When you guys really deeply love someone, what are you like?

Just wondering how do you act, feel and think when you are in serious deep love ☺️ I'm in love with a Scorpio.

Just share what you're comfortable with 🙂

Like a mad woman lol🤪

Posted by MysteriousHeart
I’m a mess a real crazy mess!

We turn into mad crazy women lol

At the beginning, I feel intense, head spinning happiness and rollercoaster excitement. Despite the little tornado in a cup, my thoughts are largely focused on him and the story of his life.

How I act depends on him, of whether he behaves like a smitten friend and lover, or just a disappointingly lukewarm acquaintance, or anything in between. He sets the tone, and I'm receptive to even subtle changes in his behaviour. I follow, observe, perhaps mimic, and later on decide.

If we made it, it's likely to last for decades. The feelings are less extreme, replaced by a sense of spiritual belonging and wellbeing, confidence and optimism about the future.

Posted by Undine
At the beginning, I feel intense, head spinning happiness and rollercoaster excitement. Despite the little tornado in a cup, my thoughts are largely focused on him and the story of his life.



How I act depends on him, of whether he behaves like a smitten friend and lover, or just a disappointingly lukewarm acquaintance, or anything in between. He sets the tone, and I'm receptive to even subtle changes in his behaviour. I follow, observe, perhaps mimic, and later on decide.



If we made it, it's likely to last for decades. The feelings are less extreme, replaced by a sense of spiritual belonging and wellbeing, confidence and optimism about the future.

That's so beautiful! ☺️ what's your Moon sign? I'm just curious because of how emotionally receptive you seem to be.

What you said in the last paragraph is how I think both me and my Scorpio feel for each other and our relationship 😄 I think it's security and stability as well.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Like a mad woman lol🤪

😂 in what way?

I noticed my Scorpio guy did thorough stalking on my profiles when getting to know me at first haha

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Like a mad woman lol🤪

😂 in what way?



I noticed my Scorpio guy did thorough stalking on my profiles when getting to know me at first haha

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I’m too obsessive and let it consume me …. My passion becomes off the scale

It just feels too much, too unhealthy

The sex thing becomes big for me and too important so I’ve decided not to go there …

@allrounder what are your sun and Venus signs?

Posted by Findingbalance
I utterly missed this was in the scorpio forum. But to be fair I probably act much more scorpio (venus) than Libra (sun) when it comes to matters of the heart, for partners or anyone I care deeply about. And we won't discuss the stalking aspect 😂

How do Libras act like when they're in love? I'm a Libra Venus so I guess I know how I am haha we're a lot of balanced sweetness all round.

Posted by MyStarsShine
@allrounder what are your sun and Venus signs?

Virgo Sun and Libra Venus, friend 🤗 I'd say Pisces Moon helps me with my Scorpio guy too. Makes me more empathic than your usual Virgo anyway.

Posted by 1917191
I stop getting the urge to run away. Perhaps I'm just getting exhausted from plotting my escape.

Normally I prefer being funny and dorky - that's my default. If I stop being silly all the time and actually show my serious/ sexy side which rarely comes out, it means something. I start singing love songs in their arms to put them under my spell, otherwise they are getting my annoying bubbly cancer ascendant. I will understand them thoroughly and put them first, probably murder anyone that try to hurt them even if I am weaker.

Guess you use humour and lightheartedness as your mask/coping mechanism in life too, or at least in front of others. Is being bubbly and cute the more vulnerable side to you? Or say, your inner child coming out?

That's something I've noticed whenever I told my Scorpio guy about someone who's just wronged me. He always says he gets murderous. And I never know if Scorpio people are joking or not when they get like that lol

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Posted by Undine
At the beginning, I feel intense, head spinning happiness and rollercoaster excitement. Despite the little tornado in a cup, my thoughts are largely focused on him and the story of his life.



How I act depends on him, of whether he behaves like a smitten friend and lover, or just a disappointingly lukewarm acquaintance, or anything in between. He sets the tone, and I'm receptive to even subtle changes in his behaviour. I follow, observe, perhaps mimic, and later on decide.



