Taurus man cheating

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danii03
@danii03
7 Years

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Hello,

I have been talking to a Taurus man for 6 months - we initially met at work, but he later quit and contacted me 6 months later (i just got out of an 8 year relationship). I was really happy when he texted me, and we met for coffee. We started talking everyday and a month in he tells me he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 7 YEARS. I was devastated....i was so attracted to him and we couldn't stop talking...we met a few times...and even slept together and hooked up. He says hes confused and cant make up his mind - but i said if you really wanted to be with me you would! i broke it off, and said dont talk to me until she is out of the picture....he then calls me and lures me back in. I am so confused....will he ever leave her? i feel we do have a strong connection. i dont know what to do ....should i even tell her whats going on? someone please help!
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TaurusFlower22
@TaurusFlower22
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Posted by FishyDude
I don't think Taurus' are as loyal as Astrologers make them out to be, that's not to say that all Taurus peeps cheat, anyone can cheat.

OP, if he's involved with another woman then let it be. You need to set boundaries with the dude and tell him to back off. Let him cheat with another woman and hopefully his current lady finds out about it.
This.

Even that 1st sentence lol. I personally have never cheated, ever. But, every Taurus guy I've dated has cheated on me. Smh

Op, take your emotions out of this for a sec and put your logic hat on. If he does it with you, he'll do it to you.
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TaurusBull1977
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Posted by danii03
Hello,

I have been talking to a Taurus man for 6 months - we initially met at work, but he later quit and contacted me 6 months later (i just got out of an 8 year relationship). I was really happy when he texted me, and we met for coffee. We started talking everyday and a month in he tells me he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 7 YEARS. I was devastated....i was so attracted to him and we couldn't stop talking...we met a few times...and even slept together and hooked up. He says hes confused and cant make up his mind - but i said if you really wanted to be with me you would! i broke it off, and said dont talk to me until she is out of the picture....he then calls me and lures me back in. I am so confused....will he ever leave her? i feel we do have a strong connection. i dont know what to do ....should i even tell her whats going on? someone please help!

Why would you tell his girlfriend what's going on? Are you trying to solidify your relationship with him by getting her out the picture, or were you going to tell her what a 'worm' he is?

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Skyblue007
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7 Years

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Hi

I understand your frustration. Sometimes its harder to leave someone who you might be attached to, and see a future with. At the same time, given the guy might be confused about you for one or more reasons. There are many ways, this could be looked at and solved, from you to completely block him off and move on with your life or sort this out and get his stigma or yours out and get him to really like you.

It deoends on what YOU want and ot can be worked on from there. It is the easiest to block someone off and take opinions most will just say block him and move on.

There is always a solution. Lets start from that, let us or me know where you want yo start from and we can create an action plan.




Posted by danii03
Hello,

I have been talking to a Taurus man for 6 months - we initially met at work, but he later quit and contacted me 6 months later (i just got out of an 8 year relationship). I was really happy when he texted me, and we met for coffee. We started talking everyday and a month in he tells me he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 7 YEARS. I was devastated....i was so attracted to him and we couldn't stop talking...we met a few times...and even slept together and hooked up. He says hes confused and cant make up his mind - but i said if you really wanted to be with me you would! i broke it off, and said dont talk to me until she is out of the picture....he then calls me and lures me back in. I am so confused....will he ever leave her? i feel we do have a strong connection. i dont know what to do ....should i even tell her whats going on? someone please help!