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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†

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Is she a Gemini? Because that would explain the bicuriosity and attraction.

I have Gemini moon and I'm not going to deny I've had that curiosity. But I'm picky as hell. I almost had a romp with a Cancer female, but she was too pushy. So it didn't happen.
She could either have Twin or Virgal placements, this could be a possibility.

AquariusBeauty, I have yet to inquire about her birthday as it were.

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Yeah she disappears for 14 days and then come back dropping a bomb like this... πŸ˜›
Secret, a bomb ? What bomb would this be ? πŸ˜†


You just made a sensational announcement all of a sudden... No warnings, no sneak peaks. Nothing... You can't do this to us...

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That I am also attracted to women ?

I always have been, but merely never felt the need to broadcast it.

By the way Secret, I could do whatever the bloody hell I want - which includes supposedly 'dropping bomb'. πŸ˜†
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Yeah she disappears for 14 days and then come back dropping a bomb like this... πŸ˜›
Secret, a bomb ? What bomb would this be ? πŸ˜†


You just made a sensational announcement all of a sudden... No warnings, no sneak peaks. Nothing... You can't do this to us...

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That I am also attracted to women ?

I always have been, but merely never felt the need to broadcast it.

By the way Secret, I could do whatever the bloody hell I want - which includes supposedly 'dropping bomb'. πŸ˜†
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Fine fine... Welcome back...

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Is she a Gemini? Because that would explain the bicuriosity and attraction.

I have Gemini moon and I'm not going to deny I've had that curiosity. But I'm picky as hell. I almost had a romp with a Cancer female, but she was too pushy. So it didn't happen.
She could either have Twin or Virgal placements, this could be a possibility.

AquariusBeauty, I have yet to inquire about her birthday as it were.


You should ask. I'm curious to know. Wouldn't doubt she has Gemini placements.

How do you feel about her? Does it tickle your pickle?
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I am indeed intensely attracted to her, yet at the same time my infatuation could merely be all in my head.

However, I am taken and absolutely love my SO. Therefore no, I would never cheat, nor ever intend to, because I have a very loyal heart.

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO. He encourages the fact that I share, and talk it out of my system because he warns me that my denial, to withhold it would only cause it to combust ever so quickly. Now, I am wise enough to know this, because it is merely attraction and infatuation.

However, at the end of the day, I am human . . . faults, flaws, and all.
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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....
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I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....

I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.

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If would feel all sorts of wrong if I did not share it with him, bordering a level of emotional infidelity. He is very open, thank god he places as much trust he does in my loyalty and commitment. I would not be one to betray that trust either.

However this lady is a temptress, quite unfair on her own SO, if I might say so, even if she had no prior plans of purposeful seduction.

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....

I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.


If would feel all sorts of wrong if I did not share it with him, bordering a level of emotional infidelity. He is very open, thank god he places as much trust he does in my loyalty and commitment. I would not be one to betray that trust either.

However this lady is a temptress, quite unfair on her own SO, if I might say so, even if she had no prior plans of purposeful seduction.

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Well you're assuming she isn't sharing this with her SO. It may be their foreplay.

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Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?



Not most, I worded that poorly. A good amount of guys though.



We live in times where girl on girl action is welcomed and even encouraged.
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Oh, my SO most likely would not care (sexually) but I would and we had already set the boundary that there would be no threesomes within our relationship.

Whether it be Male - Male - Female, or Female - Female - Male, we are strictly monogamous.

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Is she a Gemini? Because that would explain the bicuriosity and attraction.

I have Gemini moon and I'm not going to deny I've had that curiosity. But I'm picky as hell. I almost had a romp with a Cancer female, but she was too pushy. So it didn't happen.
She could either have Twin or Virgal placements, this could be a possibility.

AquariusBeauty, I have yet to inquire about her birthday as it were.


You should ask. I'm curious to know. Wouldn't doubt she has Gemini placements.

How do you feel about her? Does it tickle your pickle?
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U tickle my pickle. Pics sent.

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....

I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.


If would feel all sorts of wrong if I did not share it with him, bordering a level of emotional infidelity. He is very open, thank god he places as much trust he does in my loyalty and commitment. I would not be one to betray that trust either.

However this lady is a temptress, quite unfair on her own SO, if I might say so, even if she had no prior plans of purposeful seduction.



Well you're assuming she isn't sharing this with her SO. It may be their foreplay.