If we made it, it's likely to last for decades. The feelings are less extreme, replaced by a sense of spiritual belonging and wellbeing, confidence and optimism about the future.

That's so beautiful! ☺️ what's your Moon sign? I'm just curious because of how emotionally receptive you seem to be.



What you said in the last paragraph is how I think both me and my Scorpio feel for each other and our relationship 😄 I think it's security and stability as well.

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That's because we share the same Pisces moon 🙂

I go all in. Become very devoted.

Which isn't healthy and detrimental with the wrong person.

Not going to stop myself from being that way. I like it and it's in my nature so to speak.

Just going to always keep my foot on the break to slow it down so I can make a sharp turn when needed😏

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I utterly missed this was in the scorpio forum. But to be fair I probably act much more scorpio (venus) than Libra (sun) when it comes to matters of the heart, for partners or anyone I care deeply about. And we won't discuss the stalking aspect 😂

How do Libras act like when they're in love? I'm a Libra Venus so I guess I know how I am haha we're a lot of balanced sweetness all round.
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Quite honestly I'm not totally sure. However, if you read a textbook description of Scorpio in love, that's me. I stalk, I obsess, I'm all in. I might get stabby towards anyone who appears to be seeking to harm the object of my affection, at the very least I'm extremely protective (Libra comes in here cuz I can get really passive aggressive in their defense). Apparently I also have the "glare" or so I've been informed. Also, extremely loyal and devoted. Everyone else becomes nonsexual being to me, I don't find them attractive at all (I hear that's very atypical of Libra).



About the most nonscorpio things about me in love is I'm not secretive. Idgaf who knows what. And if I truly 100% am deeply in love, I trust them easily (this can be broken and after a while won't come back even if I can continue to love them though).

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You do sound Scorpionic there 😄 and oh my god that's so interesting, about losing attraction to other people. Cause my Scorpio Sun guy also has Scorpio Venus like you and he told me he doesn't bother texting girls now. That he just doesn't feel like it. And I guess this is the reason lol the Scorpio Venus influence is strong huh.

Me being Libra Venus, you're right. I still will notice attractive people and study them with my eyes. But I don't desire to go after them. I am a loyal person at the end of the day.

I'm a fool when I fall in love. I don't see or hear anyone but them. I get tunnel vision. My Scorpio Venus takes over and I want sex with them all the time. Problem is, it never lasts. (sigh)

Posted by MyStarsShine
Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio

Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩

Posted by DonnaLibra
I'm a fool when I fall in love. I don't see or hear anyone but them. I get tunnel vision. My Scorpio Venus takes over and I want sex with them all the time. Problem is, it never lasts. (sigh)

We’re doomed with that Venus lol

😂

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Venus in Scorpio is in a very strange position, because this is the sign of its detriment, so it may cause some problems in creating a happy relationship..

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Venus in Scorpio is in a very strange position, because this is the sign of its detriment, so it may cause some problems in creating a happy relationship..

Lol yeah, scorpio sun's get all the press for intensity and crazy, and were high key just as bad 😂

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Venus is much worse than the sun

Scorpio and Aries Venus are both in detriment

Car crash in love 😩🤣😬

Earth signs be like "love? What is that? Are you saying you want me to do something. Just ask" 😂

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Venus in Scorpio is in a very strange position, because this is the sign of its detriment, so it may cause some problems in creating a happy relationship..

Lol yeah, scorpio sun's get all the press for intensity and crazy, and were high key just as bad 😂
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Venus is much worse than the sun

Scorpio and Aries Venus are both in detriment

Car crash in love 😩🤣😬
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Yeah I actually dislike myself in love, my aqua moon just stand there shaking its head 😂. It can't be better for the other person 😂. I've met exactly two people that will meet my looks and not either look away or ask if I'm angry when I'm feeling...extra. and my so isn't one of them, he always thinks I'm mad lol. Like no...kinda the opposite. Probably his Aries moon, always on the lookout for a fight.

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VIS should carry a health hazard warning

⛔️😂

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Posted by DonnaLibra
I'm a fool when I fall in love. I don't see or hear anyone but them. I get tunnel vision. My Scorpio Venus takes over and I want sex with them all the time. Problem is, it never lasts. (sigh)

My Virgo’s Venus in Scorpio. Is this what makes sex all the time? 🤔

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No, it's probably you that makes him want sex all the time. His Venus in Scorpio probably makes it good sex.

