Are taurus guys really bad cheaters?

I've been attracted to a long series of taurus guys - all of whom seemed to be cheating on someone or just liars in some way.

I just met a taurus men that I thought was amazing and had huge dating potential, we have been flirting at work. I soon found out through a mutual friend that he has a long term girlfriend and also has numerous other girlfriends around the world (he travels a lot for work) and other women he has friends with benefits situation with when he travels. I feel so disillusioned with men and taurus men - even though I know it's a generalisation. This guy is not young either - he's 40, but this behaviour is like a 20 year old.

I'm a pisces.

Some men are cheaters, others aren't. There are so many more aspects to an individual's personality than what resides in his sun sign. Really, there is no point in exploring that. So let's just label the guy as we all see fit, and call it a day.

Hey yeah I agree with you all. I didn't mean he was cheating on me, I meant he was cheating on his girlfriend with all these other women and was cheating on all these other women.

Aww, Pisces, don't let it knock you. Taurus men can be real honeys. And I think Pisces women go great with Taurus men.

You say you heard through a "mutual friend". But how do you know what this mutual friend said is actually true, esp the women "all over the world" part? Was this mutual friend a guy? Could it be jealously on his part that your Taurus man is getting all this female attention? And if this mutual friend was a woman, how do you know she didn't create tales about Taurus man out of spite (perhaps she got jilted by him or couldn't handle the fact that he never paid attention to her & so she didn't want YOU to get him because she wasn't able to either)?

Check your facts before jumping to conclusions.

Taurus men usually have women falling for them because they have this Earthy calmness & stableness about them that makes women feel safe around them. Can you blame a guy if it's the WOMEN themselves who go to him?

And who knows, YOU just might be the Pisces who manages to make this Taurus finally settle down......

Don't worry so much about taurus males being cheats, the cheats of the zodiac are more along the lines of libras, cancers, or aries. That's from my experience though..

So don't quote me on this shiet.

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r u a cheater smiles?

Negative, one woman kind of guy; FLAT OUT. Once I'm taken, I'm TAKEN. 😄

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Posted by *Tasha
r u a cheater smiles?

Negative, one woman kind of guy; FLAT OUT. Once I'm taken, I'm TAKEN. 😄

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Thats so awesome to read! 😄

I've never seen Taurus as cheaters...never. I don't think it's in their make-up. I can honestly say that I trust my taurus male 99.99% 🙂
Can never be 100% of course...
From what I've seen, they love sex, but are very faithful when in love.

Ramfishtwins,
Sorry, but I do not necessarily agree.
I had 2 Taurus boyfriends in my life (one I'm still dating). Both cheated.
How do I know, well, I was the party they were cheating with.

Well Tiffany, I wouldn't consider that as cheating. But if you are the one that's out sowing your oats when a Taurus fancies you, he won't stand for it. You're his possession. Doesn't work the other way round though.

Posted by youthful.foolishness
Ramfishtwins,
Sorry, but I do not necessarily agree.
I had 2 Taurus boyfriends in my life (one I'm still dating). Both cheated.
How do I know, well, I was the party they were cheating with.

Wow, that really surprises me. Good info...thanks!

Guess I'm hoping mine is the exception then... 😢

Could be, you'll never know. 🙂
I've seen way too many cheating men, and women, whatever the signs.
Being Aries, I tend to be stupidly trusting with ppl and have been sadly proven that I should have trusted myself instead.
My girl friends always comment how I always manage to coax the confessions of wrongdoings in my partners.
Well because though I'm naive, I'm not stupid. I also think I might have a more acute gut feel.

I think Taurus men get a bad wrap and i say this with some years under my belt with them!

I think, if the bull or most men in general, if they are getting what they want and NEED, most men don't cheat. PROBLEM - SO MANY people settle in relationships due to comfort and so many other reasons that they truely are not happy or not where they think or wnat to be so they leave things open. I know Bull men LOVE WOMEN, and they are very sexual beings. And from what i udnerstand, they tend to keep a "Harem" in their pocket until they find that one they set their sights on and WANT to settle with (and that women WILL know with out a doubt if she is that one, dont' let them fool ya thinking otherwise. They make it quite evident) If you don't join their PAGE and on their level, they will humor their imaginations more. But i really beleive that with most men that are in something THEY believe in like that one chick that captivates them.