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It could very well be, but she has brought her SO to my company before. She treats him very differently, if not somewhat coldly and constantly chooses to continue her flirtatious ways in front of him. He never seems pleased, if not slightly disdainful of me whilst I keep everything as professional as it should be.

Who knows, this could be their kink for all intents and purposes . . .

At the end of the day, I do not wish to overthink this, yet at the same time, I must work this out of my system.
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Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?



Not most, I worded that poorly. A good amount of guys though.



We live in times where girl on girl action is welcomed and even encouraged.
Oh, my SO most likely would not care (sexually) but I would and we had already set the boundary that there would be no threesomes within our relationship.

Whether it be Male - Male - Female, or Female - Female - Male, we are strictly monogamous.

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I swear I read this way too fast and saw "it would be okay if it were male-male-female..." had to do a double take πŸ˜„

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....

I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.


If would feel all sorts of wrong if I did not share it with him, bordering a level of emotional infidelity. He is very open, thank god he places as much trust he does in my loyalty and commitment. I would not be one to betray that trust either.

However this lady is a temptress, quite unfair on her own SO, if I might say so, even if she had no prior plans of purposeful seduction.



Well you're assuming she isn't sharing this with her SO. It may be their foreplay.


It could very well be, but she has brought her SO to my company before. She treats him very differently, if not somewhat coldly and constantly chooses to continue her flirtatious ways in front of him. He never seems pleased, if not slightly disdainful of me whilst I keep everything as professional as it should be.

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Hmph.

Yet, he is still with her. Foreplay takes many forms. Unique to the people involved.

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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†



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Journal. Write every naughty fantasy you can imagine (...it's okay, you can admit you've already had them). It will get it out of your system. If it stays in your head, it will continue to torture you.
Hah PR, guilty as charged. πŸ˜†

Well, I have been sharing my denial and struggle with my SO....

I was going to suggest this as well. I wasn't sure what type of man he was though.

It's something I would do as well.


If would feel all sorts of wrong if I did not share it with him, bordering a level of emotional infidelity. He is very open, thank god he places as much trust he does in my loyalty and commitment. I would not be one to betray that trust either.

However this lady is a temptress, quite unfair on her own SO, if I might say so, even if she had no prior plans of purposeful seduction.



Well you're assuming she isn't sharing this with her SO. It may be their foreplay.


It could very well be, but she has brought her SO to my company before. She treats him very differently, if not somewhat coldly and constantly chooses to continue her flirtatious ways in front of him. He never seems pleased, if not slightly disdainful of me whilst I keep everything as professional as it should be.

Hmph.

Yet, he is still with her. Foreplay take many forms. Unique to the people involved.

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I very much agree, those are merely my own observations and I could very well be wrong.
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The prize goes to you @PVJamz, so it seems she is a Bullette. A married one at that, who pretends her husband is her boyfriend instead.

She openly flirts or hints at pursing men when she sees them with money, whilst keeping it all a secret from her husband.

Dear lord, I am very glad I kept my distance and had my attraction to her under wraps.

She flip flops between distance coolness and utter physical flirtations with me but on my part, no reactions have been given. Now, I feel the attraction still but my sheer disgust at her personality far outweighs it.

Who knows, perhaps she has an open marriage with her husband. Who am I to judge but to keep secrets, whether it be an open marriage or otherwise, is wrong in my books.

Also, she has had relationships with women before but they had left her very much heartbroken and devastated in the past.
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Hello my dear fellow Stingers and to all those of you who lurk or visit our home turf . . .

Recently, there have been a new lady at my company who have been very touchy with me. She would have her hands all over me, stroking my back, my hair, and so forth. The nicknames in which she uses in combination with her blatant flirtation is driving me up the wall.

However, she is taken and so am I. Yes, both our SO are male, in case that should ever even be in question. Now, this is where the problem arises - I am not one to cheat on my SO, although at the same time I can not deny the attraction in which I feel for her, which is more an infatuation more than anything else. Her constant level of flirtation has become nothing short of sheer torture to me, especially when she loves being very close within my vicinity, with her glances and what not.

If you must ask, I do not know if she is merely curious or in fact bisexual. In either case, I would not cheat but I am not quite sure if she would. Her flirtatious teasing has now become an issue for me.

Any advice, for this Stinger who is struggling, if not floundering here. πŸ˜†


Take a cold shower and grow up!
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There would not be any need for a cold shower, reality struck.

