Sigh..... I made a mistake (Page 5)

Posted by Nevermore
In other words, it's not happy ending again?

It may be! Id like to think it will work out in the end. Maybe finally enchanted with her, he will begin to pick up his pace and everything works out as she wants it to.

I guess watch this space.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

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Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

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Posted by Librajean
No she thinks she knows what she is talking about...*eye roll

We are seeing each other and getting to know each other...slowly. Last night I went to a concert and he showed up with some of his friends but I already left. Someone stepped on my toe. He messaged me wanting to know where I was and he wanted to give me a kiss...but I was already home. We are slowly unfolding...

I hoping it turns into more...

I don't 'think' I know what I'm talking about. I know what I'm talking about. You have frequently praised my advice to you and for having a firm grasp of your situation. Now suddenly I don't know what I'm talking about. Go and be an arrogant, condescending cunt elsewhere.

Based on your own words in your own threads you initially wanted a fuck with this guy and now you're 'hoping for something more' yet this guy isn't stepping up for you or for anything more but he'll gladly take the fuck you offer him because it's for free.

That sums it up.

I still hope it works out for you but less of the spoilt bitch routine because from where I'm sat you're not in the winners seat at all.

Thank you.

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Oh really the winner seat of DXP? Maybe one day I'll be as cool as you —?

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Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

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Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

Also the talk of seducing him in the beginning was because I'm very attracted to him, he is incredibly handsome, black hair green eyes olive skin hot bod. Woo...

No one has experienced that before?

Is there a need to fix it. His response seemed good to me. "I'm not mad" what more do you want? Don't hang on it. Its done and dusted.

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Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean
No she thinks she knows what she is talking about...*eye roll

We are seeing each other and getting to know each other...slowly. Last night I went to a concert and he showed up with some of his friends but I already left. Someone stepped on my toe. He messaged me wanting to know where I was and he wanted to give me a kiss...but I was already home. We are slowly unfolding...

I hoping it turns into more...

I don't 'think' I know what I'm talking about. I know what I'm talking about. You have frequently praised my advice to you and for having a firm grasp of your situation. Now suddenly I don't know what I'm talking about. Go and be an arrogant, condescending cunt elsewhere.

Based on your own words in your own threads you initially wanted a fuck with this guy and now you're 'hoping for something more' yet this guy isn't stepping up for you or for anything more but he'll gladly take the fuck you offer him because it's for free.

That sums it up.

I still hope it works out for you but less of the spoilt bitch routine because from where I'm sat you're not in the winners seat at all.

Thank you.

Oh really the winner seat of DXP? Maybe one day I'll be as cool as you —?

That's an even longer wait than waiting for the Taurus... Good luck with that 😄

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Lol, good one 😉

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean
No she thinks she knows what she is talking about...*eye roll

We are seeing each other and getting to know each other...slowly. Last night I went to a concert and he showed up with some of his friends but I already left. Someone stepped on my toe. He messaged me wanting to know where I was and he wanted to give me a kiss...but I was already home. We are slowly unfolding...

I hoping it turns into more...

I don't 'think' I know what I'm talking about. I know what I'm talking about. You have frequently praised my advice to you and for having a firm grasp of your situation. Now suddenly I don't know what I'm talking about. Go and be an arrogant, condescending cunt elsewhere.

Based on your own words in your own threads you initially wanted a fuck with this guy and now you're 'hoping for something more' yet this guy isn't stepping up for you or for anything more but he'll gladly take the fuck you offer him because it's for free.

That sums it up.

I still hope it works out for you but less of the spoilt bitch routine because from where I'm sat you're not in the winners seat at all.

Thank you.

Oh really the winner seat of DXP? Maybe one day I'll be as cool as you —?

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You'll never be as cool as me, love. Keep trying though.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

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You're too young to understand.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean
No she thinks she knows what she is talking about...*eye roll

We are seeing each other and getting to know each other...slowly. Last night I went to a concert and he showed up with some of his friends but I already left. Someone stepped on my toe. He messaged me wanting to know where I was and he wanted to give me a kiss...but I was already home. We are slowly unfolding...