By the way ramfishtwins, about the Taurus dude I'm dating?
I live in a diffferent country from him now and will be back in 4 months.
We had a holiday together in May, where I met his family.
When he left, we were both crying, being so sad to leave each other. How romantic right?
Right.....

Well just recently I found out this out:
In June, 3 weeks after our fantastic holiday , we had distanced ourselves after a dispute.
That distance was only a matter of around 3 weeks. And he had went to sow his wild oats in those weeks.

According to him, he didn't abuse my trust because he was "single" as he thought we had broken up.
Of coz he lied to me about it.
My gut feel just kept telling me something is not right and I asked him directly.
And then he dropped me another bomb - that maybe he should be single (he says he doesn't know).
So there you go.

I'm still left holding onto my broken emotions.

youthful..

be more careful whom you allow yourself to trust. no one, immediately deserves your trust. That is earned. Hell it took me a few years to fully trust my bull, and since he is a human being... i still don't fully trust him. Do i think i give my man everything he could possibly need... yes i do. another chick would have to be damn near super woman to make him cheat but i know, i have studied this man, to ensure i give him what he needs. BUT, i only did this after i learned his nature and realized this man is worth that investment. And the most beautiful thing to me about taurus men is if he is getting his needs and wants met, the return that he gives back is surreal. these are some phenommenal (lol sp) men.

BaBy-GrL414:

"PROBLEM - SO MANY people settle in relationships due to comfort and so many other reasons that they truely are not happy or not where they think or wnat to be so they leave things open."

I agree, not matter what sign the person is.
However. given that we are discussing Taurus, and Taurus are supposedly very loyal, this is just majorly disappointing, not to mention inexcusible (no matter the sign).

The other Taurus that I've dated cheated too. Not on me, but with me (we had already broken up a year and he was in another relationship). Since Taurus seemingly take a long time to decide and is careful before going into a relationship, why then bother to go into it and cheats on his girlfriend by sleeping with an ex (me)?
Not that I share no blame in being a knowing accomplice in his cheating, but I was definitely single. He wasn't.

Baby Grl,

"be more careful whom you allow yourself to trust. no one, immediately deserves your trust. That is earned"

There are ppl who trust no one until they know you are worth trusting.
And there are ppl who just trust until you prove you are not worth trusting.
I'm Aries, therefore the latter type.


"And the most beautiful thing to me about taurus men is if he is getting his needs and wants met, the return that he gives back is surreal. these are some phenommenal (lol sp) men."

Baby grl, I know. The Taurus I am with was incredible with me........
...... in the beginning months, that is.

"There are ppl who trust no one until they know you are worth trusting.
And there are ppl who just trust until you prove you are not worth trusting.
I'm Aries, therefore the latter type."

that was me, the latter part you are as well. It's really hard to divert that type of mentality. I still trust people of coarse and don't hold people accountable for what others have done either. BUT, at the same time, when it comes to my heart, which i really wear on my sleeve, i have just learned, that until you show me you deserve it; i'm sorry you can have it all. i was that girl that invested everything i am as soon as the relationship became monogomous. FUll boar ahead i went. My idea was, give all show what you have to offer and he will meet me, and never fails... let down. I started noticing that as i started holding back, i got more... by me holding back most of the perks of being me, and good man thats worth it, will take the time to invest in me, like i need to take the time to invest in them.

Just some food for thought 🙂

Thanks my dear. Needless to say, he has broken my trust by lying to me.
Sleeping with others during that supposed "breakup" is also too soon to warrant it appropriate.
His seeming lack of remorse or 'making up to me' action is also not helping.
If I still trust him fully now, I must be masochistic. 🙂

Well well. 4 months to my return. Anything can change in this 4 months given that he has already told me he is not sure.
Let's see what life brings.

Thank you again for your great advice 🙂