virgo29
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Virgo woman & taurus man.. Helppppp!!!!!!!!!!!
he likes you. just follow his lead and go with the flow of enjoying the moment.
i don't know busy, i disagree. if he was after fanny, he could go back on the dating site. i'm sure he wouldn't have any problem, after all, he got the virgo.
he is not going to invest time with trying to sort out gym equipment, talking about his family, offering to drive her (and not making a move). seems like he is interested in getting to know her better and is liking being of service. guys don't go to all that trouble if they are just after nunny (and nunny he has already had).
the sexual comments, well, he's a guy! and a taurus one at that! there is no fun without a bit of teasing and flirting.
he is not going to invest time with trying to sort out gym equipment, talking about his family, offering to drive her (and not making a move). seems like he is interested in getting to know her better and is liking being of service. guys don't go to all that trouble if they are just after nunny (and nunny he has already had).
the sexual comments, well, he's a guy! and a taurus one at that! there is no fun without a bit of teasing and flirting.
while he asked me out this last weekend I had to say no because i had plans but i did tell him I wanted to see him and maybe if he was free this weekend we could do something.. I haven't brought it up again and wont either ( ill let him bring it up)
busyeyes88:
I always have that "harem" word very much present when i speak with him so I will not make that mistake until we are at that appropriate time.. I have no intentions to sleep with him nor do I have any business sleeping with him I figure. I agree with you on that 100% ....
its his actions and words have changed a great deal since I decided to focus on my life and myself.. .. he's asking about my days my workouts.. my dog, my family.. work especially.. he said he was worried I was burning myself out at work.. I told him i appreciated the offer on the gym equipment but it wasnt necessary and he says " when I offer take it:
really is a total 360 from simply ignoring him and deleting him..
busyeyes88:
I always have that "harem" word very much present when i speak with him so I will not make that mistake until we are at that appropriate time.. I have no intentions to sleep with him nor do I have any business sleeping with him I figure. I agree with you on that 100% ....
its his actions and words have changed a great deal since I decided to focus on my life and myself.. .. he's asking about my days my workouts.. my dog, my family.. work especially.. he said he was worried I was burning myself out at work.. I told him i appreciated the offer on the gym equipment but it wasnt necessary and he says " when I offer take it:
really is a total 360 from simply ignoring him and deleting him..
Posted by busyeyes88yes, i agree.Posted by jeaneI understand what you are saying. I never ruled out a relationship or the fact that he doesn't like.. But to just not have sex with him too soon this time to rule it out!! To just get to know his personality better!!
i don't know busy, i disagree. if he was after fanny, he could go back on the dating site. i'm sure he wouldn't have any problem, after all, he got the virgo.
he is not going to invest time with trying to sort out gym equipment, talking about his family, offering to drive her (and not making a move). seems like he is interested in getting to know her better and is liking being of service. guys don't go to all that trouble if they are just after nunny (and nunny he has already had).
the sexual comments, well, he's a guy! and a taurus one at that! there is no fun without a bit of teasing and flirting.click to expand
im just trying to live my life.. i do like him alot.. im not withholding sex but I know the sexual chemistry isgreat, so no need to do that until we have a solid foundation with each other..
kinda did it backwards but i'm human and fell for his charm.
when i told him i was busy on saturday because i was going to a lacrosse game with a friend (i didnt mention if it was a guy or girl) he messaged me the next day ( saturday) exactly at 7pm ( when the game started).. i found it odd but i messaged back because i didnt want him thinking i was on a date or something.. even sent a photo of me and my girlfriends to him..
kinda did it backwards but i'm human and fell for his charm.
when i told him i was busy on saturday because i was going to a lacrosse game with a friend (i didnt mention if it was a guy or girl) he messaged me the next day ( saturday) exactly at 7pm ( when the game started).. i found it odd but i messaged back because i didnt want him thinking i was on a date or something.. even sent a photo of me and my girlfriends to him..
Can you tell me though.. why does he text and call one day and then another day just lays low—
am i supposed to call him now instead of texting since he's opened that door of communication?
just not sure how to proceed at time with him because I dont want him to feel rushed at all
just not sure how to proceed at time with him because I dont want him to feel rushed at all
that makes sense..if he's falling back to get control that just mean he's guarding himself until he is sure if he wants to go further.. i can understand that' ill respect his space and wait on him to feel comfortable again and just do my own thing in the process..
Posted by virgo29maybe on those days he is busy or doesn't feel the need to text.
