Taurus Do You Like to Be Chased, Or Be the Aggressor ?

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Lady Bull
@PrettyTaurusLove
9 Years

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I always like to be chased especially of a man who got my full attention. We are just too cautious so maybe that's the reason why your Taurus is confusing you (perhaps).

Just a friendly advice:

If you really like her just stay with her. Making her miss you is cute but staying away for long is a different thing, it will make her think you are not interested. "Action speaks louder than words."

Reassurance and consistency are the key.
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Mered1th
@Mered1th
8 Years

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I don't know your age. This year I'll be making 33. For someone at my age I DEFINITELY want to be chased. Doing the chase is something a younger and immature Taurus female would maybe like to do, but a more mature one would definitely love to be chased. Although we are a very strong sign, in the long run you can risk her disrespecting you or feeling you're too weak (which is a HUGE turnoff for us) so eventually she'll dismiss you. We don't like to mother other guys. We actually love freedom and equality. That means that you have to be as strong as I am, but have the courage to chase me openly and not be afraid of your own feelings. Also personally when sometimes chases me at least I know that to a certain degree he knows what he's feeling and he knows what he wants. And that is power and that is sexy to me.

And don't worry, whenever you'll start to chase, if we like you we will take it from that point to the next level 🙂 You just have to keep trying and keep initiating and lead me and then I'll be leading you and then you'll be leading me again and so on 🙂 It's like a dance basically. It's teamwork. Personally me as a Taurus I look at being in a relationship as the most beautiful and equal thing in the world. I'll protect you and I'll make you stronger, I'll have your back, but you also have to do the same to me. We can be your king, but we love to make you the king and for you to be king and for us to be the strong queen for you.
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bostongigi
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8 Years

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Posted by Mered1th
I don't know your age. This year I'll be making 33. For someone at my age I DEFINITELY want to be chased. Doing the chase is something a younger and immature Taurus female would maybe like to do, but a more mature one would definitely love to be chased. Although we are a very strong sign, in the long run you can risk her disrespecting you or feeling you're too weak (which is a HUGE turnoff for us) so eventually she'll dismiss you. We don't like to mother other guys. We actually love freedom and equality. That means that you have to be as strong as I am, but have the courage to chase me openly and not be afraid of your own feelings. Also personally when sometimes chases me at least I know that to a certain degree he knows what he's feeling and he knows what he wants. And that is power and that is sexy to me.

And don't worry, whenever you'll start to chase, if we like you we will take it from that point to the next level 🙂 You just have to keep trying and keep initiating and lead me and then I'll be leading you and then you'll be leading me again and so on 🙂 It's like a dance basically. It's teamwork. Personally me as a Taurus I look at being in a relationship as the most beautiful and equal thing in the world. I'll protect you and I'll make you stronger, I'll have your back, but you also have to do the same to me. We can be your king, but we love to make you the king and for you to be king and for us to be the strong queen for you.
Yep within 3 weeks of knowing her I rented office space to start a staffing company. Her love is amazing.

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bostongigi
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8 Years

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Posted by Dreamyboy
I've gotten chased by taurus girls often. Hmm nice pointing that out. One would always come to my house and just act all cutesy and always wear thongs and literally drop things near me so she could bend over and pick it up. Always jumping on me and what not. Another one that I met came up to me and literally pulled a glowstick out my mouth and put it in hers and flirted with me alot. Another one would always hang out with me and bump her butt onto my groin area and ask me out to go eat or drinking


DAMN YOU GOT IT GOING ON!
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WallFlower422
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9 YearsTaurus

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
You're going to have to chase me, if I chase you, I'll only hate you later —?
This ^^^^

Nothing more to add.

If I do end up chasing....I will hate you later.



Did I also mention my Venus is in Aries, and I still HATE chasing.

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I've heard a lot of women say this, and I don't quite understand it. May I ask why, in your experience, you end up hating your significant other if you were the pursuer in the beginning?
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TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
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@Wallflower22,

There is a sense of resentment that comes with this.

This usually stems from a false sense of security.

I will feel as if my position was only solidified because of my efforts.

Not his.

I would always have this chip gnawing at the back of my head

Saying...

"He settled for me"

"He would have only pursued the woman he really wanted to be with."

Once the chase is gone.

So would my interest.

No love lost.

I was the only one putting in the effort anyways.

I had only one incident like this.

Which is exactly why I prefer not to pursue aggressively.
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Mered1th
@Mered1th
8 Years

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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Wallflower22,

There is a sense of resentment that comes with this.

This usually stems from a false sense of security.

I will feel as if my position was only solidified because of my efforts.

Not his.

I would always have this chip gnawing at the back of my head

Saying...

"He settled for me"

"He would have only pursued the woman he really wanted to be with."

Once the chase is gone.

So would my interest.

No love lost.

I was the only one putting in the effort anyways.

I had only one incident like this.

Which is exactly why I prefer not to pursue aggressively.
+1

I'm exactly like this. I will never be able to truly trust him. And trust is something that is very important to me. I don't know if it's Taurus thing - the trust issue - but to me it definitely is.