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Can I join? I'm scorp dominant.

You sure should if you have a story with Taurus to share!!?

Excellent! I'm with a Taurus. Started off as friends but I can attest to tls' description of the pull. I've never felt anything like it before. I just knew I had to be near him all the time.

It's passionate, at times tumultuous but I can't ever imagine being without him.

As for would I let him dance with someone else? Yes but I would like to slowly murder every single one of his ex girlfriends just for good measure 😄

Perrrfect!Definitely sounds like it!!! Good to know things are going great between you guys??

How long have you been together for?? And how long have you been friends for before getting into this? Was the pull right from the beginning.. I mean when you guys were still friends?

"I would like to slowly murder every single one of his ex girlfriends just for good measure "

?? Definitely sounded like a scorpio here^

Been together over 3 years now. Friends for about a year prior. No, strange thing was there was no pull at the beginning. I thought he was a lovely person but my normal default position is to be closed off to everyone so it was something that crept up on me over the first few months.

Then it was pure obsession, detailed online stalking and grilling everyone who knew him. We kept strangely crossing each others path as well. We only met by accident too. People I knew kept talking about him. None of these people knew each other but they knew him and he kept coming up in conversation.

We developed our friendship until we became best friends and then it was uncontrollable afterwards. Neither of us could stay away and the inevitable happened.

Yes, murdering each of his ex's. Sigh. I hate knowing they existed. It pains me to know of the laughs and love he shared with them while he was not being with me. But shhh...keep that between us 😉

3 years sounds great. Sounds like it was destined to happen lol...with all that meeting by accident,crossing of paths multiple times n his name popping up again n again n all. Congratulations ??

Mine didn't start off with just looking at each other like in TLS's case either. We knew each other for months before that. We were classmates but I thought he was just this uber cool last bencher dude(basically a loser?) with just good looks.We were just familiar with eachother's faces n general behaviors...but his bff had a crush on me..so I have been often discussed before in his group apparently ?. I never cared much for him until he actually talked to me lol. It started right from that first talk we had. He was a great guy. Very chivalrous, super smart, great with conversations n stuff. My view of him was never even rose tinted lol. It's not being head over heels in love...that sounds silly. It's a way above that.

Hahah sure it'll be between us?..I get it?What's your sun sign?? You'd totally fit the typical scorpio description from what I can see??

Thanks. It feels a bit fated actually. I wasn't looking at him with those eyes because he on the surface he is nothing I thought I wanted. It was only after getting to know him that I realised what a special person he was.

It's nice to have those sorts of experiences like you had with your classmate. They assure you there are good guys out there. Maybe you'll find your way back together one day? Who knows what could happen. Life has a funny way.

I'm a libra. Sometimes I see myself as more scorp like but the Libra is there as well. That link that someone posted earlier about the dynamics between scorp and taurus describes us very accurately.

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Yeah I get it. That reminds me of something I read somewhere. It's something on these lines.We silly people always think we know what we want. But when we have it , we may discover that we don't like it afterall. And that might not even be something we end up needing which eventually makes no sense. I mean we don't appreciate something enough if it's only want and not need when we finally get it is what I think. Waiting for someone to tick the boxes of the lists we make makes no sense(Actually been there n learnt this).It's all about the connection n chemistry I guess. Nice that you met that special someone?

I never thought good guys are rare. There's something good about everyone I came across. Like I said, maybe we should just feel it. You're right. Life sure has a funny way lol. But it's over for me. I love the memories I have of him n will continue admiring him always.And I want nothing more from him or us. I hope he's doing well❤️

Ah never would have guessed that lol.Good to know. Libra-Taurus is a nice pair too actually. But I understand why you can relate to that link more. Thanks for sharing your story??

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Oh really?? Why exactly?

