Taurus sun, moon pisces, venus gemini...

Hello, I am new here and dont know much about astrology. I like this guy for several years, he is 31 now, he has sun in taurus, moon in pisces and venus in gemini. I am few years older then him. I have sun in sagg, moon in taurus, Mercury Sagittarius, Venus Scorpio, Mars Sagittarius, Neptune Sagittarius,...

I would like to know, how moon and venus affect sun sign?

Just like to know him better, but it seems I have the same problem as many others here, .... things were super great at the beggining, after months of seeing him, he dissapears, not taking phone calls, not replaying to IM or text msgs... We never fight, never argue,...

It's the damn Venus in Gemini....that makes it really confusing in that direction. Is he going to cheat, or be unreliable, flaky, and not sure if your the one or not type.

YEAH the feeling is wonderful first, then again he is going to need alot of mental connection, and is he faithful, can I trust when everything is good then suddenly he disappears when I need him the most....

I am going through that now but his sun sign is different, but that Venus is what is going to take hard work.. but hopefully he was raised right too. And he knows what he wants already..long term relationship or flings...

Scorpio is water and Gemini is air.. May be have alot fun. Be creative which I know Sagittarius have a lot of great activities in mind and Taurus could use that type of stimulation..

Sagittarius and Taurus could be really good but it takes a lot of patience and free flowing attitudes.

I wish you luck though.. his moon slows everything down..slow and steady...his venus is high paced action. It's can be confusing.

Yes, that's how he is, confusing. We always had great time when toghether, then something we caht for 10 hours (online) and I never worried if he didnt contact me for few days. But MIA for 2 weeks or more— I have always been straight and honest with him, told him I like him, why I like him, that I am serious about us, never made him jealous, somethimes I just write him IM to say I miss him... He used to say those things to me too. But I like action and get impatienced if I dont know what is going on. I told him once, I can wait as much as I have to as long as I know what I am waiting for. I would even understand if he just somehow lost interest, got mega busy, found new love.... But just dissapear without a word? That's just cruel 😢

My high school boyfriend had Taurus Sun & Gemini Venus and my Venus is Scorpio. These love style s don't go particularly well together.. As previous poster mentioned, it's that damn Gemini Venus. It wants have so much fun! Flirt, experience lots of different sexual partners (I think). My hsbf was a pain in the ass to pin down (Venus Scorpio females tend to enjoy chasing IF they know the guy was into them.. but then it's hard to let go, even after they have).. and then he cheated on me after we'd been together for years. Like wtf? And THEN because stubborn Taurus Sun, he refused to let me break up w him because that sun wants to stay where it's comfortable. He kept up hope for years, while hooking up with a long list of hoes of course.

I know how you must feel. I feel you are like me in a way. Always wanting to know where things may lead, or jumping to conclusions yourself cause the guy is no where to be found.

I am a Taurus too. Cause I will always be honest and open and will always need to know sometimes where things are going. I guess when you are friends I guess I have no control over being MIA
..but I am the type I must talk daily or a couple times a day..but if we are kinda talking and everything was good but now distance is between us. I might back off alot then I may do exactly the same treatment you are giving me..and start living my life..

Duchess is right we hold on too much.. fuck why?

Oh when I posted my thing about my Venus in Gemini guy friend on the Aries forum. One said he will possibly be really flirtatious or perhap infidelity may set in. I can't set myself up for failure cause I see it..I rather be friends since we work together...

Its so fucked how if we really want to wait and be patient.. on a person. because I am loyal..and because we see a few great qualities in a person

..but the more patient I am the more red flags pop..cause they said if the guy is interested in you.. they would call, and see you no matter what, and a thing called chase.

then it's so fucked up again cause this time I am thinking am I on the sidelines until he is ready.. fuck fuck..

But yeah hope you talk to him soon, otherwise do your thing girl.. cause I am going to do mine..that's stay single and enjoy it. This is mentally and physically draining.

I've seen this type of behavior from Taurus men who have ANY Gemini placement in their chart. Stay clear from a Taurus man with Gemini in his moon, merc and/or Venus. They all do this type of crap.
My Taurus boyfriend has a strong Aries placements and he is fuxking amazing!!!

The venus in gem with a venus is scorp.
Bad, bad combination.

Scorpios want to possess, and venus in gemini needs so much space,excitement and gets bored easily.I shouldn't be saying this but when my scorp's intensity got too much for me, I used to leave my eyes open while kissing because I got so bored while the making out. My mind is always moving on to the next interesting thing. This is the difference in our love style s. Sadly.

oh... venus in gemini. not so good. but the moon in pisces and taurus sun makes it bit better? where his mars?

