What Signs Haven't You Dated?

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So given that I'm hold up with a cold and reflecting on my love life and that of others, I started to wonder....

Which signs have you NOT dated?
Tau-Never. Sag-Briefly.

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Leo, Aqua

Which were the most fulfilling?
Aqua, Virgo - both turned out to be friends for life but it ended up feeling more like a brother-sister situation. In all instances they were drop dead gorgeous but am I attracted to them? Not really.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
LEO - when you're constantly aiming to please the King you can sometimes forget how valuable the Queen is.

Which were the most challenging
Leo, Aqua - the books are right. Fixed signs eventually "butt heads" (pun intended) and the test of wills is...UGH! If you're a strong woman dealing with a strong man...*sigh*

Which were the most maddening?
Scorpio! SCORPIO! SCOR-PI-Oooooo! I learned from that relationship (b/c it's taurus' opposite) that I would from that point forward learn to take "no" for an answer...because he sure couldn't. Breaking up with him was so difficult. I have never had to be so mean in my entire life and it took threatening a restraining order to get him to stop. NEVER EVER NEVER AGAIN! Granted he just could've been crazy but I ain't riskin' it again...no way.

Which had the most potential?
Aries, Aqua, Leo. The last two because stubbornness/competitiveness got in the way. Learning how to share the reigns is difficult but definitely a lesson that's worth learning in and outside of a relationship.

Which were the most passionate?
Leo - sexually, he was my match thru and thru...MERCY!

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
Leo, Aqua - do it over again so they'd either end quicker or produce better results.

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
My options are Tau, Sag so the answer would be, neither. Another Tau might work financially, maybe even sexually but I don't want to grow old AND fat together.

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
Pisces and Capricorn - the Pisces were wack jobs and the Cap...sweet but a lil too..."simple."

What sign are you dating now?
Aries - he's so cute...and spastic.
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Aries, Sag, Capricorn, Taurus

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Virgo

Which were the most fulfilling?
Virgo, in the beginning it was everything I could have asked for. It didn't work out ultimately, we grew apart, but hey ho, there's life for you.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Again, Virgo, partly my fault, I moved into 'all about you' mode and lost myself.

Which were the most challenging
Leo/Cancer cusp

Which were the most maddening?
Scorpio, or rather ...this particular Scorpio

Which had the most potential?
A Taurus I never got the chance to date.

Which were the most passionate?
Virgo

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
Leo/Cancer

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
Aries, I dig all the fire and the machismo

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
Don't have the answer for that, everyone is different.

What sign are you dating now?
Not dating anyone at the mo, and man does it SUCK.
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@tauruswoman - wow...i thought i had thing for fixed signs but clearly you and sags are holding it down. i could NEVER imagine myself with one though. i'm not sure why. i have a lot of male relatives that are sags and they're just too firey for me which is an odd things to say given my affinity for leos and aries.

@venusianbull - i'm in agreement on the virgo. i have a whole lot of trouble with virgo females...for the most part as there are exceptions. but virgo males are like hand in glove. a very soothing relationship but lacking some of the fiery elements and passion i'm typically attracted to but maybe i just need to grow out of that.

and neither of you have dated a taurus male either. i'm seeing the start of a trend here. i wonder why?
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I lusted after a Taurus male in school, but he never sacked up and asked me out, mores the pity. And I think that's it right there. Taurus males rarely own up to how they feel, or they take so long going about it the woman stamps off in a huff or turns to mummy dust. Whichever comes first.
I don't think it would be boring at all honestly being with another Taurus. I think we would mirror one another and share similar interests, explosive temper, love of food and long bouts of sack time. And all set to some damned fine music. No arguments over money either. I think it would prove very interesting indeed. 🙂
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i have a lot of fire in my chart so i mix well with fire signs...it's the fixed ones that leave me exhausted. my leo was/is the only person on this planet i chose never to debate. being this way made me feel an odd mix of respect/admiration/frustration/anger.

i learned early on that unless i wanted an astro standoff at high noon it was better to say, "yea baby, you're right" 😛 i chose peace over turmoil more often than not and i'm not even sure that was the righ thing to do. couldve lasted but i got tired of putting my aries moon to bed early.
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Gemini, Leo, Sag, Taurus, Aquas, Aries, Pisces, Virgo, Cap

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Scorpio

Which were the most fulfilling?
Libra, he was very tolerant of me when I was young. The way he loved me I would never forget, he treated me like a princess.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Scorpio

Which were the most challenging
Scorpio

Which were the most maddening?
Scorpio- he knew how to play with my emotions, drive me up the wall then bring me down gently again. It was a destructive cycle that eventually killed my identity.

Which had the most potential?
Libra now, I love him very much and vice versa, we get mad at each other from time to time but always kiss up before we sleep.

Which were the most passionate?
Scorpio

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
1st Libra, so I can treat him like he deserves to be treated.

