@VenusStar
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Of the current state of my life. I have no job and no prospects. I cant support myself and not sure what to do next.
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.
Posted by VenusStar
Of the current state of my life. I have no job and no prospects. I cant support myself and not sure what to do next.
First of all. Don't give up.
Are you applying for jobs and just not having any luck?
I thought you got a job?
Posted by DMV
I thought you got a job?
Lol. I did at a call center for 12 weeks and then they lost their contract.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by VenusStar
Of the current state of my life. I have no job and no prospects. I cant support myself and not sure what to do next.First of all. Don't give up.
Are you applying for jobs and just not having any luck?
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Im applying but no luck as of yet.
I did get a call from a life insurance company but it was for a 100% comission job. No bueno.
Im using indeed.com mostly and local agencies but ill have to change tactics
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.
Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyway which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by VenusStar
Of the current state of my life. I have no job and no prospects. I cant support myself and not sure what to do next.First of all. Don't give up.
Are you applying for jobs and just not having any luck?
Im applying but no luck as of yet.
I did get a call from a life insurance company but it was for a 100% comission job. No bueno.
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Don't give up. If you not already doing so, look for something outside your area of expertise. That way you at least have something till you get the job you really want.
I hope you find something soon x
Posted by VenusStar
Im using indeed.com mostly and local agencies but ill have to change tactics
Stick with the employment agencies-- I've done
it myself, several times, and it works.
Thats how they make their money.
Be willing to do temp work, as well.
Stay active with them.
Whatever just keep going... get a part time job
at a little store in your area while you're looking.
Like Starbucks or something.
You'll FEEL so much better.
Posted by VenusStar
Im using indeed.com mostly and local agencies but ill have to change tacticsI know Craigslist can be sketchy, but that's where I got ALL my jobs, good ones too
Don't give up and you will find something for sure.
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i live in s major city. Craigslist isnt the best option. Sadly.
Posted by VenusStar
Im using indeed.com mostly and local agencies but ill have to change tacticsStick with the employment agencies-- I've done
it myself, several times, and it works.
Thats how they make their money.
Be willing to do temp work, as well.
Stay active with them.
Whatever just keep going... get a part time job
at a little store in your area while you're looking.
Like Starbucks or something.
You'll FEEL so much better.
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Im looking up agencies i havent gone do try and see if i can find a way. I dont go out because i dont want to be the broke friend.
Im the same...lm a cancer and l'm just useles....
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
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You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
Actually im worse than you...than everybody
I REFUSE TO ENTER 2017 UNEMPLOYED. ILL HUSTLE GHE NEXT FEW WEEKS SO THAT I CAN HAVE. I MIGHT EVEN APPLY FOR A RETAIL JOB COME MONEY. NOT CUTE TO BE BROKE PAST TWENTIES.
Posted by bricklemark
Actually im worse than you...than everybody
Youre not homeless your fine. Feeling panicky. I dont want to heblike this for long.
Posted by VenusStar
I REFUSE TO ENTER 2017 UNEMPLOYED. ILL HUSTLE GHE NEXT FEW WEEKS SO THAT I CAN HAVE. I MIGHT EVEN APPLY FOR A RETAIL JOB COME MONEY. NOT CUTE TO BE BROKE PAST TWENTIES.
Is there a general job opportunity problem in city or country u stay ?
Posted by bricklemark
Actually im worse than you...than everybodyYoure not homeless your fine. Feeling panicky. I dont want to heblike this for long.
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are you going to be out of a home? 😕
just take it easy if you live with your parents, and get a part time somewhere, even maybe cooking or burgerking or mc donalds or something. they're always hiring.
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
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cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
click to expand
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
click to expand
What do you mean ?
Posted by bricklemark
Actually im worse than you...than everybodyYoure not homeless your fine. Feeling panicky. I dont want to heblike this for long.
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How do you know? Im not...but...anyway lm not scared of poverty, lm scared of the gov.
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
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😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
What do you mean ?
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😛
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
click to expand
Haha
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
click to expand
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
click to expand
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
click to expand
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
click to expand
I have so many sag in my chart including moon and rising. I guess that doesnt let me be realistic
Yeah population. On job board 200 application will submit resune for one job. I dontvhave any license thatcwiuld give me exclusuvity ( i.e. pharmacist) field i didxworknin is small and always downsizing.
Posted by Virgofem
I don't know if the site has jobs in your country, if out of U.S., but idealist.org is a good site.
Thnx forgot about thatcsite ill try again
I wakecupvwith a bad feeling for tge past few montgs feelinf worthless and with no purpose.
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
I have so many sag in my chart including moon and rising. I guess that doesnt let me be realistic
click to expand
really? you remind me of this really sweet married lady long ago on this site, who is from Denmark, double cap near the Sagittarius cusp with aqua venus and sag mars and she is married to a stellium leo 8th houser. with aqua moon.
you're kind of like her. except not in Europe, not married,not with children. lol
Posted by VenusStar
I wakecupvwith a bad feeling for tge past few montgs feelinf worthless and with no purpose.
where does the bad feelings come from?
have you tried to put a dreamcatcher??
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
I have so many sag in my chart including moon and rising. I guess that doesnt let me be realistic
really? you remind me of this really sweet married lady long ago on this site, who is from Denmark, double cap near the Sagittarius cusp with aqua venus and sag mars and she is married to a stellium leo 8th houser. with aqua moon.
you're kind of like her. except not in Europe, not married,not with children. lol
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I am married 🙂 to a leo with virgo moon ,venus & mars . No children yet & not in Europe yes .
