Too much Scorpio or water = Can we ever let each other go? Help :(

I met a Scorpio Moon and we cannot let each other go. We have tried-we can't be together, though (long story). I feel like no matter what we do, we are stuck. I have Scorpio Mars, Saturn, and 2nd house. I'm a Cancer/Leo Sun with an Aries Moon and Ascendant in Libra and Venus in Leo. He's a Scorpio Moon, Libra Sun, Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo Ascendant in Virgo. We can't be together but we can't stay away— Anyone gone through this?

"You can't live with them but you can't live without them" YES

How would we know? we arent Cancers or Libras........

Because I feel it's a Scorpio aspect? Not the Cancer/Libra? Or maybe you have a point. I have no clue-it's just driving me bonkers!

yeah I thought that the scorpio is what makes it hard to let go. I think Libras can have a hard time letting go, too. I'm a Cancer and I've NEVER had a hard time leaving someone. This is a first. I hate it!! I feel a total loss of control...

I believe the Scorpio Ascendants and the Pluto's is why you guys have the same situation.

Yes, Libras do from what I have heard as well. I always have a hard time myself having so many Scorp placements.. Moon, Asc & Pluto in Scorp and Sun, Jupiter, Venus & Chiron in the 8th House. Once I am in a serious and committed relationship, I have a VERY hard time letting go.. However, being a Gemini, I am adaptable and seem to get over it better than expected.. until this one. Can't ever stay away.



That's interesting...I have a question for you. It's so bad that I asked him (the Scorpio Moon) to block me. (I can't help myself! It's insane) He wouldn't. So I bugged the HELL out of him in hopes he would. He responded that he would block me but doesn't know how. So I sent him a link. STILL hasn't blocked me!!! WTF He says things but his actions always say the opposite. I hate becoming that naggy person-shudder- But I feel he has to be the one to stop this because I've tried and I just can't...

oops my question is do you buy the whole excuse? I've found scorp moons to be extremely intelligent (he is super intelligent) and savvy.

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oops my question is do you buy the whole excuse? I've found scorp moons to be extremely intelligent (he is super intelligent) and savvy.

I'm a Scorpio moon and if I wanted to block you, I would block you - if I wanted to torture you, this is what I would do or it could mean I still have feelings for you, it could go either way. I mean come on, Scorpios can often be similar to Taurus and will amputate you, if they want to. If I choose not to, then there is a reason and its not always because I have positive feelings for you - I'm older now and don't really do this but I might have gone thru some rather unflattering stages in my dating life.

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oops my question is do you buy the whole excuse? I've found scorp moons to be extremely intelligent (he is super intelligent) and savvy.

What excuse would that be? And good luck trying to get him to be the one to stop it.. We won't stop.. we can't.

What was so bad that you asked him to block you? I think I missed something there.

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That's what I was afraid you would say 😢 I want him to block me because I feel like I've lost control (I'm a super independant person-this chasing after a guys does not sit well!) I feel like a nag but I can't stop myself from contacting him. So I figured, if I can get HIM to cut ME out, it would work

Posted by siren1111
I met a Scorpio Moon and we cannot let each other go. We have tried-we can't be together, though (long story). I feel like no matter what we do, we are stuck. I have Scorpio Mars, Saturn, and 2nd house. I'm a Cancer/Leo Sun with an Aries Moon and Ascendant in Libra and Venus in Leo. He's a Scorpio Moon, Libra Sun, Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo Ascendant in Virgo. We can't be together but we can't stay away— Anyone gone through this?

moon conjunct mars in scorpio is hard to give up. you make each other feel great.

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Mr. Sagman. We started as a hang n bang and, since I was recently separated, his living over an hour away was a good thing. It gave me anonymity. Him working on the road 7mths outta the year wasn't my problem. Both of those things became road blocks when we realized we were ate up with each other.

It could have been a number of things with us. We're both rather Plutonian and have the Venus conjunct Pluto aspect in our synastry. We're also both fixed moons so I'm sure that had a lot to do with it. Fixed moons naturally have a harder time letting go. You said his is in Scorpio... what's yours?

Regardless, it was an unhealthy relationship. I'm glad that punch in the gut feeling is gone. Time, distance and a prolonged period of no contact whatsoever has allowed us to finally just be... friendly.

I'm an Aries Moon

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I met a Scorpio Moon and we cannot let each other go. We have tried-we can't be together, though (long story). I feel like no matter what we do, we are stuck. I have Scorpio Mars, Saturn, and 2nd house. I'm a Cancer/Leo Sun with an Aries Moon and Ascendant in Libra and Venus in Leo. He's a Scorpio Moon, Libra Sun, Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo Ascendant in Virgo. We can't be together but we can't stay away— Anyone gone through this?

moon conjunct mars in scorpio is hard to give up. you make each other feel great.

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WOW you are SO right! We do feel great when we are together.

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Posted by siren1111
I met a Scorpio Moon and we cannot let each other go. We have tried-we can't be together, though (long story). I feel like no matter what we do, we are stuck. I have Scorpio Mars, Saturn, and 2nd house. I'm a Cancer/Leo Sun with an Aries Moon and Ascendant in Libra and Venus in Leo. He's a Scorpio Moon, Libra Sun, Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo Ascendant in Virgo. We can't be together but we can't stay away— Anyone gone through this?

moon conjunct mars in scorpio is hard to give up. you make each other feel great.

WOW you are SO right! We do feel great when we are together.

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Then why are you letting go?
It's that Libra sun you can't shake hun and other aspects.
I tried to keep a Libra sun/moon with Sag Mars.
Leeb males destroy our Crab souls. Basturds!! Take this to the Leeb boards.

I don't think a Scorpio/Cancer relationship has this much angst.
When we let go it's pretty painless.

I feel this way with a Scorp male. For the past year he has disappeared twice because he's unable to let me in and his depression gets too bad that he can't handle a relationship. We get really close and things are going well then he breaks it off and each time saying "I'd like to keep in contact you're a great person and I have feelings for you. Maybe one day things will work out" then goes ghost on me and returns in a few weeks(2 or 3 months) I know it's not good for me and he agrees it's just too complicated but keeps coming back and I have a hard time saying no.
His chart: Libra moon, Mercury,Mars. Venus in sag, cancer Jupiter, Pluto and sun in Scorp.
My chart: sag sun, libra moon, Mars in Leo, and Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto all in Scorpio.