Can you tell me though.. why does he text and call one day and then another day just lays low—
if you want to text him, text him but like you said, go out and live your life as well. it doesn't sound like your at the stage where you must text everyday. i've been with my partner for nearly two years and there are the odd days where we don't text. it's not a big deal.
with that said, you're at the start and so you are going to be insecure, you are going to fret. my advice would be don't allow yourself to sweat the small stuff. feel happy with where you are at (ie, go with the flow and enjoy the moment). don't start putting pressure on yourself, or him or the fledgling relationship to be a certain way. as the taurus say, let it evolve organically.
plus, i am a firm believer in letting guys miss you. that's not to say, you have to play games, but not being all up in their business does wonders. it allows them to think of you and wonder about you.
the final piece of advice would be guys are not women! they don't think like us, they don't behave like us. see the world through his eyes if you can and if you struggle, yes come here to get a male perspective but also google! there are lots of different opinions that could help you make sense of things when you feel unsure. i refer to all the time when i am seeking another perspective. it's incredibly helpful.
thank you both.. such great advice.. ill respect his space and allow this to evolve
Most people do wait at least 3-5 dates to have sex with people I meet online@OP.
As a matter of fact it should take a few weeks just over online, if that flows right them swap numbers and ask more questions, haha to even swap numbers you have to ask the right questions and 90% fail everytime. Haha
so we've made dinner plans.. well i sort of did
he asked : what are your plans this weekend
I said: studying and physio therapy but if you're free maybe we could do something Saturday evening
he said: yes we should
i said: maybe we could grab dinner or if you have something else in mind let me know
he said: dinner works 🙂
so i've made plans outside of my condo and this we have a chance to talk
he asked : what are your plans this weekend
I said: studying and physio therapy but if you're free maybe we could do something Saturday evening
he said: yes we should
i said: maybe we could grab dinner or if you have something else in mind let me know
he said: dinner works 🙂
so i've made plans outside of my condo and this we have a chance to talk
shity sorry i hit post accidentally to quickly..
my question is this: how do I avoid him coming to my place since he's been there already.. he's gonna find it odd i dont allow him to come over
if all fails and he does end up coming over.. how do i tell him in a nice way (that wont chase him away) that i want to spend time just getting to know him right now and nothing beyond that can take place right now
my question is this: how do I avoid him coming to my place since he's been there already.. he's gonna find it odd i dont allow him to come over
if all fails and he does end up coming over.. how do i tell him in a nice way (that wont chase him away) that i want to spend time just getting to know him right now and nothing beyond that can take place right now
@Virgo29
You're being neurotic about the obvious.
All the signs are there. He's clearly into you.
1. The time span was only a month from the time you deleted him...until Christmas rolled around. He began to text you...CONSISTENTLY.
2. Although the calls were not being returned by you, [your words], he continued to reach out to you...the calls continued to Jan 2016.
3. He offered to join you in Yoga.
4. He divulged a lot of information about his family. This is a HUGE plus, considering we're very private people.
5. He seemed concerned about your accident.
This is quite an emotional risk to take considering his calls went unanswered. He may have accepted full responsibility for your reluctance to pursue anything with him...this explains his patience and understanding. It also shows maturity.
Bulls are just as cautious as Virgos....just not as indecisive. We know our minds. If we're 100% certain about you, and we feel safe to move forward, we move in with a dogged determination. We know our minds, and we only trust in our instincts.
He's feeling you, you're feeling him...What do you have to lose?
Don't let your worries prevent you from getting your man 😉
Good Luck!
You're being neurotic about the obvious.
All the signs are there. He's clearly into you.
1. The time span was only a month from the time you deleted him...until Christmas rolled around. He began to text you...CONSISTENTLY.
2. Although the calls were not being returned by you, [your words], he continued to reach out to you...the calls continued to Jan 2016.
3. He offered to join you in Yoga.
4. He divulged a lot of information about his family. This is a HUGE plus, considering we're very private people.
5. He seemed concerned about your accident.
This is quite an emotional risk to take considering his calls went unanswered. He may have accepted full responsibility for your reluctance to pursue anything with him...this explains his patience and understanding. It also shows maturity.
Bulls are just as cautious as Virgos....just not as indecisive. We know our minds. If we're 100% certain about you, and we feel safe to move forward, we move in with a dogged determination. We know our minds, and we only trust in our instincts.
He's feeling you, you're feeling him...What do you have to lose?
Don't let your worries prevent you from getting your man 😉
Good Luck!
Posted by busyeyes88I agree here. I think you gave in to him way too soon and now he thinks you're easy. He didn't want to see you because the relationship moved too fast for him, he says? Oh please. I'll just bet he made you feel like you were the queen of his life... before sex. Caught too soon and the chase was over for him. Taurus men can make you feel like something really special then split when you give them what they want for exactly the same reason.
Becareful!! Your history is that you slept with him on a second date. He was at least open and honest enough to tell you that you had sex too soon.
There is no contact until early this year ie no contact for a few months.
