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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.
Thank you for taking the time to respond. He is on some level we usually somehow connect, I just mean talk of getting together.
Actions speak louder than words. He talks a big game but there's no follow through.

You didn't make a mistake. If anything, knowing you are talking to/hanging out with someone else should've lit a fire under his ass to step up to the plate. He should be wooing you and trying to lock you down.

Dude is nonchalant. Be glad that your 'mistake' showed you that.


It's not really his business who she's speaking to. I thought they had a conversation that was far more stable than about 90 percent of the threads here. That much is encouraging.

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He can easily make it his business by locking it down. I don't see her so called 'mistake' as that.
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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.
Thank you for taking the time to respond. He is on some level we usually somehow connect, I just mean talk of getting together.
Actions speak louder than words. He talks a big game but there's no follow through.

You didn't make a mistake. If anything, knowing you are talking to/hanging out with someone else should've lit a fire under his ass to step up to the plate. He should be wooing you and trying to lock you down.

Dude is nonchalant. Be glad that your 'mistake' showed you that.


It's not really his business who she's speaking to. I thought they had a conversation that was far more stable than about 90 percent of the threads here. That much is encouraging.


Thank you.. Yes it was pretty stable.

He could have said" we aren't exclusive you can talk to whoever you want" but he didn't..that says a lot.


And you both agreed to meet Friday. No problems.

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I would love to tell him He is the only one.

That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life.

I'm ready for that.




Why would you love to tell someone you barely know that he is the only one?

Why would you believe someone you barely know is the only one?

You said, "I really want someone special in my life" ... you did NOT say, I want HIM as the special someone in my life.

to be ready for it, and the way you are handling this ... sounds to me like you've already decided what you want, and are now looking for a man to fill that position.

so, that means the individual guy, for his own person doesn't matter. You have zero talk about his qualities, values and characteristics. It's as if you don't even notice what the man is worth.

You're ready to settle down .. and so you are now going to try and pin it on him.



.... because none of this makes sense otherwise. You don't sound like a woman enamoured with this man. You sound very superficial, and that it wouldn't matter who was on the other end, so long as someone was on the other end

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Actually we have talked about those things..and we are Facebook friends. I would love to have him in my life, I think he is a special guy..but it's to early to say that. I'm a little stand offish too.

You're wrong this time PAngel but I can see how it appears to be that way. That is why I fucked up. I'm worried now because it was beautiful. On the plus side this guy Chris is only a friend. I've known him for 3 years we've never had sex. I just wanted to chat..and I was mad at Mario. But I can see how it would appear to be so I feel bad about that. But, Mario is a real man and hopefully isn't too bothered we will see on Friday.
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I would love to tell him He is the only one.

That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life.

I'm ready for that.




Why would you love to tell someone you barely know that he is the only one?

Why would you believe someone you barely know is the only one?

You said, "I really want someone special in my life" ... you did NOT say, I want HIM as the special someone in my life.

to be ready for it, and the way you are handling this ... sounds to me like you've already decided what you want, and are now looking for a man to fill that position.

so, that means the individual guy, for his own person doesn't matter. You have zero talk about his qualities, values and characteristics. It's as if you don't even notice what the man is worth.

You're ready to settle down .. and so you are now going to try and pin it on him.



.... because none of this makes sense otherwise. You don't sound like a woman enamoured with this man. You sound very superficial, and that it wouldn't matter who was on the other end, so long as someone was on the other end


Actually we have talked about those things..and we are Facebook friends. I would love to have him in my life, I think he is a special guy..but it's to early to say that. I'm a little stand offish too.

You're wrong this time PAngel but I can see how it appears to be that way. That is why I fucked up. I'm worried now because it was beautiful. On the plus side this guy Chris is only a friend. I've known him for 3 years we've never had sex. I just wanted to chat..and I was mad at Mario. But I can see how it would appear to be so I feel bad about that. But, Mario is a real man and hopefully isn't too bothered we will see on Friday.

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Meaning the only one I'm seeing....duh

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I didn't read past the OP and several responses

I don't know any of the back story here



But, what I do know is that it's highly unlikely that you accidently sent a message of asking another man out to the guy you are wanting to like you more and pay more attention to you.

Coincidences like that don't really happen ... what does happen is that women do that shit on purpose trying to make one jealous, or trying to make them think you are more than you are.




I didn't ask him out, I asked what he was doing...

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I definitely ask that question anyways better just fess up. Then lie later if he asks. You should too one day though. If you say you thought he was a player out loud. Look at you sideways wise. Because now you suppose to trust me and you are not if you are telling me or him he's a player.

You not going let it go when you see him. Cause it's on your mind.
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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
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you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
I guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄
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With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*
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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
I guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄

With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*


"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄
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Virgo Merc - I want to climb into a hole and never come out again...
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@LadyNeptune "Are you saying that taurus intentionally "wait" and "observe" the other person while remaining chill at the back and not doin anything and rather "lazy" in relationships as a way to test the person.

