Posted by phoenixrisesOP - I don't think anyone cares at this point; we've found more interesting reasons to argue amongst ourselves...lol. Slightly slooty story though, overall, IMO...I give it a a 6 out of 10 on the sloot scale.
honestly I didn't expect this much response... bows down. The point is. ... I KISSED A TAURUS AND I LOVED IT !!!!! pity he is taken. I was just having some fun. It's DECEMBER BOSS. .. No
harm 4 me having some lip service done.
And that's my point. ...
FULL STOP
Posted by NevermoreAbsolutely!Posted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioOh, lookie here. A woman who cried sexism. I knew your delusional feminist tendency would show at some point. I hate to tell you but it is what it is: the biological make up is different and that's as simple as im going to put it. If you have a hard time accepting it, then that's your problem. Men should be loyal but it's unfortunate that they don't know how to be. It has to do with opportunity. Sure, there are exceptions but very rare in the case of men.Posted by aquarius09Enlighten me Aquarius, wise herald of the New Age. Pour out the waters of renewal from your deep wells of wisdom. Lead us down the path to open-minded equality, acceptance, and freedom by way of your aunt's blatant sexism.Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioI feel sorry for your naïveté. LOLPosted by aquarius09He won't take it because he loves his wife, is loyal to her, has integrity, etc. I feel sorry for you and your aunt if this is your view of men.Posted by ScenicIt's the title of this thread that makes her sound like a whore. She used the word cheat. Also, the title makes her sound trashy like she got some honourable man to cheat on his gf. First, he's not honourable and second, it doesn't take a lot to make a man cheat on his wife/gf. As my aunt says, if a woman opens her legs wide in front of a man face, why won't he take it?
Eh, I don't really see the issue, here. She didn't know he had a gf and it doesn't sound like there was even sex involved. Making out with a stranger doesn't make someone a whore or slut, in my books. Sounds like OP may be younger and up for some fun. Although, I'll agree that I don't see much of a point to OP posting this.
Same goes with female who should be loyal too and it's also unfortunate that they don't know how to be.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09jealous of what?Posted by jeaneHere comes the jealous libra. I never once said anything about every man wanting to sleep with me. LOL. Your comments are usually catty and lame. I don't even know why I bother with you.
i wouldn't take anything aqua09 says in this department seriously. she thinks every man secretly wants to fuck her.
i'm not sure if it is a cultural thing...i was brought up hearing very similar things. it's all based in misogyny though. it allows the men to get away with practically anything (cheating, flirting, disregarding their partners feeling and ignoring their personhood) while also demonising women and controlling their sexuality.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09delusional feminist tendency? 😆
Oh, lookie here. A woman who cried sexism. I knew your delusional feminist tendency would show at some point. I hate to tell you but it is what it is: the biological make up is different and that's as simple as im going to put it. If you have a hard time accepting it, then that's your problem. Men should be loyal but it's unfortunate that they don't know how to be. It has to do with opportunity. Sure, there are exceptions but very rare in the case of men.
Posted by DMVDefinitely
The only gripe i have with the OP, is her username. its too similar to another user. a better user
Posted by jeaneJeane, I think it must be a cultural thing..... if I remember correctly, aqua09 is still a virgin even she is 25ish..... so it must be a cultural thing and its a pity somewhere woman are still so repressed...
i wouldn't take anything aqua09 says in this department seriously. she thinks every man secretly wants to fuck her.
i'm not sure if it is a cultural thing...i was brought up hearing very similar things. it's all based in misogyny though. it allows the men to get away with practically anything (cheating, flirting, disregarding their partners feeling and ignoring their personhood) while also demonising women and controlling their sexuality.
Posted by Pandora101at the risk of being called islamaphobic, it is not an unknown belief amongst certain circles in islam.
* not that is anything wrong with beeing a virgin at 25 or any age, mind you! just paired with this unhealthy view of man as Aqua09 and her female part of family think of man is repressed...
Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
Posted by Pandora101Look at all the assumptions and projections. Just cause you come from some narrow minded culture, doesn't mean I do too or that my beliefs are derived from my culture. I'm a virgin for reasons wayyyy above culture. If you wanna discuss my culture, I will tell you how sexialized it is and that if I wanted, I could've disposed of my virginity a long time ago. 😉Posted by jeaneJeane, I think it must be a cultural thing..... if I remember correctly, aqua09 is still a virgin even she is 25ish..... so it must be a cultural thing and its a pity somewhere woman are still so repressed...
i wouldn't take anything aqua09 says in this department seriously. she thinks every man secretly wants to fuck her.
i'm not sure if it is a cultural thing...i was brought up hearing very similar things. it's all based in misogyny though. it allows the men to get away with practically anything (cheating, flirting, disregarding their partners feeling and ignoring their personhood) while also demonising women and controlling their sexuality.click to expand
Posted by jeaneThank you for all of this. Now I can tell you what you're jealous of. You're an airhead trying to be smart. Smart chicks get your green eyed monster out. BtW, all that crap you've written is just that; crap. No knowledge of Islam whatsoever. Tsk tsk tsk.Posted by Pandora101at the risk of being called islamaphobic, it is not an unknown belief amongst certain circles in islam.
* not that is anything wrong with beeing a virgin at 25 or any age, mind you! just paired with this unhealthy view of man as Aqua09 and her female part of family think of man is repressed...
having brushed the outskirts of the religion in my upbringing, i heard it there as well.
in australia, about a decade ago, there were several horrific rapes committed by a gang of young lebanese boys who specifically targeted young white australian girls. it resulted in terrible rioting and lots of damage between muslim and non-muslim relations in the country.
anyway, at the time here is what one muslim leader said...
from here (http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/muslim-leader-blames-women-for-sex-attacks/story-e6frg6nf-1111112419114)
""If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat?
"The uncovered meat is the problem."
The sheik then said: "If she was in her room, in her home, in her hijab, no problem would have occurred."
He said women were "weapons" used by "Satan" to control men.
"It is said in the state of zina (adultery), the responsibility falls 90 per cent of the time on the woman. Why? Because she possesses the weapon of enticement (igraa)."click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.click to expand
Posted by jeaneAt best you're a fine example of the dumbasses that media manipulates so easily into believing what they want you to believe. No critical thinking skills whatsoever. No research/initiative taken on your own to learn. Embarrassment to a libra, which is said to be intellectual.Posted by Pandora101at the risk of being called islamaphobic, it is not an unknown belief amongst certain circles in islam.
* not that is anything wrong with beeing a virgin at 25 or any age, mind you! just paired with this unhealthy view of man as Aqua09 and her female part of family think of man is repressed...
having brushed the outskirts of the religion in my upbringing, i heard it there as well.
in australia, about a decade ago, there were several horrific rapes committed by a gang of young lebanese boys who specifically targeted young white australian girls. it resulted in terrible rioting and lots of damage between muslim and non-muslim relations in the country.
anyway, at the time here is what one muslim leader said...
from here (http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/muslim-leader-blames-women-for-sex-attacks/story-e6frg6nf-1111112419114)
""If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat?
"The uncovered meat is the problem."
The sheik then said: "If she was in her room, in her home, in her hijab, no problem would have occurred."
He said women were "weapons" used by "Satan" to control men.
"It is said in the state of zina (adultery), the responsibility falls 90 per cent of the time on the woman. Why? Because she possesses the weapon of enticement (igraa)."click to expand
Posted by aquarius09you deny he said it?Posted by jeaneThank you for all of this. Now I can tell you what you're jealous of. You're an airhead trying to be smart. Smart chicks get your green eyed monster out. BtW, all that crap you've written is just that; crap. No knowledge of Islam whatsoever. Tsk tsk tsk.Posted by Pandora101at the risk of being called islamaphobic, it is not an unknown belief amongst certain circles in islam.
* not that is anything wrong with beeing a virgin at 25 or any age, mind you! just paired with this unhealthy view of man as Aqua09 and her female part of family think of man is repressed...
having brushed the outskirts of the religion in my upbringing, i heard it there as well.
in australia, about a decade ago, there were several horrific rapes committed by a gang of young lebanese boys who specifically targeted young white australian girls. it resulted in terrible rioting and lots of damage between muslim and non-muslim relations in the country.
anyway, at the time here is what one muslim leader said...
from here (http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/muslim-leader-blames-women-for-sex-attacks/story-e6frg6nf-1111112419114)
""If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat?
"The uncovered meat is the problem."
The sheik then said: "If she was in her room, in her home, in her hijab, no problem would have occurred."