Lol! I dunno. I know it sounds weird coz I'm still here on an Astrology site but I don't relate to most of the stuff I read. Also I find it silly to see people basing their relationships on astrology n blaming stuff they go through on it. Easy shifting of blame. I'd like to do it too..but "I don't defy the stars" ? Did astrology help people escape their fate ever? I heard it guides people..but how many ended up well with all the guidance n how far did it help them? Idk man... It's cool to know things but I never understood the point of it all. I think when we are going through something bad, we search for things to relate to n make it all fit somehow anyway. I'm not saying it's all trash though. It feels like it's either more like a mere interest or something people look to fall back on. I don't believe it to be something definite or maybe I never understood it right?

It's not all trash but a lot of it is over-complicated, and just divisive. Not in a good way. In fact it is all trash, to put it simple.

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Soooooooooooo, how many Scorp/Taurus couples, have made it to long term relationships together as opposed to short lived romances?.

Troof is just a play on words, slang for truth...

Gosh..... I am sooooo, so sorry to hear that, and what you had to endure. The reason I asked the question was, I have hardly see any long term couples of this dynamic.

Thank you for sharing your story with me.

There is a positive to the story at least. They managed 34 years together, and am sure that at least some of that was filled with love and laughter. ?

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I can't see the Cancer-Taurus connection to be stronger than the Scorpio- Taurus connection... not saying that it's not there but I don't see it stronger in any way. Sorry!

Not stronger per se, but more stable, from what I've witnessed. My favorite couple IRL happens to be Cancer-Taurus. Been together for 28+ years. In this dynamic, it's not that overpowering, fierce kind of passion, but rather a slow, steady burn. A light and soft kind of romance that can either be better or worse, depending on preference. I've seen many Scorp-Taurus relationships begin with that fiery passion, only to end up engulfed in flames, so I wouldn't necessarily say that stronger = better. There is depth in stillness, too.

That said, I do believe in the Scorp-Taurus connection. Seen it play out one too many times to chalk it up to pure coincidence.

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I think Taurus is the best fit for Scorpio in general!

Anyone think there's a better fit for a Scorpio?

I'm loving this thread too! It's so much fun!

I so agree with this!! Oh my god when opposites attract ??

Don't know.

I recall quite a few Taurus babes I was chasing back in my younger days that weren't impressed by my advances. Never told me no. Never told me yes. They were intrigued, but not convinced.















There were some victims though. Hehe.

When we have a crush.... we watch and observe and we'll never tell you until we're sure. Maybe you didn't wait around long enough? Tauruses are slow... we move slow period lol. But I'll be a victim —

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But why do you take soooooooooo long ladee?.—?

That's sooooo cute. ?. But you must be careful how you weild your power. For a Scorpio IS patient to a degree, BUT, if it's taking months and months and months for any declaration, you do unfortunately run the risk of losing that connection petal?. Know what I mean?.

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That's sooooo cute. ?. But you must be careful how you weild your power. For a Scorpio IS patient to a degree, BUT, if it's taking months and months and months for any declaration, you do unfortunately run the risk of losing that connection petal?. Know what I mean?.

When I was getting with my partner, he was taking forever and many times in my mind, I would call it quits, tell myself I was moving on. Then I saw him, or heard from him and I was right back in the depths of it. I was kidding myself. I was going nowehere.

It had to play out. There was no choice.

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That's sooooo cute. ?. But you must be careful how you weild your power. For a Scorpio IS patient to a degree, BUT, if it's taking months and months and months for any declaration, you do unfortunately run the risk of losing that connection petal?. Know what I mean?.

When I was getting with my partner, he was taking forever and many times in my mind, I would call it quits, tell myself I was moving on. Then I saw him, or heard from him and I was right back in the depths of it. I was kidding myself. I was going nowehere.

It had to play out. There was no choice.

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I know exactly in which you speak of. When the allure and pull is there, especially if it's a karmic contract, we are virtually prisoners at it's mercy, and must yield and succumb to it, and release control.

Not an easy thing to do, albeit we do it begrudgingly, yet our hearts are the more full and richer for having done so , if that makes sense?.

Trust in the process. Are you happy with the outcome now?. ?

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That's sooooo cute. ?. But you must be careful how you weild your power. For a Scorpio IS patient to a degree, BUT, if it's taking months and months and months for any declaration, you do unfortunately run the risk of losing that connection petal?. Know what I mean?.

