why are scorpio's so selfish

my scorpio sister thinks she is the only person who suffers or who has problems...I recently had a misscarriage of my first child and she doea not even care to ask how I am really doing....she is too caught up with her own life and all she does is crab about her problems with no concern for anyone else...

Hey 65, sorry for your loss. What sign are you?

im a gemini..ty

I don't know if selfish would be the word to describe my Scorpio grandmother. My Taurus grandfather died over 50 years ago, and she NEVER got over it.

Evolved Scorpios are not selfish, in fact we can be the most caring of the signs, once we've grown up.

Perhaps your sister needs to have someone hold up a mirror in front of her. She needs to see what it makes her look like to be so cold. Have a really blunt talk with her, even if it means screaming, as sometimes scorpios need something huge to shake them back to the real world.

I am sorry about your loss.
Take my advice---I am a scorpio.

Perhaps your sister doesn't know how to talk to you about it. Sometimes those with particularly strong or volatile emotions learn to distrust emotions in general, and have difficulty discussing emotional issues because they don't know how to, and it involves making yourself vulnerable--something Scorpio has real problems with.

One of my sisters recently lost both a partner and a child in a short time; we're both Scorpios. I want to offer her my love and support, but I'm afraid of causing her pain, so I don't bring the issue up. I know she's hurting, but she glosses over her losses and quickly moves onto another topic.