*in scorp

wanted to add that i have venus in gemini, sun in taurus and u can read my mindset from this topic: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/taurus-girl-5232553/?p=2

Thank you girls, for your answers. As Taurianwomen said, I am also being pating, because giving him ultimatum and pushing him to the wall won't change anything. He pursued me for months. And I was glad cause i wanted him for long time. When we finally got togehter (we dont live in the same city, but we used to be neighbours), it was amazing. And if i give my heart to someone, I just cant let it go.
@cancergoddess143: if I only new that before I got involved....
@firstdecantaurianwomen428: staying single is not the worst thing that can happen to me. As I said, I can accept anyking of answers he would gave me except totally ignoring me. It hurts, that he doesnt respect me not a little bit, to tell me the truth. For the last month I have heard from him only twice, didnt see him even longer... He didnt initiate contact for last month. I spoke to him on Christmas (before ignoring me for 2 weeks) and he said everything is OK. Nothing else...

This is mentally and physically draining.------EXACTLY

@taurusinsane: his mars is in taurus

and thank you for your link, I am going to read it now🙂

@joon: Thank you for you insight. But I dont think neither of us were bored. Every single time we were toghether, we did different things. Even in bed. I dont like when things repeat too many times, dont like when when people get too much predictable. We experienced many new things and we were planning to try many others. He said to me, that he enjoys every moment with me.

I believed him, I never had a reason not to trust him.
But I did check his birth chart recently (as I said before, I dont know much about astrology), and found out that he has a venus in gemini. Everywhere I can read bad things about people with venus in gemini.
For example: \"Gift of the gab\", always finds the right expression. A good talker, refined, with a love of the Arts. Two-sided in emotional affairs, flirtatious. Superficial emotions. Countless and inconstant love affairs. Likes to play love games.

Weaknesses: Instability and fickleness in love. Often goes too far in love because of the desire to flirt and play on the other person, who will often suffer - but that is not his problem. Inconstant in love, which is ephemeral: he is unfaithful and can sometimes speak caustically.

Then I started to worry, if this MIA means, his hideing something.... We live 25 mins drive from each other, I cannot check what he is doing, i dont even want to do this.... But seems so weird, that he's checking his FB few times per day, adding new friends (mostly women), but not responding to a simple question: Hi, how are you?

Ok I have Mars in Taurus too. And omg I need lots of stimulation, and love, and actions. but I do somethings slow and don't like to rush.

Venus in Gemini rush things...
I also have Aquarius moon too, so can rush right into sexual attraction really quick..then I am like damn..see another thing is sex. Taurus wants love. Gemini likes sex..

.. so I can be all interested in you too. Give you all my time and energy, and like I said the more you want to go with the flow. I have already figured alot out. You know why because I listen and never forget what you tell me. Bet ask him the same question later and it's different.

Posted by cancergoddess143
I've seen this type of behavior from Taurus men who have ANY Gemini placement in their chart. Stay clear from a Taurus man with Gemini in his moon, merc and/or Venus. They all do this type of crap.
My Taurus boyfriend has a strong Aries placements and he is fuxking amazing!!!

I'm doomed then, Triple Gemine here

Posted by cancergoddess143
I've seen this type of behavior from Taurus men who have ANY Gemini placement in their chart. Stay clear from a Taurus man with Gemini in his moon, merc and/or Venus. They all do this type of crap.
My Taurus boyfriend has a strong Aries placements and he is fuxking amazing!!!

I'm doomed then, Triple Gemini here

@taurianwomen: I guess you must be thinking similar like my buy. I dont want to rush in anything, no need to. We both did things we wanted, I never regret being with him. And for me, there is no love without sex and no sex without love. I dont do one night stand, I didnt have sex for 3 years before I slept with him. And he know that. He knew from that start, where he stands with me. I also told him once, that I dont like insecurity, and that I dont want to lose him.

But lately I cry a lot, cause I miss him and I am cluesless of what to do. I was trying to stay in contact with him, wrote him twice a week to say hi or write him something erotic (he always liked that a responed to my "dirty" talk).
I guess the only thing I can do right now is to wait and be busy in meantime.

Sorry, can you remind me why being ignored for long periods of time is ok with you?

Who said that being ignored is ok? I wrote that i can take any answer, even lost of interest, being mad, .... whatever... except of being totally ignored. That is one thing i dont like and i DO NOT tolerate. That's why I was asking at the begining, how venus, moon etd. affect sun sign, if any.

But you're putting up with it aren't you? So it must be ok with you.

No, it is not ok with me. Why would you think that? Not putting up with it. If I call and text him, what's going on, if something happened, asking him, why he ignores me suddenly.... That's not putting up with it nor being ok.

