fwiw).click to expand

Posted by lnana04Posted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
oh wow, he does sound insecure, and to me, it seems like he's trying to gain control of the situation. not talkative, leaving after you cuddle, not returning. i don't know, but it seems he's setting it up to where you are putting in the the effort by initiating conversation, cuddling, hoping you call etc. when it switches to you chasing after and wanting him his confidence will come back. i don't know, but very confusing.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lol
question, why do you feel like im always at fault?
What ?click to expand

Posted by ellessque
i don't think he's implying that DMV, i think he thinks more highly of you than you do yourself (when you get in these situations)

Posted by ellessquePosted by lnana04Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.
my issue is getting over myself.
lol@not really!
i just don't want you to talk yourself into something that isn't there. but i can see where you seem to be at a crossroads and is trying to do something different. it seems as if the feelings are not there, or not strong, yet, so you are talking yourself into continuing a relationship which is so opposite from your relationships, and the feelings you had in them, in the past?
yep. every relationship i've ever had i was NUTS about the guy. threw myself in head first with no fear. got the heart stomped on and twisted each and every time.
i am at a crossroads.
i don't take that "love" feeling lightly. i've felt it twice and still have it for both, regardless of the outcome.
so, if you go thru that crap twice and still come out with nothing. you start to re-evaluate what it's really about. maybe those strong feelings weren't love afterall? (really had a hard time typing THAT). how could they be if you have zero to show for it? maybe i've not even experienced it at all? THAT is why i'm taking one moment at a time, seeing what progresses and dealing with my "one foot in, one foot out, one foot in, one foot out" bullshit that plagues my brain every single waking minute.click to expand


Posted by MebsPosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.click to expand


Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by MebsPosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
@DMV
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
Who the hell acts like that? Lolclick to expand
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