Understanding mr Taurus!

Hi guys! I am back! I posted something about mr Taurus on this board a few months back. I was confused then and got a lot of very helpful and informative point of views from ya'll! Anyway, fast forward to the present, mr Taurus and I are still talking- very minimal text messages- and most of the time, i have to initiate the convo- nothing too intense but he would always reply- sometimes not right away but i get it- he is extremely busy- he is running his own IT business. Since my last post, we've seen each other twice, the last one was as recent as a few days ago. The first date, i initiated but this recent one, he did- which was kind of surprising coz i've never expected that he would actually ask to see me³ So we went out to dinner and just talked for a few hours- and everytime we will get together, we'll just pick up where we left off- it did not matter how long ago it was- which is weird but it always feel so natural. So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!

1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

Posted by someoneeee
I'm sorry, but it seems that he is not serious about you.

"mr Taurus and I are still talking- very minimal text messages- and most of the time, i have to initiate the convo" -> from my experience, if a guy has been interested, I have never had to worry about initiating. They always initiate, if they are actually interested.

"Since my last post, we've seen each other twice, the last one was as recent as a few days ago." -> as I understand, you have seen each other only twice within few months. That's not enough, if a guy is interested, he will make time at least once a week to meet up with a girl he likes. Or are you fine with the fact that you see each other so little? Is there any good reason why you two meet so rarely?

"So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it." -> I don't know in what stadium you are with this guy, but tbh I wouldn't put up with a guy bringing up threesome. I really don't believe it was a test, I assume from that he is interested in threesome and not interested in a serious relationship.

My advice: move on! It's hard to do right now, as you obviously like him, but I'm sure you can do a better deal than that!

Thanks for your feedback! As far as what our deal is- i am actually ok with how slow our "getting to know" stage os going. I am in no rush to jump into anything whatsoever. So that part, i have no issue with. The threesome topic, i told her about a friend of mine that got drunk, etc and i did not think it was a big deal until
He brought it up on monday- so it made me think that he obviously was listening back then- and was taking mental notes i guess. I am only confused as to why bring it up now..but our "bond" has always been very slow pace and i like it that way. He is a very very busy guy as well and he has not given me any reason tp doubt him- that's why i like him a whole lot coz he is always a straight shooter- very few words but always straight answers. I guess my issue was not knowing whether he was testing me or not.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

Don't let anyone change your values for no one.

Yep, he's not serious about you. Answer mentioning that topic could mean he's seeing someone but probably still attracted to you. I doubt it was testing. He's just feeling the waters looking for someone who'd agree. Don't waste your precious time.
Besides, your making a big mistake by initiating your communication. Remember, he's the man -it's his job.
By answering you back he's just making sure you still stick around and not looking for another man. Giving "just enough" of hope making a little tiny smidgin of hope that MAYBE sth is gonna happen between you two and you cherishing that hope saves you body and mind for him while hes goofing around.
Im sorry i may seem to lack sympathy, but ive learnt myself the truth is simple - the first instinct that drives all men is "sex department" . They ll do whatever and however to get into your pants. But its always you who decides which "contract" he should "sign" before. So dont lose yourself with these men. Always choose dignity over any relationship.
Wish you well with the person whos really worthy!

Posted by busyeyes88
OP, cut right now! Mr Bull is looking for a threesome. Tauruses are hedonists and would love to try out hedonistic things while single and ready to mingle!!

Do unless you just want casual sex which will eventually lead to s threesome, I think you should cut off the bull.

Don't keep initiating!! If a man has anything serious that he wants from you regardless as to what that should be they will initiate. Next time keep sexual things like threesomes to yourself. Don't get drunk if you can't control your tongue!!

Too many women waste their damn time initiating and getting shit in return!!!

Thanks for your insight! It was not me who got drunk and talked about threesome..lol trust me, i am not into freaky stuff- not even in my second life if there's such a thing! it was my friend. But i will take notes from your advice for sure. Will see if mr bull is going to make his presence known. I am learning his personality and i like what i've learned so far so i will lay low but will not leave just quite. I think he is the most honest man that i've ever talked to and i like that about him.

Posted by TaurusMarine
Yep, he's not serious about you. Answer mentioning that topic could mean he's seeing someone but probably still attracted to you. I doubt it was testing. He's just feeling the waters looking for someone who'd agree. Don't waste your precious time.
Besides, your making a big mistake by initiating your communication. Remember, he's the man -it's his job.
By answering you back he's just making sure you still stick around and not looking for another man. Giving "just enough" of hope making a little tiny smidgin of hope that MAYBE sth is gonna happen between you two and you cherishing that hope saves you body and mind for him while hes goofing around.
Im sorry i may seem to lack sympathy, but ive learnt myself the truth is simple - the first instinct that drives all men is "sex department" . They ll do whatever and however to get into your pants. But its always you who decides which "contract" he should "sign" before. So dont lose yourself with these men. Always choose dignity over any relationship.
Wish you well with the person whos really worthy!

