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@ConsiderableMyth
7 YearsLibra
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Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?



Posted by FleshpotThis is him:
They are loyal to their feelings and the people they care about, so it often takes them a considerable amount of time to move on.
What's his Venus?


Posted by Queenaries2He shows up as people who viewed my insta stories
How do you know



Posted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.

Posted by The_Mad_HatterLmfaoooooo!!! I picked up on that, too. They’re like “oh shit.”
Lol @ all the people asking how you can tell! You know your asses is guilty of doing this too.

Posted by ConsiderableMythPut yourself to privatePosted by Queenaries2He shows up as people who viewed my insta stories
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Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.click to expand

Posted by Queenaries2Nah, I use my insta for brand ambassador stuff. It needs to stay open. He can troll. It’s his wasted time.Posted by ConsiderableMythPut yourself to privatePosted by Queenaries2He shows up as people who viewed my insta stories
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Posted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
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Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
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Posted by ConsiderableMythYou know it's possible that he was viewing ALL the stories from people he follows right? And how it goes on autoplay switching from one person's story to the next?Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
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Posted by miriyahhhIt’s funny you say that. I actually had a convo posted to my story with a guy I dated a couple months ago that spoke Italian and I made sure to include the part where he said he could see himself marrying me. After I saw that he saw it, I took it down and I thought that would make him stop looking. It didn’t. When I talked to him after that, he brought it up. Said it was okay if I was dating.
He's a Taurus huh. Post a pic with a dude and watch him show up at your door step.
But what would you do then?

Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
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Posted by DolluxxeWe’re not friends on instagram, so he has to go out of his way to look me up and then view the stories.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou know it's possible that he was viewing ALL the stories from people he follows right? And how it goes on autoplay switching from one person's story to the next?Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
That doesn't mean he's "creeping" your instagram. I've had an ex pop up on my insta stories viewers a couple of times and I never thought much of it.click to expand

Posted by ConsiderableMythHe just wants to see if you'd replace him with an uglier dude. Men and their egos.Posted by DolluxxeWe’re not friends on instagram, so he has to go out of his way to look me up and then view the stories.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou know it's possible that he was viewing ALL the stories from people he follows right? And how it goes on autoplay switching from one person's story to the next?Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
That doesn't mean he's "creeping" your instagram. I've had an ex pop up on my insta stories viewers a couple of times and I never thought much of it.click to expand

Posted by DolluxxeHaha, yeah that’s probably true. When he asked about the guy I dated he said, “what’s he look like? His name is Sebastian and he speaks Italian?”Posted by ConsiderableMythHe just wants to see if you'd replace him with an uglier dude. Men and their egos.Posted by DolluxxeWe’re not friends on instagram, so he has to go out of his way to look me up and then view the stories.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou know it's possible that he was viewing ALL the stories from people he follows right? And how it goes on autoplay switching from one person's story to the next?Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
That doesn't mean he's "creeping" your instagram. I've had an ex pop up on my insta stories viewers a couple of times and I never thought much of it.click to expand

Posted by The_Mad_HatterHahaha!!Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
This got me like
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Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
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Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
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Posted by ConsiderableMythAnd why is falling back in love with you a problem? You said you love him and if he'll love you too that'll be great, right? So why don't you just ask him why not then? Why not fall in love with you.
DAILY after 6 months...
Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.

Posted by ConsiderableMythHmm sounds odd that things changed so much after his wife found out about you. They arent divorced so my first assumption would be they still have feelings for each other. Or perhaps she’s using the kids to control him. But still. You’d think he’d still talk to you a little at least. The wishy washyness is a common trait for Pisces. He may just need more time. Time to separate more significantly from his wife. I think you need to find out more about her.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
So.... we worked together long ago. Just about 5 years ago. He got married and I was already married. We had a crush on each other but because we were both married we never acted on it. Fast forward to last June —->> I’m divorced about 2 years and he’s now getting divorced. We reconnected on social media. He worded himself “getting divorced” which led me to believe the paperwork was already filed, which was not the case. They we separated, and have a child together. So we end up spending all this time together, going on vacations, lots of stuff within 4 months.
Somehow his wife at the time saw pictures we took in Colorado and figured out we were together. Because they hadn’t come up with a custody agreement yet, he was worried about it. He had 50/50 custody, which doesn’t happen often. Once he told me she knew we were spending time together, he got weird. Didn’t even text me on my birthday, which is a far cry from talking everyday, all day, and about 4 hours on the phone. So I decided I didn’t want to be the reason his custody gets screwed up. I told him we should both fall back and revisit once his divorce was final.
A few things:
1. Idk the dynamic between him and his wife/ex wife, but I certainly don’t want to cause him or anyone problems.
2. Had I known the petition for divorce hasn’t even been filed yet before I became so attached, I wouldn’t have even bothered.
3. There are things I also need to work on. So I’m still in the same boat as you as far as that goes.
We’ve been broken up for 6 months. I’m not giving up, but I’ve accepted that maybe sometimes you only get that kind of love once.
How long have y’all been broken up? Do you still talk at all?click to expand

