Lack of Communication? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Leyla699 on Tuesday, January 13, 2015 and has 61 replies.

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@Roam
11 Years

Posted by Leyla699
I am going to let this one go. It isn't fair and I gave him no reason for him to be completely ignoring me. only one thing comes to mind. He's messing around and I know that may be my insecurity speaking, but its what I think when shit like this happens.

You're being insecure. There are all these posts saying this is normal Taurus behavior. They are very slow to open up. Relax.

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@Tauruslover18
7 Years

Mines never been big on txts at all now hes told me leave him alone does that mean it's over I've asked him to tel he if he doesn't want to c me no more n he hasnt been c in him 10 months slowly I have rushed him which I've apologised for n said I wont do it again I think sumfin wrong maybe at home we spoke at xmas n he said hed b in touch new yr then I msg him end of Jan n he said leave me alone il let u know when I want to c u I dont want to loose him what do I do I know ur not suppose to ignore them so do I msg or not

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Tauruslover18

Mines never been big on txts at all now hes told me leave him alone does that mean it's over I've asked him to tel he if he doesn't want to c me no more n he hasnt been c in him 10 months slowly I have rushed him which I've apologised for n said I wont do it again I think sumfin wrong maybe at home we spoke at xmas n he said hed b in touch new yr then I msg him end of Jan n he said leave me alone il let u know when I want to c u I dont want to loose him what do I do I know ur not suppose to ignore them so do I msg or not

you haven't seen him 10 months?

really, it's only polite to write clearly if you wish people to respond.

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@Tauruslover18
7 Years

Is it normal to not hear for 2 n half months he changed us to exclusive sexually n datin in Oct n saw him dec then msg over xmas n new yr said hed contact me in new yr n not heard nothin so end of jannie msg him n he said leave me alone il let u know when I can c u so left it few more wk wished him happy valentines day then few days later msg him i was sorry for rushin him n I've realised y the slow n il b patient n wait etc n if he doesnt want to c me anymore to tel me he didnt reply just said leave me alone so left it few more days and msg hope ur ok which he read never been this long to c in him usually its bout 5 wks cos he busy job to as a chef long hrs he read the hope ur ok but didnt reply hes readin them n hes not blocked me should I b worried please help I'm worried I've lost him been with him casual for 10 mths wanted relationship in start but went to fast for him so he pulled bk at 12 wks but we carried on seein each other

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@Tauruslover18
7 Years

Is it normal to not hear for 2 n half months he changed us to exclusive sexually n datin in Oct n saw him dec then msg over xmas n new yr said hed contact me in new yr n not heard nothin so end of jannie msg him n he said leave me alone il let u know when I can c u so left it few more wk wished him happy valentines day then few days later msg him i was sorry for rushin him n I've realised y the slow n il b patient n wait etc n if he doesnt want to c me anymore to tel me he didnt reply just said leave me alone so left it few more days and msg hope ur ok which he read never been this long to c in him usually its bout 5 wks cos he busy job to as a chef long hrs he read the hope ur ok but didnt reply hes readin them n hes not blocked me should I b worried please help I'm worried I've lost him been with him casual for 10 mths wanted relationship in start but went to fast for him so he pulled bk at 12 wks but we carried on seein each other

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@Tauruslover18
7 Years

Is it normal to not hear for 2 n half months he changed us to exclusive sexually n datin in Oct n saw him dec then msg over xmas n new yr said hed contact me in new yr n not heard nothin so end of jan I msg him n he said leave me alone il let u know when I can c u so left it few more wk wished him happy valentines day then few days later msg him i was sorry for rushin him n I've realised y the slow n il b patient n wait etc n if he doesnt want to c me anymore to tel me he didnt reply just said leave me alone so left it few more days and msg hope ur ok which he read never been this long to c in him usually its bout 5 wks cos he busy job to as a chef long hrs he read the hope ur ok but didnt reply hes readin them n hes not blocked me should I b worried please help I'm worried I've lost him been with him casual for 10 mths wanted relationship in start but went to fast for him so he pulled bk at 12 wks but we carried on seein each other

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@tauruss77
7 Years

I always distance myself/go MIA from time to time. I dont like texting either, i like in person conversation only lol. It has nothing to do with you, just be patient. If hes making an effort for you, and you guys are good, then you're good.

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@EveryOunce
9 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Leyla699

Is it normal for a taurus man to not communicate on a regular basis? I see him on the weekends but I don't hear from him during the week. Is this typical behavior?

Hell no... this is not typical behavior of any man who claims he wants to get to know you.

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by UntamedLeo

If he's making the time and effort to see you regularly, I wouldn't think you have anything to worry about. Tauruses are independent and are pretty good at balancing time for themselves/friends/family/work etc. as well as their romantic interests/SO's.

If you miss him and want to say hi, don't feel shy about doing it. No need to hold back on your own impulses, let them flow naturally. He'll appreciate you reaching out and thinking of him, even if he doesn't have the time to properly talk or hang out.

Do you think this could go for Taurus moons as well?

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@hibye
8 Years

My taurus is not a natural verbal communicator, but I brought it up as the sparse communication really unsettled me. It has increased a lot now and I'm very happy. Ask him to call you and keep the call short and sweet.