I see your point. But i have to say, i don't see anything wrong texting him first- i look at it this way, we are both adults- been thru the ringer and all, he's divorced and so am i, i think we don't have any reason to beat around the bush and play games like i won't text you first coz i am the woman. I think to me, if it's worth pursuing i will give it my all- to an extent- threesome agenda is a NO-NO! I am not for sharing the man that i like..nope! So i think i made that clear. And i honestly think he is not for it either. But i could be wrong also. I guess i am back into "playing it by ear".

Posted by tcta
yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

That's exactly what i am doing. Space and more space. As far as whether it was a test or not, i am glad i told him straight out that i am the wrong one, if he is into threesomes! Told him i don't care
If i like the guy so much- i am out! He got that loud and clear. So i will leave it as that..lol thanks!

So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!



Here's my input. *AHEM**

The Saggy (ex-bf now) told me, "How do you feel like having a three some?" Eva's response. Sure! Let's have two men and me! He looked at me and said, "No, because then you'll compare me w/the guy and maybe stay with him". Eva's response: "Then the answer is no. No to two women and you". THAT shut his mouth and fast!!

Head for the hills little one. As a Piscean I do not share myself with anyone! I am a one man woman!! This is a STUPID fantasy for ANY man and it seems so easy to talk/discuss until you are sinking as fast as quick sand! Don't degrade yourself by doing something like this. Your body should be given to one man and to one man only.

Good luck. 🤗

Love,

Eva

OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Posted by EvatheDiva
So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!

Here's my input. *AHEM**

The Saggy (ex-bf now) told me, "How do you feel like having a three some?" Eva's response. Sure! Let's have two men and me! He looked at me and said, "No, because then you'll compare me w/the guy and maybe stay with him". Eva's response: "Then the answer is no. No to two women and you". THAT shut his mouth and fast!!

Head for the hills little one. As a Piscean I do not share myself with anyone! I am a one man woman!! This is a STUPID fantasy for ANY man and it seems so easy to talk/discuss until you are sinking as fast as quick sand! Don't degrade yourself by doing something like this. Your body should be given to one man and to one man only.

Good luck. 🤗

Love,

Eva



Hi Eva! Like i said in my OP, i am not into threesome! Never ever! I am a scorpio- i will never share my man- not even the idea of it. I just want that to be clear..lol i thought your response was hilarious! Made your guy stopped and think for a minute! Lol

Posted by DMV
OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Thanks! I am 200% sure i am not into threesome! So i will assess the situation with a strong CAUTION!

Posted by ScorpioNluv

Posted by EvatheDiva
So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!

Here's my input. *AHEM**

The Saggy (ex-bf now) told me, "How do you feel like having a three some?" Eva's response. Sure! Let's have two men and me! He looked at me and said, "No, because then you'll compare me w/the guy and maybe stay with him". Eva's response: "Then the answer is no. No to two women and you". THAT shut his mouth and fast!!

Head for the hills little one. As a Piscean I do not share myself with anyone! I am a one man woman!! This is a STUPID fantasy for ANY man and it seems so easy to talk/discuss until you are sinking as fast as quick sand! Don't degrade yourself by doing something like this. Your body should be given to one man and to one man only.

Good luck. 🤗

Love,

Eva

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Hi Eva! Like i said in my OP, i am not into threesome! Never ever! I am a scorpio- i will never share my man- not even the idea of it. I just want that to be clear..lol i thought your response was hilarious! Made your guy stopped and

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Posted by DMV
OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Thanks! I am 200% sure i am not into threesome! So i will assess the situation with a strong CAUTION!

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oh ok. cause if you dont put out, he will find someone else who will. On the bright side, he will still chat it up with you tho.

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Posted by ScorpioNluv

Posted by DMV
OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Thanks! I am 200% sure i am not into threesome! So i will assess the situation with a strong CAUTION!

oh ok. cause if you dont put out, he will find someone else who will. On the bright side, he will still chat it up with you tho.

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He can go get his freak on somewhere else! Lol i am the wrong one when it comes to that matter. On the other hand, i had theninpression that he is a traditional guy, family oriented and values the good in people so my inner psychic in me says that he was testing me to see if i am "that kind of gal"..but the small part of ny brain is saying, maybe he is really into freaky sh**t That would just break my soul..i am hoping my former intuition is right and not the latter.