I dunno but it doesnt sound fair...

Am I trippin?"

I would say that is a fair assessment whether that person is "exclusive" or not... They are assessing your "character" your integrity... If you are the flighty type (most Libras are!) or if you are promiscuous. Even if they may have these traits. Taurus are somewhat "hypocritical"... That's why it takes so long to get into a relationship with them and even if you are in a relationship with them and exclusive, they will still be "assessing /testing" you especially if the relationship is still young. .
What are you going on about!? I never said anything about Taurus.

I pointed out that observing is passive behavior.
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How long have you guys been dating?


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..we are lovers but haven't had the exclusive conversation.

I don't hear from him as much as I'd like to

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I think LadyNeptune also mentioned dating, and Tiz assumes you're dating, and one other (I'd have to go read again) thinks you two are dating.

You're fuck buddies, according to what you have written in here.

Friday is a hook up he has agreed to have with you ...

People keep telling you to have fun on Friday and to see what happens, and go from there ..... as if you are going out on a date with him, when you're not.

He's your lover, not your boyfriend.



How bizarre that the responders in here have chosen to ignore that.
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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
I guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄

With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*


"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄

Virgo Merc - I want to climb into a hole and never come out again...

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I saw it. Haha. Can't argue.
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If he wants to be with you ..then he needs to claim exclusivity. He should have ..

He didn't.

What does that tell you?

You didn't mess up..it was an accident.




This is true. Some of us have been following this story and unfortunately been anticipating the 'my Taurus man has disappeared' type thread due to OP chasing the man. OP said she knew what she was doing and was in control...

Asking another guy out (in any context) and then saying to the Taurus it's because he's never around is just a no and looks bad. Bad as in you're getting some elsewhere and the Taurus isn't enough. He may not care as he's not that bothered about you (as the other person said, if that was her Taurus he'd have gone mad, same as mine, same as any guy who liked and cared enough about a lady) which may indicate your position... Which is likely to be in his 'harem'.

Let's hope Friday goes ok. OP apologised once. That's it. Bury it like it never happened.


We are brand new so it would be weird for him to go crazy. I'm not going to bring it up to him again and I'm going to let it go...I'm going to disappear until Friday. So I can get over my own guilt. I know he likes me..

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There's always a big chance he didn't think much of it at all and you're over thinking it! Let's hope so. Ultimately, if there's enough of something there between you it won't matter. Fingers and toes crossed for Friday!
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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
I guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄

With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*


"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄
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TLS... Reincarnated...
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One possibility is that he is going to view this as

A) playing games

Or

B) you're speaking to a number of men.

As you have already slept with him, he may think that you are sleeping about. If he thinks this, it's unlikely to take things further than what they are now.

It's unlikely that this will spring him into action and further commitment. These guys want to be on certain ground before they take their steps. If they think they could lose in a competition, they are less likely to take part.

Your actions also have to match your words. He is formulating his opinion of you in this next period.

Like you plan, just move on from it and don't make a big deal out of it.
Maybe he will ask me how many lovers I have, maybe he will start asking me questions? Maybe I thought he was a player? Maybe we will have a real talk. Maybe we will just let it go and have a wonderful time.

I would love to tell him He is the only one. That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life. I'm ready for that.


Perhaps. But don't underestimate how judgemental these guys can be.




VERY...

The OP is now going so spend a lot of time "proving" she is not a "cheap lay" because she inadvertently sent that message to him.

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You know the remarks are very sexist....do you realize that?

I'm just going to go and have fun with this sweet guy. They can be judge mental. I was married to a Taurus for 9 years.

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So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.

you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.

fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
I guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄

With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*


"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄


TLS... Reincarnated...


Nope. But I do have his Leo rising, Leo moon, Taurus sun and his merc in aries.... I'm like his twin....
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The TLS is dead... Long live the Baptist! Ha ha.
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If he wants to be with you ..then he needs to claim exclusivity. He should have ..

He didn't.

What does that tell you?

You didn't mess up..it was an accident.




This is true. Some of us have been following this story and unfortunately been anticipating the 'my Taurus man has disappeared' type thread due to OP chasing the man. OP said she knew what she was doing and was in control...

Asking another guy out (in any context) and then saying to the Taurus it's because he's never around is just a no and looks bad. Bad as in you're getting some elsewhere and the Taurus isn't enough. He may not care as he's not that bothered about you (as the other person said, if that was her Taurus he'd have gone mad, same as mine, same as any guy who liked and cared enough about a lady) which may indicate your position... Which is likely to be in his 'harem'.

Let's hope Friday goes ok. OP apologised once. That's it. Bury it like it never happened.


We are brand new so it would be weird for him to go crazy. I'm not going to bring it up to him again and I'm going to let it go...I'm going to disappear until Friday. So I can get over my own guilt. I know he likes me..




