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Posted by Librajean
At any rate, I haven't heard from him and I grew impatient. We have snap chat accounts and I don't know how this happened but I sent a male friend a snap chat message "Hi Chris, this is Mary. What are you doing this weekend?" And somehow it went to the man that I likes snap chat.
The first sentence above drives the intent of action for the following actions.
BECAUSE you grew impatient > a consequential action occurred.
You don't have the intellectual ability to be able to comprehend that, I realize, but, it's there for those who are capable of grasping that.
You haven't heard from him and you grew impatient .... in the very next sentence, which is your next breath in the same train of thought = you use manipulative tactics by trying to trick him into believing you are talking to other men.
Most people aren't confrontational so likely will just let your ridiculous story pass by, or maybe they just don't give a rats ass ..... but, I'm here for the viewing audience, so I will make sure everyone realizes that:
1. you're deceptive, or
2. dumb as a box of rocks
Lol
Posted by jeaneHa! It's a happy ongoing that's for sure!Posted by AgentP911Yours is a happy ending 🙂
Yeah... I know... But... I'm trying hard to wish for a happy fucking ending SOMEWHERE on DXP!!!click to expand
We have been discussing moving in together or more specifically him renting out his place and moving into my place as its much bigger. I need to boot my sister out and she needs to boot the tenants out of her house which is two doors down so she can live in it. She doesn't know it yet. She's had an easy life at mine for 12 years and she needs to get a boyfriend as she's 40 as of yesterday and still single. It's starting to cause tension at the weekend when my fella comes over. She gets an attitude on as her territory is being invaded!
Come Jan me and the Taurus would have known each other a year and I think it's time to move it on. He's already said months ago he wants to live with me and quote: "wants to be with me for the rest of his life" ha ha the silly twat ?
I've got a plan in my head of timings but he's a bloke and doesn't really plan ahead. He said he needs to sort his place out first. I said you've got six months! I know Taurus are slow but fuck me! We ain't getting younger. He's 46 next May and I'm 37 in ten days ☹️
Posted by M143
The art of seducing takes a woman to win.
Applicable to those who can manage it very well. Why would I choose to play if it is doom to fail? Moral lesson: Don't Play as hard to get if you don't know how to handle it. Better luck next time librajean.
I think OP fucked this one up, eh M! ?
Posted by AgentP911That's great news. I'm really happy for you 🙂Posted by jeaneHa! It's a happy ongoing that's for sure!Posted by AgentP911Yours is a happy ending 🙂
Yeah... I know... But... I'm trying hard to wish for a happy fucking ending SOMEWHERE on DXP!!!
We have been discussing moving in together or more specifically him renting out his place and moving into my place as its much bigger. I need to boot my sister out and she needs to boot the tenants out of her house which is two doors down so she can live in it. She doesn't know it yet. She's had an easy life at mine for 12 years and she needs to get a boyfriend as she's 40 as of yesterday and still single. It's starting to cause tension at the weekend when my fella comes over. She gets an attitude on as her territory is being invaded!
Come Jan me and the Taurus would have known each other a year and I think it's time to move it on. He's already said months ago he wants to live with me and quote: "wants to be with me for the rest of his life" ha ha the silly twat ?
I've got a plan in my head of timings but he's a bloke and doesn't really plan ahead. He said he needs to sort his place out first. I said you've got six months! I know Taurus are slow but fuck me! We ain't getting younger. He's 46 next May and I'm 37 in ten days ☹️click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm not trolling I just got home..
Before the fornication of sins.
You sound like a reverend.
I'm having a hard time posting from my phone, but we are enjoying our romance...
Who knows what will happen, I have been wanting a nice man I can can have regular sex with. I am a simple person no manipulation here. We are lovers..we both like each other and are sexual we have a Beautiful chemistry. One I hope everyone on here will get to experience one day. Especially PAngel, she needs it most.
It's just nice and lovely..we have communicated today. We are both looking forward to seeing each other. This is all good.
I would give all the same advice to my daughter or any girl friend. But our chemistry is so strong we can't resist each other. Soul Mates, lovers in a past life. I believe in spiritual life and astrology and all this. I have dated men and made them wait or not had any relations at all. We just have an intriguing connection. We are similar even look similar and have similar names..
I'm taking my time though, enjoying what we have because I've sacrificed my needs thinking I was doing the right thing and still have had my heart broken. Somethings you just have to do things naturally. Go with what's natural. We are liking what is happening between us..why is that so wrong? It's a rhetorical question.
PAngel why are you so angry, go find yourself a lover be loved enjoy yourself. Life is short.