Posted by Instantkarma
Why would anyone discuss threesome with a potential mate? Smh
I think you made a mistake, you gave him that leverage. Maybe he thought, you are letting him know indirectly you are into threesomes lol! "Friend" indirectly you 😆

You've got a valid point.. But no- i did make it up and used my friend as a coy..lol it was all true. i was just shocked that he remembered the stories that i've told him like four months ago. And it wasn't just the threesome convo either- he remembered the other stories too- the threesome stood out to me the most just coz i lole this guy a lot and it would literally just break my spirit if he is actually into this type of sh**t.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

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Bulls are always listening and paying attention to every single word you say luv. They also have amazing memories and don't forget anything.. Literally .. I am with a Taurus and he has told me me with confidence that he is not interested in having threesomes at all.. He actually told me that he is way too shy and just wants to experience making love to one person.. Which sounds about right Taurus men may seem so confident but they are truly shy at heart. So I personally believe it was a test.

He indeed does have a traditional side. He may wife you and marry you. BUT he will make sure that his needs are fulfilled. If not by you, by someone else.

he may or may not come clean about it with you. but he wont ever leave you....just play around when he has a need.

some women can get down with this, some cant.

#nojudgements

Posted by ScorpioNluv

Posted by TaurusMarine
Yep, he's not serious about you. Answer mentioning that topic could mean he's seeing someone but probably still attracted to you. I doubt it was testing. He's just feeling the waters looking for someone who'd agree. Don't waste your precious time.
Besides, your making a big mistake by initiating your communication. Remember, he's the man -it's his job.
By answering you back he's just making sure you still stick around and not looking for another man. Giving "just enough" of hope making a little tiny smidgin of hope that MAYBE sth is gonna happen between you two and you cherishing that hope saves you body and mind for him while hes goofing around.
Im sorry i may seem to lack sympathy, but ive learnt myself the truth is simple - the first instinct that drives all men is "sex department" . They ll do whatever and however to get into your pants. But its always you who decides which "contract" he should "sign" before. So dont lose yourself with these men. Always choose dignity over any relationship.
Wish you well with the person whos really worthy!

I see your point. But i have to say, i don't see anything wrong texting him first- i look at it this way, we are both adults- been thru the ringer and all, he's divorced and so am i, i think we don't have any reason to beat around the bush and play games like i won't text you first coz i am the woman. I think to me, if it's worth pursuing i will give it my all- to an extent- threesome agenda is a NO-NO! I am not for sharing the man that i like..nope! So i think i made that clear. And i honestly think he is not for it either. But i could be wrong also. I guess i am back into "playing it by ear".

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Great! Goo along with your adult stuff worth pursuing. If what you're having wasn't an issue you wouldn't have created the post. But whatever makes you happy.

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Posted by tcta
yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

That's exactly what i am doing. Space and more space. As far as whether it was a test or not, i am glad i told him straight out that i am the wrong one, if he is into threesomes! Told him i don't care
If i like the guy so much- i am out! He got that loud and clear. So i will leave it as that..lol thanks!

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That's not your words he'll pay attention to but your actions. He can continue this topic next time just to (tis time) test how strong you are. I hope for the best though

@TheCancerGirl-
Apparently so. That's why i was caught off guard but i am glad i told him straight up that threesome is a dea breaker for me. And honestly for some reason he just does not strike me as someone that would be into threesome crap.
Like i can sense his self worth. We started talking back in November and up till now, no sex yet. And the weird part is that as paranoid and doubtful as i am (scorpio in me), i never doubted his words since day one. I never felt like he was playing games at all. So i don't know..maybe i am getting carried away in lala land. Hopefully not.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

Bulls are always listening and paying attention to every single word you say luv. They also have amazing memories and don't forget anything.. Literally .. I am with a Taurus and he has told me me with confidence that he is not interested in having threesomes at all.. He actually told me that he is way too shy and just wants to experience making love to one person.. Which sounds about right Taurus men may seem so confident but they are truly shy at heart. So I personally believe it was a test.

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Too true on the amazing memory and paying attention thing! On Friday my bull informed me it was our 'three month anniversary' since meeting... I was like 'wtf?' How did he remember or even think of that... I checked back though and he was quite correct... Ahhh bless him, it was so cute!

Posted by DMV
He indeed does have a traditional side. He may wife you and marry you. BUT he will make sure that his needs are fulfilled. If not by you, by someone else.

he may or may not come clean about it with you. but he wont ever leave you....just play around when he has a need.

some women can get down with this, some cant.

#nojudgements

The one thing that i will never do is to degrade myself to please a/my man. If he is capable of doing shady things then that means he is not really committed to the relationship. That is one thing that i will not tolerate.

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Posted by tcta
yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

That's exactly what i am doing. Space and more space. As far as whether it was a test or not, i am glad i told him straight out that i am the wrong one, if he is into threesomes! Told him i don't care
If i like the guy so much- i am out! He got that loud and clear. So i will leave it as that..lol thanks!

That's not your words he'll pay attention to but your actions. He can continue this topic next time just to (tis time) test how strong you are. I hope for the best though

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Thanks! I know myself very well. I am firm as to what i will not tolerate- so in am not worried. I am more puzzled as to why a taurus man would like to test the waters more often. What do they get from doing so? Smh..

