sex issue (Page 2)

LMAO

LOL, I know that look... 😉

I was speaking to my cancver guy friend the other day...He has a problem but not like wreck guy.

He cant cum. He claims to give his gf on average 3 orgasms, but he cant get off himself. He's frustrated b/c by the third one she's tired and he hasnt cum yet. I told him it's not her fault; if you had 3 good orgasms you'd be sleepy too. I say this b/c he was making it seem like her fault, but after speaking for a while...I tried to convince him that it was a psychological problem. Because of his ego, he never wants to be referred to as a minute man...in this case it shouldnt matter (seriously after 3 orgasms)...but he was frustrtaed with his gf b/c of his issue.

typical cancer male.

Lady_M, I posted this exact same thing on page 4, about after holding myself back for too long, my ability to have one is diminished almost completely. There is probably some medical term for it. What Im sayin is that its common for guys, guys who take their time and know how to please the ladeez

*inserts Barry White CD

yeah TB...after I posted I made my way through the thread 🙂

"or

she is just using you for sex"


and the problem with that is what sagi? 😉

LOL at Roxi but hey, not all Virgos are like that! My first time with one guy, I thought we were going to be there all night. I did fleetingly wonder if it was me, then I realised how fking nervous he'd been, how he'd had a couple of drinks... and yes, in the end he got there...

ScorpWreck, are you aware how nuch you talk in terms of 'Fast' being better? Sounds like you are continually racing against the clock. "3 times in X minutes" isn't what it should be about IMHO. You also seem proud that you can masturbate really quickly.

TBH it was going to be either this or premature ejaculation. Stop thinking about body parts, put your undoubted emotion into the job and, possibly, don't even try it with someone you don't have feelings for - enough feelings to trust that she'll be okay with it if you don't get from 0 - 60 in two seconds. (Not much fun for the lady anyway).

You're young, you're going through a lot of changes and as I said somewhere else, obviously growing up emotionally. Yey! It's different from here... You make different choices (like not using as much MJ) because it's true that we do grow out of certain behaviours. It's also true that we generally don't miss 'em!

If you are close enough to the woman, do mutter a reassurance of some kind. We do tend to think it's us. The guy I was with said something sheepishly about, "I hate condoms - they desensitize me" - which is also something that DOES happen - main thing, subtext was "This isn't because I don't want you". It worked fine.

Good luck!

um, you guys totally misunderstood my whole point. it's all good though, i stopped masturbating for 3 days and then had no problems.

...i just have to learn to keep the mouse in the house during those 3 days and i'll be fine.

That's great news! I do think the timing thing is in there with the anxiety, SW. But way to go! Enjoy. 🙂

thanks SAV, i think it was just general axiety too - going through a lot of changes right now what with going sober in both the MJ and the alcohol. i think after i'm comfortable with my newfound sobriety i'm gonna kick cigarettes too - we'll see 😉

Wait a second here son, you're gonna give up booze, weed, and cig's all for the interest of better sex—?

You are a stronger man than me SW, a much stronger man. Jeezus, why dont you just convert into a Vegan while your at it 🙂

No offense to anyone here, but smokers tend to have breath that wreaks of funk and the smell eventually becomes embedded in their clothes and skin. yuck.

The only thing I cant stand more than a non-smoker, is a non-smoker who bitches out loud about it 🙂

Sorry. Just trying to do my part in society.


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lol toll, i've been smoking weed regularly since i was 16 - it's really not something i'm going to miss, apart from the social aspect of it. i just need a change of perspective for a while, it's not really that fun anymore. it's more of a habit than anything, and if quitting means my partner and i will have a much more enjoyable experience in the sack then i'm all down for it.

hmmm, check to see if your sperm still works while your at it.

Don't make him worried about THAT now!!

Sorry, have to agree about the smoking. I'd never bitch about it though - just wouldn't date a smoker. They have every right to smoke and I have every right not to feel ill around them...

However, SW has no problems getting ladies to date him, so hopefully it's all - erm - uphill from here! 😉

He should get STI tested too.

LOL lady, what does that have to do with anything?


oh, right. absolutely nothing. thanks for your absolutely meaningless contribution to my thread. is this a running trend in your life? maybe i could make a suggestion for you - take up knitting. it'll give you some purpose in life. 😉

knitting is therapeutic, thankyouverymuch. 🙂

Im sorry, I get a 'Dirty hippy' vibe from you (Im psychic mind you)...thats all.

🙂