Who knows what will happen, I have been wanting a nice man I can can have regular sex with. I am a simple person no manipulation here. We are lovers..we both like each other and are sexual we have a Beautiful chemistry. One I hope everyone on here will get to experience one day. Especially PAngel, she needs it most.
It's just nice and lovely..we have communicated today. We are both looking forward to seeing each other. This is all good.
I would give all the same advice to my daughter or any girl friend. But our chemistry is so strong we can't resist each other. Soul Mates, lovers in a past life. I believe in spiritual life and astrology and all this. I have dated men and made them wait or not had any relations at all. We just have an intriguing connection. We are similar even look similar and have similar names..
I'm taking my time though, enjoying what we have because I've sacrificed my needs thinking I was doing the right thing and still have had my heart broken. Somethings you just have to do things naturally. Go with what's natural. We are liking what is happening between us..why is that so wrong? It's a rhetorical question.
PAngel why are you so angry, go find yourself a lover be loved enjoy yourself. Life is short.
I also know that there is a lot of negative people on here so certain comments dont even phase me...so if you're trying to be hurtful your going to have to try harder, I'm a really tough girl?
I'll respond more in the morning nite
Seeing things as positive or negative is subjective. I don't think people are being negative. Just because you don't like or agree with what some people write it doesn't mean they're being negative or don't have a nice life. Perhaps OP is missing a few points that others are seeing here. Not everyone can be wrong. Of course, we are not the OP or the guy in question. If you make a thread on here then expect all sorts of people to put all sorts of comments on it. Some useful, some not so useful. I do think OP needs to be clear in what she's looking for from this guy. The confusion appears because initially it seemed she was after a sex buddy who she could date (FWB) but as time has gone on the attachment seems to be kicking in and I think that is what many here can see hence the 'if you only want to fuck him then why get so bothered by him' type comments. Blurring the lines or saying you want X when really you want Y can often bring heartache. I think most people on here have been commenting in a realistic way. They have all seen the 'disappearing man' and 'where has my Taurus gone? and 'why won't he make me his girlfriend' threads over and over again.
For the record, I think PAngel makes a lot of good points on threads she comments on. One good thing I've seen is if she gets something not quite right she often apologies. The same cannot be said for all.
For the record, I think PAngel makes a lot of good points on threads she comments on. One good thing I've seen is if she gets something not quite right she often apologies. The same cannot be said for all.
Good luck on your date, keep it light, laugh & as previously stated- do not chase a man. There should be zero need to. A man knows what he wants
Hm I just you pray then. Haha were watching. ??
Posted by Librajean
.... I was married to a Taurus for 9 years.
Then you should know what's up, right? Is that why you felt you "could handle it" when others were telling you to wait? You weren't successful in the marriage (you don't have to list why), so along with your assessing why the marriage didn't work and applying the lessons learned, I would pay careful attention to the counsel of the bulls especially.
Posted by tiziani
I don't know whether the OP is seeking more attention from the guy out of emotional attachment or just plain ego and wanting to complete a conquest. It's her business. All I've read here is she wants more attention and she likes the time they spend together, doesn't care about anything else.
Very eloquently put. Imo, a little blasé since the OP has stated that she wants him to be "The One". Maybe that has changed.
It does seem like you have moved past any negativity, and could be just interested in having a reliable sex partner. You last post reads a bit smug -- entirely different than the start and you haven't seen the taurus yet since the snap-chat faux pas.
As FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 mentioned your being a troll, maybe not, but you do seem pleased with yourself and a bit patronizing -- implying you don't need any advice because you know what you're doing.
Posted by Librajean
... we are enjoying our romance...
I have been wanting a nice man I can can have regular sex with. I am a simple person no manipulation here
...We are lovers..
we both like each other and are sexual we have a Beautiful chemistry. One I hope everyone on here will get to experience one day.
It's just nice and lovely...This is all good
... our chemistry is so strong we can't resist each other.
Soul Mates,
lovers in a past life...
We are similar even look similar and have similar names...
I'm taking my time though...
As FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 mentioned your being a troll, maybe not, but you do seem pleased with yourself and a bit patronizing -- implying you don't need any advice because you know what you're doing.
