taurus men cheaters?

im just wondering if anyone else has noticed that taurus males specifically have an issue with cheating. I have know at least three taurus males that tried to get at me while they had STEADY girl friends, and have never found this phenomenon with any other signs. anyone have any insight? agree/disagree?

I dated two taurus men and they both were cheaters.
The second one was better at it then the first. He had me and other women in other states.
He still tries to put his "hooks" into me from time to time.
But I don't go for it anymore.

Taurus have an issue with love and in today's world of lustful advertisements promoting cheaters, then love will never happen. Spread the music of Psy Wisely 1 on YouTube. Very few are considered the actual alpha star but many choose to be alpha males in today's society. Unless his Venus is in virgo then that's a major depressed bull.

Actually my Venus is in virgo and I too fell into the world of animals. Darwinism is false; and astrology is truth. The love of my life is a Sagittarius and I have no clue what she's doing but I can feel her in a cold world such as this planet.

Psy wisely next generation August 26 1992 my love for music and earth is all I got left, but don't worry if I ever go poor then ill power my mind through the heart and continue my education as continuously being reminded I am not another brick in the wall. S/O to Pink Floyd.

@woodenmeow see i knew i wasnt the only one who noticed! and they are quite consistent, it was annoying.

Yes they cheat & lie

@virguy i do agree that many are trying to be the alpha male in todays society, which is disheartening. i also feel like taurus guys go above and beyond to prove that.

@flapperlife-
The last boyfriend was a taurus. He used me for 3 years, and in the end he admitted he could have used me for more.
He broke my heart so good, it hurt down to my Soul.
After all the jerks I have dated, in all the years and Im not super-young by any means.
My heart is mending at 39yr.
He did quite a number on me.

@woodenmeow im so sorry to hear about that, i cant believe what a disgusting human being would admit to using someone! I believe it though:/ I had a feeling i was being used by at least one of these said taurus men, whom i thought was SINGLE but turns out he was in a long term relationship. The other taurus guy literally told me that since his gf was pregnant, he wanted to start something sexual on the side with me since he couldnt with her. Terrible. They just really want someone on the side to fulfill their bootycalls, and i think its very selfish. I am a female taurus myself, but for some reason i think we vary greatly from our male counterparts.

@impulsv wow, what a way with words he has *eye rolls* Have you noticed this with any other signs? or is it strictly taurus men you think?

Posted by Virguy
Taurus have an issue with love and in today's world of lustful advertisements promoting cheaters, then love will never happen. Spread the music of Psy Wisely 1 on YouTube. Very few are considered the actual alpha star but many choose to be alpha males in today's society. Unless his Venus is in virgo then that's a major depressed bull.

His Venus cannot possible be in Virgo.

Posted by Virguy
Taurus have an issue with love and in today's world of lustful advertisements promoting cheaters, then love will never happen.

wow, very close to the mark with that there IMO. We are very old fashioned and believe in true love, but many bulls I've met have grown cynical. Too much of the 'if you've got it, flaunt it' mentality going around, and no one can really stay faithful, especially with their heart/mind.

Cheating ass bulls....dnt believe the hype ladies

the books and websites are wrong....we are living proof

Posted by aquansidenout
Yes there does seem to be a lot of them that cheat. They love pleasure and if they have the ability to get any woman they want they will single or not.

truth

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Posted by Virguy
Taurus have an issue with love and in today's world of lustful advertisements promoting cheaters, then love will never happen.

wow, very close to the mark with that there IMO. We are very old fashioned and believe in true love, but many bulls I've met have grown cynical. Too much of the 'if you've got it, flaunt it' mentality going around, and no one can really stay faithful, especially with their heart/mind.

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Posted by aquansidenout
Some taurus men are only as faithful as their options.

girl!! yup

I personally have never physically cheated on any woman and have been in steady relationships since 2nd grade. I've been propositioned several times by some very beautiful women (those would be Leo, Sag, and a Scorpio very actively seducing, knowing I'm taken).

Men in general are perverts and society plays on it and makes it worse with the obsessive focus on physical beauty and the *constant* bombardment of sexuality we are faced with all day long. Obviously we have a certain degree of visual arousal programmed into us genetically. If you women knew how difficult it is to be a man and just walk through the supermarket, or watch even a family-oriented movie or TV show, without having our most base/basic instincts exploited, you would have more compassion. Men who deny that its a struggle to keep their eyes from wandering, are probably desensitized from all of the internet porn they are whacking off to. Men of all signs are just more likely to cheat in a culture saturated with imagery that aims to keep us in that sexual frame of mind. But I think its even potentially harder for bulls with how aesthetically sensitive we are. Women certainly play a huge role in all this. It takes two to cheat. Standards are shifting, women are getting more aggressive, the spirit of the age is to flaunt what you have....its like a jungle out there.