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DAILY after 6 months...
Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.

Posted by pinkbird03Yeah I definitely feel the same! When I talked to him earlier this year he mentioned he sold his truck and was thinking about getting either a Jeep or 4runner. I said definitely don’t get a Jeep, and he said he would get a 4runner then. Why listen to me or ask my opinion if you don’t care? But I do it too.Posted by ConsiderableMythHmm sounds odd that things changed so much after his wife found out about you. They arent divorced so my first assumption would be they still have feelings for each other. Or perhaps she’s using the kids to control him. But still. You’d think he’d still talk to you a little at least. The wishy washyness is a common trait for Pisces. He may just need more time. Time to separate more significantly from his wife. I think you need to find out more about her.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
So.... we worked together long ago. Just about 5 years ago. He got married and I was already married. We had a crush on each other but because we were both married we never acted on it. Fast forward to last June —->> I’m divorced about 2 years and he’s now getting divorced. We reconnected on social media. He worded himself “getting divorced” which led me to believe the paperwork was already filed, which was not the case. They we separated, and have a child together. So we end up spending all this time together, going on vacations, lots of stuff within 4 months.
Somehow his wife at the time saw pictures we took in Colorado and figured out we were together. Because they hadn’t come up with a custody agreement yet, he was worried about it. He had 50/50 custody, which doesn’t happen often. Once he told me she knew we were spending time together, he got weird. Didn’t even text me on my birthday, which is a far cry from talking everyday, all day, and about 4 hours on the phone. So I decided I didn’t want to be the reason his custody gets screwed up. I told him we should both fall back and revisit once his divorce was final.
A few things:
1. Idk the dynamic between him and his wife/ex wife, but I certainly don’t want to cause him or anyone problems.
2. Had I known the petition for divorce hasn’t even been filed yet before I became so attached, I wouldn’t have even bothered.
3. There are things I also need to work on. So I’m still in the same boat as you as far as that goes.
We’ve been broken up for 6 months. I’m not giving up, but I’ve accepted that maybe sometimes you only get that kind of love once.
How long have y’all been broken up? Do you still talk at all?
I’m not sure when my aqua and I broke up. We never had an official breakup. I turned my location off in January then he did. So maybe then? But it was November the last time I saw him. He started two new businesses on top of one he already owns. The guy loves money. He works literally every single day since fall. He told me that’s why it didn’t work out with other girls. We talk occasionally, but not too much. He ignores some of my text messages. I figure he’s busy and it’s not like I ever have anything important to say. But has time to stalk my Snapchat and my location before that 🤨 I guess given his work and my experiences, I know how easy it is to click, swipe, click because I do it all day too even when I’m busy 😁 we are addicted to each other. We’ve pretty been in each other’s day daily since we met. Do you feel that way too?click to expand