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Posted by tcta
yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

That's exactly what i am doing. Space and more space. As far as whether it was a test or not, i am glad i told him straight out that i am the wrong one, if he is into threesomes! Told him i don't care
If i like the guy so much- i am out! He got that loud and clear. So i will leave it as that..lol thanks!

That's not your words he'll pay attention to but your actions. He can continue this topic next time just to (tis time) test how strong you are. I hope for the best though

Thanks! I know myself very well. I am firm as to what i will not tolerate- so in am not worried. I am more puzzled as to why a taurus man would like to test the waters more often. What do they get from doing so? Smh..

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Every man doesn't believe for the first time wen the woman says NO. He'll keep pursuing his goal if he's a man regardless of sign. Because it is psychology. It doesn't mean he's bad or good. He's just being man. If he sees his goal clearly he'll pursue it, differently maybe just to make sure in prectice it can't work. That's only your actions he'll pay attention to. If he's interested into you like a gf material, he'll have to change his strategy. If he forgets about your 'moments' together and just do a distaant friendzone, then whatever you told about him being worthy and honest was just a game.
Wis you well!

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Posted by tcta
yea to me it sounds like he's busy so I'd chill for a bit more - I think it was a test ...

That's exactly what i am doing. Space and more space. As far as whether it was a test or not, i am glad i told him straight out that i am the wrong one, if he is into threesomes! Told him i don't care
If i like the guy so much- i am out! He got that loud and clear. So i will leave it as that..lol thanks!

That's not your words he'll pay attention to but your actions. He can continue this topic next time just to (tis time) test how strong you are. I hope for the best though

Thanks! I know myself very well. I am firm as to what i will not tolerate- so in am not worried. I am more puzzled as to why a taurus man would like to test the waters more often. What do they get from doing so? Smh..

Every man doesn't believe for the first time wen the woman says NO. He'll keep pursuing his goal if he's a man regardless of sign. Because it is psychology. It doesn't mean he's bad or good. He's just being man. If he sees his goal clearly he'll pursue it, differently maybe just to make sure in prectice it can't work. That's only your actions he'll pay attention to. If he's interested into you like a gf material, he'll have to change his strategy. If he forgets about your 'moments' together and just do a distaant friendzone, then whatever you told about him being worthy and honest was just a game.
Wis you well!

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True. Thanks for your input!

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OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Thanks! I am 200% sure i am not into threesome! So i will assess the situation with a strong CAUTION!

oh ok. cause if you dont put out, he will find someone else who will. On the bright side, he will still chat it up with you tho.

He can go get his freak on somewhere else! Lol i am the wrong one when it comes to that matter. On the other hand, i had theninpression that he is a traditional guy, family oriented and values the good in people so my inner psychic in me says that he was testing me to see if i am "that kind of gal"..but the small part of ny brain is saying, maybe he is really into freaky sh**t That would just break my soul..i am hoping my former intuition is right and not the latter.

I told you. He has a traditional side ie be Has a family. But taurus are hedonists. Any guy that mentions a threesome is not into a serious relationship and if you are you are wasting your time "waiting around" or "seeing how things go"!

The fact that you mentioned this in passing and yet he still remembers it to bring it up months later tells me he is not into anything serious.

Any man that mentioned this to me I would class as "disrespectful" and would cut him clean off!!

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I will def keep my radar wide open. And fyi, he did not mention "do you like threesome per say"- the topic came up and he said, " you told me that your friend wanted you to have threesome with his man"..so it caught me off guard that he remembered that.. And i swear that convo happened in Dec. we started talking back in Nov- no sex up till now- does that say something about how much of a hedonist he is? We almost got intimate the last two dates but he said he can tell that i am not ready to do it so he said it can wait. So see how it is so confusing on my part©

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OP, if youre into 3somes. You have met your guy!!!

If youre not, then cut him loose.

Thanks! I am 200% sure i am not into threesome! So i will assess the situation with a strong CAUTION!

oh ok. cause if you dont put out, he will find someone else who will. On the bright side, he will still chat it up with you tho.

He can go get his freak on somewhere else! Lol i am the wrong one when it comes to that matter. On the other hand, i had theninpression that he is a traditional guy, family oriented and values the good in people so my inner psychic in me says that he was testing me to see if i am "that kind of gal"..but the small part of ny brain is saying, maybe he is really into freaky sh**t That would just break my soul..i am hoping my former intuition is right and not the latter.

I told you. He has a traditional side ie be Has a family. But taurus are hedonists. Any guy that mentions a threesome is not into a serious relationship and if you are you are wasting your time "waiting around" or "seeing how things go"!

The fact that you mentioned this in passing and yet he still remembers it to bring it up months later tells me he is not into anything serious.

