Scorpios in sex? Less Verbal?

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Alright, so switching from having sex with a leo to a scorpio has probably been one of the most drastic changes in sex personalities.
I'm used to hearing a lot of noise coming from the guy, rough handling, very little foreplay, fast, and then I had to flatter the leo right after sex or he'd wonder if he did something wrong.

With this scorpio I'm the loudest one, that is if I even hear anything out of him and sometimes I just get the urge to say naughty things during and I'm used to responses, but nothing out of him. He hates any form of flattery after sex, foreplay is probably the longest I'm used to, slower movements, soft touching. I mean I guess I don't mind it, but it's kinda hard to get used to it.

Is this the general scorpio male's way of sex making or did I just get a calm one?
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Posted by DMV
naw...mine was calm like that 2...he wasnt quiet, but more into subtle remarks here and there. he would talk when i was giving a professional or he was staring into my face while i was cuming, or to comment on my body when i rode him...he liked the view from below..




Yeah...Idk it thats weird, but sometimes we'd talk will I was on top. More of just teasing...but still...idk

Glad I'm not the only one who has a calm scorpio
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Posted by ellessque
you both have mars in scorp?

both of you are being reserved, not sure how far you can go with the other. remember, scorp in mars has no boundaries...but we may have had past partners who were not used to that and got burned or judged.

give it time and enjoy every fricken moment. two scorp in mars? GOOD STUFF.



and theyre both venus in caps....which is lucky because that placement takes love seriously...

*my scorp is a gemini moon and mars in leo...he almost always cant shut up.
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So let me get this right.
Doesn't know how to lick a girl out
Doesn't last long
Needs this aggrandizing
What's the star sign again ?
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Actually my leo was very good at foreplay if you count eating a girl out. My scorp hasn't even done that yet. We just went right to sex. And the leo lasted longer than any guy I've been with. A few hrs is nice, but it got kinda boring after the first 2 hrs. I'm just glad it was more of a romantic session.
This scorp has a totally different way of having sex. He starts out doing the most sensual stuff like trailing his fingers on my stomach and slowly works his way from there to more intense foreplay then eventually sex like 30 mins later xD This is all after he's annoyed the heck outta me, then somehow gets me to come back and cuddles me. It's a weird and long process, but it keeps things interesting
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Posted by pigeonpie
"Is this the general scorpio male's way of sex making or did I just get a calm one?"
Depends on the mood.
Plus I think dudes can be a little wary of straight up pummeling a chick (with all the hair pulling and similar) when it's early stages sometimes.



This isn't really that early in the game. We've been having sex since November....Oops maybe I shouldn't have told him to ram it into me 😛
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Posted by pigeonpie
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So let me get this right.
Doesn't know how to lick a girl out
Doesn't last long
Needs this aggrandizing
What's the star sign again ?



Actually my leo was very good at foreplay if you count eating a girl out. My scorp hasn't even done that yet. We just went right to sex. And the leo lasted longer than any guy I've been with. A few hrs is nice, but it got kinda boring after the first 2 hrs. I'm just glad it was more of a romantic session.
This scorp has a totally different way of having sex. He starts out doing the most sensual stuff like trailing his fingers on my stomach and slowly works his way from there to more intense foreplay then eventually sex like 30 mins later xD This is all after he's annoyed the heck outta me, then somehow gets me to come back and cuddles me. It's a weird and long process, but it keeps things interesting
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same here...my scorp was pretty whomp whomp...

it wasnt as nasty as i would hoped it would have been. he held back ALOT. foreplay consisted of power trips and mind games. sex consisted of me going down and me on top, and or me on the bottom.
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Posted by DMV
i think there is a stalemate in your relationship with the scorp.

either hes really freakin in love and scared to death of you

OR

something that your doing is preventing him from unleashing the beast



*sigh* well that is troublesome. Idk what could be preventing that...Guess I should talk to him. I've been actually talking to him in a more emotional sense lately. I tried it out last night and he took well to it. I'm just so used to deal with a leo who was so closed off to emotion after we broke up that it makes me feel like no guy really cares about my emotions. He really helped me feel at ease with expressing how I feel tho so I think I'm gonna continue to open up more
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Posted by ellessque
you are dealing with a scorpio/cancer mix.

he IS going to inherently hold back.

he's got the mystery of the scorpio and the evasiveness of the cancer.

you just have to be patient.

this guy is a leo's complete opposite.

plus, he's intuitive as all hell, stop comparing him because he WILL sense it.



i agree with you. he will reveal all in due time. just pay attention to what eh says and start writing it down so you can put the clues together and go Ah HA!

this helped me alot. theres always a recurring theme of what the problem is.

my money is on the fact that he admires you.
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Posted by ellessque
no, we aren't turned off by showing of emotion. but we CAN sense when someone is holding back and we get quite perturbed with the situation and will retreat if they do it too much...and with the added cancer moon *shudders*

put yourself out there, chicca. tell the guy what you are feeling.



be fearless!

scorpios are turned on by stronge displays of emotions handled with confidence. and the of course, geniuneness (sp?)

have his eyes gone "glassy" on you? while you talk to him about something deep or while hes opening up to you?
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Posted by happykitsune
What about the emotion of anger? He tends to annoy me a lot, purposely. And the only time I'll get a nice reaction out of him (like he feels bad and wants to comfort me) if I get in serious mode and tell him in a strict voice to stop it or if I look away with a sad face and sigh



ANY emotion!

good bad or indifferent. they want and NEED to see all of that from you. Love to a scorpio is good, bad, and indifferent.

scorpio men require tough love. give love to get love.

you can tell him off, but in a loving way. so that he understands exactly what your saying.

for example, "i fucking love you but you are a fucking dick and a jerkoff!" or "why do you always have to be an asshole to me when all i want to do see your face and smile!"
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"Hi, VB! Why do us earth signs get the prude definition? Is it our consistency?

Oh and VB.....I fancy a fantasy of smooth paleness in a skimpy red thong....like a matador's erotic cape....to be taken from the bullette from behind...like torture...slowly..."

Hello 25th!
I never have figured out the prude stigma. As an Earth, I know better. So do you. Perhaps it's the bit of buttoned up proper, the librarian in the tweed suit with silken curls falling around her face and the small smile on her face. They always say it's the quiet ones you should watch out for. Comprenez-vous? The gentleman in the buttoned up shirt and the banked fire swirling in his eyes.

As to the other..well...*raking nails up stomach*...ya ready Virgo?
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I'm slowly learning to show my emotions and react more. I have a past with a leo who sorta messed me up in the way of using my emotions so I'm slowing getting to a good level of emotional sharing. Hard for me to show I'm upset about things because I don't like to seem uncalm and vulnerable. But apparently scorpios like to expose people and thrive on these emotions o:
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Posted by 25thDecan


Understood. But at this point the two of you must care for each other the way you are sharing this physical intimacy. Don't give up. Keep your pace. Maybe even communicate what it is and how you want to open up more....



That's a good idea. We talked a little bit the other night and I opened up more than usual, but kinda backed away before I really got to the heart of the matter. I told him I don't like to be vulnerable tho, which was hard for me to say. He didn't understand why, and I guess it was his way of telling me it's ok to be vulnerable with him
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