Posted by IlovemyaquaOh this is good!!! I’m gonna block him from my stories!Posted by ConsiderableMythAnd why is falling back in love with you a problem? You said you love him and if he'll love you too that'll be great, right? So why don't you just ask him why not then? Why not fall in love with you.
DAILY after 6 months...
Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.
Secondly, I am not on insta so i don't know but isn't there a way that you can hide your stories from him? Personally, when I miss a love interest but don't want to call, I'll look at their recent pictures on social media and be sorted, that will kill my urge of calling them. You're giving him stories too so you're giving a pile of things which can help him kill his urge. If however I don't get to see what they're upto, I get restless and who knows I may end up calling them and having a heart to heart?
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Posted by DMVI’m sure I’ll get there.Posted by ConsiderableMyth
DAILY after 6 months...
Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.
6 months... That's it?
That ain't nuthun
That's like 2 days in Taurus world.
Try 3 years gurl
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Posted by ConsiderableMythYou do realize when you view someone’s stories it automatically goes to the next person in the queue when it’s done. It’s not like he’s CHOOSING to only watch your stories. Your just next up in the queue.Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
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Posted by LadyNeptuneThat would be the case if we were actually friends on instagram, but we’re not. He’s going to my page and looking for it every time.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou do realize when you view someone’s stories it automatically goes to the next person in the queue when it’s done. It’s not like he’s CHOOSING to only watch your stories. Your just next up in the queue.Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
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Posted by ConsiderableMythMake your shit private. Problem solved.Posted by LadyNeptuneThat would be the case if we were actually friends on instagram, but we’re not. He’s going to my page and looking for it every time.Posted by ConsiderableMythYou do realize when you view someone’s stories it automatically goes to the next person in the queue when it’s done. It’s not like he’s CHOOSING to only watch your stories. Your just next up in the queue.Posted by DolluxxeYeah! I keep my profile public, and I thought he didn’t know I could see it until I had a convo about it with him and he doesn’t care that I know he’s obsessing over it.
How'd you know he checks your instagram everyday? You mean he views your stories?
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Posted by ConsiderableMythIt’s not odd. I think you mean a lot to him. But it’s this wife. I think she’s the problem. Do you know why the split?Posted by pinkbird03Yeah I definitely feel the same! When I talked to him earlier this year he mentioned he sold his truck and was thinking about getting either a Jeep or 4runner. I said definitely don’t get a Jeep, and he said he would get a 4runner then. Why listen to me or ask my opinion if you don’t care? But I do it too.Posted by ConsiderableMythHmm sounds odd that things changed so much after his wife found out about you. They arent divorced so my first assumption would be they still have feelings for each other. Or perhaps she’s using the kids to control him. But still. You’d think he’d still talk to you a little at least. The wishy washyness is a common trait for Pisces. He may just need more time. Time to separate more significantly from his wife. I think you need to find out more about her.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
So.... we worked together long ago. Just about 5 years ago. He got married and I was already married. We had a crush on each other but because we were both married we never acted on it. Fast forward to last June —->> I’m divorced about 2 years and he’s now getting divorced. We reconnected on social media. He worded himself “getting divorced” which led me to believe the paperwork was already filed, which was not the case. They we separated, and have a child together. So we end up spending all this time together, going on vacations, lots of stuff within 4 months.
Somehow his wife at the time saw pictures we took in Colorado and figured out we were together. Because they hadn’t come up with a custody agreement yet, he was worried about it. He had 50/50 custody, which doesn’t happen often. Once he told me she knew we were spending time together, he got weird. Didn’t even text me on my birthday, which is a far cry from talking everyday, all day, and about 4 hours on the phone. So I decided I didn’t want to be the reason his custody gets screwed up. I told him we should both fall back and revisit once his divorce was final.
A few things:
1. Idk the dynamic between him and his wife/ex wife, but I certainly don’t want to cause him or anyone problems.
2. Had I known the petition for divorce hasn’t even been filed yet before I became so attached, I wouldn’t have even bothered.
3. There are things I also need to work on. So I’m still in the same boat as you as far as that goes.
We’ve been broken up for 6 months. I’m not giving up, but I’ve accepted that maybe sometimes you only get that kind of love once.
How long have y’all been broken up? Do you still talk at all?
I’m not sure when my aqua and I broke up. We never had an official breakup. I turned my location off in January then he did. So maybe then? But it was November the last time I saw him. He started two new businesses on top of one he already owns. The guy loves money. He works literally every single day since fall. He told me that’s why it didn’t work out with other girls. We talk occasionally, but not too much. He ignores some of my text messages. I figure he’s busy and it’s not like I ever have anything important to say. But has time to stalk my Snapchat and my location before that 🤨 I guess given his work and my experiences, I know how easy it is to click, swipe, click because I do it all day too even when I’m busy 😁 we are addicted to each other. We’ve pretty been in each other’s day daily since we met. Do you feel that way too?
