A Scorpio male that I barely know started talking to me frequently and it seemed like he liked me. He was sweet and caring with me. I started having feelings for him but recently I found out he was also flirting with another girl while he was talking to me. I know we're not a couple or anything but I didn't like it because I don't like playing games and I'm very serious. I don't know if I mean anything to him but since I like him I decided it was better to pull away because I don't want to get hurt, especially now that I know he seems to flirt with other girls. I think I should make him work harder if he really wants me and I should value myself more and that's why I want to pull away and act distant with him to see if he'll do something. Do you think by doing this he'll just move on and forget about me?? Or if he's really interested he won't let me go so easily and he'll want to know what happened?? I heard that when a Scorpio wants something, they go for it. Is that how it really is?? I wish I could just tell him I don't like what he's doing and that I'm a serious girl, but he doesn't know that I like him and I don't want him to think he already conquered me.
Scorpios can you help me—?

Disengage.

Tell him how you feel...
If he wants you, he will like that you are serious... Don't mind the other girls.. & don't feel like he's "conquered" you, him talking to you "frequently" already says that he likes you also..
Don't be clingy, the scorpio men like to chase.. BUT also, don't go distant.. He'll misconstrue your reason for going distant and think you don't like him..
Be yourself.. Don't confuse the situation hun.
If he wants you, he will like that you are serious... Don't mind the other girls.. & don't feel like he's "conquered" you, him talking to you "frequently" already says that he likes you also..
Don't be clingy, the scorpio men like to chase.. BUT also, don't go distant.. He'll misconstrue your reason for going distant and think you don't like him..
Be yourself.. Don't confuse the situation hun.

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol

Posted by poison_ivyLol! So true!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lolclick to expand
And first you tell them 'o want your body' and later you tell them 'I want your soul' - that freaks them out!!! ?

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioOk! That's why you dissapear later? Because 'playing' Rambo took your energy and now you need to recharge?
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
Hmmm


Posted by GemitatiOh Gem.. 😄Posted by poison_ivyLol! So true!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
And first you tell them 'o want your body' and later you tell them 'I want your soul' - that freaks them out!!! ?click to expand
You def have enough spunk for a scorpio!! 🙂

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioAs in go full pursuing mode and trying to get their future mate's attention?
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
That's kind of hot. I do something similar to that too if that's the case but on a more gentle way.

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioAnd as a Leeb who dated Scorps, they can never hate me. They still popping in and out of my life even now that I've moved on. Libra charm 😆Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.click to expand

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lolclick to expand
OP, be aggressive!

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO!! So true man.. SMH!Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.click to expand
We have our ways..

Posted by poison_ivyI know! He can't run fast enough...I always catch him! ?Posted by GemitatiOh Gem.. 😄Posted by poison_ivyLol! So true!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
And first you tell them 'o want your body' and later you tell them 'I want your soul' - that freaks them out!!! ?
You def have enough spunk for a scorpio!! 🙂click to expand

Posted by poison_ivyI know! He can't run fast enough...I always catch him! ?Posted by GemitatiOh Gem.. 😄Posted by poison_ivyLol! So true!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
And first you tell them 'o want your body' and later you tell them 'I want your soul' - that freaks them out!!! ?
You def have enough spunk for a scorpio!! 🙂click to expand

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou didn't say sex - you said attention!Posted by GemitatiWrong I dissapear to recharge after sex.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioOk! That's why you dissapear later? Because 'playing' Rambo took your energy and now you need to recharge?
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
Hmmmclick to expand
And why to dissapear? Send her to the kitchen to make you 'battery' scrambled or sunny side up and there you go! No?

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLol why?Posted by Dolluxxelol I think you gonna have headaches with mePosted by EvoxxxscorpioAnd as a Leeb who dated Scorps, they can never hate me. They still popping in and out of my life even now that I've moved on. Libra charm 😆Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.click to expand

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!click to expand
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO! Or if they bored..Posted by poison_ivyThey will text tho 6 months later just to say hi if they remember you lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO!! So true man.. SMH!Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.
We have our ways..
click to expand

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYes I know!! 🙂 lolPosted by poison_ivyLoyalty runs through my veins you know that sis lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO!! So true man.. SMH!Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.
We have our ways..click to expand

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI've always had headaches with Scorps so bring it 😄Posted by Dolluxxelol it's a secret I don't kiss and tell ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLol why?Posted by Dolluxxelol I think you gonna have headaches with mePosted by EvoxxxscorpioAnd as a Leeb who dated Scorps, they can never hate me. They still popping in and out of my life even now that I've moved on. Libra charm 😆Posted by DolluxxeIf they hate you they'll act like they've dementia or Alzheimer's they'll dissapear and forget that you even existed.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
This.click to expand