He said women were "weapons" used by "Satan" to control men.
"It is said in the state of zina (adultery), the responsibility falls 90 per cent of the time on the woman. Why? Because she possesses the weapon of enticement (igraa)."click to expand
Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.click to expand
Posted by jeaneYou have to come at me with actual knowledge of Islam, not what your airhead picked up from media or what some delusional sheikh said, because he shared his PERSONAL view on the matter. Just like my aunt shared her PERSONAL view on the matter. My aunt's point of the comment went over your head but her viewpoint wasn't based in culture or religion. Her comment had nothing to do with either. I don't know how you made that about religion and culture.Posted by aquarius09you deny he said it?Posted by jeaneThank you for all of this. Now I can tell you what you're jealous of. You're an airhead trying to be smart. Smart chicks get your green eyed monster out. BtW, all that crap you've written is just that; crap. No knowledge of Islam whatsoever. Tsk tsk tsk.Posted by Pandora101at the risk of being called islamaphobic, it is not an unknown belief amongst certain circles in islam.
* not that is anything wrong with beeing a virgin at 25 or any age, mind you! just paired with this unhealthy view of man as Aqua09 and her female part of family think of man is repressed...
having brushed the outskirts of the religion in my upbringing, i heard it there as well.
in australia, about a decade ago, there were several horrific rapes committed by a gang of young lebanese boys who specifically targeted young white australian girls. it resulted in terrible rioting and lots of damage between muslim and non-muslim relations in the country.
anyway, at the time here is what one muslim leader said...
from here (http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/muslim-leader-blames-women-for-sex-attacks/story-e6frg6nf-1111112419114)
""If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat?
"The uncovered meat is the problem."
The sheik then said: "If she was in her room, in her home, in her hijab, no problem would have occurred."
He said women were "weapons" used by "Satan" to control men.
"It is said in the state of zina (adultery), the responsibility falls 90 per cent of the time on the woman. Why? Because she possesses the weapon of enticement (igraa)."click to expand
Posted by Pandora101I'm not taking this personal at all. If I were, I'd actually educate both of you. The mere fact I don't care to shows I don't care. I'm allergic to ignorance and dumbness and you and Jeane just showcased a lot of dumbness going off your assumptions. You made my aunt's comment or my viewpoint about culture and religion, which shows your ignorance. If I actually told you how unrelated it is to culture and religion you'd feel stupid. I find you embarrassing for an aqua. I will not accept hugs from someone im allergic to.Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
regardless of faith or religion, not all the man are pigs, believe us..... sending hugs and kisses (from a fellow aqua)click to expand
Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
Posted by aquarius09ok, ok, your aunt's comment wasn't formed by her religion or culture, she is just plain ignorant.
You have to come at me with actual knowledge of Islam, not what your airhead picked up from media or what some delusional sheikh said, because he shared his PERSONAL view on the matter. Just like my aunt shared her PERSONAL view on the matter. My aunt's point of the comment went over your head but her viewpoint wasn't based in culture or religion. Her comment had nothing to do with either. I don't know how you made that about religion and culture.
Posted by jeaneBut you are stupid and that can be seen in what you came back with. You came with a sheikh's personal opinion to represent what Islam says about the matter. Aww, still holding a grudge over being called an atrentionwhore. I knew it! Your catty comments were coming from somewhere. You enjoy sexual innuendos at work from random guys and found something wrong with me taking an offence, hence you are the atrentionwhore.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
see, that is the difference between you and me - if i don't know enough to substantiate a claim i won't say it but you call me jealous, stupid and what was the other one? ah yes, an attention whore based on little else besides a different opinion to yours.click to expand
Posted by jeaneCalling my aunt ignorant now. Look who is calling names now. I have no problem with you calling me or even her names but make sure you don't cry about it when I do it to you 😉 hypocrisy is never a good look.Posted by aquarius09ok, ok, your aunt's comment wasn't formed by her religion or culture, she is just plain ignorant.