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩

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Oh how is it challenging? Other than the stuff you've already said.

My Scorpio guy is Scorpio Sun, Venus, Moon and Mercury 😂 I went for the full Scorpio package, girl.

Y'all really do love sex 😂 I'm not complaining though. My Leo Mars loves it haha just don't make me feel used/like an object, and I'm okay.

Posted by Bumboklaat
I think my Venus controls me in that sense. Its so strange how I don't trust and just judge without engaging, then when my Venus decides it pulls me towards doing relationship stuff, ewwww

Don't feel scared by the influences of authentic lurrrvee, friend 😂

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Venus in Scorpio is in a very strange position, because this is the sign of its detriment, so it may cause some problems in creating a happy relationship..

Lol yeah, scorpio sun's get all the press for intensity and crazy, and were high key just as bad 😂
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Venus is much worse than the sun

Scorpio and Aries Venus are both in detriment

Car crash in love 😩🤣😬
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Yeah I actually dislike myself in love, my aqua moon just stand there shaking its head 😂. It can't be better for the other person 😂. I've met exactly two people that will meet my looks and not either look away or ask if I'm angry when I'm feeling...extra. and my so isn't one of them, he always thinks I'm mad lol. Like no...kinda the opposite. Probably his Aries moon, always on the lookout for a fight.

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Oh my goodness, I always find it so hard to be my authentic emotional Pisces Moon self in front of Aquarius Moon people lol they never understand my emotions/emotional analysis about things lool so I can understand why you might clash with yourself sometimes 💀

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩

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Actually just curious, how do you test someone in the getting to know them stage as a Scorpio Venus? Cause I remember my Scorpio guy said I passed most of his tests but had one more to pass. But he never told me what they were 😂

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩


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Actually just curious, how do you test someone in the getting to know them stage as a Scorpio Venus? Cause I remember my Scorpio guy said I passed most of his tests but had one more to pass. But he never told me what they were 😂

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Wow that sounds terrible … one more to pass, such a controlling thing to say

I was probably a nightmare as a younger and not so wise one but I would not inflict that on someone now….it’s exhausting

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Lol. A dumbass tbh. Too dedicated, accepting, protective...too everything



*glares at scorpio venus. This is YOUR fault.

I have seen the Venus in Scorpio stare. It's very intense, obsessive and sexual.

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Disturbingly so

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👁️ 👁️

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩


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Actually just curious, how do you test someone in the getting to know them stage as a Scorpio Venus? Cause I remember my Scorpio guy said I passed most of his tests but had one more to pass. But he never told me what they were 😂
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Wow that sounds terrible … one more to pass, such a controlling thing to say

I was probably a nightmare as a younger and not so wise one but I would not inflict that on someone now….it’s exhausting

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Nah. I've passed them all now I suppose because it's been a while since. But he's not very controlling actually. And if I do have an issue with something, then I'll bring it up to him eventually to get it sorted and park his ass 😂

I had tests too tbf. Because I'm so done with getting involved with toxic people and f*ckboys. I had to make sure he wasn't one. We didn't really do anything toxic to test each other. Just asking questions 🤗

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Posted by Findingbalance
Lol. A dumbass tbh. Too dedicated, accepting, protective...too everything



*glares at scorpio venus. This is YOUR fault.

I have seen the Venus in Scorpio stare. It's very intense, obsessive and sexual.

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The sexiness of it, oh yes, always leaves me breathless. But dare I say a Capricorn's stare is more intense and intimidating than a Scorpio's in general though. At least from what I've experienced 😂

I never really feel the intensity of a Scorpio because I'm just as emotionally intense I think, and my Scorpio guy really appreciates that I don't feel scared by what he calls his "psycho eyes" 😂 I love them actually.

Unbearable, most likely.