Posted by purplekitty88
A Scorpio male that I barely know started talking to me frequently and it seemed like he liked me. He was sweet and caring with me. I started having feelings for him but recently I found out he was also flirting with another girl while he was talking to me. I know we're not a couple or anything but I didn't like it because I don't like playing games and I'm very serious. I don't know if I mean anything to him but since I like him I decided it was better to pull away because I don't want to get hurt, especially now that I know he seems to flirt with other girls. I think I should make him work harder if he really wants me and I should value myself more and that's why I want to pull away and act distant with him to see if he'll do something. Do you think by doing this he'll just move on and forget about me?? Or if he's really interested he won't let me go so easily and he'll want to know what happened?? I heard that when a Scorpio wants something, they go for it. Is that how it really is?? I wish I could just tell him I don't like what he's doing and that I'm a serious girl, but he doesn't know that I like him and I don't want him to think he already conquered me.
😕 Soooo.... you're "talking", but he has no idea you like him? You sound a little entitled and delusional.
Anyway, to answer your actual question(s), you will get further with him if you admitted you liked him and set clear boundaries and cut out the games.
Create the foundation you want to build your potential relationship on. Otherwise, don't complain when you get exactly what you dished out.
PS admitting you like someone =/= being "conquered". Geeze and they say Scorps like power and control.

Posted by Algol-RisingPosted by PhoenixRisingDo you really believe that OP is a woman who lost her Scorpio and not the Scorpio himself?Posted by purplekitty88
A Scorpio male that I barely know started talking to me frequently and it seemed like he liked me. He was sweet and caring with me. I started having feelings for him but recently I found out he was also flirting with another girl while he was talking to me. I know we're not a couple or anything but I didn't like it because I don't like playing games and I'm very serious. I don't know if I mean anything to him but since I like him I decided it was better to pull away because I don't want to get hurt, especially now that I know he seems to flirt with other girls. I think I should make him work harder if he really wants me and I should value myself more and that's why I want to pull away and act distant with him to see if he'll do something. Do you think by doing this he'll just move on and forget about me?? Or if he's really interested he won't let me go so easily and he'll want to know what happened?? I heard that when a Scorpio wants something, they go for it. Is that how it really is?? I wish I could just tell him I don't like what he's doing and that I'm a serious girl, but he doesn't know that I like him and I don't want him to think he already conquered me.
😕 Soooo.... you're "talking", but he has no idea you like him? You sound a little entitled and delusional.
Anyway, to answer your actual question(s), you will get further with him if you admitted you liked him and set clear boundaries and cut out the games.
Create the foundation you want to build your potential relationship on. Otherwise, don't complain when you get exactly what you dished out.
PS admitting you like someone =/= being "conquered". Geeze and they say Scorps like power and control.
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What makes you say this? I personally don't put that much thought into some of these threads and I'm actually more curious about your question lol.

Posted by Algol-Rising
Oh, and I've seen A LOT of posts where the OP poses as the other person they're complaining about. It's pretty damn obvious because they can't truly empathize with the person they're posting about, so the posts make no sense. People question them; OP gets pissy and often deletes the thread.
Ahhh, okay.

Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!click to expand
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.

Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHandful of what?
I'm a handful and my actions depends on your actions.

Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.click to expand

Posted by poison_ivySorry! Never dated unless I am head over heels! So there weren't ever others...Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.click to expand
So do you date a few for not to be bored?

Posted by GemitatiNo..Posted by poison_ivySorry! Never dated unless I am head over heels! So there weren't ever others...Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.
So do you date a few for not to be bored?
click to expand
Normally it's 2-3 guys at a time.. & I'm just seeing where things go.. In that instance, I'm not really that interested in them... They may be attractive, we may get along and they get clingy so they're constantly in contact.. BUT they haven't grabbed my attention yet.. I have to be captured with my mind first then I can give myself to someone.
If another guy comes along.. that is physically, mentally and emotionally sound, I find interest in him more.. So, I slowly cut ties with the others..
This has happened to me before.
I was dating 2 guys about 8-9 years ago.. (No sex involved) just enjoying time, and talking... They were a bit older than me (I like older men) and they were moving too fast for me.. One had money was going into the FBI and his family was well off so he was (by 2 weeks) already talking about me having his kids, moving in, meeting his family, telling me how to dress to meet his family and I wasn't having it.. But our talks kept me around a bit.. The other was a Security Officer for the Department of State and he was cool.. He'd take me out for lunch.. meet up with me after work and walk with me to the DC metro etc BUT he only made time on the weekends when it was convenient for him.. & he would make sly remarks like "You don't know nothing bout blah blah blah, you're too young.." & I didn't quite like that.. I am very mature and have an old soul so those remarks rubbed me the wrong way..
Then comes along this Scorpio man.. He'd pick me up early and made sure I got to work, made sure that my goals were being met if I needed his help, our talks would go on for hours and hours.. our sexual chemistry was out of this world and we vibed soooooo well..
So the other 2 got the cutt.. & he was the "ONE" for me.. & he's actually my child's father. 🙂 We're not together anymore but still great friends..