You have to come at me with actual knowledge of Islam, not what your airhead picked up from media or what some delusional sheikh said, because he shared his PERSONAL view on the matter. Just like my aunt shared her PERSONAL view on the matter. My aunt's point of the comment went over your head but her viewpoint wasn't based in culture or religion. Her comment had nothing to do with either. I don't know how you made that about religion and culture.click to expand
Posted by jeaneOh, but you don't know about Islam either yet you came with that Sheikh's example to speak about Islam and its views on women/sex. You opened your mouth on that so I wouldn't be surprised if I see you opening your mouth on IsIS and Islam somewhere down the line.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
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Posted by aquarius09i came back with an example that substantiates what i personally have been told and witnessed in my life.Posted by jeaneBut you are stupid and that can be seen in what you came back with. You came with a sheikh's personal opinion to represent what Islam says about the matter. Aww, still holding a grudge over being called an atrentionwhore. I knew it! Your catty comments were coming from somewhere. You enjoy sexual innuendos at work from random guys and found something wrong with me taking an offence, hence you are the atrentionwhore.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
see, that is the difference between you and me - if i don't know enough to substantiate a claim i won't say it but you call me jealous, stupid and what was the other one? ah yes, an attention whore based on little else besides a different opinion to yours.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09not a name, a claim. if her opinions are not based on culture, or religion (and i don't see why not as most people's opinions are formed that way) and she has little empirical proof to substantiate her accusation (i'm guessing she is not an preeminent sociologist in the field of gender studies - but i could be wrong) and as we have anecdotal evidence from men in the forum to attest that this isn't the case then the conclusion i've reached is she is ignorant.Posted by jeaneCalling my aunt ignorant now. Look who is calling names now. I have no problem with you calling me or even her names but make sure you don't cry about it when I do it to you 😉 hypocrisy is never a good look.Posted by aquarius09ok, ok, your aunt's comment wasn't formed by her religion or culture, she is just plain ignorant.
You have to come at me with actual knowledge of Islam, not what your airhead picked up from media or what some delusional sheikh said, because he shared his PERSONAL view on the matter. Just like my aunt shared her PERSONAL view on the matter. My aunt's point of the comment went over your head but her viewpoint wasn't based in culture or religion. Her comment had nothing to do with either. I don't know how you made that about religion and culture.click to expand
Posted by jeaneYou remember things which you tend to take out of context shows grudge holding. My God, I don't remember half the things people say to me. You do, sign of grudge holding. Secondly, I wasn't making an argument in that post. I was venting. You found nothing wrong with it and thought I was blowing things out of proportion and that I should just laugh it off. That was utterly atrentionwhore like and I said it how I found it. Don't be butthurt if I don't approve of your atrentionwhorish take on sexual innuendos from co workers.Posted by aquarius09i came back with an example that substantiates what i personally have been told and witnessed in my life.Posted by jeaneBut you are stupid and that can be seen in what you came back with. You came with a sheikh's personal opinion to represent what Islam says about the matter. Aww, still holding a grudge over being called an atrentionwhore. I knew it! Your catty comments were coming from somewhere. You enjoy sexual innuendos at work from random guys and found something wrong with me taking an offence, hence you are the atrentionwhore.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
see, that is the difference between you and me - if i don't know enough to substantiate a claim i won't say it but you call me jealous, stupid and what was the other one? ah yes, an attention whore based on little else besides a different opinion to yours.
i brought up attention whore because you have along history of calling me names when an argument fails you.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09no, i know a little about islam (enough to be dangerous 😉) but i don't know much about isis, their tenets and beliefs.Posted by jeaneOh, but you don't know about Islam either yet you came with that Sheikh's example to speak about Islam and its views on women/sex. You opened your mouth on that so I wouldn't be surprised if I see you opening your mouth on IsIS and Islam somewhere down the line.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
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Posted by NevermoreThat's great! Think whatever you want. You promoting dumb behaviour speaks volumes.Posted by aquarius09Lol, I can see already denying right there. you were total attacking on someone and quite defensive. That is taking personal for an huge ego.Posted by Pandora101I'm not taking this personal at all. If I were, I'd actually educate both of you. The mere fact I don't care to shows I don't care. I'm allergic to ignorance and dumbness and you and Jeane just showcased a lot of dumbness going off your assumptions. You made my aunt's comment or my viewpoint about culture and religion, which shows your ignorance. If I actually told you how unrelated it is to culture and religion you'd feel stupid. I find you embarrassing for an aqua. I will not accept hugs from someone im allergic to.Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
regardless of faith or religion, not all the man are pigs, believe us..... sending hugs and kisses (from a fellow aqua)click to expand
Posted by jeanePfft. Yeah right. Be it cultural or religious, you assumed all the way.Posted by aquarius09no, i know a little about islam (enough to be dangerous 😉) but i don't know much about isis, their tenets and beliefs.Posted by jeaneOh, but you don't know about Islam either yet you came with that Sheikh's example to speak about Islam and its views on women/sex. You opened your mouth on that so I wouldn't be surprised if I see you opening your mouth on IsIS and Islam somewhere down the line.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
and anyway, i said it was cultural, not religious.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09do you know what attention whore means? sorry, is english not your first language? i didn't realise.