I hoping it turns into more...

I don't 'think' I know what I'm talking about. I know what I'm talking about. You have frequently praised my advice to you and for having a firm grasp of your situation. Now suddenly I don't know what I'm talking about. Go and be an arrogant, condescending cunt elsewhere.

Based on your own words in your own threads you initially wanted a fuck with this guy and now you're 'hoping for something more' yet this guy isn't stepping up for you or for anything more but he'll gladly take the fuck you offer him because it's for free.

That sums it up.

I still hope it works out for you but less of the spoilt bitch routine because from where I'm sat you're not in the winners seat at all.

Thank you.

Oh really the winner seat of DXP? Maybe one day I'll be as cool as you —?

You'll never be as cool as me, love. Keep trying though.

BOOM

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Boom!

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean
No she thinks she knows what she is talking about...*eye roll

We are seeing each other and getting to know each other...slowly. Last night I went to a concert and he showed up with some of his friends but I already left. Someone stepped on my toe. He messaged me wanting to know where I was and he wanted to give me a kiss...but I was already home. We are slowly unfolding...

I hoping it turns into more...

I don't 'think' I know what I'm talking about. I know what I'm talking about. You have frequently praised my advice to you and for having a firm grasp of your situation. Now suddenly I don't know what I'm talking about. Go and be an arrogant, condescending cunt elsewhere.

Based on your own words in your own threads you initially wanted a fuck with this guy and now you're 'hoping for something more' yet this guy isn't stepping up for you or for anything more but he'll gladly take the fuck you offer him because it's for free.

That sums it up.

I still hope it works out for you but less of the spoilt bitch routine because from where I'm sat you're not in the winners seat at all.

Thank you.

Oh really the winner seat of DXP? Maybe one day I'll be as cool as you —?

You'll never be as cool as me, love. Keep trying though.

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Okay I'm taking notes 🙂

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Is there a need to fix it. His response seemed good to me. "I'm not mad" what more do you want? Don't hang on it. Its done and dusted.

I've let it go..

We've seen each other since I posted this and all is good.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

You're too young to understand.

U know my age huh? If you are so wise old and mature with all the answers. Why are you here?

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For answers from people that know astrology, why are you here? Oh yes I can picture you 🙂

Posted by Librajean

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

You're too young to understand.

U know my age huh? If you are so wise old and mature with all the answers. Why are you here?

For answers from people that know astrology, why are you here? Oh yes I can picture you 🙂

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You don't know his birthday, his time or place of birth or anything relating to his astrological chart.

What is your astrological question relating to your situation with this guy? The one you know so well.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Is there a need to fix it. His response seemed good to me. "I'm not mad" what more do you want? Don't hang on it. Its done and dusted.

I've let it go..

We've seen each other since I posted this and all is good.

Be honest.. U r "uncertain"...u said so...

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Uncertain about what? There are no guarantees in life..but I'm feeling good about things. But I'm just chilling now, we've had some good interaction that has me feeling like we have something. Originally I thought my faux par, screwed up things with this man. I've found out he doesn't want me to date anyone else. I've told him he is my lover. He said he is a lucky man! He has told me he likes me a lot. All good stuff..

As far as f*ck buddy...,we didn't have sex after our last date. So—? I don't know why you think that. But I appreciate the tough love.

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Librajean

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428

Posted by jeane

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by jeane

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by Librajean

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

You're too young to understand.

U know my age huh? If you are so wise old and mature with all the answers. Why are you here?

For answers from people that know astrology, why are you here? Oh yes I can picture you 🙂

You don't know his birthday, his time or place of birth or anything relating to his astrological chart.

What is your astrological question relating to your situation with this guy? The one you know so well.