By the way, still didnt get answer to my question regading moon and venus affect on sun.

Saying that you are going "wait and be busy" sounds a lot like you are open to taking him back at the first itty bit of interest he shows you.. That's pathetic. He's not into you. I understand, I've done it but I shouldn't have settled for being treated that way (when i was younger) and neither should you.

To answer your question, Moon and other planets affect each individuals Sun differently depending on how they are aspected. If you post his chart someone may give you the answers you seek.

Men born with Mars in Taurus are slow seducers who often facilitate a long romantic courtship with their partners. They may leave little love notes and flowers, slowly working up to verbal flirtation and then the first romantic and passionate kiss. They are very romantic. They understand the art of seduction and actually feel it to their core. They don't fake it. They do not give their love away easily and take great care in pursuing their love interest.

When they are interested in someone. There will probably be a long seduction process slowly leading up to the act of sex. When it finally happens, they will continue to make love slowly, diligently, passionately. They are very patient in bed and relish every moment. They can and will go as long as they need to. They want to make their lover happy. They usually have great stamina and are highly sensual.

These types can be very shy with someone they love and can get very fixated on a person. If the person they are interested in rejects them. They will not easily let it go. They may fester for a very long time and may behave very dysfunctionally as a result.

If you make a man with Mars in Taurus mad, he can ignore you for a very long time. he won't want to fight you. They are aware of their temper and their strength and they prefer peace. They are usually not the types to allow themselves to get easily agitated. They will try to live peacefully for as long as they can. But if they are pushed to their edge they will go off. They will lose control and totally go crazy on a a person or on many people. Its best not to anger these types, they lose control whey are are angry. They go absolutely insane crazy when they have finally allowed whatever has been annoying them to break free. They totally explode.

Posted by zoongora
No, it is not ok with me. Why would you think that? Not putting up with it. If I call and text him, what's going on, if something happened, asking him, why he ignores me suddenly.... That's not putting up with it nor being ok.

By the way, still didnt get answer to my question regading moon and venus affect on sun.

You're putting up with it because you are here wondering about him. You're prepared to ride this out rather than riding into the sunset.

If someone ignores you on so many occasions, leave. Make the decision that your time is too precious to be left wondering what this guy's problem is.

Posted by duchesslibro
Saying that you are going "wait and be busy" sounds a lot like you are open to taking him back at the first itty bit of interest he shows you.. That's pathetic. He's not into you. I understand, I've done it but I shouldn't have settled for being treated that way (when i was younger) and neither should you.

Go the Libran fury!

Thank you Taurusinsane, it might describes him very well. I have also read your other posts about venus in gemini, as you posted (about being bored with someone).

Anyway, if I may ask, what would be your personal reasons for stop communicating at all, besides being bored?
And your advice would be? Move on or...?

@ Jeane: Thank you for your thoughts. Yes, my time is too precious and I am pathetique as stated above. On the other hand I am also curious, to just forget and pretend nothing happened.

Duchesslibro said: "He's not into you". Yes, that is very well possible. But that would mean, he was lying to me for almost a year. On the other hand, it has been said, that Taurus people are direct and honest. Dilemma. Why would taurus talk to me, what we will do and ask me, what I would like to do, next time when we meet, and then vanish? Just a thought.

You don't live in the same city right? It is possible that he has met someone closer. TaurusLovesScorpio has said on another thread that if someone is in his face all the time then he is going to eventually fall for them.

Taurus are physical. I don't think they overall do well with long distance.

No, we dont live in the same city anymore. We used to be neighbours years ago, but then I moved. 18 months ago I bought a house closer to where I used to live, that how we got in contact again year ago and he started to pursue me. After 6 months we got closer, intimate... I have been honest with him from the start, so he knows how I feel about him. Since we are both quite busy, we saw each other once per week and chat online during other days. We are both adults and I have always found him as a mature person, he seemed well behaved, he doesnt do drugs or alchol, he has few jobs and going to school also. That's why I will always respect him.

Being away from him is hard for me too. But since this is not really LDR, i wouldnt think that is the problem. If he wanted to see me, I could be at his place in less then an hour 🙂

Anyway... As I said....I dont like guessing things, I cannot read mind, I like when things are clear to me. I cannot read gestures very well, I rather hear the words... That is why I am suddenly insecure. Just trying to understand, why would an adult person dissapear without a word. But I guess we are not the same. Maybe he is just afraid to tell the truth.