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
Taurus, I have a taurus moon so I believe we should be very compatible

What sign are you dating now?
Married to a libra



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Which were the most maddening?
Scorpio- he knew how to play with my emotions, drive me up the wall then bring me down gently again. It was a destructive cycle that eventually killed my identity.



i forgot about this thread.

yeah, the scorpio was great...until he wasn't. scorp females i dont have any trouble with. they're good people and they look out for their fam and friends in ways that are similar to tau. but seeing how they handle the men in their lives, i feel their beaus' pain.

in the beginning he was intriguing, dynamic, fun and energetic. in the end, he was neurotic, needy, demanding, abusive and unstable. i had to go to extreme lengths with dude like changing my number and moving...it was really scary. and i know not all scorps are this way but as i said, i have scorp fem friends and they can be vindictively scary too.

i hope my scorpio has let go but i continually fear getting a pig's heart in the mail (how old are you? do you remember that episode of real world london?).

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Which were the most maddening?
Scorpio- he knew how to play with my emotions, drive me up the wall then bring me down gently again. It was a destructive cycle that eventually killed my identity.



i forgot about this thread.

yeah, the scorpio was great...until he wasn't. scorp females i dont have any trouble with. they're good people and they look out for their fam and friends in ways that are similar to tau. but seeing how they handle the men in their lives, i feel their beaus' pain.

in the beginning he was intriguing, dynamic, fun and energetic. in the end, he was neurotic, needy, demanding, abusive and unstable. i had to go to extreme lengths with dude like changing my number and moving...it was really scary. and i know not all scorps are this way but as i said, i have scorp fem friends and they can be vindictively scary too.

i hope my scorpio has let go but i continually fear getting a pig's heart in the mail (how old are you? do you remember that episode of real world london?).

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so i'm not the only one fearing a mr. scorpio right now?
he wants me to come over, i do and he slams the door in my face or threatens to call the cops and then claims he's forsaken, feels like a monster and that it "makes him feel better".
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@bullbrat - how old are you? you need to clean house chicky. none of those scenarios sound good for the long-term.

rule 1 is - if you keep attracting the same types of people, the common denominator in all of those relationships is you. you attract dysfunction because you're dysfunctional. everybody can't be crazy right?

and what the hell do you want with a man in jail who threatens you, a man on house arrest and another who disrespects you? your self-esteem is in the crapper and you need to work on that.

if you come from a family where dysfunction is normal, you need to learn what positive relationships are. i grew up with two parents who were leos and O-M-G! the arguments were stupid and sadly, it impacted my initial choices in mates. i remember once my dad was getting out the car and joked with my mom. he said, "yo mama." my mom, said "yo mama" back. my leo-dad turned around, came back to the drivers side of the car where my mom was sitting, told her to get out of the car and they proceeded to argue for the next hour.

why you ask? cause my dad's mom had passed away and where my dad was joking, my mom was being insensitive and thus the two fixed signs faced off. this happened all the damn time. and as a child, i hated it but this is what i became to believe love was. IF you come from dysfunction, you have to work through that. IF not, you need to find out why you're settling for dysfunction when you were taught better.

maybe you, at this point, can't deal with another fixed sign maturely? if any combo is going to require that you be your higher self, it will be a union between two fixed folk. you can have passion without turmoil. you can have love without pain.

good luck
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My two ex best friends are two taureans dating.
they've been together for over 8 years, they do nothing but fight and argue.
then they're sweet for awhile, then fight and argue.
they'd get pissed at me bc i'd say "no i don't want to hang out tonight i'm going to sleep but you guys should go spend a nice evening alone and spend quality relationship time together since you've been fighting so much, it might help you guys".
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Cancer, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces (as far as I'm aware). Of all of my ex-girlfriends I don't know the signs of three.

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Leo = 8.5 years.
Next Longest was a Taurus = 6 months.
Then a Taurus and a Leo = Five months each.
Everyone else was one month or less!

Which were the most fulfilling?
Leo.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Taurus. Totally undemonstrative, aloof, left me to make all of the effort. Couldn't tell whether she hung around because she liked me or was simply too lazy to leave. Treated me like everything else in her life was more important than me. Never had a clue whether I was —Mr Right?? to her or just —Mr Right Now??.

Which were the most challenging
Taurus. See above.

Which were the most maddening?
Taurus. See above and, because I find Taurus ladies so sexy and irresistible I'm drawn back to them for more abuse! They??re like a drug. I keep wanting another hit even though each time I end up getting hurt and my confidence damaged.

Which had the most potential?
I think Taurus could have potential if I could ever get to the point where they open up and start meeting me half-way. Leo had masses of potential, most of which was quickly fulfilled.

Which were the most passionate?
Leo. You know those dreamy, steamy love-scenes from erotic thrillers, the ones where people watching say —it isn't like that in real life— Well, IT IS LIKE THAT IN REAL LIFE! Just find yourself a horny Lioness and prepare to be transported to soft-focus heaven!!

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
Leo. The warmest, most straightforward, loving, passionate, agreeable person I??ve ever met!

