
LadyNeptune
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Posted by tizianiThank you......🙂Posted by LibrajeanAnd you both agreed to meet Friday. No problems.Posted by tizianiThank you.. Yes it was pretty stable.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's not really his business who she's speaking to. I thought they had a conversation that was far more stable than about 90 percent of the threads here. That much is encouraging.Posted by LibrajeanActions speak louder than words. He talks a big game but there's no follow through.Posted by ChoXtsyThank you for taking the time to respond. He is on some level we usually somehow connect, I just mean talk of getting together.
I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.
You didn't make a mistake. If anything, knowing you are talking to/hanging out with someone else should've lit a fire under his ass to step up to the plate. He should be wooing you and trying to lock you down.
Dude is nonchalant. Be glad that your 'mistake' showed you that.
He could have said" we aren't exclusive you can talk to whoever you want" but he didn't..that says a lot.
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Posted by P-AngelActually we have talked about those things..and we are Facebook friends. I would love to have him in my life, I think he is a special guy..but it's to early to say that. I'm a little stand offish too.Posted by Librajean
I would love to tell him He is the only one.
That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life.
I'm ready for that.
Why would you love to tell someone you barely know that he is the only one?
Why would you believe someone you barely know is the only one?
You said, "I really want someone special in my life" ... you did NOT say, I want HIM as the special someone in my life.
to be ready for it, and the way you are handling this ... sounds to me like you've already decided what you want, and are now looking for a man to fill that position.
so, that means the individual guy, for his own person doesn't matter. You have zero talk about his qualities, values and characteristics. It's as if you don't even notice what the man is worth.
You're ready to settle down .. and so you are now going to try and pin it on him.
.... because none of this makes sense otherwise. You don't sound like a woman enamoured with this man. You sound very superficial, and that it wouldn't matter who was on the other end, so long as someone was on the other end
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Posted by LibrajeanMeaning the only one I'm seeing....duhPosted by P-AngelActually we have talked about those things..and we are Facebook friends. I would love to have him in my life, I think he is a special guy..but it's to early to say that. I'm a little stand offish too.Posted by Librajean
I would love to tell him He is the only one.
That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life.
I'm ready for that.
Why would you love to tell someone you barely know that he is the only one?
Why would you believe someone you barely know is the only one?
You said, "I really want someone special in my life" ... you did NOT say, I want HIM as the special someone in my life.
to be ready for it, and the way you are handling this ... sounds to me like you've already decided what you want, and are now looking for a man to fill that position.
so, that means the individual guy, for his own person doesn't matter. You have zero talk about his qualities, values and characteristics. It's as if you don't even notice what the man is worth.
You're ready to settle down .. and so you are now going to try and pin it on him.
.... because none of this makes sense otherwise. You don't sound like a woman enamoured with this man. You sound very superficial, and that it wouldn't matter who was on the other end, so long as someone was on the other end
You're wrong this time PAngel but I can see how it appears to be that way. That is why I fucked up. I'm worried now because it was beautiful. On the plus side this guy Chris is only a friend. I've known him for 3 years we've never had sex. I just wanted to chat..and I was mad at Mario. But I can see how it would appear to be so I feel bad about that. But, Mario is a real man and hopefully isn't too bothered we will see on Friday.
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Posted by P-AngelI didn't ask him out, I asked what he was doing...
I didn't read past the OP and several responses
I don't know any of the back story here
But, what I do know is that it's highly unlikely that you accidently sent a message of asking another man out to the guy you are wanting to like you more and pay more attention to you.
Coincidences like that don't really happen ... what does happen is that women do that shit on purpose trying to make one jealous, or trying to make them think you are more than you are.





Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.click to expand


Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneI guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.
fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆click to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeane"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneI guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.
fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What are you going on about!? I never said anything about Taurus.
@LadyNeptune "Are you saying that taurus intentionally "wait" and "observe" the other person while remaining chill at the back and not doin anything and rather "lazy" in relationships as a way to test the person.
I dunno but it doesnt sound fair...
Am I trippin?"
I would say that is a fair assessment whether that person is "exclusive" or not... They are assessing your "character" your integrity... If you are the flighty type (most Libras are!) or if you are promiscuous. Even if they may have these traits. Taurus are somewhat "hypocritical"... That's why it takes so long to get into a relationship with them and even if you are in a relationship with them and exclusive, they will still be "assessing /testing" you especially if the relationship is still young. .