He could be the best person raised right. Has great qualities, beliefs, morals, and respect for others..then again he could be so secretive because of the venus, and he could be hiding things from you, or chatting it up harmlessly with others. I am pretty sure he is cute..Taurus are cute and sexy in their own way...

but since we all are into astrology abit. It's that damn Venus in Gemini.. and you are Sagittarius. You can make this work too. I hardly think Mars in Taurus is secretive but can become distant if I feel you are more closed than open..cause then I might get alittle irritated cause it's hot and cold..

When's the last time you guys talked now?

Sometimes everything happens for a reason. And the best thing is hope. Certainly Not fate in this case.

If he came around and told you he was sleeping with someone else what would you do?

We used to talk few times during the week till December. If I didnt hear from him for 3-4 days, I just thought he is busy. Somethimes I didnt initiate contact fro 5 days,since i was busy or ill... So not talking for few days is normal. The last contact he initiated was first week in december (on fb), I didnt respond, because I was very ill. I wrote him back couple days later, that I was sick and in bed all the week, but I still think of him. He said he also thinks of me. We made conversation short. Then I wrote him again few days later, no respond, again 5 days later, no respond, on christmas I wrote him, that i am worried about him. His respond was: I wish you happy holidays. I was like WTF is this answer and called him asking if everything is OK. He said, yes, everything is fine, I would tell you if something happened, I am on a visit at the moment. So I said, ok, I wont disturb you now, just wanted to let you know, I would like to see you. Wrote him again before new years eve, no respond.

And yes, I agree with you. Never doubt he isnt telling the truth, but I always felt he doesnt tell me a lot of things. But everyone has secrets, I dont judge him because of that. And yes, I find him very attractive (he said this about me too), he was like a magnet to me from the first moment I saw him. But he didnt belive me, when I told him he's handsome. He said that girls never were interested in him.

If he came around and tell me he was already with someone else, I would thank him for being honest with me and have strenght to tell me the truth. I would feel sad and distanced myself untill I would feel I am no longer emotionally attached to him. This could take months... After that I would be willing to see him again but only as a friend.

Well.. he is distant as i can see. But i dont get it... why the hell u dont ask him? You tell him that u feel he is being distant, is there a reason? Taurus- on point, no mumbling. Ask him directly!

I stop communicating because i have new person that i want to pursue..

Could you accept just being platonic friends? Idk if I could knowing if he was seeing someone after I already asked you to be honest..that's all I want. Could lose a friend though because I gave you chances but cause you are attracted. Damn those magnets. I am right here with you in the same predicament...I am sorry...I feel if guys are interested they would make time..that's what people are saying...but only you know what you want..

I actually have a short attention span with lots of patience.that's why I am confused. Because I bet he is not aware of it.. and not into astrology. Lol

Yes, I could accept being platonic friends. Since I have my life going on and I am very independant woman. I just like spending time with him and enjoy moments toghether. Only time can tell what future will bring. And yes, he is like a magnet to me. Never happened before with any other person. From the first moment I saw him, my thought was: "Damn, I should be close to him". Even after years of not seeing each other, the feeling was still there. That's why it is hard to me just to forget and let it go.
And I agree, if person is interested in you, they would make time. But since he doesnt have time for his friends, I dont take it personally. And he told me at the begining stages, that he is super busy and that he doesnt know if he can give me so much attention the way I would like 🙂

That's sad reading that.

not sad. good things take time. if you feel in your inner core that this will be something in the future, this will give u strength to stay through this "phase".

I am a sun Taurus Venus in gem dating now exclusively with sun sag Venus in Scorpio. my mind lingers but if I truly love someone it is hard for me to fall for someone else. it takes an intense lover like him to keep me interested. My Venus likes the chase and I do enjoy not being to figure things out . Unconsciously it keeps me hooked and I bet he knows that too. I stop communicating when I have someone else or just simply not interested anymore. if I love someone I wil always leave a few messages every day just to let them know I care even when my moon is in Aquarius. I won't lie that I can flirt sometimes but i at the end of the day I go bak to who I love and I am loyal that way. looks and all that and flirting keep me interested for a couple of hours but I just forget about them. if I start to buy presents and invest my time n energy to the one I love ... u can b rest assured that they have my heart n my entire being... if not I am still unsure of my feelings n r too scared to head that way. Long distance r a pain . I never had one. .. He's also a sag so my Venus n my moon give him all the freedom that he needs. good or bad? I don't know. but I also like my own space. my point is.... Venus in Scorpio r intense but it attracts me deeply and it keeps my Venus excited.... that's just my take on it... _??

Thank you, saweetz, for your answer. I am glad, that you shared it with me. I dont think, he has someone else, I would found out that, cause we share some friends and they would probablly tell me. My thought was, that he simply isnt interested anymore or scared how to continue in a relationship with me.

So how are they things now?

So how are things now? Sorry typo.