We both care what the other thinks and feels. It’s just so odd to me.
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Posted by pinkbird03Unfortunately, yes. He cheated. He claims it was just an emotional affair, but I can’t see two people getting a divorce with a kid and have been together for 8 years over an emotional divorce.Posted by ConsiderableMythIt’s not odd. I think you mean a lot to him. But it’s this wife. I think she’s the problem. Do you know why the split?Posted by pinkbird03Yeah I definitely feel the same! When I talked to him earlier this year he mentioned he sold his truck and was thinking about getting either a Jeep or 4runner. I said definitely don’t get a Jeep, and he said he would get a 4runner then. Why listen to me or ask my opinion if you don’t care? But I do it too.Posted by ConsiderableMythHmm sounds odd that things changed so much after his wife found out about you. They arent divorced so my first assumption would be they still have feelings for each other. Or perhaps she’s using the kids to control him. But still. You’d think he’d still talk to you a little at least. The wishy washyness is a common trait for Pisces. He may just need more time. Time to separate more significantly from his wife. I think you need to find out more about her.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
So.... we worked together long ago. Just about 5 years ago. He got married and I was already married. We had a crush on each other but because we were both married we never acted on it. Fast forward to last June —->> I’m divorced about 2 years and he’s now getting divorced. We reconnected on social media. He worded himself “getting divorced” which led me to believe the paperwork was already filed, which was not the case. They we separated, and have a child together. So we end up spending all this time together, going on vacations, lots of stuff within 4 months.
Somehow his wife at the time saw pictures we took in Colorado and figured out we were together. Because they hadn’t come up with a custody agreement yet, he was worried about it. He had 50/50 custody, which doesn’t happen often. Once he told me she knew we were spending time together, he got weird. Didn’t even text me on my birthday, which is a far cry from talking everyday, all day, and about 4 hours on the phone. So I decided I didn’t want to be the reason his custody gets screwed up. I told him we should both fall back and revisit once his divorce was final.
A few things:
1. Idk the dynamic between him and his wife/ex wife, but I certainly don’t want to cause him or anyone problems.
2. Had I known the petition for divorce hasn’t even been filed yet before I became so attached, I wouldn’t have even bothered.
3. There are things I also need to work on. So I’m still in the same boat as you as far as that goes.
We’ve been broken up for 6 months. I’m not giving up, but I’ve accepted that maybe sometimes you only get that kind of love once.
How long have y’all been broken up? Do you still talk at all?
I’m not sure when my aqua and I broke up. We never had an official breakup. I turned my location off in January then he did. So maybe then? But it was November the last time I saw him. He started two new businesses on top of one he already owns. The guy loves money. He works literally every single day since fall. He told me that’s why it didn’t work out with other girls. We talk occasionally, but not too much. He ignores some of my text messages. I figure he’s busy and it’s not like I ever have anything important to say. But has time to stalk my Snapchat and my location before that 🤨 I guess given his work and my experiences, I know how easy it is to click, swipe, click because I do it all day too even when I’m busy 😁 we are addicted to each other. We’ve pretty been in each other’s day daily since we met. Do you feel that way too?
We both care what the other thinks and feels. It’s just so odd to me.
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Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03Unfortunately, yes. He cheated. He claims it was just an emotional affair, but I can’t see two people getting a divorce with a kid and have been together for 8 years over an emotional divorce.Posted by ConsiderableMythIt’s not odd. I think you mean a lot to him. But it’s this wife. I think she’s the problem. Do you know why the split?Posted by pinkbird03Yeah I definitely feel the same! When I talked to him earlier this year he mentioned he sold his truck and was thinking about getting either a Jeep or 4runner. I said definitely don’t get a Jeep, and he said he would get a 4runner then. Why listen to me or ask my opinion if you don’t care? But I do it too.Posted by ConsiderableMythHmm sounds odd that things changed so much after his wife found out about you. They arent divorced so my first assumption would be they still have feelings for each other. Or perhaps she’s using the kids to control him. But still. You’d think he’d still talk to you a little at least. The wishy washyness is a common trait for Pisces. He may just need more time. Time to separate more significantly from his wife. I think you need to find out more about her.