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩


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Actually just curious, how do you test someone in the getting to know them stage as a Scorpio Venus? Cause I remember my Scorpio guy said I passed most of his tests but had one more to pass. But he never told me what they were 😂
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Wow that sounds terrible … one more to pass, such a controlling thing to say

I was probably a nightmare as a younger and not so wise one but I would not inflict that on someone now….it’s exhausting
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Nah. I've passed them all now I suppose because it's been a while since. But he's not very controlling actually. And if I do have an issue with something, then I'll bring it up to him eventually to get it sorted and park his ass 😂



I had tests too tbf. Because I'm so done with getting involved with toxic people and f*ckboys. I had to make sure he wasn't one. We didn't really do anything toxic to test each other. Just asking questions 🤗

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Sounds you’re a match for him! Scorpio energy isn’t always the easiest to deal with but it seems you have a handle on him! 😙

Enjoy 😃 and remember to keep him

in his place …. Venus in Scorpio can be so bloody controlling 😬lol …

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio



Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩


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Oh how is it challenging? Other than the stuff you've already said.



My Scorpio guy is Scorpio Sun, Venus, Moon and Mercury 😂 I went for the full Scorpio package, girl.



Y'all really do love sex 😂 I'm not complaining though. My Leo Mars loves it haha just don't make me feel used/like an object, and I'm okay.

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I don’t think it’s god help the other person

The torture is to ourselves! I’ll poker face in reign in as to not scare the poor guy but internally it’s torture having to wait knowing how you already know how you feel about the person. The get the best attention, consideration n are treated like kings lol

Like a coward and hide. I start to withdraw and avoid the person because I hate vulnerability.

Just like myself.

I dont act any differently.

:?

Usually I feel happier i guess. Like Im smiling a lot 🙂

I hear they'll write you secret messages in lemon juice.

Posted by Agua_Aqi_
I hear they'll write you secret messages in lemon juice.

I don't doubt they did that as kids 😂

Grown men

@allrounder Is this thread for Scorpios or is it a free for all?

Posted by Midnite_Riser
I get extremely motivated and can actually change my life. I have Venus and Mars in the 7th House so it is a co-dependent placement. I get extra generous with people and just spread lots of good fortune all around. It almost looks as if I won a billion dollars.

How you are is exactly how my Scorpio bf is as well, got very motivated 😂 hey, if you got the money, spread all the abundance you want but no one says you have to either so don't feel pressured to!

Posted by MyStarsShine
@allrounder Is this thread for Scorpios or is it a free for all?

Yes, my curiosity was for the Scorpios 🙂 but I guess I don't mind too much if other astrology signs comment their own experiences and beings too

Posted by MyStarsShine
Like a mad woman lol🤪

I forgot if it was you who asked for an update (sorry if it wasn't), but I feel like I won the Scorpio lottery because my Scorp guy told his dad I'm wife material 😭❤️ I'm in deeeeep 😂

Kinda obsessive.. inside my head though

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I forgot if it was you who asked for an update (sorry if it wasn't), but I feel like I won the Scorpio lottery because my Scorp guy told his dad I'm wife material 😭❤️ I'm in deeeeep 😂
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Ah the wifey material level. Enjoy 😉

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Ohhh yeahhh haha 😏 and I appreciate even more because he's Scorpio in 4 of his main placements. And Scorpio is just so well known for having a slow time to trust others 😊

Posted by allrounder
Just wondering how do you act, feel and think when you are in serious deep love ☺️ I'm in love with a Scorpio.


Just share what you're comfortable with

Obsessed

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Posted by allrounder
Just wondering how do you act, feel and think when you are in serious deep love ☺️ I'm in love with a Scorpio.

Just share what you're comfortable with

Obsessed

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Ah so what does a Scorpio's obsession look like in love? I don't really feel the intensity of it, I think because it's just right for my Leo Mars 😂

I’m chill and stick around.

My Scorpio Venus is nothing like these others. I’m not stalkerish or obsessive. I’m not looking through people’s stuff.

I’m just loyal, stable, and nice.

I don’t care to be crazy. Takes too much energy to be in that controlling mindset and it takes up too much of my personal time to be worrying about someone else like that.

I just want to trust the person, travel, give them space when needed and be lazy in love.