And if there are a lot of bulls cheating it is probably with Scorpios. Also not our fault that a particular zodiac sign was given sexy powers.

Posted by soultalk
they always must hang out with girls. even if she is married and he is married it does not matter. they cannot be seen without a girl in the group.

Because we love beauty and women are the most beautiful creations in the entire universe (that we know of so far - we are looking into other galaxies)....We appreciate the emotional intelligence, superior sense of social cohesion and communication. We were made to *appreciate* and respect women on a deeper level than the other signs, all while still retaining our manliness. The feminine archetype is often said to have taken on much more prestige and power during the Age of Taurus; its often even referred to as a matriarchal era.

In all sincerity the Bulls I know vary. Some remain single. Some long for love. Some play the players field offering only their penis, never their heart. Some have steady ladies or wives and never cheat...

In short..they're like every other gotdamned man on the planet.

Well, I never had solid "caught em in the act" proof, but a lot of huge red flags that made me think it was possible my Taurus ex cheated (coworker and ex best friend). He denied the coworker but his eyes couldn't look at me.

So, here's a question for the bulls, especially the guys: if you're married or committed and you cheat would that make it hard or impossible for you to have sex with your wife or significant other? I've heard it happens....

Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Posted by ScorpioChica
Yes they cheat & lie

No, not all of them....every one is different.

Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

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Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

how does that make cheating okay??

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Good question, and not only that, but if cheating means you are not the person for them, then why make the decision to be in a committed relationship with that person? Make the decision to be married to them? But not make the decision to leave before the decision is made to cheat.

When said like that..."you were not the person for them" its as if okays the cheaters decisions and actions.

My Dad cheated on my aquarius mother and married the person he cheated with, a scorpio.....spent years trying to get away from her....just before retirement he admitted to me that he cheating on her once. Still married after several decades though....his motto has changed several times, including "better to be with the devil you know than the one you don't".

Now if you ask him why he stayed with the scorpio, he'll tell you she was his "girl". Taurus sun, moon and mercury....but he's got other good qualities...smh....

A couple of taurian male friends of mine have admitted to cheating when they were younger and one of them regrets the harm that he caused and having lost out on a few good women. The other still continues at least he is now divorced.

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Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

how does that make cheating okay??

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No, it doesn't make it ok at all. What I mean is he didn't see that person as someone for the long haul, know what I mean? A lot of Taurus men look for the long haul. If you have a solid foundation and you both work at it, cheating may never come to surface but you have we women have to be confident within ourselves also and that comes with age. For me personally, I've been cheated on and ended the engagement/relationship but looking back on it I am glad to have gone through that experience. I forgave him years ago and have wished him well. I know the kind of woman I am now, what I have to offer a man not to mention that I was the BEST he will ever have. How did I know that? When he came crying and begging me to take him back, his mother telling me those very words on her death bed. HA! No thank you; he made his choice and I helped him stick with it by letting him go. But not every man cheats....

Ahhh but you love our stubborn ways. Masochists. 😛. haha.

My ex is VERY unevolved. But that premise could apply to many cheaters across the broad spectrum of the zodiac. Anyone unevolved will make poor decisions in relationships and other areas of life.

A good friend of mine is a Taurus. He is really very charming and handsome (movie star good looks). But, a serial dater and noncommittal.

I always feel sorry for all these girls he would attract and lead on. He'd give mixed signals and wreck their emotions, all the while, enjoy all the perks they offer w/o any of the responsibilities that is shared between two respectable people. Yes, somewhat of a masochist and narcissist, very much me-centric when it came to emotions and pleasures. Actually, he's very hedonistic.

There was this ONE girl who I especially felt sorry for. He had met her on vacation in Brazil and she fell madly in love with my friend during his one month stay there. She was ready to uproot her entire life to move to the US and develop a relationship with him, thinking she had found her fairytale with someone who is charismatic, handsome, sweet, and hard working. But as soon as he returned from vacation, he basically cut all ties with her. Left her hanging, so to speak. I can't even fathom the pain the girl must have endured.

Aside from his approach in romantic relationships, which no one understands, he is a GREAT friend. He's loyal to the very core and is ALWAYS sweet and respectful towards his inner circle. I like him for that reason.

i simply posted this because like i said, the only males i have known to try to get with me were all taurus's, which may be more than coincidence. Also, i see some people are saying it takes two to tango... which is true, unless the said taurus man DOESNT TELL YOU he has a girlfriend. i would have never knowingly got with a man that ready has a woman.

Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

This is the best answer!^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


When a Taurus states that he's not ready to settle down...believe him!
When a Taurus states that he prefers to take things slow...believe him
When a Taurus states that he's not in a financial position to pursue a relationship...believe him.

But of course, the Bull is psychoanalyzed, and the individual rushes a Bull into making premature decisions.

Despite the fact that a Bull moves...only when he's ready....

The result?
An unhappy ending with a Conventional Bull.

I can't stress this enough...
We're living in the Age of Aquarius.
....And the Conventional Bulls are now considered the "Outsiders."
The dogmatic, orthodox individual who refuses to adapt.

Well, when someone is forced to adapt to an unorthodox view of thinking...

Chances are, the result will be less than satisfying. (especially if you're waiting on the courtship process from a conventional Bull).

Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9

There was this ONE girl who I especially felt sorry for. He had met her on vacation in Brazil and she fell madly in love with my friend during his one month stay there. She was ready to uproot her entire life to move to the US and develop a relationship with him, thinking she had found her fairytale with someone who is charismatic, handsome, sweet, and hard working. But as soon as he returned from vacation, he basically cut all ties with her. Left her hanging, so to speak. I can't even fathom the pain the girl must have endured.

I doubt he misled her. You can't possibly know everything about someone in one month. Love them, and want to build a life with them after knowing them for only one month. Not practical!

My opinion, possibly a 99.9% unsuccessful outcome.

My gut instinct tells me he already knew this....and slowly backed away

Sounds like wishful thinking on her part.

It absolutely is wishful thinking on her part, immature even... But, the reason is worsened by the fact that he ENCOURAGED it and sold her wishes and dreams.

I know this for a fact and I've seen him do this to girls over and over again.

It's her responsibility as much as his to set expectations. But, he never does that. Hence, I said he leads them on.

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Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

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are you a taurus man?

And even if you are you cannot speak on why Taurus men cheat...you can only vouvh for yourself...I personally know Taurus men and women who cheat with no qualms...does that sound like a serious investment in love to you? I should also add that they are still with the partners they cheated on...so what could be so wrong with them if they stayed?

Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
It absolutely is wishful thinking on her part, immature even... But, the reason is worsened by the fact that he ENCOURAGED it and sold her wishes and dreams.

I know this for a fact and I've seen him do this to girls over and over again.

It's her responsibility as much as his to set expectations. But, he never does that. Hence, I said he leads them on.

It can indicate two things...

He's either a total narcissistic, egotistical jerk who gets his rocks off torturing women with unrealistic expectations. It may be a 'him' situation, and nothing to do with his astrological sign.

=OR=

He may unintentionally draw women to him, and they may have unrealistic expectations. I don't know his natal chart. But I do know this about most Bulls, they avoid leading people on because they hate confrontation, and try to avoid drama at all costs!

As for possibly unintentionally drawing women to him, this comes naturally for Taurus men ( my brother is also a Taurus). They appear to be solid, hardworking, and nurturing. Women feel safe around them. Women are not as guarded with Taurus men. Their guards are down. Women are totally disarmed without realizing it.

Women are divulging secrets they haven't shared with anyone else. Discussing future plans, goals, expressing their feelings, making plans.


Plans he may not have even been aware of.

But I can tell you...this isn't calculated or methodical.
This just occurs naturally. The Taurus man is simply...being himself.

Haha I can probably attest to that.

My friend is very good at disarming any one and any situation.

In terms of his irresponsibility to another's feelings, I truly think he is an extreme case. He is very much evil when it comes to his lust for things and people. A true hedonist.

But, like I said, AWESOME friend to have, though.

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In terms of his irresponsibility to another's feelings, I truly think he is an extreme case. He is very much evil when it comes to his lust for things and people. A true hedonist.

He may just be 'unevolved'....or it may be just a 'him' situation.

If your friend is not careful, he will catch a 'case.'

Toying with someone's emotions is not to be played with.


*Visualizing a woman 'key-ing' his car. LMAO*

Posted by MoonArtist
My ex is VERY unevolved. But that premise could apply to many cheaters across the broad spectrum of the zodiac. Anyone unevolved will make poor decisions in relationships and other areas of life.

Been cheated on by multiple times - all Cancers. Yet, I think Cancer is overall a pretty faithful sign in partnerships. Even the way they cheated was kinda faithful, lol. They didn't sneak around and do it multiple times behind my back, it happened under some very tempting and difficult circumstances, and they felt horrible about it.