Posted by poison_ivyThe longer I live...the more I learn...the more I am sure I will die supid! ?Posted by GemitatiNo..Posted by poison_ivySorry! Never dated unless I am head over heels! So there weren't ever others...Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.
So do you date a few for not to be bored?
Normally it's 2-3 guys at a time.. & I'm just seeing where things go.. In that instance, I'm not really that interested in them... They may be attractive, we may get along and they get clingy so they're constantly in contact.. BUT they haven't grabbed my attention yet.. I have to be captured with my mind first then I can give myself to someone.
If another guy comes along.. that is physically, mentally and emotionally sound, I find interest in him more.. So, I slowly cut ties with the others..
This has happened to me before.
I was dating 2 guys about 8-9 years ago.. (No sex involved) just enjoying time, and talking... They were a bit older than me (I like older men) and they were moving too fast for me.. One had money was going into the FBI and his family was well off so he was (by 2 weeks) already talking about me having his kids, moving in, meeting his family, telling me how to dress to meet his family and I wasn't having it.. But our talks kept me around a bit.. The other was a Security Officer for the Department of State and he was cool.. He'd take me out for lunch.. meet up with me after work and walk with me to the DC metro etc BUT he only made time on the weekends when it was convenient for him.. & he would make sly remarks like "You don't know nothing bout blah blah blah, you're too young.." & I didn't quite like that.. I am very mature and have an old soul so those remarks rubbed me the wrong way..
Then comes along this Scorpio man.. He'd pick me up early and made sure I got to work, made sure that my goals were being met if I needed his help, our talks would go on for hours and hours.. our sexual chemistry was out of this world and we vibed soooooo well..
So the other 2 got the cutt.. & he was the "ONE" for me.. & he's actually my child's father. 🙂 We're not together anymore but still great friends..click to expand

Posted by purplekitty88I've almost missed that jewel of crap!
Thanks for your advice!!! Right now I'm trying to be a little distant with him and I think I'm doing the right thing because I need to know how much he cares about me and how serious he is. The other girl he flirts with is also flirting back with him, so I don't know where that will go. But honestly, I'm not worried because I know my worth and if he doesn't see it, he's not that special and it's not worth my time. What I don't understand is that the other girl is not very pretty physically but it seems that he saw something in her. Not to sound arrogant but I'm pretty both outside and inside (people tell me that a lot) and that's not easy to find. So he's a fool if he doesn't see it and appreciate it. So I'll be distant for now and one day when I see him I'll tell him something like: "I kind of hate those guys that fool around like clowns. Serious guys are way hotter". Maybe he'll understand what kind of men I like and hopefully change if he really wants me.
You are pretty inside and outside?
But stupid as much!!!
He knows you are narcissistic and that's why you can keep admiring yourself...alone...in a mirror! Asking who is prettier them all? Whew!

Posted by GemitatiLOL! You aren't gonna die stupid 😄Posted by poison_ivyThe longer I live...the more I learn...the more I am sure I will die supid! ?Posted by GemitatiNo..Posted by poison_ivySorry! Never dated unless I am head over heels! So there weren't ever others...Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.
So do you date a few for not to be bored?
Normally it's 2-3 guys at a time.. & I'm just seeing where things go.. In that instance, I'm not really that interested in them... They may be attractive, we may get along and they get clingy so they're constantly in contact.. BUT they haven't grabbed my attention yet.. I have to be captured with my mind first then I can give myself to someone.
If another guy comes along.. that is physically, mentally and emotionally sound, I find interest in him more.. So, I slowly cut ties with the others..
This has happened to me before.
I was dating 2 guys about 8-9 years ago.. (No sex involved) just enjoying time, and talking... They were a bit older than me (I like older men) and they were moving too fast for me.. One had money was going into the FBI and his family was well off so he was (by 2 weeks) already talking about me having his kids, moving in, meeting his family, telling me how to dress to meet his family and I wasn't having it.. But our talks kept me around a bit.. The other was a Security Officer for the Department of State and he was cool.. He'd take me out for lunch.. meet up with me after work and walk with me to the DC metro etc BUT he only made time on the weekends when it was convenient for him.. & he would make sly remarks like "You don't know nothing bout blah blah blah, you're too young.." & I didn't quite like that.. I am very mature and have an old soul so those remarks rubbed me the wrong way..
Then comes along this Scorpio man.. He'd pick me up early and made sure I got to work, made sure that my goals were being met if I needed his help, our talks would go on for hours and hours.. our sexual chemistry was out of this world and we vibed soooooo well..
So the other 2 got the cutt.. & he was the "ONE" for me.. & he's actually my child's father. 🙂 We're not together anymore but still great friends..click to expand