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I never said we know each other so well?? In my experience men don't usually know their birth times. I don't remember where he said he was born. I only know his birthday and I already posted it. You'll have to read back... I don't really want to rehash. My answer came to me...

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Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

You're too young to understand.

U know my age huh? If you are so wise old and mature with all the answers. Why are you here?

For answers from people that know astrology, why are you here? Oh yes I can picture you 🙂

You don't know his birthday, his time or place of birth or anything relating to his astrological chart.

What is your astrological question relating to your situation with this guy? The one you know so well.

Exactly! But she pertains to be here from an "astrological" perspective..

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What is your point? Based on him being a Taurus

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Sounds good — my Taurus is simple too or perhaps saying not complex is a better description. It's nice especially when there's so much going on it means I don't have to work hard to just be with him. He's easy to be with. Roll on the next date then!

Yes exactly I feel very comfortable around him. Easy to be with foresure.

I feel like everything is in the right place now, but I'm still wondering about the initiative from him...

Maybe do less 'pursuing' and see what happens. If you persist in initiating you're not giving him the opportunity to pursue you. Then again, this is only a hook up not exactly dating with a view to a relationship so should it matter who pursues who when the end of it results in a fuck?

What's his chart?

Mine has Leo rising and moon but Venus Aries and Merc. He did the pursuing 100% .

Good advice but now I am confused. Is this only a hook up? I was assuming she was intending something more?

The OP started off with what seems like a hook up as she was more interested in having sex with him as she could not wait so she had sex with him within the first month of meeting him;

There is no title to the relationship ;

There is little communion so the OP does all the work.

After making a faux par by inadvertently sending a text message to the Taurus instead of her mate, they got together last Fri. No sex was involved. The OP things they are heading in the "right" direction ; they both attend the same concert and miss meeting each other..

Confused? I know I am. I don't even think the OP knows what she wants..

She has left it "open" ie open for sex buddy or relationship. She has no barriers it seems. Sex for sex sake... She is open to taking anything the Taurus has to offer.

Big mistake with a Taurus Imo. The lines are blurred.

Ta John. 😄

Oh John is so cool, and wise. Ole wise one.

Yeah I'm impressed lots of really cool and smart peeps up in here. 😉

Listen, I could slam many of you so hard, but I'm not going to cuz it's Sunday and I'm a lil hungover and I hurt my toe last night.

It's scares me how ignorant some of you are though...we have gone to dinner twice and he wanted to surprise me last night at the concert I went to, if that isn't showing interest I don't know what is. Now I am a parent and I do have a careers so I'm not always available to go out. So maybe some of you don't see the value in that, because you don't understand how little free time I have. Maybe you don't think 2 dinner dates and 2 times of hanging out is enough in a month period, but it's all our schedule permits.

So let it go ... I'm deflecting your negative energy k let it go......

I do however appreciate the many attempts of advice, which I am taking some of it...don't appreciate the negative reviews..but I understand some of you are dealing with mental illness so it's ok.

BOOM!

Anyhoo..ill let you know if anything new transpires..the original question that I asked has been resolved. ??

The "small print" ... she's a parent... Wow!! No wonder Taurus and libra rarely get on... Libras play too much... Let us hope you teach your child not to have sex within a month of knowing someone just because they took you out to dinner twice... Only twice... He's cheap....

2 dinners and two times " hanging out "... A minutes ago it was "deep like"... Make your damn mind up and quit the excuses...

You certainly found time to take your panties off and now come the "excuses"...

Why did you create this thread? Did the Taurus not give you enough attention.

U are obviously a single mother and the Taurus looked at you as a quick lay as you are only out of a relationship four months ago...

Stay single and look after your kid... Unless another hook up is all you are after and a hook up is what the Taurus ia giving you.

I'm keeping it real, even if you are not...

You're too young to understand.

U know my age huh? If you are so wise old and mature with all the answers. Why are you here?

For answers from people that know astrology, why are you here? Oh yes I can picture you 🙂

You don't know his birthday, his time or place of birth or anything relating to his astrological chart.