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How long have you guys been dating?
Posted by Librajean
..we are lovers but haven't had the exclusive conversation.
I don't hear from him as much as I'd like to
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Posted by jeaneI saw it. Haha. Can't argue.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeane"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneI guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.
fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*
Virgo Merc - I want to climb into a hole and never come out again...
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Posted by LibrajeanPosted by AgentP911We are brand new so it would be weird for him to go crazy. I'm not going to bring it up to him again and I'm going to let it go...I'm going to disappear until Friday. So I can get over my own guilt. I know he likes me..Posted by Seraphlight
If he wants to be with you ..then he needs to claim exclusivity. He should have ..
He didn't.
What does that tell you?
You didn't mess up..it was an accident.
This is true. Some of us have been following this story and unfortunately been anticipating the 'my Taurus man has disappeared' type thread due to OP chasing the man. OP said she knew what she was doing and was in control...
Asking another guy out (in any context) and then saying to the Taurus it's because he's never around is just a no and looks bad. Bad as in you're getting some elsewhere and the Taurus isn't enough. He may not care as he's not that bothered about you (as the other person said, if that was her Taurus he'd have gone mad, same as mine, same as any guy who liked and cared enough about a lady) which may indicate your position... Which is likely to be in his 'harem'.
Let's hope Friday goes ok. OP apologised once. That's it. Bury it like it never happened.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeane"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneI guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.
fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You know the remarks are very sexist....do you realize that?Posted by jeanePosted by LibrajeanPerhaps. But don't underestimate how judgemental these guys can be.Posted by jeaneMaybe he will ask me how many lovers I have, maybe he will start asking me questions? Maybe I thought he was a player? Maybe we will have a real talk. Maybe we will just let it go and have a wonderful time.
One possibility is that he is going to view this as
A) playing games
Or
B) you're speaking to a number of men.
As you have already slept with him, he may think that you are sleeping about. If he thinks this, it's unlikely to take things further than what they are now.
It's unlikely that this will spring him into action and further commitment. These guys want to be on certain ground before they take their steps. If they think they could lose in a competition, they are less likely to take part.
Your actions also have to match your words. He is formulating his opinion of you in this next period.
Like you plan, just move on from it and don't make a big deal out of it.
I would love to tell him He is the only one. That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life. I'm ready for that.
VERY...
The OP is now going so spend a lot of time "proving" she is not a "cheap lay" because she inadvertently sent that message to him.
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Posted by LillyPetalYes 😄
What on earth is the "exclusive conversation"?! Is that some sort of relationship milestone?

Posted by LibrajeanHmm, I wonder if my Capricorn and I have had it. 😄Posted by LillyPetalYes 😄
What on earth is the "exclusive conversation"?! Is that some sort of relationship milestone?click to expand

Posted by LillyPetalI like this conversation it's romantic and everyone is on the same page 😄 my ex asked me to be his girlfriend and it melted my heart.Posted by LibrajeanHmm, I wonder if my Capricorn and I have had it. 😄Posted by LillyPetalYes 😄
What on earth is the "exclusive conversation"?! Is that some sort of relationship milestone?click to expand

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by AgentP911Nope. But I do have his Leo rising, Leo moon, Taurus sun and his merc in aries.... I'm like his twin....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeane"aries merc" ... I just "skimmed" over it.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneI guess so, if you put it that way.. 😄Posted by JohnTheBaptist100you guys are judgemental. i know you like to think that you aren't but from your observations and lack of talking things through do make judgements. you make decisions on what you see and hear. it is not cerebral. it is instinctual.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Taurus women are not as judgmental as the men. I know that for a fact.
So am I going to judge she had sex with in a month, no we don't know the other side of the story except she might not be as loyal enough in the long run.
you're picking up clues and testing the water all so you can make judgements. i don't say that in a bad way (ie, non judgemental) its just the way you guys operate.
fdtw proved it when she turned around and then made a judgement about what sleeping with him a month in means. 😆
With that said, you didn't judge my constant incorrect spelling of "judgmental". Lol *facepalm*
TLS... Reincarnated...
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yeah... I know... But... I'm trying hard to wish for a happy fucking ending SOMEWHERE on DXP!!!Posted by AgentP911Nah... She's already part of his harem... She had sex with him too soon.... But she thought she could handle things.... Yeah right....Posted by LibrajeanPosted by AgentP911We are brand new so it would be weird for him to go crazy. I'm not going to bring it up to him again and I'm going to let it go...I'm going to disappear until Friday. So I can get over my own guilt. I know he likes me..Posted by Seraphlight
If he wants to be with you ..then he needs to claim exclusivity. He should have ..
He didn't.
What does that tell you?
You didn't mess up..it was an accident.
This is true. Some of us have been following this story and unfortunately been anticipating the 'my Taurus man has disappeared' type thread due to OP chasing the man. OP said she knew what she was doing and was in control...
Asking another guy out (in any context) and then saying to the Taurus it's because he's never around is just a no and looks bad. Bad as in you're getting some elsewhere and the Taurus isn't enough. He may not care as he's not that bothered about you (as the other person said, if that was her Taurus he'd have gone mad, same as mine, same as any guy who liked and cared enough about a lady) which may indicate your position... Which is likely to be in his 'harem'.
Let's hope Friday goes ok. OP apologised once. That's it. Bury it like it never happened.
There's always a big chance he didn't think much of it at all and you're over thinking it! Let's hope so. Ultimately, if there's enough of something there between you it won't matter. Fingers and toes crossed for Friday!click to expand