She is married, and I am taken.

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I had a female friend flirt with me before constantly... she was a Gemini. Kind of aggressive.... anywho I like that you and your mate are open enough to discuss it. I love it!
Yes Wineaux15, I am very lucky.

To have a man who is open enough to discuss all my emotions with me, and listen, whilst being supportive.

It is a very rare trait.

Hah, he even teases me about it. πŸ˜†
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Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
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He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
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Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
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Too bad!!!

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The prize goes to you @PVJamz, so it seems she is a Bullette. A married one at that, who pretends her husband is her boyfriend instead.

She openly flirts or hints at pursing men when she sees them with money, whilst keeping it all a secret from her husband.

Dear lord, I am very glad I kept my distance and had my attraction to her under wraps.

She flip flops between distance coolness and utter physical flirtations with me but on my part, no reactions have been given. Now, I feel the attraction still but my sheer disgust at her personality far outweighs it.

Who knows, perhaps she has an open marriage with her husband. Who am I to judge but to keep secrets, whether it be an open marriage or otherwise, is wrong in my books.

Also, she has had relationships with women before but they had left her very much heartbroken and devastated in the past.

Dear lord! Yeah you dodged one. I don't know what it is about the Taurus-Scorpio pull but it's crazy strong.

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Unnervingly strong, I have never felt it before and do not have any idea what to do with it. Perhaps, it is because I have never had a friendship with a Bullette before, or at least within a capacity where I would have to see them often enough.

For business reasons, I would still need to be on good terms with her and frankly now I do not know how to handle this situation. Merely cordial friendliness, does not seem to work, because she is rather moody, if not at times a lazy individual, professionally.
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Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
Too bad!!!

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Too bad for him, or for I ?

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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
Too bad!!!

?
Too bad for him, or for I ?

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Us! I would love to read Part2 of this story!!!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
Too bad!!!

?
Too bad for him, or for I ?


Us! I would love to read Part2 of this story!!!
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There will be updates as it unfolds because now I have to figure out what I should do, to at least remain cordial within a professional capacity.

Anything outside it, such as a friendship, I have lost respect for, because of her personality.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Pretty sure most guys wouldn't care.
What would you mean by 'most guys' ?


Men don't look at it as cheating.

He would probably ask if he can watch?
He most likely would not mind at all, but I would.

I am possessive of those I care about, and do not share.

He is well aware of this aspect of who I am, and greatly adores this trait.

Therefore we are keeping it, as it is, monogamous.
Too bad!!!

?
Too bad for him, or for I ?


Us! I would love to read Part2 of this story!!!
There will be updates as it unfolds because now I have to figure out what I should do, to at least remain cordial within a professional capacity.

Anything outside it, such as a friendship, I have lost respect for, because of her personality.
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You better figure that out so everyone gets satisfaction! πŸ˜‰
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It turns out, she is a Bullette and her birthday is in three weeks time.

Lmao oh dear

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. . . and she is married to a Merman. She happens to also be bisexual, before she was married she was in a various relationships with both men and women. However, her heart was broken many times before, by her girlfriends in her past.

Yet, she pretends she is not married and tells everyone he is her boyfriend, as she openly flirts or pursues anyone who she believes has money.

Help me, I have no idea how I should deal with her, because I must remain cordial, within my professional capacity. One moment, she is seemingly cold and distant, to quite literally pressing herself against me, in which I give her space and move away. To also randomly complimenting me as if waiting for me to compliment her back.
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women always want this, but they'll never get it.

you can't touch this


Hah. πŸ˜†

There is a new Crabapple, at my company. She is blissfully wonderful and sweet, but very intelligent.

We get along really well, therefore I am certain you do not hate all of our kind.
there is a new coworker across the hall, we bonded over our mutual grumpiness, she's a scorpio, but she acts like a cancer, always whining, i wonder if she has a cancer or virgo moon

hmmmmmm
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Hah CC, she was initially distant, and very much in her shell but I had not pushed and let it be. She eventually opened up after I shared a bit of myself with her. Then we instantly bonded, she so happens to be a believer of astrology. What a coincidence. πŸ˜†

We discussed a bit of that, but food was our main focus, something we both love.

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@rekt

It turns out, she is a Bullette and her birthday is in three weeks time.

Lmao oh dear


. . . and she is married to a Merman. She happens to also be bisexual, before she was married she was in a various relationships with both men and women. However, her heart was broken many times before, by her girlfriends in her past.

