The effects of having sex are only complicated by society, peer pressure, indoctrination and the most despicable of all groups; organized religion, the most hypocritical group on the planet. There is nothing wrong with sex, it is a perfectly naturally occurring event that has been given a negative connotation by those in power who enjoy it and don't want their followers, sheeple and minions to get a taste of it. This has been the case throughout history from the dawn of "civilization".
If and when one becomes sexually free and unrepressed, their lives will be forever changed for the better. Freedom of thought is a powerful right that US citizens are born with and guaranteed via the Constitution, what a shame that so many Americans hand that right over to some religious zealot and their idiotic notion that sex is bad. Newsflash: you all got here because you're father phuked your mother and she probably blew him too.
It doesn't really matter at the end of the day, provided there's no underage malarky going on, and both parties are happy with what they are getting into.
I know that when I was 18 I dated a couple of older men, one in fact was 32, and I was with him for 2 years lol. Why? Because he wasn't a schmuck like most of the guys my age who were only interested in one thing, he was easy to talk to, intelligent, and wasn't into playing games.
To each their own I say, whatever floats your boat. 🙂
Don't get me wrong, I could never have dated someone at like say 50 when I was younger, or even now come to think of it. My last ex was late 30's and the guy I am dating now is, and I'm telling you they are both in excellent shape. So I suppose it's not really a question of age, it's how well preserved they are for their age lol.
You could have saved yourself a lot of trouble if you had said that to begin with, instead of all that bullshyte about maturity. Nobody (well, except those with a fetish) wants wrinkly balls or saggy tits or beer bellies, etc, etc. That's a no-brainer, you're still being a touch closed-minded though...being 30+ does not mean that you have those physical traits although they obviously become more evident as the age advances. You aspire to be a cougar when you're older...I have no problem with it, no can of worms here, just means that you agreed with me all along.
You're 21 right? To me you aren't any different than an 18 yr old in maturity because in 3 short years you think that you've got so much of life figured out, trust me on one thing; you will change your mind, values and opinions many more times over the next 21 years. This is not intended as a jab but rather putting that maturity thing that you spoke so much about into perspective.
"And I also like family approval of who I'm dating and I'm sure my mom would be creeped out if I was dating a guy who is almost her age lol"
Well the 32 year old I dated actually KNEW my mum haha that was mad. Then again I think that was the only reason she was comfortable with it, because she knew he was a decent guy. Still took her a bit of getting used to though!
"You responded much more favorably than I expected I was expecting to be called a hypocrite! But yes, I suppose I have been agreeing with you. Now do you believe me that I'll make up debates for nothing, even 100% valid? I'm a little shit, what can I say."
Like I said earlier; this isn't an angry rant, it's a debate that I found fun to engage in, I could just as easily have argued the other side...and won it too 😉
"What the hell does this have to do with anything?? And so what? Your father probably ate out your mother too...so what??"
Read the thread, comprehend and then bugger off...you're late and you have decided that you don't want to respond to fair questions, at least the young un took a shot at it.
Of course I know it's a general hatred of dealing with that side of Scorps, you guys get way too serious sometimes...in the forgettable words of flygrl..it's the internet...it's not real.
Highly relevant; go back and read the progression of your argument...you turned it into sex being something that should not be taken lightly and that 18 yr olds are not equipped to handle properly. Now I'm not going to keep doing your homework for you as I have other things to do and 18 yr olds to screw 😉
"--I do— Did you notice that in half my posts, I was being sarcastic or kidding? Look towards the end when I started talking about saggy balls. lol"
Indeed I did, and apparently you failed to comprehend that I was talking about flip flops' questioning that I knew it was a "random hating" That's twice I've done your homework in as many minutes.
Resorting to grade school antics...taunts, sarcastic name calling and best of all...proclaiming yourself to be the best...automatic win for me, thanks for playing.
"Well, she is the only one who notices when I'm gone"
I know what you mean, while I hate the attention it's always nice to see someone ask for you after you've been away from DXP for a bit. 🙂
Everyone goes on about not being able to trust people on the internet but I've met some really cool people from this site, one in particular who I'm still talking to outside of DXP after 6 years!
""Everyone goes on about not being able to trust people on the internet but I've met some really cool people from this site, one in particular who I'm still talking to outside of DXP after 6 years!""
It ain't nothing but a number(like, literally, it's just a random number I picked😛)