Posted by pathfinder
As FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 mentioned your being a troll, maybe not, but you do seem pleased with yourself and a bit patronizing -- implying you don't need any advice because you know what you're doing.
i think this is fair.
i think there may be a bit of self soothing going on here as well which is you know, ok. we all do it. but her words and the actions don't mesh.
she says that this is going great guns but then describes a situation where they are not in as much contact as she would like.
she talks about playing the slow game but then to come back and describe them as lovers within a month.
i don't think she is a troll just someone who is very much caught up in a new romance.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneThis is why to me as a Taurus, I view Libras as fake and "flighty". The foundations they create are not firm.. They are no direct with EXACTLY what they want...Posted by pathfinder
As FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 mentioned your being a troll, maybe not, but you do seem pleased with yourself and a bit patronizing -- implying you don't need any advice because you know what you're doing.
i think this is fair.
i think there may be a bit of self soothing going on here as well which is you know, ok. we all do it. but her words and the actions don't mesh.
she says that this is going great guns but then describes a situation where they are not in as much contact as she would like.
she talks about playing the slow game but then to come back and describe them as lovers within a month.
i don't think she is a troll just someone who is very much caught up in a new romance.
U being a Libra are a completely different kettle of fish, Libraurus. But now I'm wondering why did the OP post this thread in the first place if all is so good—
I don't get it.click to expand
Why? #libraproblems
We usually mean what we say, we just don't mean it for very long. It's the problem with having a mind that is constantly trying to find balance.
In one instance, we don't speak enough. In another, we are soul mates.
Both things are true (well at least we believe them to be true) but the truth changes from one moment to the next.
I agree it is irritating and unhelpful. Especially when others are trying to get their bearings with us.
I admit I still do it. I've just learned not to speak it but I oscillate all the time.
Well it's Friday make sure you come back after your date to let us know how it goes, and details please?
Sex on first is not the issue it's whether or not two planned it this way or one wants something the other may not. And rushing into to it. Because well sex has hormones and stuff to make you think it's a connections when it might not be. It could go on for years just sex and no strings if it isn't set in stone soon with in a month. Or quickly because most know what they look for.
Posted by jeaneIt was a problem or atleast I thought at that the time at was, but your with your help I was able to work through it. We are back on track..so thanks you guys.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneThis is why to me as a Taurus, I view Libras as fake and "flighty". The foundations they create are not firm.. They are no direct with EXACTLY what they want...Posted by pathfinder
As FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 mentioned your being a troll, maybe not, but you do seem pleased with yourself and a bit patronizing -- implying you don't need any advice because you know what you're doing.
i think this is fair.
i think there may be a bit of self soothing going on here as well which is you know, ok. we all do it. but her words and the actions don't mesh.
she says that this is going great guns but then describes a situation where they are not in as much contact as she would like.
she talks about playing the slow game but then to come back and describe them as lovers within a month.
i don't think she is a troll just someone who is very much caught up in a new romance.
U being a Libra are a completely different kettle of fish, Libraurus. But now I'm wondering why did the OP post this thread in the first place if all is so good—
I don't get it.
Why? #libraproblems
We usually mean what we say, we just don't mean it for very long. It's the problem with having a mind that is constantly trying to find balance.
In one instance, we don't speak enough. In another, we are soul mates.
Both things are true (well at least we believe them to be true) but the truth changes from one moment to the next.
I agree it is irritating and unhelpful. Especially when others are trying to get their bearings with us.
I admit I still do it. I've just learned not to speak it but I oscillate all the time.
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Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Just to be clear we didn't have sex on the first date. To me rushing into things is bringing a commitment and too many emotions into play into the first month. These things should build up over time. I don't regret that we are lovers, I'm really enjoying what is happening which is why I posted because I thought I blew it. And we are back to the original topic of sex too fast. Which is what I would say to a girl friend if she was telling me this. So I can appreciate where you are coming from. I'm a very independent woman and I know what I want and I also know I can survive without a man. I've been divorced for 7 years and ready for the next chapter of my life. At my age we do things differently than people in their 20/30's.
Sex on first is not the issue it's whether or not two planned it this way or one wants something the other may not. And rushing into to it. Because well sex has hormones and stuff to make you think it's a connections when it might not be. It could go on for years just sex and no strings if it isn't set in stone soon with in a month. Or quickly because most know what they look for.
I'm allowed to do things the way I want, that's the beauty of being me.
My original question was did I ruin our little romance. The answer is no.. I think he is going to be more vocal with what he wants..
Sometimes things happen for a reason
Posted by P-AngelOh geez lolPosted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I may private message you. 🙂
Well it's Friday make sure you come back after your date to let us know how it goes, and details please?
Posted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
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See i use the word lovers but that's after I established a strong friendship like bind. I don't see you saying you talked so much about anything or your leaving stuff off of conversations you have the last time yall talked.
I feel it may just be about sex and how to ask him that without pressure or an answer you don't want to hear. Idk.
I feel it may just be about sex and how to ask him that without pressure or an answer you don't want to hear. Idk.