Any man that mentioned this to me I would class as "disrespectful" and would cut him clean off!!

I will def keep my radar wide open. And fyi, he did not mention "do you like threesome per say"- the topic came up and he said, " you told me that your friend wanted you to have threesome with his man"..so it caught me off guard that he remembered that.. And i swear that convo happened in Dec. we started talking back in Nov- no sex up till now- does that say something about how much of a hedonist he is? We almost got intimate the last two dates but he said he can tell that i am not ready to do it so he said it can wait. So see how it is so confusing on my part©

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The guy said no to having sex? Two reasons
1) He wants to make you want him so badly that you'd beg and just become his booty call (broad 'you' meaning)
2) He's seeing someone else.
The question is 'Was he right by saying you're not ready? I mean physically 'cause emotionally he seems never have been there

I was not at ease. And he said he felt that i was not comfortable- so he said he did not want to force something that should happen naturally. He said, "it's alright we can wait". I came out from a 5 years marriage. He knows this. So i don't know how to take it really. One thing i do like is the pace of getting to know each other. Slow and it has been steady.

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1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

Bulls are always listening and paying attention to every single word you say luv. They also have amazing memories and don't forget anything.. Literally .. I am with a Taurus and he has told me me with confidence that he is not interested in having threesomes at all.. He actually told me that he is way too shy and just wants to experience making love to one person.. Which sounds about right Taurus men may seem so confident but they are truly shy at heart. So I personally believe it was a test.

What test?!! Hello! If a man is into you he would never bring up a "threesome" as a "test" ! That's bullshit (pardon the pun!!).

Trust me, if the OP had answers yes I am, the taurus would have been there making the the "arrangements"!!!

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Hey @busyeyes you are the Taurus so you know first hand.. I'm just speaking from a conversation I had with my Guy and I'm glad my Bull said hell NO lol.. He only wants me! It is strange that her guy just brought it up out of the blue like it had been on his mind.. If I were her I would ask him if that was the case straight up since its a deal breaker for her she should probably find out now.

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1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

Bulls are always listening and paying attention to every single word you say luv. They also have amazing memories and don't forget anything.. Literally .. I am with a Taurus and he has told me me with confidence that he is not interested in having threesomes at all.. He actually told me that he is way too shy and just wants to experience making love to one person.. Which sounds about right Taurus men may seem so confident but they are truly shy at heart. So I personally believe it was a test.

Too true on the amazing memory and paying attention thing! On Friday my bull informed me it was our 'three month anniversary' since meeting... I was like 'wtf?' How did he remember or even think of that... I checked back though and he was quite correct... Ahhh bless him, it was so cute!

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That was so sweet.. It would've melted my little cancer heart haha.. He's a keeper!

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@ CancerLady .

Sincerely ! This is my concern ! If all the things the OP's tAurus could have mentioned re that and yet he remembers the threesome ! Also the OP seems to be the one who is initiating more than the bull! Her bull has 'got off lightly' with her because if that were me I would dig sooo deep to find out why he mentioned if. Why it stand out in his mind more than anything else that happened that same evening! There's no smoke without fire. And if it were no 'biggie' why the thread? My eighth house merc, Venus and Saturn is like a bloodhound on a trail.

Lol i hear ya @busyeyes88. I promise i will dig deeper!! Lol if you are on point on this one, i will be cutting him out right away. Also i mentioned other things to him that got brought up. I am just so focused on " threesome" convo coz it did not sit well with me. He remembered that i told him about the NyE i took and even remembered the event, time etc..i thought, dang this dude was actually taking memtal notes. I thought it went unnoticed.

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Hi guys! I am back! I posted something about mr Taurus on this board a few months back. I was confused then and got a lot of very helpful and informative point of views from ya'll! Anyway, fast forward to the present, mr Taurus and I are still talking- very minimal text messages- and most of the time, i have to initiate the convo- nothing too intense but he would always reply- sometimes not right away but i get it- he is extremely busy- he is running his own IT business. Since my last post, we've seen each other twice, the last one was as recent as a few days ago. The first date, i initiated but this recent one, he did- which was kind of surprising coz i've never expected that he would actually ask to see me³ So we went out to dinner and just talked for a few hours- and everytime we will get together, we'll just pick up where we left off- it did not matter how long ago it was- which is weird but it always feel so natural. So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it. I asked him why are we talking about that particular topic and he said "coz you've mentioned before that one of your friend got drunk and kept talking about having threesome with her dude"..and this was all true but i told him that story back in december ± I did not think that he will even remember it coz at that time, he did not seem like he was paying attention to what i was saying.lol so i told him that i will never ever share my man to no one (duh i am a scorp)..neither would i be interested in participating. He said "why not, what if your man asks you too- don't you want to make him happy"? I said "i am all for making my man happy but not to that extent". I told him if my man will ask me that, it will be a deal breaker for me- i don't care how much i like/love him". Then he's like "i hear you.." So i asked him back, would you do entertain the idea of a threesome? He said, "i've never done it ever so i don't know"°° that kinda threw me off the loop. Made me really sad inside coz i was hoping he would flat out say "no". The night ended amazing as always. We fooled around and kissed and all but no sex yet. But i am now left a bit confused again- was he testing me about the "threesome" topic? We went out monday and i have not heard from him since then- just like the last time we had a deep convo and an amazing night, he disappears the next day or two or three- last time i panicked but this time i feel different. i feel like i know him a lot better this time. And also he mentioned that he's sold his house and is in the process of moving to a new house. Tho i am still somewhat confused. Any input is greatly appreciated!