Posted by poison_ivyDon't get my hopes up! I am ready and ok with that! ?Posted by GemitatiLOL! You aren't gonna die stupid 😄Posted by poison_ivyThe longer I live...the more I learn...the more I am sure I will die supid! ?Posted by GemitatiNo..Posted by poison_ivySorry! Never dated unless I am head over heels! So there weren't ever others...Posted by GemitatiI meant only if I'm single.. & am dating a few men.. Once I meet the "one" that really catches my attention.. The others fade away..Posted by poison_ivyWhat does it mean 'even if there others?'Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLike the way you think brotha!!Posted by poison_ivyThey might have a chance but only if you shut his ass dow. For me the focus will always be the one I had my eyes on doesn't matter if there are other females around it'll only be the queen b lolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioShe gotta go for him.. Or else them other bitches have a better chance.. One of the ones he flirts with is probably aggressive!Posted by poison_ivyLol offcourse cmon nowPosted by EvoxxxscorpioTrue True!!
If they like you they'll go Rambo on you with attention
But don't you agree that you like females that are like "Fuck them other Bitches.. you're mine! Gotta have spunk!" lol
OP, be aggressive!
I guess that the same applies for me.. If I like someone.. He's the only one that has my attention.. Even if there are others!
If you have one there should be no others!
Period. Where are they? In a waiting room? I am confused.
So do you date a few for not to be bored?
Normally it's 2-3 guys at a time.. & I'm just seeing where things go.. In that instance, I'm not really that interested in them... They may be attractive, we may get along and they get clingy so they're constantly in contact.. BUT they haven't grabbed my attention yet.. I have to be captured with my mind first then I can give myself to someone.
If another guy comes along.. that is physically, mentally and emotionally sound, I find interest in him more.. So, I slowly cut ties with the others..
This has happened to me before.
I was dating 2 guys about 8-9 years ago.. (No sex involved) just enjoying time, and talking... They were a bit older than me (I like older men) and they were moving too fast for me.. One had money was going into the FBI and his family was well off so he was (by 2 weeks) already talking about me having his kids, moving in, meeting his family, telling me how to dress to meet his family and I wasn't having it.. But our talks kept me around a bit.. The other was a Security Officer for the Department of State and he was cool.. He'd take me out for lunch.. meet up with me after work and walk with me to the DC metro etc BUT he only made time on the weekends when it was convenient for him.. & he would make sly remarks like "You don't know nothing bout blah blah blah, you're too young.." & I didn't quite like that.. I am very mature and have an old soul so those remarks rubbed me the wrong way..
Then comes along this Scorpio man.. He'd pick me up early and made sure I got to work, made sure that my goals were being met if I needed his help, our talks would go on for hours and hours.. our sexual chemistry was out of this world and we vibed soooooo well..
So the other 2 got the cutt.. & he was the "ONE" for me.. & he's actually my child's father. 🙂 We're not together anymore but still great friends..click to expand

Posted by purplekitty88I don't understand why you want him to change, he's happy being social. You can't wife up every man that stops to flirt with you. Be happy for him, he's doing him and doing it well enough that you turned into a hater.
Thanks for your advice!!! Right now I'm trying to be a little distant with him and I think I'm doing the right thing because I need to know how much he cares about me and how serious he is. The other girl he flirts with is also flirting back with him, so I don't know where that will go. But honestly, I'm not worried because I know my worth and if he doesn't see it, he's not that special and it's not worth my time. What I don't understand is that the other girl is not very pretty physically but it seems that he saw something in her. Not to sound arrogant but I'm pretty both outside and inside (people tell me that a lot) and that's not easy to find. So he's a fool if he doesn't see it and appreciate it. So I'll be distant for now and one day when I see him I'll tell him something like: "I kind of hate those guys that fool around like clowns. Serious guys are way hotter". Maybe he'll understand what kind of men I like and hopefully change if he really wants me.
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