There's always a big chance he didn't think much of it at all and you're over thinking it! Let's hope so. Ultimately, if there's enough of something there between you it won't matter. Fingers and toes crossed for Friday!
Nah... She's already part of his harem... She had sex with him too soon.... But she thought she could handle things.... Yeah right....
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Yeah... I know... But... I'm trying hard to wish for a happy fucking ending SOMEWHERE on DXP!!!
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What on earth is the "exclusive conversation"?! Is that some sort of relationship milestone?
Yes 😄
Hmm, I wonder if my Capricorn and I have had it. 😄
I like this conversation it's romantic and everyone is on the same page 😄 my ex asked me to be his girlfriend and it melted my heart.

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Oh! THAT! Hmm, I don't think we were formal about it. So there was no, "will you be my girlfriend?" Or "are we only seeing each other?"

We met, he asked me on a date, we went on a date the very next day - 2nd day we knew each other, and this past week, we celebrated our 10 Monthsversary! 😄 That's the best part of having a relationship is that it's unique to the couple involved. *^___^*
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One possibility is that he is going to view this as

A) playing games

Or

B) you're speaking to a number of men.

As you have already slept with him, he may think that you are sleeping about. If he thinks this, it's unlikely to take things further than what they are now.

It's unlikely that this will spring him into action and further commitment. These guys want to be on certain ground before they take their steps. If they think they could lose in a competition, they are less likely to take part.

Your actions also have to match your words. He is formulating his opinion of you in this next period.

Like you plan, just move on from it and don't make a big deal out of it.
Maybe he will ask me how many lovers I have, maybe he will start asking me questions? Maybe I thought he was a player? Maybe we will have a real talk. Maybe we will just let it go and have a wonderful time.

I would love to tell him He is the only one. That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life. I'm ready for that.


Perhaps. But don't underestimate how judgemental these guys can be.




VERY...

The OP is now going so spend a lot of time "proving" she is not a "cheap lay" because she inadvertently sent that message to him.


You know the remarks are very sexist....do you realize that?

I'm just going to go and have fun with this sweet guy. They can be judge mental. I was married to a Taurus for 9 years.



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Sexist? Perhaps.

Double standards? Yes.

Realistic? Entirely.

Unfortunately this is still how most of the world works.

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.
Thank you for taking the time to respond. He is on some level we usually somehow connect, I just mean talk of getting together.
Actions speak louder than words. He talks a big game but there's no follow through.

You didn't make a mistake. If anything, knowing you are talking to/hanging out with someone else should've lit a fire under his ass to step up to the plate. He should be wooing you and trying to lock you down.

Dude is nonchalant. Be glad that your 'mistake' showed you that.


It's not really his business who she's speaking to. I thought they had a conversation that was far more stable than about 90 percent of the threads here. That much is encouraging.



He can easily make it his business by locking it down. I don't see her so called 'mistake' as that.


I don't think she made a mistake. But I don't see how other guys are relevant to them getting to know each other. Fear of losing someone is great for sexual arousal with some but it doesn't say anything much towards long-term success or failure of two people.


The views of a "Libra"....

We are not dealing with a libra here.. Her "lover" is a Taurus...
I was talking about social science, not astrology. Even in astrology here, you guys say it's a Taurus' agenda to take their time. I don't see why a Bull should be rushed into a decision just because some random guy meets her.

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John, you are making up your own story now!! I have known Chris for 3 years and we have never had sex.

Mario still wants me after this mishap, he is observing me tho.
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Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.

She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.

I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
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Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?
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Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.

She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.

I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?

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Your sense of importance is really cute btw ?
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Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.

She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.

I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?


Your sense of importance is really cute btw ?

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This post tells my your not a Taurus...I'm guessing a fire sign?
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Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
Last night we did, everything is still on..we just have to see each other in person. But it seems like we aren't skipping a beat. I think I need to make myself more available for him which I'm going to start doing. I think it's going to help..
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Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.

She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.

I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?


Your sense of importance is really cute btw ?


This post tells my your not a Taurus...I'm guessing a fire sign?

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His moon is fire.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
This why I like conversation in person than on phone. Things get all jaded and you can't tell what they are feeling or thinking unless you are face to face. Because people don't like confrontation over the phone.
I don't like talking on the phone. I like to see people's eyes while I'm speaking..I have a way of being more subtle in person. We are going to have a nice time 🙂
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This why I like conversation in person than on phone. Things get all jaded and you can't tell what they are feeling or thinking unless you are face to face. Because people don't like confrontation over the phone.
I don't like talking on the phone. I like to see people's eyes while I'm speaking..I have a way of being more subtle in person. We are going to have a nice time 🙂

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You do know Taurus are master of subtle, so if he is too. That stinks already. Lol so when you go out Friday night just casually talk about anything other than what you are.