You remember things which you tend to take out of context shows grudge holding. My God, I don't remember half the things people say to me. You do, sign of grudge holding. Secondly, I wasn't making an argument in that post. I was venting. You found nothing wrong with it and thought I was blowing things out of proportion and that I should just laugh it off. That was utterly atrentionwhore like and I said it how I found it. Don't be butthurt if I don't approve of your atrentionwhorish take on sexual innuendos from co workers.
Posted by aquarius09hmmm, no. i don't think i did.Posted by jeanePfft. Yeah right. Be it cultural or religious, you assumed all the way.Posted by aquarius09no, i know a little about islam (enough to be dangerous 😉) but i don't know much about isis, their tenets and beliefs.Posted by jeaneOh, but you don't know about Islam either yet you came with that Sheikh's example to speak about Islam and its views on women/sex. You opened your mouth on that so I wouldn't be surprised if I see you opening your mouth on IsIS and Islam somewhere down the line.Posted by aquarius09i don't know enough about isis to make that claim.
I'm laughing at the example you used to describe Islam or even what it stands for or how it views women/sex. So lemme guess you believe ISIS represents Islam and its tenets?
and anyway, i said it was cultural, not religious.click to expand
Posted by jeaneOh Jeane, I'm gonna simplify some shit for you. Considering men to be cheaters or prone to cheating is not a matter of being ignorant or not. It's a perception. It can be a good perception or bad one. Her perception is based on her experiences. My aunt is married to a Taurus man(which is the irony) and he cheated on her his entire life. Kept a diary and wrote all about his conquests. She found the diary very late in their marriage and caught him red handed too. The point is simple. People make comments about a gender's propensity for something based on their experiences. Her thinking that men are cheaters is her experience or what she has seen her friend's husbands doing as well. It doesn't make her ignorant for thinking that. This is not a matter of ignorance because it doesn't require any knowledge.Posted by aquarius09not a name, a claim. if her opinions are not based on culture, or religion (and i don't see why not as most people's opinions are formed that way) and she has little empirical proof to substantiate her accusation (i'm guessing she is not an preeminent sociologist in the field of gender studies - but i could be wrong) and as we have anecdotal evidence from men in the forum to attest that this isn't the case then the conclusion i've reached is she is ignorant.Posted by jeaneCalling my aunt ignorant now. Look who is calling names now. I have no problem with you calling me or even her names but make sure you don't cry about it when I do it to you 😉 hypocrisy is never a good look.Posted by aquarius09ok, ok, your aunt's comment wasn't formed by her religion or culture, she is just plain ignorant.
You have to come at me with actual knowledge of Islam, not what your airhead picked up from media or what some delusional sheikh said, because he shared his PERSONAL view on the matter. Just like my aunt shared her PERSONAL view on the matter. My aunt's point of the comment went over your head but her viewpoint wasn't based in culture or religion. Her comment had nothing to do with either. I don't know how you made that about religion and culture.
