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Was there any time when you were so excited (as a guy) that you couldn't perform as you wanted?

How can a woman know if it is over-excitement or pure disinterest?

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Was there any time when you were so excited (as a guy) that you couldn't perform as you wanted?

How can a woman know if it is over-excitement or pure disinterest?

While excited its all about the performance,for performance ,of performance .

However there were umpteen number of instances wheb i had to detach performance from my mind .Typically i'll treat you very sweetly ,make gaffes ,treat you like a jewel....just like that . I'll explore other parts of my excitement towards you,sorta experiment .

If disinterested ,i'll be immersed in other activities for a while .If you'r motivated to dig deep ask me and i'll tell you whats on my mind .

That being said,women will never completely understand men and vice versa .

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales

How can a woman know if it is over-excitement or pure disinterest?

In other words, you cannot tell if a guy is interested in you and you have to be told

That's correct! That is why I'm asking.

piroglesic, thank you very much for explaining.

My intuition did tell me he was overwhelmed, but as you explained if there was disinterest, he didn't get busy with anything else.

We had not seen each other for more than 3 years. Every week he used to send me either email or just ask in a chat when we will meet again. Finally I had the courage to see him again. It's a casual relation, but a bit unusual at its nature because no one would go thus far even getting bothered asking as often as he did. He did admit he has attraction for me.

thanks again 🙂

Can't say that I've been in that situation, but I could think of a scenario where it might appear that someone is not interested. If someone was very excited but also aware that the excitement might lead to a "shortened" experience I could see that person being hesitant in their behavior.

My bad...didn't answer your question. If this guy continues to want to see you in a context other than pure friendship then I'd bet he's interested but waiting on something...perhaps a situation with a little less excitement/pressure for him. If he's not interested then he'd probably pick up on your interest beyond the platonic and back off in a manner that I would think would be fairly transparent to you.