When I was getting with my partner, he was taking forever and many times in my mind, I would call it quits, tell myself I was moving on. Then I saw him, or heard from him and I was right back in the depths of it. I was kidding myself. I was going nowehere.

It had to play out. There was no choice.

I know exactly in which you speak of. When the allure and pull is there, especially if it's a karmic contract, we are virtually prisoners at it's mercy, and must yield and succumb to it, and release control.

Not an easy thing to do, albeit we do it begrudgingly, yet our hearts are the more full and richer for having done so , if that makes sense?.

Trust in the process. Are you happy with the outcome now?. ?

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Yes, that makes sense. That releasing control is exactly it.

Yes, very happy now. It feels like there is only him.

Nawwwwwwwww, such a fitting, gorgeous and endearing ending to a beautiful love story. Sending you an e spine crushing hug from across the miles....?x

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Nawwwwwwwww, such a fitting, gorgeous and endearing ending to a beautiful love story. Sending you an e spine crushing hug from across the miles....?x

Thanks. I do think there is a little bit of magic at play here. The number of times I will think about texting him and a text from him will come through or I think of something and it immediately comes out of his mouth or he'll know exactly what I am thinking in a given moment. Even if it is random. Yesterday he called me to say what are you doing come for a visit and I was a metre away from his door with coffee and donuts. We saw each other while still on the phone.

Some of the coincidences are crazy.

Telepathic and cathartic at the same time. Gorgeous ?.

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Nawwwwwwwww, such a fitting, gorgeous and endearing ending to a beautiful love story. Sending you an e spine crushing hug from across the miles....?x

Thanks. I do think there is a little bit of magic at play here. The number of times I will think about texting him and a text from him will come through or I think of something and it immediately comes out of his mouth or he'll know exactly what I am thinking in a given moment. Even if it is random. Yesterday he called me to say what are you doing come for a visit and I was a metre away from his door with coffee and donuts. We saw each other while still on the phone.

Some of the coincidences are crazy.

Do you guys have Scorpio or Pisces in your charts!? That could be where that secret 6th sense is coming from!

It was terrifying to me how the Taurus guy I'm into could read me! A Scorpio! I thought I hid things so well, then I found out he has a Scorpio moon.

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Funny thing is I don't. I only have one planet in each.

Ahhhhh, it all makes perfect sense now, it's his scorpio moon that binds you in essence perhaps?.

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Obsession is great.

Chink, chink ??

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Nawwwwwwwww, such a fitting, gorgeous and endearing ending to a beautiful love story. Sending you an e spine crushing hug from across the miles....?x

Thanks. I do think there is a little bit of magic at play here. The number of times I will think about texting him and a text from him will come through or I think of something and it immediately comes out of his mouth or he'll know exactly what I am thinking in a given moment. Even if it is random. Yesterday he called me to say what are you doing come for a visit and I was a metre away from his door with coffee and donuts. We saw each other while still on the phone.

Some of the coincidences are crazy.

Do you guys have Scorpio or Pisces in your charts!? That could be where that secret 6th sense is coming from!

It was terrifying to me how the Taurus guy I'm into could read me! A Scorpio! I thought I hid things so well, then I found out he has a Scorpio moon.

Funny thing is I don't. I only have one planet in each.

Ahhhhh, it all makes perfect sense now, it's his scorpio moon that binds you in essence perhaps?.

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Nawwwwwwwww, such a fitting, gorgeous and endearing ending to a beautiful love story. Sending you an e spine crushing hug from across the miles....?x

Thanks. I do think there is a little bit of magic at play here. The number of times I will think about texting him and a text from him will come through or I think of something and it immediately comes out of his mouth or he'll know exactly what I am thinking in a given moment. Even if it is random. Yesterday he called me to say what are you doing come for a visit and I was a metre away from his door with coffee and donuts. We saw each other while still on the phone.

Some of the coincidences are crazy.

Do you guys have Scorpio or Pisces in your charts!? That could be where that secret 6th sense is coming from!

It was terrifying to me how the Taurus guy I'm into could read me! A Scorpio! I thought I hid things so well, then I found out he has a Scorpio moon.

