I have been involved in the biggest freaking year and a half long roller coaster ride of a relationship with this man. NOTHING about our synastry is compatible at all but he will not let this end!! Even after he was talking to women online and driving across the state to see one behind my back he expects me to forgive him and do everything he wants with ZERO commitment on his part. But he says he loves me and doesn't care about "labels". How convenient! He pressures me for sex ALL THE TIME and doesn't care if I want to as long he gets is way and he calls it "making love" LOL! Even though it really isn't funny and I consider it abusive! I have screamed at him so many times because he is crazy and just wants to get his way! My neighbors think I am crazy now! And after I am too tired to fight anymore I just give in but I am REALLY sick of it! I can go into it more but right now I am so exhausted and I just need to vent. Anyone else who has dated someone with these placements? Or insight into ours? Any positive feedback is appreciated!!
Thank you
His personal planets:
Sun in Taurus Moon in Sagittarius Mercury in Aries Venus in Gemini Mars in Leo Scorpio Rising
Mine:
Sun in Aquarius Moon in Pisces Mercury in Pisces Venus in Aquarius Mars in Pisces Leo Rising
geez, tls, didn't you read her post? she wanted only positive feedback. honest feedback? no thank you. positive-so-she-can-continue-what-she-is-doing-because-she-enjoys-the-drama feedback? yes please.
geez, tls, didn't you read her post? she wanted only positive feedback. honest feedback? no thank you. positive-so-she-can-continue-what-she-is-doing-because-she-enjoys-the-drama feedback? yes please.
Hey no worries! Your honesty is welcome and appreciated. Have a nice day!
Moon in Pisces. Too passive. Always the victim. Very annoying. Wishy washy. Likes it one minute, changes mind the next
I'm sure that is often the case, certainly the cat lady astrology stereotype of Pisces however it is funny to me. Because it is him constantly playing the victim when I call him out on his shit. Which is like, every day! "Why are you so mean to me" Because I see through your lies!
Not to say that I'm not wishy washy or indecisive, which I certainly can be. Didn't come in here saying I was perfect. Although I was admittedly pretty distressed in my post making me an easy target but that's cool. I can't even date Pisces guys for the same reason so I totally understand your comment. Great friends but I can't date them. Until I am proven wrong..
I've just had it with being jerked around, he lied to me for six months and he wants instant trust and I'm tired of it. He needs to give me time for him to earn that trust back, but even then I wonder if it's worth it? Probably not. Also my beloved, handsome fluffy orange cat just died three days ago so that factors into a lot of my emotions right now. ๐ข
I'm so overwhelmed by his constant need for ego gratification and asking me daily if i want him multiple times a day, that lately I just tell him to find someone else but he says he is addicted to me and can't get enough of me. This is not a humblebrag, he really does say stuff like this. That and "GIVE ME YOUR BODY"
There are lot of various codependent behavior patterns that we both take part in. I am not a victim, I fully acknowledge that have participated in this but the point is that I do not want to anymore and I want it to stop. I have suggested seeing a relationship counselor which I still think is a good idea.
I mean it's flattering to a certain degree, and I am attracted to him still but I need my space, and if he expects me to invest this much energy in him I don't want to waste my time, and I'm not going to wait around for him to make up his mind. Doesn't that make sense? It seems rational to me.
But what I really wanted to know is, is there anyone else on here who knows someone with these placements. It's seems rare.
Oh and I am a voyeur on all of these message boards so I know you guys love the drama and it's hilarious. If you didn't you wouldn't comment on these posts. This isn't my first time at the dxpnet rodeo. Or..couch potato flame war.
Hmm..nice try. We have been in a committed relationship for a long time. He wasn't just some douchebag who was hanging around trying to screw me like your "friend". It didn't start off with him pressuring me for sex, we went on many dates without getting physical and decided to date exclusively in 2013. We talk a lot about movies, and art, books, and our personal experiences. The trouble is that he was insanely jealous at the very beginning. I had sex with him after we went on these dates because 1. He wanted an exclusive relationship and 2.I wanted to and I enjoyed it! And I still do, just when I feel like it.
You can call me pathetic and stupid and crazy all you want. Whatever makes you feel better. If I friend zone a guy he is friend zoned end of story. If i commit myself I commit all the way. It's that simple.
Fortunately I have family members and a few close friends to talk to, I spent a lot of time with them last night and also talking with him when he spent the night.
Wow, it IS my body. Really? And...he doesn't control it? Good observation I never realized that before! I always thought I couldn't breathe or walk unless it was under his command.
Never said "good". Did I say good? Or rosy? Find where I said that and I will own up to it. Just because its committed doesn't mean it's good. It just sounds like your own experience was a little more uh..casual.
Ok, I am trying to be civil about this and this is the last time that I will respond because this is a waste of time. You win, congratulations!
If you bothered to read everything that I posted, I mentioned that THE MAIN POINT OF THE THREAD WAS ASKING ABOUT OTHERS EXPERIENCES WITH THESE PLACEMENTS. And I got miserable responses from about 5 miserable people.
Lucky? I consider myself lucky and I'm grateful for a lot of things in my life. Your replying to my post and calling me stupid isn't one of them.
Yes briefly messed with a fire bull of the same placements.
Sun Tau Moon Sag Mars Leo
Very warm, affectionate, cuddly sexual and non-monogamous. My Cancer sun, Sag Moon, Aries Mars was very drawn to him. Big time voyeur, like most Earth signs.๐ Every time we had contact, the topic was about sex and him ejaculating on cam. And not much else.
He called me his dream girl. Never really took him serious after I tried to meet him in the early stages and he would cancel on me. We could never pin each other down and get a commitment. Turns out he had a girlfriend. And I look nothing like her. ๐ He married that girl and still tried to have kinky sex chats with me. Ewwww
They will marry or get serious when they want to. And not a minute before. And you never know when that is.
I have been wanting to know what Pisces moon thinks of Sag moon. I hear Pisces moon is magnetically attracted to Sag moon. If this is the case I would like to try a Pisces moon, not sure what the Sun should be though to make this a compatible combination for me.
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He pressures me for sex ALL THE TIME and doesn't care if I want to as long he gets is way and he calls it "making love" LOL! Even though it really isn't funny and I consider it abusive! I have screamed at him so many times because he is crazy and just wants to get his way! My neighbors think I am crazy now!
And after I am too tired to fight anymore I just give in but I am REALLY sick of it! I can go into it more but right now I am so exhausted and I just need to vent. Anyone else who has dated someone with these placements? Or insight into ours? Any positive feedback is appreciated!!
Thank you
His personal planets:
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Sagittarius
Mercury in Aries
Venus in Gemini
Mars in Leo
Scorpio Rising
Mine:
Sun in Aquarius
Moon in Pisces
Mercury in Pisces
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Pisces
Leo Rising