What is your astrological question relating to your situation with this guy? The one you know so well.

I never said we know each other so well?? In my experience men don't usually know their birth times. I don't remember where he said he was born. I only know his birthday and I already posted it. You'll have to read back... I don't really want to rehash. My answer came to me...

.... In a dream..

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From him...

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

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Thank you sweetheart🙂

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

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I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

Huh? You contradict yourself at every turn.

A minute ago you said "I told him he is my only lover" u are waiting around...

Own it...

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OMG I mean twiddling my thumbs waiting around for him to call. I'm staying busy and doing fun things with my girls.

In your definition then he is waiting around too.

You just don't get it but that's ok.

A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

Huh? You contradict yourself at every turn.

A minute ago you said "I told him he is my only lover" u are waiting around...

Own it...

OMG I mean twiddling my thumbs waiting around for him to call. I'm staying busy and doing fun things with my girls.

In your definition then he is waiting around too.

You just don't get it but that's ok.

Nah. He isn't.. Taurus see people as loyal "possessions"... U are not in a relationship with him and seeing that you have already has sex with him with no title, you are part of his harem (if he has one) whereby you swear loyalty to him and he is open to sleeping with others but you won't know that.

When you told him he was your only lover, did he say the same thing?

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I asked him in person and he said that I was, but I didn't answer him because he didn't ask me. Then the mishap happend with snap chat, so now I'm letting him know that he is my only lover.

I don't feel that in his energy he is very shy, I pulled his chart without his birth time so I don't know how accurate it is, but it shows a Capricorn moon, Taurus in Venus and Leo rising so I think he is very dominant in relationships. Demands loyalty..wants to be sought out. Very possessive hence the surprise visit last night. He sent me a text. I don't see you. Which I didn't see until I got home. And our text chat ended with sweet dreams lover. Him to me.

Oh wow, a cap moon and a taurus venus. You're going to need some serious patience. And read up on how slow both of those placements are with love and attachment.

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

Huh? You contradict yourself at every turn.

A minute ago you said "I told him he is my only lover" u are waiting around...

Own it...

OMG I mean twiddling my thumbs waiting around for him to call. I'm staying busy and doing fun things with my girls.

In your definition then he is waiting around too.

You just don't get it but that's ok.

Nah. He isn't.. Taurus see people as loyal "possessions"... U are not in a relationship with him and seeing that you have already has sex with him with no title, you are part of his harem (if he has one) whereby you swear loyalty to him and he is open to sleeping with others but you won't know that.

When you told him he was your only lover, did he say the same thing?

I asked him in person and he said that I was, but I didn't answer him because he didn't ask me. Then the mishap happend with snap chat, so now I'm letting him know that he is my only lover.

I don't feel that in his energy he is very shy, I pulled his chart without his birth time so I don't know how accurate it is, but it shows a Capricorn moon, Taurus in Venus and Leo rising so I think he is very dominant in relationships. Demands loyalty..wants to be sought out. Very possessive hence the surprise visit last night. He sent me a text. I don't see you. Which I didn't see until I got home. And our text chat ended with sweet dreams lover. Him to me.

That was before the "snap chat".. With some Taurus... If a person does not ask, we will not reveal...

If you are that certain.. Why has he not mentioned the exclusivity talk with you?

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No I asked him how many lovers he had, he said just me, I didn't volunteer the info. He didn't ask how many I have.

Some people don't have that talk, that is how it was with my ex husband. We never had that talk. We were together 9 years. And we were exclusive.

Who knows— Maybe that is a 3 month milestone convo 😉

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

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Oh wow, a cap moon and a taurus venus. You're going to need some serious patience. And read up on how slow both of those placements are with love and attachment.

He has been calling me love a lot lately. All I hope for is to share some very fun moments together.

I have patience as long as he shows consistency..he should with those placements. My Mars is in Virgo so I'm good with that.