You're wasting your time with this one. You gave your reply and he came back with that response? Yeah....just wait for it.

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I'm sorry, but it seems that he is not serious about you.

"mr Taurus and I are still talking- very minimal text messages- and most of the time, i have to initiate the convo" -> from my experience, if a guy has been interested, I have never had to worry about initiating. They always initiate, if they are actually interested.

"Since my last post, we've seen each other twice, the last one was as recent as a few days ago." -> as I understand, you have seen each other only twice within few months. That's not enough, if a guy is interested, he will make time at least once a week to meet up with a girl he likes. Or are you fine with the fact that you see each other so little? Is there any good reason why you two meet so rarely?

"So during our dinner convo he brought up the topic of "threesome" and how do i feel about it." -> I don't know in what stadium you are with this guy, but tbh I wouldn't put up with a guy bringing up threesome. I really don't believe it was a test, I assume from that he is interested in threesome and not interested in a serious relationship.

This. Exactly.

I'm wondering why you even raised the topic as it relates to your friend. You're suppose to be getting to know each other and talking about yourself.

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1. Yes we Taurus don't really like those type of things but if they are interested in it it may be due to air placements in the chart.
2. You guys aren't a couple, but getting to know each other better is useful the both of you guys. If he is into threesomes well you might want to tell him straight up that's unacceptable.
3. Yeah as a woman I would be turned off by fwb and threesome. I never had a threesome and it is a deal breaker. There are issues I would always be in concern about.

I agree! I did tell him straight up that threesome is not for me and it will be a deal breaker- even if i like the guy so much- i will break it off right away. He said "he heard me". it was almost like he was asking me about it but not in a low key way. He looked me in the eye when i was explainjng to him that it is not for me. My gutt tells me that he is not into it. And like i said, the night ended so magical and just amazing. Then today is the second day that i have not heard from him. i figured between juggling his business and in the process of moving, plus being a single dad, he has a lot on his plate so i am letting him have his moment.

Bulls are always listening and paying attention to every single word you say luv. They also have amazing memories and don't forget anything.. Literally .. I am with a Taurus and he has told me me with confidence that he is not interested in having threesomes at all.. He actually told me that he is way too shy and just wants to experience making love to one person.. Which sounds about right Taurus men may seem so confident but they are truly shy at heart. So I personally believe it was a test.

Too true on the amazing memory and paying attention thing! On Friday my bull informed me it was our 'three month anniversary' since meeting... I was like 'wtf?' How did he remember or even think of that... I checked back though and he was quite correct... Ahhh bless him, it was so cute!

That was so sweet.. It would've melted my little cancer heart haha.. He's a keeper!

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Totally! Brought a tear to me eye... ŠðŸ‘ðŸ¼

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I'm wondering why you even raised the topic as it relates to your friend. You're suppose to be getting to know each other and talking about yourself.

Well i did not necessarily raised the topic per say. Back in December, i was at a friend's party and was gonna spend the night at her place but then she started talking stuoid stuff and weirded me out completely so i left and went home. I told mr bull at that time that i changed my plan coz of my friend talking about threesome crap- and that was it. His exact words at that time was "whoa, no s^**". Then it was never talked about again until a few nights ago.

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OP, cut right now! Mr Bull is looking for a threesome. Tauruses are hedonists and would love to try out hedonistic things while single and ready to mingle!!

Do unless you just want casual sex which will eventually lead to s threesome, I think you should cut off the bull.

Don't keep initiating!! If a man has anything serious that he wants from you regardless as to what that should be they will initiate. Next time keep sexual things like threesomes to yourself. Don't get drunk if you can't control your tongue!!

Too many women waste their damn time initiating and getting shit in return!!!

Thanks for your insight! It was not me who got drunk and talked about threesome..lol trust me, i am not into freaky stuff- not even in my second life if there's such a thing! it was my friend. But i will take notes from your advice for sure. Will see if mr bull is going to make his presence known. I am learning his personality and i like what i've learned so far so i will lay low but will not leave just quite. I think he is the most honest man that i've ever talked to and i like that about him.