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
I have so many sag in my chart including moon and rising. I guess that doesnt let me be realistic
really? you remind me of this really sweet married lady long ago on this site, who is from Denmark, double cap near the Sagittarius cusp with aqua venus and sag mars and she is married to a stellium leo 8th houser. with aqua moon.
you're kind of like her. except not in Europe, not married,not with children. lol
I am married 🙂 to a leo with virgo moon ,venus & mars . No children yet & not in Europe yes .
click to expand
ohmygosh!!! yay!!
I love married peeps!!
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
Yes cappy with aqua venus 🙂
Any significance of that ?
😆
harsh and cold!!! 😆
Haha
😛
might as well play it up. astrologers keep saying those two together make SNOW. 😄
heehee
In my imagination i love snow so i dont mind 🙂 . snow is beautiful
FYI i am not harsh and cold. Just practical with regards to few things . And absolutely opposite with regards to other few 🙂
more, realistic!! 😄
or some people say, cardboard!!!
but sexy cardboard.
I have so many sag in my chart including moon and rising. I guess that doesnt let me be realistic
really? you remind me of this really sweet married lady long ago on this site, who is from Denmark, double cap near the Sagittarius cusp with aqua venus and sag mars and she is married to a stellium leo 8th houser. with aqua moon.
you're kind of like her. except not in Europe, not married,not with children. lol
I am married 🙂 to a leo with virgo moon ,venus & mars . No children yet & not in Europe yes .
ohmygosh!!! yay!!
I love married peeps!!
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🙂
Posted by VenusStar
Yeah population. On job board 200 application will submit resune for one job. I dontvhave any license thatcwiuld give me exclusuvity ( i.e. pharmacist) field i didxworknin is small and always downsizing.
If you dont get something nice in your field, you can try something that would give you some form of stability. Jobs which are easily available . Or you can also look at moving to some other place..if that gives u a better opportunity .
Posted by VenusStar
I wakecupvwith a bad feeling for tge past few montgs feelinf worthless and with no purpose.click to expand
That feeling will not help you in anyway . Such negative feeling will also hamper your personality and which in turn will affect your chances of converting a job interview .
My suggestion also dont ever compare yourself with your friends . Live your life and work towards improving your situation independent of others around .
Id say sign up to every staffing agency, big or small.
Also, not sure if there is one in your city but there's a facebook group thats in my city dedicated to jobs in the area. People will post places thats hiring or you can ask about jobs.
Also being proactive by dropping off a copy of your CV at places to keep on record gets your foot in the door and will make you look like a go getter. If the company actually keeps it on file or not should not stop you from asking them to do it
my tips would be to go into every business you want to work in and see if there are any positions. don't wait for something to be advertised. if they already know you and have you in mind, they'll go straight to you rather than spend time on the interviewing process. if you are really determined, go into every business. if they don't have anything, ask them if they know anyone who might need you.
temping is great. it gets your foot in the door and many times permanent roles will come from it.
in the meantime, volunteer. it doesn't have to be a large number of hours, even 4 a week. it will get you out of the house and improve your confidence. it could be a charity shop, or working in a soup kitchen or volunteering in a hospital.
you'll also meet lots of people there and who knows, it might lead to a job and you'll be helping people at the same time, so win-win.
Posted by VenusStar
I have no real support system. No frirnds and i have family but they arent the sympathetic supportivr type and they dont really like me too much.Why do you need sympathetic support ? How old are u ? Get a job...how ever small or uninteresting it is. Its imp to always earn ur own money ..even if its not much .
Anyways which country are u from and whats ur qualifications?
You're such a cappy hahaha l love it.
cappy with aqua venus to boot. lol
What do you mean ?
😛
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You're a licker? Hawt !!! ??
For immediate cash look for something that earns tips. Waitresses can make decent money, especially during the holidays. Restaurants are always hiring. It will hold you over while you find something in your field.
Things will turn around. Don't give up.
Posted by VenusStar
I wakecupvwith a bad feeling for tge past few montgs feelinf worthless and with no purpose.where does the bad feelings come from?
have you tried to put a dreamcatcher??
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There are no bad dreams? just a bad feeling as soon as i wake up. That nothing will change.
Posted by lnana04
Id say sign up to every staffing agency, big or small.Also, not sure if there is one in your city but there's a facebook group thats in my city dedicated to jobs in the area. People will post places thats hiring or you can ask about jobs.
I can create an account and look for a group. Im sure i provably could find one.
Ur right i do compare myself to others. Everyone has a jobcand purpose.
Posted by VenusStar
Im using indeed.com mostly and local agencies but ill have to change tacticsI know Craigslist can be sketchy, but that's where I got ALL my jobs, good ones too
Don't give up and you will find something for sure.
i live in s major city. Craigslist isnt the best option. Sadly.
So do I. It's just a very dedicated art to get a job.
I spent 30 something days of sending out resumes and applications around the city, went to 4 interviews that ended nowhere until I took the worst job I could get and worked up from there
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I thunk this is going to be my plan .
Posted by andstill
i feel like life is pretty much all about willpowerlike whoever has the strongest will to manifest their desires wins
Life is super hard.
Posted by DMV
I thought you got a job?Lol. I did at a call center for 12 weeks and then they lost their contract.
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Dont give up!
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