I've started reading some I like the strength of these placements. Very stable.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

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You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

Huh? You contradict yourself at every turn.

A minute ago you said "I told him he is my only lover" u are waiting around...

Own it...

OMG I mean twiddling my thumbs waiting around for him to call. I'm staying busy and doing fun things with my girls.

In your definition then he is waiting around too.

You just don't get it but that's ok.

Nah. He isn't.. Taurus see people as loyal "possessions"... U are not in a relationship with him and seeing that you have already has sex with him with no title, you are part of his harem (if he has one) whereby you swear loyalty to him and he is open to sleeping with others but you won't know that.

When you told him he was your only lover, did he say the same thing?

I asked him in person and he said that I was, but I didn't answer him because he didn't ask me. Then the mishap happend with snap chat, so now I'm letting him know that he is my only lover.

I don't feel that in his energy he is very shy, I pulled his chart without his birth time so I don't know how accurate it is, but it shows a Capricorn moon, Taurus in Venus and Leo rising so I think he is very dominant in relationships. Demands loyalty..wants to be sought out. Very possessive hence the surprise visit last night. He sent me a text. I don't see you. Which I didn't see until I got home. And our text chat ended with sweet dreams lover. Him to me.

That was before the "snap chat".. With some Taurus... If a person does not ask, we will not reveal...

If you are that certain.. Why has he not mentioned the exclusivity talk with you?

No I asked him how many lovers he had, he said just me, I didn't volunteer the info. He didn't ask how many I have.

Some people don't have that talk, that is how it was with my ex husband. We never had that talk. We were together 9 years. And we were exclusive.

Who knows— Maybe that is a 3 month milestone convo 😉

Looks like they do these days... Keep up with the "program"... You are four months out of the relationship with your ex husband...

I hope you don't get your hopes up that his will be a "long term relationship if it is a relationship at all.

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No my ex husband and I have been divorced for 7 years. My ex BF and I have been for 4 months. We were together for one year.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

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I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

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Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

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I'm finally getting in my head that if a man really wants you,he's going to pursue you and be consistent with his efforts. I'm not going to say move on, but I feel like you energy could be better invested in someone else.

this. you definitely can't let a Taurus be lazy... bc some of us totally will. if you set the example that you are available whenever he wants, he'll keep working and doing whatever til it's convenient. you have to set it early on that you are not just going to sit around and wait for him. while you do want to spend time with him, you will continue your life until he's ready to show some kind of excitement towards you. everyone wants to feel wanted by their lover in some way shape or form. however, if you are not exclusive and you have set yourself as just available at his leisure, he will surely take his sweet time. really you can't let us get away with too much if you expect anything real from us. also, present your feelings in the least judgey, nagging way. if it comes from a place of love, we will compromise to please. if we feel you are trying to scold or control us, you'll see the heels dig in. hopes this helps love!

Thank you sweetheart🙂

I think he knows that I'm not waiting around.

Huh? You contradict yourself at every turn.

A minute ago you said "I told him he is my only lover" u are waiting around...

Own it...

OMG I mean twiddling my thumbs waiting around for him to call. I'm staying busy and doing fun things with my girls.

In your definition then he is waiting around too.

You just don't get it but that's ok.

Nah. He isn't.. Taurus see people as loyal "possessions"... U are not in a relationship with him and seeing that you have already has sex with him with no title, you are part of his harem (if he has one) whereby you swear loyalty to him and he is open to sleeping with others but you won't know that.

When you told him he was your only lover, did he say the same thing?

I asked him in person and he said that I was, but I didn't answer him because he didn't ask me. Then the mishap happend with snap chat, so now I'm letting him know that he is my only lover.

I don't feel that in his energy he is very shy, I pulled his chart without his birth time so I don't know how accurate it is, but it shows a Capricorn moon, Taurus in Venus and Leo rising so I think he is very dominant in relationships. Demands loyalty..wants to be sought out. Very possessive hence the surprise visit last night. He sent me a text. I don't see you. Which I didn't see until I got home. And our text chat ended with sweet dreams lover. Him to me.