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His north node is in Scorp. Mine is too. I am scorp dominant. He is Taurus dominant. We're both dominated by earth and both are fixed.

We share the same moon. His venus is Taurus, mine is scorp. We both have Uranus in Scorp but we're both the same age so no surprise there. His Pluto is conjunct my sun. Lots of synastry.

Just a little update. The Taurus man I asked if I could have a little time out from a week ago, has just posted all new profile pictures on the dating site we were on.

I guess I got my just deserts. A week, just wow. ??

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Just a little update. The Taurus man I asked if I could have a little time out from a week ago, has just posted all new profile pictures on the dating site we were on.

I guess I got my just deserts. A week, just wow. ??

You should try to talk to him about it. You don't want this to slip away if it is based on a misunderstanding, either on his or your part.

Thanks darlin, yes. Wise words.

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Just a little update. The Taurus man I asked if I could have a little time out from a week ago, has just posted all new profile pictures on the dating site we were on.

I guess I got my just deserts. A week, just wow. ??

You should try to talk to him about it. You don't want this to slip away if it is based on a misunderstanding, either on his or your part.

I agree. Just be open and straight with him. Tell him what you really want, and what you want to see happen.

If you think he's worth it then don't give him up so easily. I've noticed bulls are as slow as shit but if you gently push them (or prod more like) they'll say, okay then let's make this happen! (Actual words from my bull when I told him I deserve to have you!)

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You know what. For some reason after I saw that he had updated his profile, this has made me feel ambivalent and redundant.

That they do. I just thought he was above this sort of behavior. But the reality is, I do get it. And I do understand why he would have done it. He's had time to reflect and is probably thinking that I cut him off. And did a re do on his profile. He is looking for some one and probably thought I was disengenuous. I don't know. Sometimes time is needed in order to make decisions that are in our best interests.

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That they do. I just thought he was above this sort of behavior. But the reality is, I do get it. And I do understand why he would have done it. He's had time to reflect and is probably thinking that I cut him off. And did a re do on his profile. He is looking for some one and probably thought I was disengenuous. I don't know. Sometimes time is needed in order to make decisions that are in our best interests.

Haha you know what kityyyyyy I'm not convinced. Nah this shit won't fly on another Scorpio gf! You're just scared so you're running... nah come back here.

I don't see the bad thing about changing your profile pictures, it's the healthy thing. You both aren't committed yet so it makes sense he would, and it means that you could too! He's just giving you the space you've asked for.

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Is that correct my fellow Scorpion ——. Maybeeeeeee, you have a valid point however, I'm going to have to agree to disagree re said changing of profile pictures. He has had the same pics for the four months we've been chatting. I believe he's making a statement here. And yes, there is NO commitment. But he has to know that I would have seen it. I haven't changed mine, nor do I have the inclination petal so....

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That they do. I just thought he was above this sort of behavior. But the reality is, I do get it. And I do understand why he would have done it. He's had time to reflect and is probably thinking that I cut him off. And did a re do on his profile. He is looking for some one and probably thought I was disengenuous. I don't know. Sometimes time is needed in order to make decisions that are in our best interests.

The thing is you don't know. This is your assumption. Get it straight from the horse's mouth to avoid any sort of confusion. Trust me, I have been down this road of thinking I knew what was going on. I didn't and my assumptions caused me to make mistakes.

Thanks Jeane, that is sage advice, I don't know. I believe it is easy to cast aspersions, to find out we are all infalable and do indeed make errors in judgement. Hopefully I'll have the nous to rectify the situation.

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I used to (who am I kidding, I still) make assumptions for others and fill up the gaps for them, myself. Which isn't really fair to them.

But people have very different thought processes and even in how they feel, so you could be way off. I'd rather ask him uncomfortable questions then let my negative mindset answer for me. I would rather get a clear NO than hurt my feelings myself.

Just give me his number! I'll ask him. ?

Yeah, yeah —?

I get it sunshine ?.

How did I know you'd ask for his number again??.

You're sooooo naughty. ?