I’m in a relationship with a Scorpio guy with a Mars in Leo and Scorpio Venus.

He’s not very emotional at all. Very chill, super supportive and an absolute sweetheart but he’s not talkative when it comes to emotions. He shows them with touch and service related tasks.

He said before he had issues in the past with women not believing he liked the because he’s so stoic.

But I have the same Leo mars and Scorpio Venus and act the same way, men haven’t been able to tell if I like them either so I get where he’s coming from.

In our own ways we show things that don’t need to be said. He doesn’t bug me in the usual way that guys from my past have, he doesn’t need to hear words of love or affection. I’m showy without saying things too.

But I don’t see any intensity at all. I’m starting to think Scorpios just think they are too much.

Maybe it gets triggered when they are upset, IDK.

I haven’t even seen my boyfriend mad yet and it’s been almost a year.

He asks questions to see where my head is at. But he is very emotionally detached in the same way I am and I like it because it’s comfortable for someone to understand me without complaining about it.

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I’m in a relationship with a Scorpio guy with a Mars in Leo and Scorpio Venus.


He’s not very emotional at all. Very chill, super supportive and an absolute sweetheart but he’s not talkative when it comes to emotions. He shows them with touch and service related tasks.


He said before he had issues in the past with women not believing he liked the because he’s so stoic.


But I have the same Leo mars and Scorpio Venus and act the same way, men haven’t been able to tell if I like them either so I get where he’s coming from.

In our own ways we show things that don’t need to be said. He doesn’t bug me in the usual way that guys from my past have, he doesn’t need to hear words of love or affection. I’m showy without saying things too.


But I don’t see any intensity at all. I’m starting to think Scorpios just think they are too much.

Maybe it gets triggered when they are upset, IDK.

I haven’t even seen my boyfriend mad yet and it’s been almost a year.

He asks questions to see where my head is at. But he is very emotionally detached in the same way I am and I like it because it’s comfortable for someone to understand me without complaining about it.

You know what, that's amazing. I think you guys are actually like my Scorpio guy. Cause I don't find him that obsessive or intense like the Internet says (probably cause it's the right amount of "intensity" for me and I'm just as "intense" so I don't really see it). So I got pretty confused. And I think he's pretty stoic but sweet and chill just like yours too, but mine doesn't really initiate communicating about emotions much because his mother didn't really let him be comfortably emotionally open growing up. And I find at the moment, I'm having to be the one to initiate and drive the conversation about emotions/being open about them and solving emotional/behavioural issues. But it's okay cause he's able to engage and eventually open up about his own feelings about the issue. And I do my best to notice every way he helps me physically in order to see his acts of love 😊

Yes likewise, previous partners have complained to my Scorp and become upset about him not acting very emotional when they've given him a present. But for me, I don't mind it as long as you say and show that you appreciate it 🤗 and I've made him aware that he doesn't need to act up anything whenever I gift him something.

As far as I'm aware, it takes a lot for a Scorpio to show their inner anger, correct? So that's probably why you haven't seen your bf mad.

I do notice when my Scorpio is jealous/a bit possessive on the inside, however, so I've now minimised talking about other guys or guy friends to as infrequent as possible.

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Like a mad woman lol🤪

I’m Venus in Scorpio


Very challenging in love relationships

God help the other person✝️😈😩

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Oh how is it challenging? Other than the stuff you've already said.


My Scorpio guy is Scorpio Sun, Venus, Moon and Mercury 😂 I went for the full Scorpio package, girl.


Y'all really do love sex 😂 I'm not complaining though. My Leo Mars loves it haha just don't make me feel used/like an object, and I'm okay.
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I don’t think it’s god help the other person

The torture is to ourselves! I’ll poker face in reign in as to not scare the poor guy but internally it’s torture having to wait knowing how you already know how you feel about the person. The get the best attention, consideration n are treated like kings lol

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This is how I am. I have Scorpio Mars in my 5th house so I guess that’s where I get it from. He’s a Capricorn ascendent, Scorpio sun, moon, Venus, Sagittarius mercury, and Libra Mars 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵 So hard to hold back and just enjoy the journey. I know what I want now I’m all go, go, go!