HELP WITH TAURUS MAN (Page 2)

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by ariesgal11

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by ariesgal11
I respect his feelings. So thats it? They can lose interest that fast? The only reason why Im confused about all this because he tells my best friends boyfriend he likes me but now everything changed after that night. My best friend told me she wouldnt stop being friends with me and her boyfriends with the taurus guy so there will be further interactions when we all hang out, but how am I supposed to act then? Is he telling me to back off now and there's nothing between us at all... See I need help. I just dont want to drop him after I told him I still like him. But if he doesnt feel the same way I dont want to waste my time with him yaknow?

This was your question.

You have a problem with telling the truth.

Try a truth serum with your morning corn flakes.

It's good for the soul.

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Okay well I get it. I asked that question because after the night we did things when we all hung out as a group he acted the same way before all sweet and lovey dovey with me. But youre right its not anything and I should just get over this whole thing.

Now you are "backpeddling"... U got caught in a "distruth" .. Now u are trying to "cover it up"..

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Are you guys insane lol I only said that he treated me the same the next night like several times already.. Thats why I was merely asking that question. Im just gonna act like nothing happened between us and go on with my life.

@JohntheBaptist,

She will be wrong and strong until the cows come home.

This Taurus man defintely dodged a bullet.

She's full of head games.

A piece of work.

She DOES get down like that, she was the one to initiate it.

That 'clear the air/I am not that kind of girl' excuse was pure BS!

I don't know why she didn't simply own it.

If you're going to be woman enough to spread your legs.

Be woman enough to speak your mind, and be clear about what you really want.

Don't be a coward.

She has been taking this thread on a fake merry-go-round....pretending.

Bulls DETEST pretentious people.

Posted by ariesgal11
I'm new to this so I'm just gonna place some signs in my birth chart and the taurus man Im talking about. I have sun in Aries, rising in Libra, venus in Aries, and virgo mars. His is sun in Taurus, rising in Scorpio, venus in Gemini, and mars in Taurus.

I have no idea where I stand with this man. I've known him for 2 years at the most. My best friends boyfriend is really close with the guy so whenever they would all hang out they'd bring me along and thats how I've been seeing him a lot. This past year whenever we were all hanging he was super sweet, always next or around me, and hed always mess with me playfully. My best friend told me he liked me cause he's always asking for me whenever he hangs out with them or mentions me when Im not around. I took the initiative and started to message him first our conversations are great but then he'd stop replying? The only time he messages first is whenever he wanted to hang out. Ive spent time with him but not alone we always had a friend around and we'd have a great time. Recently I had the house to myself and he somehow found out and asked me if I wanted to hang out I said yeah sure why not. So that night when he came over we smoked, watched tv, played games, ordered pizza, smoke some more, and also drank. It was only just us two in the house this time. We were having fun nothing intimate happened. Some of my friends would roll through to hang for a bit then leave. Once it started to get late I decided to move the wii to my room so we could smoke and play games in there also watch movies because I was getting tired and wanted to lay down. So we went in there played a few games. He mentioned sleeping on the couch but I felt bad so I offered him my bed. I put on a movie and we were watching it then he started tickling me and playing with me. I hugged him and asked if he liked me? He said yes and he asked me if I liked him I said yes. We kissed. Then we were kissing and making out. Before anything happened I told him I didnt want to be moving too fast he said we werent doing anything and we continued to make out. But lies! We ended up having sex but before we did I asked him if hes sure? He said whats the matter? As long as we like each other it shouldnt be a problem. So i trusted him. Afterwards he was caressing me and we were cuddling. The next morning we kissed, cuddled and ended up doing it again. Before he left my house we kissed and he told me hed see me later. Since we planned inviting my best friend and her bf. That night happened but he didnt spend the night. I didnt know how to act infront of his friends also since they were there. It wasnt awkward. If anything I felt more comfortable with him. ANYWAYS now that im done with the backstory. Lol. This is my actual question.

I am always late on these threads…I see you are getting a lot of heat on this thread, so maybe I can give you some insight Aries women to Aries women. Also, my companion is a mature, seasoned Bull!

1. In true Aries nature you are reacting to everything said to you...you have an excuse or reasoning for why you said and/or did something. Clearly, you are a young ram charging head first into everything you do. Start to exercise patience and think before you speak, it will prevent a lot of unnecessary challenges in your life (trust me I know). See, we Aries tend to react quick & ask questions later, this brings us many un-necessary challenges in our life. People in general love to get a RISE out of Aries, I am sure this rings true for other signs but it's something about us Aries, that once people see how reactive we are, they will use it for the weakness that it is. Learn that every word someone states about you or to you, doesn't need your excuse or justification.

2. As Aries, when we deal with love & adversities, we can get angry and react in a naive manner, which makes us appear emotionally unstable, insecure & un-intelligent! Count to 10, get a stress ball, do yoga…just work on that.

3. Slow your roll, and CALM DOWN, BE QUIET & LISTEN- I can read how anxious & insecure you are in general, not just with the Taurus man, and frankly with the Bull being insecure will not cut it! Most bulls are secure with their emotions & everything else in their life! Stability and Practicality are natural traits for them.

4. Your thread reads "Help with Taurus man" - Well, if you want the "Help" take heed to some of the advice/statements given and actually read & comprehend what some are telling you. Instead, you are going back & fourth in true Aries fashion by the way...justifying your own words, and making yourself appear needy and hyper! I only say this, hence I am a true first Deacan Aries woman...I have all the good/bad traits however, I work on myself in various ways to grow. This will also take some life experiences and age to settle down.

5. In regards to your Bull - With stating all of the above you are truly not ready for a bull on NO level! A Taurus man & Aries woman relationship is possible however, the Aries woman must be able to submit to the bull in certain ways. Certain ways meaning, respecting the authority that comes natural with the bull, learning how to communicate with the bull...the bull chooses his words with much thought & intelligence, they speak few words, but the words are always practical & of substance. See, being an Aries woman we are naturally independent & assertive by nature, and it takes a special kind of man to "tame" us in a sense. This has to be done in a manner that is charming & respectful...and in my experience only the Taurus Male & Leo Male have been able to achieve that level with me. Taurus more so than Leo, because the Bull has that earthy appeal that when truly need, the Aries will appreciate, and

Only then will she appreciate it, when she is truly ready… Ready is being humble, vulnerable, being able to be that warm, comfortable place that the Taurus bull wants to call home! Being understanding, naturally sweet & feisty and just a certain way that you will melt in his presence, when the bull is being the Asshole that he can be, just give him that look of lust & fire and he plays it off with teasing you...little stuff like that is how you will know if you are ready to submit.

I will stop here and say, you have a lot of growing to do. But in the meantime, take a chill, listen & observe before you jump head first with another Bull! Hopefully there is another...the Taurus & Aries relationship can strive if you let it, but the bull will be very cautious of you in your current state! And understand that when you get a bull, you truly only get one good shot! At least in my experience! Good Luck in all that you do!

^^ This woman is speaking truths right here