That was before the "snap chat".. With some Taurus... If a person does not ask, we will not reveal...

If you are that certain.. Why has he not mentioned the exclusivity talk with you?

No I asked him how many lovers he had, he said just me, I didn't volunteer the info. He didn't ask how many I have.

Some people don't have that talk, that is how it was with my ex husband. We never had that talk. We were together 9 years. And we were exclusive.

Who knows— Maybe that is a 3 month milestone convo 😉

Looks like they do these days... Keep up with the "program"... You are four months out of the relationship with your ex husband...

I hope you don't get your hopes up that his will be a "long term relationship if it is a relationship at all.

No my ex husband and I have been divorced for 7 years. My ex BF and I have been for 4 months. We were together for one year.

U see still four months out of a one year relationship... The Taurus will still not take uii seriously as long term material because of how soon that ended and now you have slept with him. Plus if he is not too long out of a relationship himself, he will not be taking you too seriously..

You did a faux par with that text message and the Taurus will not forget... He will be keeping score and his options open without telling you

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Well my ex boyfriend screwed up, I'm not wasting my time on him.. I already wasted a year. Life is to short. I don't think he cares..he may not understand it but it's my business. He also knows I didn't have a relationship with anyone in 7 years, until I met my ex who cheated on me. And I'm not wasting anymore time.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

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Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

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I never said all Taurus man cheat, as a matter of fact, I said some are loyal to a fault and would never cheat.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

I never said all Taurus man cheat, as a matter of fact, I said some are loyal to a fault and would never cheat.

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But still have a harem 😉 yeah right

I was my exes best friend and he loved me with all of his heart.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

I never said all Taurus man cheat, as a matter of fact, I said some are loyal to a fault and would never cheat.

But still have a harem 😉 yeah right

I was my exes best friend and he loved me with all of his heart.

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There was no harem..

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

I never said all Taurus man cheat, as a matter of fact, I said some are loyal to a fault and would never cheat.

But still have a harem 😉 yeah right

I was my exes best friend and he loved me with all of his heart.

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Like I said loyal to a fault - you don't even know what the harem is or even about and just because your ex was, doesn't mean this was is. SMH

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

1) exactly the same question I asked earlier on in this thread

2) why did it not last?

Curiously..

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Because I was young and didn't understand how wonderful he was until it was too late. I wanted my freedom. For years I have been praying for another man like him.

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

Your saying all Taurus men cheat. I'm looking for good advice. Which I got thank you.

I never said all Taurus man cheat, as a matter of fact, I said some are loyal to a fault and would never cheat.

But still have a harem 😉 yeah right

I was my exes best friend and he loved me with all of his heart.

Like I said loyal to a fault - you don't even know what the harem is or even about and just because your ex was, doesn't mean this was is. SMH

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This was is— Say what?

A harem is a harem look it up in the dictionary **eye roll

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A 46 year old Taurus man in my experience has a well developed harem. Now you said he set boundaries for you and you agreed, he's you're only lover. Did he say the same, that he is exclusive to you and what do you know about the other women, the "friends"?

Well now he has me 🙂

You asked for astrology advice and now you're being flippant about it. I know a happily married taurus man that still keeps the back up harem going, been married 12 years, they have women "friends" around them, some are loyal to a fault and wouldn't dare cheat with them but still have them and then there's the other group, that actively sleep with their harem but do you notice the common denominator? They have a harem. A VIT isn't going to trust you this quickly, sorry but especially if you played a game by sending a text to another guy. And a cap moon, will never tell you, how much he hated that you did that but it won't stop him from playing with you.

I was married to a Taurus man, he was very faithful.

Then why are you here if you're an expert in Taurus men?

1) exactly the same question I asked earlier on in this thread

2) why did it not last?

Curiously..