Posted by LibrajeanOh! THAT! Hmm, I don't think we were formal about it. So there was no, "will you be my girlfriend?" Or "are we only seeing each other?"Posted by LillyPetalI like this conversation it's romantic and everyone is on the same page 😄 my ex asked me to be his girlfriend and it melted my heart.Posted by LibrajeanHmm, I wonder if my Capricorn and I have had it. 😄Posted by LillyPetalYes 😄
What on earth is the "exclusive conversation"?! Is that some sort of relationship milestone?
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Posted by LibrajeanSexist? Perhaps.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You know the remarks are very sexist....do you realize that?Posted by jeanePosted by LibrajeanPerhaps. But don't underestimate how judgemental these guys can be.Posted by jeaneMaybe he will ask me how many lovers I have, maybe he will start asking me questions? Maybe I thought he was a player? Maybe we will have a real talk. Maybe we will just let it go and have a wonderful time.
One possibility is that he is going to view this as
A) playing games
Or
B) you're speaking to a number of men.
As you have already slept with him, he may think that you are sleeping about. If he thinks this, it's unlikely to take things further than what they are now.
It's unlikely that this will spring him into action and further commitment. These guys want to be on certain ground before they take their steps. If they think they could lose in a competition, they are less likely to take part.
Your actions also have to match your words. He is formulating his opinion of you in this next period.
Like you plan, just move on from it and don't make a big deal out of it.
I would love to tell him He is the only one. That I thought that he was seeing someone else and he lost interest and I really want someone special in my life. I'm ready for that.
VERY...
The OP is now going so spend a lot of time "proving" she is not a "cheap lay" because she inadvertently sent that message to him.
I'm just going to go and have fun with this sweet guy. They can be judge mental. I was married to a Taurus for 9 years.
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Posted by AgentP911Yours is a happy ending 🙂
Yeah... I know... But... I'm trying hard to wish for a happy fucking ending SOMEWHERE on DXP!!!


Posted by tizianiPosted by JohnTheBaptist100I was talking about social science, not astrology. Even in astrology here, you guys say it's a Taurus' agenda to take their time. I don't see why a Bull should be rushed into a decision just because some random guy meets her.Posted by tizianiThe views of a "Libra"....Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't think she made a mistake. But I don't see how other guys are relevant to them getting to know each other. Fear of losing someone is great for sexual arousal with some but it doesn't say anything much towards long-term success or failure of two people.Posted by tizianiPosted by LadyNeptuneIt's not really his business who she's speaking to. I thought they had a conversation that was far more stable than about 90 percent of the threads here. That much is encouraging.Posted by LibrajeanActions speak louder than words. He talks a big game but there's no follow through.Posted by ChoXtsyThank you for taking the time to respond. He is on some level we usually somehow connect, I just mean talk of getting together.
I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.
You didn't make a mistake. If anything, knowing you are talking to/hanging out with someone else should've lit a fire under his ass to step up to the plate. He should be wooing you and trying to lock you down.
Dude is nonchalant. Be glad that your 'mistake' showed you that.
He can easily make it his business by locking it down. I don't see her so called 'mistake' as that.
We are not dealing with a libra here.. Her "lover" is a Taurus...
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.
Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.
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Posted by LibrajeanYour sense of importance is really cute btw ?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.
Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.
I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
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Posted by LibrajeanThis post tells my your not a Taurus...I'm guessing a fire sign?Posted by LibrajeanYour sense of importance is really cute btw ?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.
Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.
I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Last night we did, everything is still on..we just have to see each other in person. But it seems like we aren't skipping a beat. I think I need to make myself more available for him which I'm going to start doing. I think it's going to help..
Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?


Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I will...,😉
Thanks....
Keep us posted ?


Posted by LibrajeanHis moon is fire.Posted by LibrajeanThis post tells my your not a Taurus...I'm guessing a fire sign?Posted by LibrajeanYour sense of importance is really cute btw ?Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Wow John I'm glad you are so smart. Are the Alpha of DXP? You still haven't told me your sign?Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428The Taurus men I know NEVER have "gaps" in between communication at the initial stages when they are "hunting you down"... But the OP is obviously the one in the drivers seat "hunting him down"... She's just sex and he is enjoying the ride.
Yup and what's the outcome of this now? Have you talked? So what Friday is two days away. Should have spoke to each other in the meantime?
She should never had sex with him within one month but we told her and she said it was under control.
I don't think "Friday" will go as she planned...
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I don't like talking on the phone. I like to see people's eyes while I'm speaking..I have a way of being more subtle in person. We are going to have a nice time 🙂
This why I like conversation in person than on phone. Things get all jaded and you can't tell what they are feeling or thinking unless you are face to face. Because people don't like confrontation over the phone.


Posted by LibrajeanYou do know Taurus are master of subtle, so if he is too. That stinks already. Lol so when you go out Friday night just casually talk about anything other than what you are.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I don't like talking on the phone. I like to see people's eyes while I'm speaking..I have a way of being more subtle in person. We are going to have a nice time 🙂
This why I like conversation in person than on phone. Things get all jaded and you can't tell what they are feeling or thinking unless you are face to face. Because people don't like confrontation over the phone.
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Posted by Librajean
I think I need to make myself more available for him which I'm going to start doing.
I think it's going to help..




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He can easily make it his business by locking it down. I don't see her so called 'mistake' as that.