Iamwinelover: For me personally, I've been cheated on and ended the engagement/relationship but looking back on it I am glad to have gone through that experience. I forgave him years ago and have wished him well. I know the kind of woman I am now, what I have to offer a man not to mention that I was the BEST he will ever have. How did I know that? When he came crying and begging me to take him back, his mother telling me those very words on her death bed. HA! No thank you; he made his choice and I helped him stick with it by letting him go. But not every man cheats....

This is exactly what I took away from being cheated on, and I think its a very healthy perspective. I feel bad for people who cheat and think they ultimately are just hurting themselves. Its a very heavy load of shame to carry when you cheat on someone in a long-term relationship, particularly marriage. My ex said she would go into the bathroom and cry by herself on the floor several nights a week, until she mustered the courage to tell me about it....for 2 years.

Nebulous_Cloud9,


Oooh Sad. But that is what my Ex Taurus man did in his past. Women gave up their career and became

a wife and divorced. Promises they made are meant to be broken and not to mend.

The lust is soo extreme and No Discipline that's how I know my Ex Taurus. He used many people for sex

even his own wife till she left him but thank God he didn't do it with Me...

We are responsible for our own... if we allow them to disrespect us they won't hesitate of doing it.

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Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

are you a taurus man?

And even if you are you cannot speak on why Taurus men cheat...you can only vouvh for yourself...I personally know Taurus men and women who cheat with no qualms...does that sound like a serious investment in love to you? I should also add that they are still with the partners they cheated on...so what could be so wrong with them if they stayed?

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No, in fact I am a Capricorn woman who is involved with a Taurus man (earth & earth - great combination BTW). And the reason for asking?

Posted by Iamawinelover

No, in fact I am a Capricorn woman who is involved with a Taurus man (earth & earth - great combination BTW). And the reason for asking?

LMAO 🙂

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Posted by Iamawinelover

No, in fact I am a Capricorn woman who is involved with a Taurus man (earth & earth - great combination BTW). And the reason for asking?

LMAO 🙂

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Lol, back at cha my friend! 😉

Posted by andsssssss

Is this why Taurus men got these women under pressure?....acting a mess! 😛

Frankly ive never met a taurus man/woman who cheated on their SO, i do know some bulls who are in relationship/marriage that they are not happy in but still choose to stay with their partner 😢 i dont know why anyone would cheat on a bull y'all are lovely+beautiful creatures with golden hearts

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Posted by Vainth
Every sign cheats.

I think what you are wondering is what would cause a Taurus to cheat. The reasons or nature could be different per sign.

It's cause Taurus men see the world through investments. Pleasure, love, and even emotion are controlled by the Taurus' sense of practicality.

I would say in Taurus nature, the reason a weak taurus could cheat is cause Taurus can easily disconnect themselves from someone, if in their head they are weighing more benefit to cheat, then they will go with that option with no remorse. Kinda sociopathic.

But to defend Taurus men, an evolved Taurus who is stable is highly unlikely to cheat, as they see and enjoy deep locked in relationships in the big picture/long run, this is where you hear of head-over heel Taurus guys can't stop giving love to their SO.

Cheating has nothing to do with the astrological sign but if a Taurus man cheats then you were not the woman for him. Plain and simple. Taurus men like it was stated above, invest seriously when it comes to love and relationships. When they have matured, they pretty much know what they want and what they are looking for.

are you a taurus man?

And even if you are you cannot speak on why Taurus men cheat...you can only vouvh for yourself...I personally know Taurus men and women who cheat with no qualms...does that sound like a serious investment in love to you? I should also add that they are still with the partners they cheated on...so what could be so wrong with them if they stayed?

No, in fact I am a Capricorn woman who is involved with a Taurus man (earth & earth - great combination BTW). And the reason for asking?

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oh so you cant possible speak on what your speaking on....i can understand threads like this may make you worry but you cannot vouch for every Taurus man just cuz your dating one at the moment....Starlover did that with aries and you see how bitter she is now.

@ Iamwinelover

and please stop projecting your worries on these women. A women thats hurting or has been hurt doesnt want to hear from another women oh you just werent good enough thats why he cheated. YOur no different that any of these ladies telling their stories so stop it ma...you too can get cheated on.

The hedonistic trait of a Bull has an expiration date until you get to the core of the heart....

The right individual will experience this...

Posted by TaurusBull1977
The hedonistic trait of a Bull has an expiration date until you get to the core of the heart....

The right individual will experience this...

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