Because I was young and didn't understand how wonderful he was until it was too late. I wanted my freedom. For years I have been praying for another man like him.

Keep praying... This Taurus isn't it...

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Lol ok...

Oh your ex husband was a taurus. Glad to hear that. If I was married.. maybe I was married a taurus but no thanks. They are more into me than I am into them (exes taurus). My taurus man at this time really annoying. We'd been fighting 3 days. Even my dress he noticed. Hahaha.

Librajean,

1. Your intention is just to flirt.

Correct me if I am wrong.

2. What do you want from that taurguy?

Made me confused. If I would have to flirt I dont want to invest my feelings. Everyday is just a funny day for me to count in.

3. If you heard his side - listen to it. What he wants from u? Did he say anything?

4. The venus in Scorpio are not rush people when it comes to emotion. They are more reserved morethan taurus the slow.

5. Stick to what you know is right not what you want - we cannot control others feeling. We can only control our responses.

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Librajean,

1. Your intention is just to flirt.

Correct me if I am wrong.

2. What do you want from that taurguy?

Made me confused. If I would have to flirt I dont want to invest my feelings. Everyday is just a funny day for me to count in.

3. If you heard his side - listen to it. What he wants from u? Did he say anything?

4. The venus in Scorpio are not rush people when it comes to emotion. They are more reserved morethan taurus the slow.

5. Stick to what you know is right not what you want - we cannot control others feeling. We can only control our responses.

1. Wrong but I am playful and lovable

2. I'd like to get closer to him

3. Right now just a path to me, he does try to connect with me daily.

4. Ok I understand that.

5. I'm just chilling...

Thank you for you post 🙂 John the Baptist kind of wore out the subject of him today. But I'll let y'all know what happens.

What?

This weekend while every time I logged off here and logged on here. This thread grows. I think you won. Especially on the Taurus board haven't seen this in along time.

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This weekend while every time I logged off here and logged on here. This thread grows. I think you won. Especially on the Taurus board haven't seen this in along time.

One thing for sure, I'm tired of talking about him..lol

John is trying to sprinkle his negative bs on a budding relationship I'm just deflecting it.

I'm not sure what I won at? We'll see what happens..

Deflect deflect deflect 🙂

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So my question to Libra woman here who have been with a Taurus male how long did it take to get some? If it's less than a month in how long did it last?

Libra checking in.

Taurus and I have been steadily dating for a little over a month now and we have not reached that point of intimacy yet. I am kind of a prude, and it takes a long time for me to get to that stage where I am comfortable and ready. Taurus makes it easy though, since he is so sweet and patient. We are extremely touchy feely with one another, but I don't feel any pressure from him at all. I have a Virgo moon, so I like to take things nice and slow, and I think it meshes well with his sun in Taurus. =]

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
So my question to Libra woman here who have been with a Taurus male how long did it take to get some? If it's less than a month in how long did it last?

Libra checking in.

Taurus and I have been steadily dating for a little over a month now and we have not reached that point of intimacy yet. I am kind of a prude, and it takes a long time for me to get to that stage where I am comfortable and ready. Taurus makes it easy though, since he is so sweet and patient. We are extremely touchy feely with one another, but I don't feel any pressure from him at all. I have a Virgo moon, so I like to take things nice and slow, and I think it meshes well with his sun in Taurus. =]

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Good that's good, get to know each other better even if it doesn't work , you'll be able to experiences new things and take lessons you learned on forward. Ya know.

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This weekend while every time I logged off here and logged on here. This thread grows. I think you won. Especially on the Taurus board haven't seen this in along time.

One thing for sure, I'm tired of talking about him..lol

John is trying to sprinkle his negative bs on a budding relationship I'm just deflecting it.

I'm not sure what I won at? We'll see what happens..

Deflect deflect deflect 🙂

U won at "BS"... U have a first class honours degree in it...

That bull and you will not last long term and you know it..

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You are really starting to annoy the hell out off me ??