There could be many factors here including that the taurus may be going through a sexual "dry spell" and has decided to contact you you ie he is already slipping in sexual inuendos!!! Hey may already have a harem list and has added your name to it...
The only way to see if it is non sexual is to restart from the beginning. DO NOT have sex with him again UNTIL you have hung out with him and get to know him as a friend first. Find out about him ; his life ex girlfriends ; likes dislikes. Do your homework! The only thing opening should be your mouth to ask questions and not your legs then you will know EXACTLY what he is after...
Never encourage physical intimacy with a Taurus male too quickly or their ardour will wane just as fast and they'll disappear on you. You deserve better than him IMHO. But if you stay definitely don't give him easy sex ever again.
So he cancelled the night prior (Friday) saying he had to go help a buddy move but wanted to see me on Sunday if possible.
I was pretty annoyed but didn’t say anything I just responded: I can’t do Sunday, maybe some other time, following with another text saying “heading to bed, enjoy your night”
Then on Saturday morning he messages me going into detail about this move he is helping with and as much as I was annoyed (like go help your friend, no need to give me a play by play) but then he continued to text me and even call throughout the day up until 1am…. ..
Come Sunday same sort of deal (super consistent with texting) then he’s asks: can I see you on Mon or Tuesday since you have evening class on Wed & Thurs.. I dodged the question because I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do because I hate when people cancel on me (although I know shit happens)
Come Sunday night he says, so I know you didn’t says yes or no but do you think I could see you on Mon or Tuesday……..
So I said Tuesday works better…but I waited until Monday morning to respond.
I was pretty annoyed but didn’t say anything I just responded: I can’t do Sunday, maybe some other time, following with another text saying “heading to bed, enjoy your night”
Then on Saturday morning he messages me going into detail about this move he is helping with and as much as I was annoyed (like go help your friend, no need to give me a play by play) but then he continued to text me and even call throughout the day up until 1am…. ..
Come Sunday same sort of deal (super consistent with texting) then he’s asks: can I see you on Mon or Tuesday since you have evening class on Wed & Thurs.. I dodged the question because I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do because I hate when people cancel on me (although I know shit happens)
Come Sunday night he says, so I know you didn’t says yes or no but do you think I could see you on Mon or Tuesday……..
So I said Tuesday works better…but I waited until Monday morning to respond.
(although I know shit happens sometimes)
(although I know stuff come up sometimes)
@wicked
i agree with you.. im just super guarded.. it does show good character.. ..
i agree with you.. im just super guarded.. it does show good character.. ..
im gonna stop analyzing this to death ( hate doing that).. doesn't make sense to waste time figuring out his action.. i might as well just go with the flow
Posted by jeanei always like what you have to say jeane :-)Posted by virgo29maybe on those days he is busy or doesn't feel the need to text.
Can you tell me though.. why does he text and call one day and then another day just lays low—
if you want to text him, text him but like you said, go out and live your life as well. it doesn't sound like your at the stage where you must text everyday. i've been with my partner for nearly two years and there are the odd days where we don't text. it's not a big deal.
with that said, you're at the start and so you are going to be insecure, you are going to fret. my advice would be don't allow yourself to sweat the small stuff. feel happy with where you are at (ie, go with the flow and enjoy the moment). don't start putting pressure on yourself, or him or the fledgling relationship to be a certain way. as the taurus say, let it evolve organically.
plus, i am a firm believer in letting guys miss you. that's not to say, you have to play games, but not being all up in their business does wonders. it allows them to think of you and wonder about you.
the final piece of advice would be guys are not women! they don't think like us, they don't behave like us. see the world through his eyes if you can and if you struggle, yes come here to get a male perspective but also google! there are lots of different opinions that could help you make sense of things when you feel unsure. i refer to all the time when i am seeking another perspective. it's incredibly helpful.click to expand
he obviously felt badly that he had to cancel to help his friend move or he wouldnt feel the need to keep you in the loop. he wants to see you still and i feel like you should have been more understanding and just rescheduled. dont sweat the small stuff. you both want to see each other so see each other! like you said, shit happens sometimes. so go with the flow and share his excitement rather than hold grudges.
Posted by AbbyNormalthanks abby! 😄
he obviously felt badly that he had to cancel to help his friend move or he wouldnt feel the need to keep you in the loop. he wants to see you still and i feel like you should have been more understanding and just rescheduled. dont sweat the small stuff. you both want to see each other so see each other! like you said, shit happens sometimes. so go with the flow and share his excitement rather than hold grudges.