using the dictionary definition
ignorant
See definition in Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary
Line breaks: ig¦nor|ant
Pronunciation: /ˈɪɡn(ə)r(ə)nt/
Definition of ignorant in English:
adjective
1.1 Lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about something in particular:
no if she is a highly recognised expert in this field i'd be very happy to read her studies.click to expand
Posted by aquarius09just one person, who i normal, can make a difference, believe me....... I am from Europe and I am happy not to share your views, and I could be worried to meet views like yours after the last half year situation, you know....... but I wish you to be more human, not attacking, just share wisdom, you know? Maybe if more of you would think normally, we would not be so afraid to receive you? If you believe, all man are pigs, I hope you never come to Europe 🙂 🙂Posted by Pandora101I'm not taking this personal at all. If I were, I'd actually educate both of you. The mere fact I don't care to shows I don't care. I'm allergic to ignorance and dumbness and you and Jeane just showcased a lot of dumbness going off your assumptions. You made my aunt's comment or my viewpoint about culture and religion, which shows your ignorance. If I actually told you how unrelated it is to culture and religion you'd feel stupid. I find you embarrassing for an aqua. I will not accept hugs from someone im allergic to.Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
regardless of faith or religion, not all the man are pigs, believe us..... sending hugs and kisses (from a fellow aqua)click to expand
Posted by jeaneYou clearly don't. The best part is that someone with poor writing skills is asking me that question.Posted by aquarius09do you know what attention whore means? sorry, is english not your first language? i didn't realise.
You remember things which you tend to take out of context shows grudge holding. My God, I don't remember half the things people say to me. You do, sign of grudge holding. Secondly, I wasn't making an argument in that post. I was venting. You found nothing wrong with it and thought I was blowing things out of proportion and that I should just laugh it off. That was utterly atrentionwhore like and I said it how I found it. Don't be butthurt if I don't approve of your atrentionwhorish take on sexual innuendos from co workers.click to expand
Posted by Pandora101Posted by aquarius09just one person, who i normal, can make a difference, believe me....... I am from Europe and I am happy not to share your views, and I could be worried to meet views like yours after the last half year situation, you know....... but I wish you to be more human, not attacking, just share wisdom, you know? Maybe if more of you would think normally, we would not be so afraid to receive you? If you believe, all man are pigs, I hope you never come to Europe 🙂 🙂Posted by Pandora101I'm not taking this personal at all. If I were, I'd actually educate both of you. The mere fact I don't care to shows I don't care. I'm allergic to ignorance and dumbness and you and Jeane just showcased a lot of dumbness going off your assumptions. You made my aunt's comment or my viewpoint about culture and religion, which shows your ignorance. If I actually told you how unrelated it is to culture and religion you'd feel stupid. I find you embarrassing for an aqua. I will not accept hugs from someone im allergic to.Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
regardless of faith or religion, not all the man are pigs, believe us..... sending hugs and kisses (from a fellow aqua)click to expand
Posted by aquarius09men cheat. women cheat. where you went wrong was when you said "it doesn't take a lot to make a man cheat on his wife/gf. as my aunt said etc etc etc"
Oh Jeane, I'm gonna simplify some shit for you. Considering men to be cheaters or prone to cheating is not a matter of being ignorant or not. It's a perception. It can be a good perception or bad one. Her perception is based on her experiences. My aunt is married to a Taurus man(which is the irony) and he cheated on her his entire life. Kept a diary and wrote all about his conquests. She found the diary very late in their marriage and caught him red handed too. The point is simple. People make comments about a gender's propensity for something based on their experiences. Her thinking that men are cheaters is her experience or what she has seen her friend's husbands doing as well. It doesn't make her ignorant for thinking that. This is not a matter of ignorance because it doesn't require any knowledge.
Posted by aquarius09is that yes? or no?Posted by jeaneYou clearly don't. The best part is that someone with poor writing skills is asking me that question.Posted by aquarius09do you know what attention whore means? sorry, is english not your first language? i didn't realise.
You remember things which you tend to take out of context shows grudge holding. My God, I don't remember half the things people say to me. You do, sign of grudge holding. Secondly, I wasn't making an argument in that post. I was venting. You found nothing wrong with it and thought I was blowing things out of proportion and that I should just laugh it off. That was utterly atrentionwhore like and I said it how I found it. Don't be butthurt if I don't approve of your atrentionwhorish take on sexual innuendos from co workers.click to expand
Posted by jeaneIt's an opinion and if you can't shallow it then you need a thicker skin or get off dxp. You took that comment pretty badly and started to ASSUme that it must be because of culture or religion. Which is where I got allergic to you and your response. You already know I'm intolerant of idiotic responses and people. If you still so butthurt over my calling you attentionwhore then keep your ignorance to yourself and don't irritate me by responding to my posts. Because then I rightfully call you over the dumb shit you say and you whine about how I'm resorting to name calling. Whereas if u just kept your dumb comments to yourself, you wouldn't have irritated me. I don't like my comments being taken out of context or people assuming nonsense.Posted by aquarius09men cheat. women cheat. where you went wrong was when you said "it doesn't take a lot to make a man cheat on his wife/gf. as my aunt said etc etc etc"
Oh Jeane, I'm gonna simplify some shit for you. Considering men to be cheaters or prone to cheating is not a matter of being ignorant or not. It's a perception. It can be a good perception or bad one. Her perception is based on her experiences. My aunt is married to a Taurus man(which is the irony) and he cheated on her his entire life. Kept a diary and wrote all about his conquests. She found the diary very late in their marriage and caught him red handed too. The point is simple. People make comments about a gender's propensity for something based on their experiences. Her thinking that men are cheaters is her experience or what she has seen her friend's husbands doing as well. It doesn't make her ignorant for thinking that. This is not a matter of ignorance because it doesn't require any knowledge.
