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Posted by Sagittarius89
Not a huge fan of the scorp moons
its hit or miss
Posted by ellessque
OMG i don't think i want to be in a relationship. not really 😕😕
id go with ur gut. if u dont feel like something isnt right, talk to him about it. if after that, shit still dont smell right, bounce.
it's not him. it's me.
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all your life...?
It's just been with the men.
One of my best pisces friends has a scorp moon. She is still insane though lol
Posted by Sagittarius89
Not a huge fan of the scorp moonsclick to expandHaha dont hate me Sag.
Never 🙂
@Elle, i wonder if it's his scorpio venus making you go back and forth with what you feel? is he too intense for what you want right now?
Posted by lnana04
@Elle, i wonder if it's his scorpio venus making you go back and forth with what you feel? is he too intense for what you want right now?i think so. there is nothing relaxed about this. nothing easy. he expects me to return sentiments and i just can't. they can't be forced and the more you look at me disappointed because i can't fake them, the more i retract and feel like i'm forcing feelings. i start forcing feelings and i become totally numb to anything.
he's on his way over. we're spending the evening together. been planned all week. i've been in anxiety all day because i really don't want to see him :/
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Whoa! but i know how you feel.
i say back away as slowly as you can.
the scorpio i liked also had his venus in scorp and it had gotten to the point where i couldn't even open my mouth and talk. i was literally on mute. seriously, i would just sit there staring, not even at him, while he talked. although i liked him a lot, i just felt he wanted something more than i could probably ever give. it felt so scary to be in or even vision myself being in such a vulnerable position. felt like i would leave that relationship, if we ever got to that point, feeling like my arm or was chopped off. completely in pain. its still a tug of war within about him yrs later, but really, it was just TOO intense.
you can tell him that he's coming on too strong, but it almost sound as if it's a slight compatibility issue more than anything.
One of the only guys I ever had respect for was a sag with venus in scorp.
I couldn't bring myself to sleep with him though. I felt like if I did, he'd except something.
it's like....
Him - I missed you *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - I was thinking about you today *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - You waited all day for my call, didn't you? *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)Really—
He needs some heartbreak or something.
I used to be like that. That damn Gem moon taught me that you can't be like that.
That bitch has hardened my heart.
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Really? I fee like gem moons are the only people understand my leo moon
Posted by westside
this thread should have been named"HOW TO CRUSH A MANS HEART"
LMAO!
I LOVE your new pic 🙂
Awww, thank you. 😄
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Ya! You are very striking purr hiss
it's like....
Him - I missed you *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - I was thinking about you today *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)
Him - You waited all day for my call, didn't you? *waiting for a response* (I've got nothing)Really—
He needs some heartbreak or something.
I used to be like that. That damn Gem moon taught me that you can't be like that.
That bitch has hardened my heart.
Really? I fee like gem moons are the only people understand my leo moon
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gemini moons dont come within an inch of understanding my moon.
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
Why not happy elle?
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕
uh oh 🙂
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
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i hope ur joking
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕Why not happy elle?
scorp with venus libra - one foot in, one foot out. constantly. frustrating as hell.
supposed to be happy because everybody says so but that stupid libra mixed with the scorp weighs everything, even things that are not there.
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even the libra sun s can get like that. libra moons have it the worst. i thinks its beneficial when facing decisions that dont center on relationships and love.
i used to entertain this libra with a venus in scorpio. he claimed he liked me, but he would disappear and then show up again in 3-4 months. about a month ago, i bumped into him and he again was telling me how much he missed me. he even tried to get in my pants, but i resisted. i wanted to see if he was really liking me or just trying to screw me. so we made plans to get together on a friday. i called him to see where he was. this dude went out of town and didnt even give me the courtesy to tell me. i was done.
hes been calling and texting everyday for a month. i told him exactly why i wasnt talking to him anymore and hes still calling. he also has a merc in libra and i feel like he only says things that i want to hear...not really the truth.
so the libra suns have it bad too.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
her scorp moon brings all the boys to the yard
Lmao
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
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That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
I can't believe this is what it's come to. Why am I not married? The dating scene sucks salty nuts.