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ConsiderableMythWow again, it sounds similar to my relationship. He pulled away and has a serious wall up too. My ex says it was because of work, which I definitely believe is a huge part of it. I know he’s not dating anyone else. But I think there must be some other reason he pulled away that he’s just not saying. Do you know why exactly your ex pulled away? I’m thinking maybe I need to do some research on Pisces Venus because it seems like these boys both love the same way- from afar. My plan has been to work on the things I may have failed at and show him that i can be better- be more consistent, confident, trust him, etc. don’t give up if you love him and he’s worth it. How long have you been broken up?Posted by pinkbird03Been trying. He’s pretty self-disciplined when he knows what’s best for him. He won’t allow himself to get too close to me again.Posted by ConsiderableMythOk then my advice is to communicate with him and try to rebuild the relationshipPosted by pinkbird03To put it mildly, I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me to. He’s the only one I’ve ever truly loved. EVER. he changed my whole life for the better, and even without him, I’m still improving. That kind of love doesn’t stop. Not that real love.Posted by ConsiderableMythPosted by pinkbird03This could be true. I could see him looking at my story for the same reason. What gets me is some days I’ll post like 10 items to my story and he usually checks it every few hours. That means he’s thinking of me at least that often, if not more. I think about him all the time, so why are we doing this?
My ex aqua is like that toooooo. He also has a Pisces Venus. He looks right away at every story and he knows I see it too. I believe he does it on purpose so I think of him because I actually deleted him off my friends list. I’m talking about snap though.
Anyone else, I couldn’t give a shit less. Honestly. I haven’t checked any of my exes stuff because I don’t care. His profile is private so I can’t see what he’s up to. Wish I understood what his objective was.
Your story sounds very similar to mine. I wish I had answers. Especially because it’s happening more now than ever. I think they care, but that Pisces Venus is fickle. Do you want your ex back?
I think it’s so sad that we had such a deep and real connection and he’s letting his fears run the show.
But, I figure if it’s as real as I thought, he can date whoever he wants and he’ll see there’s not another one like it. Not saying there’s not another girl like me, but I feel that our connection was rare.
It would be good for him to date and find that out for himself.
As for me, he knows how I feel about him and as much as I wish I could stop, it won’t happen.
Our mutual breakup after 4 extremely intense months was harder for me than my divorce after being with my husband for 12 years.
So.... we worked together long ago. Just about 5 years ago. He got married and I was already married. We had a crush on each other but because we were both married we never acted on it. Fast forward to last June —->> I’m divorced about 2 years and he’s now getting divorced. We reconnected on social media. He worded himself “getting divorced” which led me to believe the paperwork was already filed, which was not the case. They we separated, and have a child together. So we end up spending all this time together, going on vacations, lots of stuff within 4 months.
Somehow his wife at the time saw pictures we took in Colorado and figured out we were together. Because they hadn’t come up with a custody agreement yet, he was worried about it. He had 50/50 custody, which doesn’t happen often. Once he told me she knew we were spending time together, he got weird. Didn’t even text me on my birthday, which is a far cry from talking everyday, all day, and about 4 hours on the phone. So I decided I didn’t want to be the reason his custody gets screwed up. I told him we should both fall back and revisit once his divorce was final.
A few things:
1. Idk the dynamic between him and his wife/ex wife, but I certainly don’t want to cause him or anyone problems.
2. Had I known the petition for divorce hasn’t even been filed yet before I became so attached, I wouldn’t have even bothered.
3. There are things I also need to work on. So I’m still in the same boat as you as far as that goes.
We’ve been broken up for 6 months. I’m not giving up, but I’ve accepted that maybe sometimes you only get that kind of love once.
How long have y’all been broken up? Do you still talk at all?
I’m not sure when my aqua and I broke up. We never had an official breakup. I turned my location off in January then he did. So maybe then? But it was November the last time I saw him. He started two new businesses on top of one he already owns. The guy loves money. He works literally every single day since fall. He told me that’s why it didn’t work out with other girls. We talk occasionally, but not too much. He ignores some of my text messages. I figure he’s busy and it’s not like I ever have anything important to say. But has time to stalk my Snapchat and my location before that 🤨 I guess given his work and my experiences, I know how easy it is to click, swipe, click because I do it all day too even when I’m busy 😁 we are addicted to each other. We’ve pretty been in each other’s day daily since we met. Do you feel that way too?
We both care what the other thinks and feels. It’s just so odd to me.
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Posted by ConsiderableMythIt's hard for us to let go. I absolutely understand what he's saying. I can't be friends with my exes... Sometimes we know the relationship isn't going to last, and end it, but that doesn't mean we don't still care about you and want to know how you're doing, and yes we can still harbor feelings for you, even after the relationship ends. We're loving like that...
DAILY after 6 months...
Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.
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Long story short, he got distant while we were dating and I got tired of it so we mutually ended it. However, he checks my instagram everyday, several times a day.
Why?
When I asked him why we can’t just be friends, he said because he’ll fall back in love with me.