it may not have taken your uncle a lot to cheat (or maybe it did, who knows) and again based on his age, his relationship with your aunt, his upbringing or any number of variables you cannot then tar a whole gender with the same brush to make sweeping and somewhat offensive statements.
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Posted by Infinite8Posted by aquarius09😕 UuuuummmPosted by NevermoreThat's great! Think whatever you want. You promoting dumb behaviour speaks volumes.Posted by aquarius09Lol, I can see already denying right there. you were total attacking on someone and quite defensive. That is taking personal for an huge ego.Posted by Pandora101I'm not taking this personal at all. If I were, I'd actually educate both of you. The mere fact I don't care to shows I don't care. I'm allergic to ignorance and dumbness and you and Jeane just showcased a lot of dumbness going off your assumptions. You made my aunt's comment or my viewpoint about culture and religion, which shows your ignorance. If I actually told you how unrelated it is to culture and religion you'd feel stupid. I find you embarrassing for an aqua. I will not accept hugs from someone im allergic to.Posted by aquarius09Aqua09, it is not funny, believe me, we dont find this funny at all and you shouldnt as well...... I am ignorant of all these things, what is involved in beeing normal in your culture..... but you are an aqua, please, let the things in..... neither me or jeane mean to do harm..... just try to understand, that it is not that easy for us to understand this.... please, dont get offended and dont be desperate - if you try (you are on dxp after all! ) it mean you are interested in other peoples views, like any Aqua would be.....Posted by Pandora101Exactly! You don't know. You're just assuming and making a total ass of yourself along with Jeane. This is actually really funny to me.Posted by jeaneI know what you mean, it is common in Europe as well (the rapist attacks and blaming woman in certain communities), but can you imagine what can Aqua09 suffer, if she is really a part of this community? we dont know, just assuming, but if she is a real aquarius, she must suffer from this crazy views, know what I mean?
now, i'm not saying that aqua09 thinks that women who don't wear a hijab deserve to be raped or anything like that but you can see how her aunt's take is a lesser version of this.
regardless of faith or religion, not all the man are pigs, believe us..... sending hugs and kisses (from a fellow aqua)click to expand
Posted by Infinite8LOL @ Jeane debating pretty strongly. Yeah, snoozing on that.Posted by aquarius09Butthurt?!?! You can believe what you wish.
@infinite8That's not promoting dumb behaviour. That's my personal Opinion. You don't have to believe it. LOL and you most certainly don't need to get butthurt over it. I didn't say your man will cheat on you. Lol
I'm just saying that you are not making your point and you are contradicting yourself. You are also taking everything personal. Jeane is debating pretty strongly, but your rebuttals are coming off as immature and they are lacking real substance. Just a whole lot of name calling. It's numbing really... Snoozeclick to expand
Posted by aquarius09Im just asking you to act normal....... I understand, you are frustrated, but your behaviour is not helping, you know? not helping to understand that there can be some human opinions regardless of faith? I tried to be civil after your attacks and I am still beeing civil........ just calm down, will you? this is not how to solve problems, both sides have to be civil and have some humanity, not just attacking....... you know, you are representing some community or/and religion, and it would be more helpful for us others to understand, if you would not act so agressive....... sorry
Ignorant European at its finest! Go pick up a book and read rather than asking a dxper to educate you or forming your views on a race/religion based on your interaction with an online person. Imagine if I started perceiving Europeans based on the way you portrayed yourself. That would be pretty sad and my trip to Italy would be cancelled.
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