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
insecure or in between relationships?
You have a point. But in a world where you can slip out a text message in the bathroom...sheez. He really couldn't say anything?
i'm thinking he hasn't cut ties with someone.
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^^^^^ whoops my comment got cut. You have a point. But sheez show a little class for goodness sakes. I don't know when consideration became pass?.
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕Why not happy elle?
scorp with venus libra - one foot in, one foot out. constantly. frustrating as hell.
supposed to be happy because everybody says so but that stupid libra mixed with the scorp weighs everything, even things that are not there.
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We don't feel your suppose to be happy, YOU feel that way because of his sun sign and his placements, which was why you made that thread a few weeks ago. We are only saying "congrats" because of the highs you seem to be on "i finally found a king" and the lows you seem to write off as fear.
if you are not feeling him or a connection, you shouldn't proceed hoping it will come, especially just because of his chart.
@Bling not tittays! Lol. Tib ole bitties. Haha!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lol
sure 🙂
people who respect me and my time.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?
i may be flaky, but i dont do things like this.
with this scorpio, i am free of guilt.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.
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i agree. i dont do things like this. but for some odd reason im attracted to men who like to walk all over me.
Lmao Bling! You're sick and twisted 😛
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
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super duper
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?I can't believe this is what it's come to. Why am I not married? The dating scene sucks salty nuts.
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it really does. what do you think happened?
Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.my issue is getting over myself.
lol@not really!
i just don't want you to talk yourself into something that isn't there. but i can see where you seem to be at a crossroads and is trying to do something different. it seems as if the feelings are not there, or not strong, yet, so you are talking yourself into continuing a relationship which is so opposite from your relationships, and the feelings you had in them, in the past?
Posted by Mebs
^^^^^ whoops my comment got cut. You have a point. But sheez show a little class for goodness sakes. I don't know when consideration became pass?.
word the fuck up.
i used to make plans with people and then be a no show. but i realized how fucked that was to other people. so i stopped, this was a year ago i realized that.
make im getting payback, who knows.
its a lack of respect. he did it the first time and i didnt say anything. my bad 100% . now he did it a second time and hes established a pattern.
ive always had a pattern of letting men have their way. not anymore.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.
i agree. i dont do things like this. but for some odd reason im attracted to men who like to walk all over me.
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So did this guy become more enticing from what he did?
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
i hope ur joking
She does seem to be a fan of the 'sharing is caring' approach though ?
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I would never joke about such a thing. The man brought food. Hot, yummy food. He deserves something for his efforts, no?
Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.my issue is getting over myself.
how are u going to do it?
Posted by ellessque
we ordered pizza tonight. he told the pizza guy i was his girlfriend. 😕You shoulda turned on that scorp stellar charm and hit on said pizza guy, maybe even blew him right there. That would have defnitely helped to define the status of your exclusivity. 😉
i hope ur joking
(aries moon, of course she is 😉)
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Fine, fine, ok, ok, maybe I am. Carry on folks.....
Hi Elle! Love your face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
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oh wow, he does sound insecure, and to me, it seems like he's trying to gain control of the situation. not talkative, leaving after you cuddle, not returning. i don't know, but it seems he's setting it up to where you are putting in the the effort by initiating conversation, cuddling, hoping you call etc. when it switches to you chasing after and wanting him his confidence will come back. i don't know, but very confusing.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?i disagree. i don't think dmv comes across as flakey. i do think that alot of the men she entertains aren't good enough for her though. that could be because of her moon.
i agree. i dont do things like this. but for some odd reason im attracted to men who like to walk all over me.
So did this guy become more enticing from what he did?