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
Pisces. I think my creative side would appeal to their spirituality. An interesting combination which I??d live to try.

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
Aeries = No chemistry.
Sagittarius = So awkward it was like there was —anti chemistry??.
Aquarius = Too random.
Gemini = Had the same mannerisms as my mother (who??s also a Gem) so it was never going to work in the bedroom!

What sign are you dating now?
Noone, but I have met a Taurus. She's being typically aloof though and I??ve had enough of this befo
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I'm a Virgo.

Which signs have you NOT dated?
Ive dated them all

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Gemini

Which were the most fulfilling?
Sagittarius because they are so full of life and just fun in general.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Capricorn

Which were the most challenging?
Leo-so private!


Which were the most maddening?
Aries! They get on my nerves so bad and I cant see eye to eye with them. For them ignorance is bliss.

Which had the most potential?
Taurus

Which were the most passionate?
Cancer and Taurus-- yowza!

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
None

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
Ive dated them all! lol

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
doing the makeshift crucifix with the fingers @ Aries, Libra, Capricorn, Gemini

What sign are you dating now?
Im not dating anyone
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"Taurus. Totally undemonstrative, aloof, left me to make all of the effort. Couldn't tell whether she hung around because she liked me or was simply too lazy to leave. Treated me like everything else in her life was more important than me. Never had a clue whether I was —Mr Right?? to her or just —Mr Right Now"."

It was also like that for me and this Taurus male that I was dating. Everything took precedence before me and that was everyday. So I quit him.
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
all but cancer, libra, and taurus.

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Libra. 7 years.

Which were the most fulfilling?
they were all fulfilling to an extent at one time. though i am most satisfied with my taurus.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Toss up between cancer and libra. i try not to count the cancer cuz we were just teens which made me a hormonal mess. i did lose a lot of myself in my libra though. spent most of my time trying to build him up and his empire.

Which were the most challenging
cancer and another taurus (not current). i love taureans but it seems too much taurus in the chart isn't good for me. the ones i get along with the best have either strong fire or air placements.

Which were the most maddening?
cancer. actually, he was a cancer-gem cusp.

Which had the most potential?
my taurus now does. he's emotionally and mentally stable and for some reason that's hard to find!

Which were the most passionate?
Libra.

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
i don't.

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
all of them. even just once.

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
both cancer-gem and libra. not to say i'd rule out others belonging to those signs. just not those particular ones.

What sign are you dating now?
taurus!
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Libra, Capricorn, Pisces, Aries, Sagittarius, Aquarius.

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Taurus = 4 years in a relationship
Next Longest was a Scorpio = 2.5 years in a relationship
Everyone else was 2 months or less dating only

Which were the most fulfilling?
Both in different aspects

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Both just imagine from having been in a relationship with passionate man to slow and cautious one... Taurus because of our worst communication, communication is very important in relationship.

Which were the most challenging
Not Scorpio because I can understand my fellow water sign but there's no sparks. Imma lil confused with Taurean because of their stubbornness. I'm losing tract. It's frustrating sometimes.

Which had the most potential?
My Capricorn crush hahahahah
Of the two ofcourse taurus, I want Earth sign

Which were the most passionate?
SCORPIO owns that word

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
I will not repeat my ex but repeat Scorpio or Taurus or other signs.


Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
A Typical Romantic Earthy Capricorn who's genuine


What sign are you dating now?
LDR with a Taurus 😢 hahaha! so be it 🙂 Whats yours—————
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Sag, Aquarius, Taurus, Libra

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Capricorn

Which were the most fulfilling?
"Most fulfilling" doesn't mean much considering, but I'll say Gemini and Scorpio. The sex was horrid though.

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Pisces. We were engaged best friends he cheated got her pregnant. I think it was more the situation than the signs.

Which were the most challenging
Leo. We were never on the same page except in the bedroom. He's a weirdo.

Which were the most maddening?
Gemini. He lied about the stupidest things. Still does. Unfortunately Im tied to his jackass

Which had the most potential?
Virgo. I still slap myself. I should have just went with him when he asked.

Which were the most passionate?
Cancer

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
Cancer

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
None

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
Scorpio, leo, pisces, capricorn

What sign are you dating
Aries. Still just dating nothing exclusive
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Which signs have you NOT dated?
Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Pices

Of the signs you've dated, which lasted longest?
Capricorn

Which were the most fulfilling?
Capricorn and Aries

Which caused you to lose your sense of identity, worth, esteem?
Capricorn - It went from really good to really bad.

Which were the most challenging?
Gemini, Libra, Aquarius - I can deal with air signs on short-term basis only.

Which were the most maddening?
None

Which had the most potential?
Aries

Which were the most passionate?
Capricorn

Which do you wish you could do all over again?
None

Of those you have NOT dated, which would you like to try?
Taurus, Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces

Of those that you have dated, which would NOT be repeats?
Gemini

What sign are you dating now?
Aries. So far so good