Yet, she pretends she is not married and tells everyone he is her boyfriend, as she openly flirts or pursues anyone who she believes has money.

Help me, I have no idea how I should deal with her, because I must remain cordial, within my professional capacity. One moment, she is seemingly cold and distant, to quite literally pressing herself against me, in which I give her space and move away. To also randomly complimenting me as if waiting for me to compliment her back.

Detach yourself. Be friendly but keep boundaries up. You're attracted to her and I'm sure she knows that. Don't allow that to get out of hand. You're both involved with other people. Focus on your man and don't play into her games. Taurus is very hard on Scorpios because there's an animalistic attraction. But keep your head about you. Don't flirt with her. Keep a wall up between you.

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As a Bullette, I would have thought her to be much more faithful and loyal. Apparently, like us Stingers, you lot come in all shades of colours. She happens to be an utter laze within her professional capacity, if she could get away with it. 😐

In ways, she is a predator, I could see it. She would prey on those who would do the work for her, linked to her reason why she glows when she realises someone is wealthy. Money she does not need to earn, and work she does not need to do. However, I have never flirted back, not even once, not going to fall into that trap.

Scorched, I have been focusing on my man! He has been a very comforting and stable force. She tried to invite me for a meal, however work got in the way and I would have refused anyways. A one on one meal with her, would spell disaster.

Never have I ever felt this way about a Bullette before, or a Bull, for that matter. There may be an animalistic attraction but there almost always seems to be a wall, or a disconnect. I could never figure it out, is it perhaps the Bull / Bullette 's way of keeping their emotions under wraps or something else entirely ?

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The Crabapple I have gotten to know, is far from grumpy but she does whine a little when she is tired or stressed. However, she is a very hard working individual and dedicated to what she does. I love that about her, whereas the Bullette, if she could laze, she will. That annoys me to no end.
we're good listeners, the scorpio is a whiner and grumpier than sheet, i follow her energy and whining to befriend.
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Hah. πŸ˜†

Out of the both of us, I whine far less. Therefore my energy keeps her going, it is a good dynamic, because she makes me realise I could relax and be less anal at times.

She could and would remain in her shell at times about certain matters, but I let it be. If she would like to open up a bit more, she will, in her own time.
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Posted by PVJamz
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Posted by PVJamz
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The prize goes to you @PVJamz, so it seems she is a Bullette. A married one at that, who pretends her husband is her boyfriend instead.

She openly flirts or hints at pursing men when she sees them with money, whilst keeping it all a secret from her husband.

Dear lord, I am very glad I kept my distance and had my attraction to her under wraps.

She flip flops between distance coolness and utter physical flirtations with me but on my part, no reactions have been given. Now, I feel the attraction still but my sheer disgust at her personality far outweighs it.

Who knows, perhaps she has an open marriage with her husband. Who am I to judge but to keep secrets, whether it be an open marriage or otherwise, is wrong in my books.

Also, she has had relationships with women before but they had left her very much heartbroken and devastated in the past.

Dear lord! Yeah you dodged one. I don't know what it is about the Taurus-Scorpio pull but it's crazy strong.


Unnervingly strong, I have never felt it before and do not have any idea what to do with it. Perhaps, it is because I have never had a friendship with a Bullette before, or at least within a capacity where I would have to see them often enough.

For business reasons, I would still need to be on good terms with her and frankly now I do not know how to handle this situation. Merely cordial friendliness, does not seem to work, because she is rather moody, if not at times a lazy individual, professionally.
Be friendly but aloof. That's what I do. πŸ˜‰
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Mermaids are better at this, than Stingers are.

We are better at being friendly or aloof, either or.

We only have an on or off switch, the grey area is a bit harder for us to wander around. πŸ˜†
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
women always want this, but they'll never get it.

you can't touch this


Hah. πŸ˜†

There is a new Crabapple, at my company. She is blissfully wonderful and sweet, but very intelligent.

We get along really well, therefore I am certain you do not hate all of our kind.
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Let them hate! One day they will blow up anyway. πŸ˜‰
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It turns out, she has been married for a year but has a young daughter with her husband. 😐

The more I find out, the less I want to even want to be friendly anymore. The more I discover, the more revolting she is. How could someone look that quirky yet beautiful in a way, yet be so very ugly.

I know the answer to that, it was a redundant question. Human nature never ceases to still surprises me with even uglier rendition of itself.
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