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yes and no.
no, because i already liked him b4 this behavior started. there was no need, imo, for him to "make sure." now its just annoying and eventually, i will start my own back and forth dance and he will see my "not sure" side and my speed of a turtle relationship progression. thus leading me to become a bitch and an inevitable war of power.
yes, because im attracted to assholes. but i make alot of concessions and i end up resenting the other person. ive been trying to break that cycle.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lol
question, why do you feel like im always at fault?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV does come across as a bit flakey though (on here anyways), by her own admission.
So is that wise in the realm of modern romance, playa life style etc etc ?
Also in the sense that would/has she done the same ?I can't believe this is what it's come to. Why am I not married? The dating scene sucks salty nuts.
Because most people are pathetic (this is in no way aimed at you DMV fwiw).
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why did u feel the need to say that?
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
oh wow, he does sound insecure, and to me, it seems like he's trying to gain control of the situation. not talkative, leaving after you cuddle, not returning. i don't know, but it seems he's setting it up to where you are putting in the the effort by initiating conversation, cuddling, hoping you call etc. when it switches to you chasing after and wanting him his confidence will come back. i don't know, but very confusing.
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its just too soon for all this jazz.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is there anyone you do actually like DMV ? lolquestion, why do you feel like im always at fault?
What ?
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i get the feeling like you think that im always at fault with the guys i post about.
like im always the one who should have done something differently.
Posted by ellessque
i don't think he's implying that DMV, i think he thinks more highly of you than you do yourself (when you get in these situations)
ok
Posted by ellessque
everything fits nicely. there is not a single thing wrong with him. not really.my issue is getting over myself.
lol@not really!
i just don't want you to talk yourself into something that isn't there. but i can see where you seem to be at a crossroads and is trying to do something different. it seems as if the feelings are not there, or not strong, yet, so you are talking yourself into continuing a relationship which is so opposite from your relationships, and the feelings you had in them, in the past?
yep. every relationship i've ever had i was NUTS about the guy. threw myself in head first with no fear. got the heart stomped on and twisted each and every time.
i am at a crossroads.
i don't take that "love" feeling lightly. i've felt it twice and still have it for both, regardless of the outcome.
so, if you go thru that crap twice and still come out with nothing. you start to re-evaluate what it's really about. maybe those strong feelings weren't love afterall? (really had a hard time typing THAT). how could they be if you have zero to show for it? maybe i've not even experienced it at all? THAT is why i'm taking one moment at a time, seeing what progresses and dealing with my "one foot in, one foot out, one foot in, one foot out" bullshit that plagues my brain every single waking minute.
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holy smokes, i just said that in the kitchen.
i feel like i always come up short with men with nothing to show for it.
i didnt even think about the fact he could be seeing someone else. gave him the benefit of the doubt and i didnt have 2. i coulda went in with thinking he was just going to be like the first scorp and treated him as such.
cause all you men out there dont want to pay for the old guy's mistaks. i get that, but i may not have that same approach with the next guy.
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
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Who the hell acts like that? Lol
Elle no wonder you love/hated that venus in aqua. Kept you on your toes a bit 😄
now you've got lots of info. seems dazed and i have some similarities but different. it will always have to do with the venus and then you put a twist on it with the scorp stuff. but i think the consensus will always be a hell of a lot of push/pull bullshit with us.
thanks elle.
he came over last night and i surprised him with dinner and dessert. he was thrilled, but he wasnt as talkative. i had to initiate conversations. he hardly opened his mouth. the first night, i couldnt get him to shut up. i called him "high strung/energy." and i said i liked it. i was bored out of my mind. usually, its the girl who gets tight lipped around a scorpio.
plus i made dinner while wearing lingerie!
anyways, after dinner i cuddled up to him for like 2 mins. he got a phone call and just left. he said he would be back in about 20 mins. he never came back, never called. this was the second time he did that. so i told myself i was over it, no more taking crap from dudes and accepting it for the sake of a nut.
he called this morning (total shocker) and i ignored the call.
That dude is a bird. Super insecure.
Who the hell acts like that? Lol
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ive always posted to other people that if a scorpio liked you, they dont act like this. im taking my own advice.
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Not a huge fan of the scorp moons