This scorpio guy is driving me crazy! I need advice from everyone.

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jennyfromtheblock
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8 Years

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So I started dating this Scorpio guy(I'm a cancer) for about a month but we known each other for about 3 months.The relationship was great! He showered me with gifts and constantly texting me, calling me, telling his family about me....so on and so forth. Then we broke up. It was horrible. He became distant towards me as if this relationship was nothing to him. I was heartbroken. I cursed him out for breaking my heart. He told me he doesn't care about me anymore and to live my life.A week after our argument, he texted me to see how I was doing. The conversation was simple and short. He posted another girl on social media, the very next day!!! I was even more heartbroken, its like he was doing it on purpose. He texted me Saturday, saying me he misses me. I told him I don't want hear it. I asked him about the girl he posted on social media and he said it was nothing and he didn't like her. The next day, I texted him "I'll be lying if I said I didn't miss you." And he didn't text me back. I'm so confused. Its taking me so long to get over this guy, its like he randomly texts me then become distant! Why do Scorpios do this? I need answers and opinions.
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PhoenixRising
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Posted by jennyfromtheblock
So I started dating this Scorpio guy(I'm a cancer) for about a month but we known each other for about 3 months.The relationship was great! He showered me with gifts and constantly texting me, calling me, telling his family about me....so on and so forth. Then we broke up. It was horrible. He became distant towards me as if this relationship was nothing to him. I was heartbroken. I cursed him out for breaking my heart. He told me he doesn't care about me anymore and to live my life.A week after our argument, he texted me to see how I was doing. The conversation was simple and short. He posted another girl on social media, the very next day!!! I was even more heartbroken, its like he was doing it on purpose. He texted me Saturday, saying me he misses me. I told him I don't want hear it. I asked him about the girl he posted on social media and he said it was nothing and he didn't like her. The next day, I texted him "I'll be lying if I said I didn't miss you." And he didn't text me back. I'm so confused. Its taking me so long to get over this guy, its like he randomly texts me then become distant! Why do Scorpios do this? I need answers and opinions.

Meh. Who cares why he's doing it. Block him. Problem solved.

I've stated it before and will again, you have more control over this situation than you think. Until then....I guess you can continue to sit in anguish?

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Queen of Hearts
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Both sound pretty young imo. Trust me, after one month of dating you are not heartbroken, hurt maybe? Ok, pick yourself up, dust off and block his sorry arse.

You didn't mention if he is part of any of your social circles so there really shouldn't be a problem here when freezing him out.

He charmed you, that sucks when it's insincere but learn from this. Don't invest so much of yourself so early on. Reveal your heart more slowly next time. No need to play games, just take your time.

Chin up and think 'next'.
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Capricorn10
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8 Years

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Scorpio play mind games to test your loyalty. If you love him, stay there. Tell him how you feel. If he undrsds that you are going through pain, he'll do anything to comfort you. If he doesn't respond, then you've hurt him..

Be open about yourself, he craves honesty. If you've hurt him, be apologetic. He might throw tantrums, but don't hurt him again. He is extremely protective of his heart being hurt.

Good luck to you!