If he is as honest as you assume, then BELIEVE him when he says that he is not sure about what he thinks about a threesome. If he was testing you, he was testing you when he asked you what you thought of a threesome. His response to you WAS NOT a test. It was his truth. He is curious about it and doesn't have an opinion about it yet, because he is open to try it in order to have an opinion about it.

It's up to you to accept that or not. He WILL try it... and once he does, you don't know if he will be one to LOVE it or DETEST it.

If this is a deal breaker to you, then you need to be honest with yourself and with him. He will not change his mind on trying it... he might be hoping to change yours though...

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Very well said. Thank you! And i know i definitely do not want to entertain that idea now and moving forward. So if he will keep talking about it i will let him know that there is nothing he can do or say to make me change my view. He needs to leave me alone if that is the case- coz for me it is a matter of respect. And the idea of a threesome with someone that you like and some random person is disrespecting the union- and that is a definite NO in my book.

@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

@busyeyes88 - thanks for your feedback! I am learning this taurus guy very thoroughly so to speak. I am gearing up for more gaps as he has told me that before- which is why i did not text or call since monday night- i figured he'll reach out when he's had enough space..lol

As far as "perfect night"- that's how he made me feel that night. Just perfect. Tho i know what you are saying, and i agree- no such thing as perfect in the real world.

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My brother is a Taurus. Taurus men are extremely jealous and possessive and not too many women can even put up with it from what I've seen. So they often wind up with more submissive types. They also test women like crazy. My brother paid his friend to try and hit on his gf one time. He loved Scorpio women and dated 2 of them, but they gave him hell and it never worked out. A Scorpio is probably the only other sign that can match the kind of deep jealousy they can have. Taurus also respect people who are faithful and possessive like they are as they equate these traits with love. the best thing you can do in this situation is first invite him to dinner. Say that you want to talk to him about the threesome conversation you had. Tell him you've been thinking about it and you only want to be with someone who is completely devoted, and deeply in love with you. Tell him that's the only kind of love you're interested in and that you don't want to waste either of your time if he doesn't feel the same. Tell him you could never be with a man who would even have the desire to bring someone else into the bedroom with you. He will respect this and here is what will happen. He will feel slight shame. If he was testing he will possibly even reveal it at this point. If he was serious about being undecided on the matter you will have settled his mind permanently. And then his eyes will glaze over, and his pupils will form into little throbbing hearts right before your eyes. In the reflection of his heart-shaped pupils you will discover that the cause of this transformation in him was mostly due to the waiter passing by with a dessert tray. You will be slightly disappointed but then he will order a dessert for you both of you to share and eating this dessert together, which he shall both choose and eat the majority of, shall forge the two of you in what in his mind is an eternal covenant.

Thanks for your input! I thought the ending was pretty funny!lol it is good to hear different point of views- in my case, i would like to beleive that he was testing the water- to see where my head and heart is at with this issue- but my hunch could be possibly off too🙃 Does your brother also do disappearing acts when he liked his date or only when he does not like them? Maybe i am over calculating this Taurus's actions and words coz i like him a lot. Maybe his disappearing acts are stemming from the fact that he is really not interested with me° It sucks to keep guessing.

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@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

How long does he usually disappear for? And he never iniciates?

I agree that Taurus DO like there space from others and do their own thing (even if it's lounging in the sofa doing nothing). So, it's something you have to consider.

But I remember a frequent male poster here (TLS) once mentioned that if a man doesn't contact you in less than a month... He JUST isn't interested in you.

You might want to test that?

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Well this is the second time that he's done it. The first one he disappeared for 3 days, (again after i thought was an amazing night- when i say amazing night, i mean we had a deep level of conversation and it always ends up sweet and i am always at ease). Then when i finally reached out to him the fourth day of his first disappearance, he apologize for the lack of response and he told me he's busy some personal matter and he said he has little time to give coz of business so he said i should expect gaps in communication. So i took that and was fine with it. Then we went back into texting back and forth but very minimal- it's always been minimal so it was not a big deal. So this time, today is the third day of no communication- so i am letting him have his space. I am lost for words tho on what to do next 😢

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@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

How long does he usually disappear for? And he never iniciates?

I agree that Taurus DO like there space from others and do their own thing (even if it's lounging in the sofa doing nothing). So, it's something you have to consider.

But I remember a frequent male poster here (TLS) once mentioned that if a man doesn't contact you in less than a month... He JUST isn't interested in you.

You might want to test that?

Well this is the second time that he's done it. The first one he disappeared for 3 days, (again after i thought was an amazing night- when i say amazing night, i mean we had a deep level of conversation and it always ends up sweet and i am always at ease). Then when i finally reached out to him the fourth day of his first disappearance, he apologize for the lack of response and he told me he's busy some personal matter and he said he has little time to give coz of business so he said i should expect gaps in communication. So i took that and was fine with it. Then we went back into texting back and forth but very minimal- it's always been minimal so it was not a big deal. So this time, today is the third day of no communication- so i am letting him have his space. I am lost for words tho on what to do next 😢

What you do next is take a deep look at what your needs are and make sure they are met. That is what he is doing... In his life, he comes first and he will make sure you know it.