Sure have fun and be safe but you are not exclusive yet so he could be dating others too. Or testing you to see if you are the one he wants
Or he can keep you in his harem and you will be one but there's others.
Or he can keep you in his harem and you will be one but there's others.
Hahaha. Reading comments made me laughed. Even a bull full of harem still picky in choosing a lady. So if you allow him to disrespect u, he will do and pity for u because he won't commit and it will ended up like you are for fun sex thing. Heard that from my bull. He really recognized ladies who just spread their legs right away and put them into "pet" category. Soo sad. I am lurker so I know all of this.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428If I were her. I'd rather back off and said hey I am not your sidechick.this is what I said to my bull after 2 yrs of breaking up with him and he cameback like nothing happened. I rejected him for the sake of my sanity.
Sure have fun and be safe but you are not exclusive yet so he could be dating others too. Or testing you to see if you are the one he wants
Or he can keep you in his harem and you will be one but there's others.
Agentp, congrats lady. Yeah librajean have no self control. How sad.
Posted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
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It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.
If you have sex in a month or 2 years of friendship then sex. Like build a connection first and don't put it out it can go either way anyways
Depends how much time you want to spend or invest in or get to know each other better..
Depends how much time you want to spend or invest in or get to know each other better..
- sad story -
Posted by jeaneNever said that, thanks Jeane 🙂 ??Posted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.click to expand
Posted by jeaneReally I'm a mess?? ThanksPosted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.click to expand
So funny how some of you sit on your high horse, than post porn gifs. You always do this to the new people. Most likely your a mess, only people that are miserable insult people they don't know.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428And you want details of my love life after the date why so you can make me feel like shit?
If you have sex in a month or 2 years of friendship then sex. Like build a connection first and don't put it out it can go either way anyways
Depends how much time you want to spend or invest in or get to know each other better..
Posted by LibrajeanPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428And you want details of my love life after the date why so you can make me feel like shit?
If you have sex in a month or 2 years of friendship then sex. Like build a connection first and don't put it out it can go either way anyways
Depends how much time you want to spend or invest in or get to know each other better..
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Only one person gave advice that was worth something.
Posted by LibrajeanYou're right. I should tell you what you want to hear.
Really I'm a mess?? Thanks
It's going to be amazing! He's so into you! You're an amazing seductress! Everything you do is going to get you what you want. Wow, I don't think anyone has ever had a relationship as good as this one. We should only be as lucky.
Feel better?
Posted by LibrajeanPosted by jeaneNever said that, thanks Jeane 🙂 ??Posted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.
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Said what? I recall you saying all of that.
Posted by LibrajeanWut no you gotta finish though post back.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428And you want details of my love life after the date why so you can make me feel like shit?
If you have sex in a month or 2 years of friendship then sex. Like build a connection first and don't put it out it can go either way anyways
Depends how much time you want to spend or invest in or get to know each other better..
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I hope it's something to want learn and teach someone else something valuable.
Posted by tizianiPosted by AgentP911What really makes these threads repetitive? Look at both sides. It's just as much the doing of regular users who post automatic responses (me included) as it is the "just-passing-through" threadmakers.
They have all seen the 'disappearing man' and 'where has my Taurus gone? and 'why won't he make me his girlfriend' threads over and over again.
I'm glad you stuck around to talk about your relationship in your own way, and I'm glad it's going well for you both. A lot of people do not and just go on to enjoy being too busy having sex.
I don't know whether the OP is seeking more attention from the guy out of emotional attachment or just plain ego and wanting to complete a conquest. It's her business. All I've read here is she wants more attention and she likes the time they spend together, doesn't care about anything else.
There are many people out there, men and women, in her position doing what she did - who will go on to lead very successful relationships with their partner. Be it Taurus or otherwise. They slept with each other on the first date... they argued the entire second month.... They went onto sort their problems out.
Those people could be minority or majority. They'll never be the majority of DXP, I'm betting. That doesn't make DXP the reality as much as it makes it an echo chamber.click to expand
Tiz, hardcore old timer of DXP!!
I think OP was right in acknowledging her initial requirement of wanting something more casual as she'd not long been out of a relationship. Last thing you want to do is jump right back in and it would just be the same thread with a different title. My point to OP is to be clear with what she's looking for as she seems to go from the wanting casual sex with decent sexy fella to wanting more time and attention from him which he may or may not be able to give depending on what he's looking for. It's hard to tell from a few posts as it is. It's ok if she started out wanting casual and finds herself wanting something else. That's how it works. Ive had two relationships where we fucked on the first date type thing and then they ran their course. It happens and isn't always a nightmare although I'd say it's safe to say these situations are often an exception rather than the rule. I hope OP has a nice date later and enjoys it as there must be something there even if it is just a nice shag for a few months. Women don't always want relationships y'know!