100% agree with your post too. great advice well written.
oh mannn... so i was nervous but as soon as i got out of the elevator in my condo my mind switched completely, like who the f✨&! cares what happens tonight.. so then it was all good .. my walk changed my body language everything.. i was still a bit nervous but had control over it
he opened the door for me - very sweet
when we walked in the restaurant ppl were kinda of starring (stupid outfit - turtle neck dress, jean jacket with boots) and i felt his hand just gently grab mine.. again kinda of sweet
we talked a lot about his family, his work, roadblocks he's facing right now, etc..and then had some minor times of silence which I kind of enjoy sometimes
after leaving the restaurant, he opened the door for me again - very sweet
i didnt want him coming up to my place after at all but he had to bring these medicine weight balls he brought for me ( workout equipment)and my one hand is in a brace so he brought them up.. sat down for about 30 minutes but i stayed distant from him in my condo then told him i had to get up early.. but had fun
he was very okay with it.. no kiss but I wasn’t to bothered by that
he texted me after leaving up until 1am all good things.. very charming.. and incredible sweet.. said he would like to see me more if it was okay with me. i said i'd like that.. also got a bit flirty saying he wishes he stayed longer and i quickly said i enjoy spending time with you getting to know you more
i tried super hard not to play games (hard to get).. just enjoyed the night and gave him the benefit of the doubt when questioning anything in my mind
he just might be the real deal
he opened the door for me - very sweet
when we walked in the restaurant ppl were kinda of starring (stupid outfit - turtle neck dress, jean jacket with boots) and i felt his hand just gently grab mine.. again kinda of sweet
we talked a lot about his family, his work, roadblocks he's facing right now, etc..and then had some minor times of silence which I kind of enjoy sometimes
after leaving the restaurant, he opened the door for me again - very sweet
i didnt want him coming up to my place after at all but he had to bring these medicine weight balls he brought for me ( workout equipment)and my one hand is in a brace so he brought them up.. sat down for about 30 minutes but i stayed distant from him in my condo then told him i had to get up early.. but had fun
he was very okay with it.. no kiss but I wasn’t to bothered by that
he texted me after leaving up until 1am all good things.. very charming.. and incredible sweet.. said he would like to see me more if it was okay with me. i said i'd like that.. also got a bit flirty saying he wishes he stayed longer and i quickly said i enjoy spending time with you getting to know you more
i tried super hard not to play games (hard to get).. just enjoyed the night and gave him the benefit of the doubt when questioning anything in my mind
he just might be the real deal
ke you're a game player.
I suggest you get real. (really just being ironic actually cuz I don't think you can)
lmao @ cautious. A cautious person paces themselves, a game-player is dismissive for purposes of control.
Posted by virgo29^I see the spitefulness in that "Enjoy your night" = "hope you break your neck for meeting your friends and not me, the princess of your life"
I was pretty annoyed but didn’t say anything I just responded: I can’t do Sunday, maybe some other time, following with another text saying “heading to bed, enjoy your night”
Posted by virgo29^ Nah chick, you dodged the question because you wanted to keep him on his toes. Wasn't catering enough to you right...maybe she should've cried or something.
I dodged the question because I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do because I hate when people cancel on me
Posted by virgo29^lmao
…but I waited until Monday morning to respond.click to expand
....ah the innocence of virgo women.
if he's smart, he'll play your tune just enough so he can hit it...more than once.
you don't display cautiousness, you display control. he'll bail on you as soon as he'll figure it out. but by all means, keep thinking you're making a point ROFLMAO.
@ Damnata
we're doing great since date night... i think your advice is useless and negative everyone proceeds with caution its not about control as no one can control a person unless the other person allows it..
while we have been intimate already (more than once initially) he's clearly not here for that...
i wait on responding because that last thing i want to do is say something to him to quickly as because i want to respond why i actually want.. i give him the same time as well in respond so we understand each other without having to say much.
.. its called being smart and im taking my time to protect myself from being hurt...
sounds like you have some of your own negative issues you should look into...
we're doing great since date night... i think your advice is useless and negative everyone proceeds with caution its not about control as no one can control a person unless the other person allows it..
while we have been intimate already (more than once initially) he's clearly not here for that...
i wait on responding because that last thing i want to do is say something to him to quickly as because i want to respond why i actually want.. i give him the same time as well in respond so we understand each other without having to say much.
.. its called being smart and im taking my time to protect myself from being hurt...
sounds like you have some of your own negative issues you should look into...
Posted by virgo29Nah, that's bs. The way you construct your answers..it's not because you give it time out of concern for how you come across. Like..you know, being a genuine person? lol. It's all set up to get a reaction so he plays into you.
@ Damnata
that last thing i want to do is say something to him to quickly as because i want to respond why i actually want.. i give him the same time as well in respond so we understand each other without having to say much.
Posted by virgo29It's called game playing.
.. its called being smartclick to expand
I mean don't cajol Taurus! Lol
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