He clearly told you who he is... He will keep on having this behavior, it won't change based on how "he feels", that's a water sign trait.

So, if you feel that action needs to happen now, then take that energy and focus on yourself... What do you need now or in your life?

Life isn't perfect, but don't think you can't live a live that gets you close to it!! 😄

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So true! Life is not perfect and it will never be but i can choose to either live a happy imperfect life or be miserable and will keep guessing forever🤔 I think it is a no brainer. I will leave this chapter alone and see where it goes- but i will not sit around and guess anymore. Like everyone here is saying, if he's interested, he'll find a way. Thank you!

@EnochtheWise- thanks! I made up my mind and decided that i will let the nature do its course. If mr Taurus wants to get to know me more, then he knows where to reach me. If he doesn't reach out at all, then no need to guess the obvious.

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@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

How long does he usually disappear for? And he never iniciates?

I agree that Taurus DO like there space from others and do their own thing (even if it's lounging in the sofa doing nothing). So, it's something you have to consider.

But I remember a frequent male poster here (TLS) once mentioned that if a man doesn't contact you in less than a month... He JUST isn't interested in you.

You might want to test that?

Who would wait a whole month?? But then again, there have been some very desperate women on these boards who would wait or initiate contact with a man who has been gone that long!!

A man regardless of sign would never wait a month to contact a person if they were interested. A lot of women need to bear that in mind and have a "cut off" time in their heads!!!!

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lol, thanks busy! 😆

Posted by EnochtheWise
My brother is a Taurus. Taurus men are extremely jealous and possessive and not too many women can even put up with it from what I've seen. So they often wind up with more submissive types. They also test women like crazy. My brother paid his friend to try and hit on his gf one time. He loved Scorpio women and dated 2 of them, but they gave him hell and it never worked out. A Scorpio is probably the only other sign that can match the kind of deep jealousy they can have. Taurus also respect people who are faithful and possessive like they are as they equate these traits with love. the best thing you can do in this situation is first invite him to dinner. Say that you want to talk to him about the threesome conversation you had. Tell him you've been thinking about it and you only want to be with someone who is completely devoted, and deeply in love with you. Tell him that's the only kind of love you're interested in and that you don't want to waste either of your time if he doesn't feel the same. Tell him you could never be with a man who would even have the desire to bring someone else into the bedroom with you. He will respect this and here is what will happen. He will feel slight shame. If he was testing he will possibly even reveal it at this point. If he was serious about being undecided on the matter you will have settled his mind permanently. And then his eyes will glaze over, and his pupils will form into little throbbing hearts right before your eyes. In the reflection of his heart-shaped pupils you will discover that the cause of this transformation in him was mostly due to the waiter passing by with a dessert tray. You will be slightly disappointed but then he will order a dessert for you both of you to share and eating this dessert together, which he shall both choose and eat the majority of, shall forge the two of you in what in his mind is an eternal covenant.

Ha ha love it

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@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

How long does he usually disappear for? And he never iniciates?

I agree that Taurus DO like there space from others and do their own thing (even if it's lounging in the sofa doing nothing). So, it's something you have to consider.

But I remember a frequent male poster here (TLS) once mentioned that if a man doesn't contact you in less than a month... He JUST isn't interested in you.

You might want to test that?

Who would wait a whole month?? But then again, there have been some very desperate women on these boards who would wait or initiate contact with a man who has been gone that long!!

A man regardless of sign would never wait a month to contact a person if they were interested. A lot of women need to bear that in mind and have a "cut off" time in their heads!!!!

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i wish a mofo would call me after a month,

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by jeane

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by ScorpioNluv
@Infinite8 - will keep this in mind! Now i will wait again since he decided to disappear again..lol third day and counting. This is the second time that the disappearing act has happened and it sucks coz he always does it after what seemed to be an amazing perfect night 😢

How long does he usually disappear for? And he never iniciates?

I agree that Taurus DO like there space from others and do their own thing (even if it's lounging in the sofa doing nothing). So, it's something you have to consider.

But I remember a frequent male poster here (TLS) once mentioned that if a man doesn't contact you in less than a month... He JUST isn't interested in you.

You might want to test that?

Who would wait a whole month?? But then again, there have been some very desperate women on these boards who would wait or initiate contact with a man who has been gone that long!!

A man regardless of sign would never wait a month to contact a person if they were interested. A lot of women need to bear that in mind and have a "cut off" time in their heads!!!!

lol, thanks busy! 😆

Oh no! What have I said now! Lol have I developed, sag "foot in mouth disease '?!! Lol

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no, it's ok!