Posted by LibrajeanOi! I wanna know too —Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I may private message you. 🙂
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneBOOMPosted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.click to expand
I do agree with Jeane's post. It has read a bit messy with the back and forth. I would be concerned with the lack of initiating.
I would be concerned about the dick. Oh so good while supplies lasted.
Posted by AgentP911Congratulations make sure you stop by with your much wise advice tips. I do take notes.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneBOOMPosted by LibrajeanPosted by P-AngelIf it doesn't work out, I will not throw in the towel, your right. No matter what you say you can't get to me, because I can picture your sad self hiding behind your computer resenting women young and beautiful enjoying their life 😉Posted by Librajean
Tonight we see each other we are both looking forward to it.
How ridiculous.
If you haven't been in contact much, and have only talked to set up a fuck date tonight .. then you have no idea what he is, or is not looking forward to.
YOU are looking forward to it, and have decided what he is going to feel.
This is typical verbage for deluded ones. You are projecting your feelings onto him and making statements about him, as if you know.
You're very absurd. I read a post on here from you several months ago where you were being proud of yourself for being a slut.
The Bull will take the free pussy and then dump you off at the nearest curb once he gets all of his jollies off .... and then you'll be on to another dick.
Because that's what sluts do.
It's not about "getting to you". Like agentp said, it's about not closing your ears to things you don't want to hear.
The reality is you're with a guy that is not initiating, interaction that relies on you to reach out, the guy is not communicating with you to your require levels but then you excuse that by saying the connection is so strong you don't need words.
Then you worry that he might find someone else because you are not always available but then you accuse him.of not being available. Then he had pulled back but you're soul mates! but you're not sure if he has any feelings towards you.
Honey, you're a mess. It might be the case where he is slow to get going or you have been plagued by misunderstandings but from the outside looking in, he doesn't seem nearly as half as interested as what you think he is.
I do agree with Jeane's post. It has read a bit messy with the back and forth. I would be concerned with the lack of initiating.
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Posted by AgentP911Yeah right lololololololol ??Posted by LibrajeanOi! I wanna know too —Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I may private message you. 🙂
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Posted by AgentP911Thank you...I'm just reading your post. Your post. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I don't want a relationship just yet we are ENJOYING each other.Posted by tizianiPosted by AgentP911What really makes these threads repetitive? Look at both sides. It's just as much the doing of regular users who post automatic responses (me included) as it is the "just-passing-through" threadmakers.
They have all seen the 'disappearing man' and 'where has my Taurus gone? and 'why won't he make me his girlfriend' threads over and over again.
I'm glad you stuck around to talk about your relationship in your own way, and I'm glad it's going well for you both. A lot of people do not and just go on to enjoy being too busy having sex.
I don't know whether the OP is seeking more attention from the guy out of emotional attachment or just plain ego and wanting to complete a conquest. It's her business. All I've read here is she wants more attention and she likes the time they spend together, doesn't care about anything else.
There are many people out there, men and women, in her position doing what she did - who will go on to lead very successful relationships with their partner. Be it Taurus or otherwise. They slept with each other on the first date... they argued the entire second month.... They went onto sort their problems out.
Those people could be minority or majority. They'll never be the majority of DXP, I'm betting. That doesn't make DXP the reality as much as it makes it an echo chamber.
Tiz, hardcore old timer of DXP!!
I think OP was right in acknowledging her initial requirement of wanting something more casual as she'd not long been out of a relationship. Last thing you want to do is jump right back in and it would just be the same thread with a different title. My point to OP is to be clear with what she's looking for as she seems to go from the wanting casual sex with decent sexy fella to wanting more time and attention from him which he may or may not be able to give depending on what he's looking for. It's hard to tell from a few posts as it is. It's ok if she started out wanting casual and finds herself wanting something else. That's how it works. Ive had two relationships where we fucked on the first date type thing and then they ran their course. It happens and isn't always a nightmare although I'd say it's safe to say these situations are often an exception rather than the rule. I hope OP has a nice date later and enjoys it as there must be something there even if it is just a nice shag for a few months. Women don't always want relationships y'know!
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Posted by NevermoreI may just keep it myself...Posted by LibrajeanPosted by AgentP911Yeah right lololololololol ??Posted by LibrajeanOi! I wanna know too —Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I may private message you. 🙂
Well it's Friday make sure you come back after your date to let us know how it goes, and details please?
Everyone wants to know since we're all waiting for that result.
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