@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts
Men - what kills attraction for you?
Please state your pertinent astrology placements as well.
Posted by GetMisted
PretentiousnessLeo moon
Does that make you see them as a friend though, or just not wanna see them at all anymore?
Ahh. What makes you see them as just a friend though, if you initially started out wanting to date them.
Posted by Andalusia
Ahh. What makes you see them as just a friend though, if you initially started out wanting to date them.Not being single.
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That's it?
That's no help :/
Physical attraction is very strong for me. It is really difficult for that to go away. Even a chick who is drunken mess, and spewing everywhere is quickly forgotten when she glamours herself up the next time I see her.
Romantic attraction though is probably the easiest to fall off, and never forgotten. You simply need to check off one of my pet peeves.
Gem moon/Venus, and Leo Mercury
Posted by Andalusia
Assuming you're initially attracted to them, what are some things women do that make you stop seeing them as romantic potential and start seeing them as more of a "buddy"?
Shows interest in other guys beyond typical friend stuff
Narcissism
Overly crude
Pretension
Inability to admit their flaws
Dishonest and/or gossipy
std
Posted by Gobshite
A loud and brash demeanour
Lacking basic intelligence and/or making dumb statements
Argumentative, obnoxious and/or confrontational
Selfish and/or demanding
Lacking grace, style and/or decorum
Being too flirty with, and/or eyeing up, others in my presence
Being non-responsive and/or too closed
Paying too much attention to their mobile phone
Prying and/or being too nosy
Poor punctuality
Dude, you'd HATE me. I have a punctuality problem. 🙈
Posted by Gobshite
A loud and brash demeanour
Lacking basic intelligence and/or making dumb statements
Argumentative, obnoxious and/or confrontational
Selfish and/or demanding
Lacking grace, style and/or decorum
Being too flirty with, and/or eyeing up, others in my presence
Being non-responsive and/or too closed
Paying too much attention to their mobile phone
Prying and/or being too nosy
Poor punctualityDude, you'd HATE me. I have a punctuality problem. 🙈
No, you'd just be mentally placed in the 'hump and dump' category...
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What a dream boat!
Posted by Gobbuttere
A loud and brash demeanour
Lacking basic intelligence and/or making dumb statements
Argumentative, obnoxious and/or confrontational
Selfish and/or demanding
Lacking grace, style and/or decorum
Being too flirty with, and/or eyeing up, others in my presence
Being non-responsive and/or too closed
Paying too much attention to their mobile phone
Prying and/or being too nosy
Poor punctualityDude, you'd HATE me. I have a punctuality problem. 🙈
No, you'd just be mentally placed in the 'hump and dump' category...
What a dream boat!
I don't have time for time-wasters, but would expect some form of compensation for the unnecessary ordeal...
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Ah, this is where your assumption has led you to an incorrect conclusion. My punctuality problem stems from doing too much, not too little. So, if I have to be somewhere at noon, I'll wake up early, get my yoga in, do laundry, vacuume, take care of my pets, make sure my special needs brother is ready for school, watch an episode of 'Blue Planet,' listen to my sister's story, finish that chapter on my Kindle, get a jumpstart on the chemistry homework...realize I only have X number of minutes to get to where I need to be. It's one of my shortcomings, for sure "because," most would reason, "why don't you simply
NOT do all of those things? They seem unnecessary." Not to me, though. I'm known for being late simply because I feel inspired to walk and take the scenic, long way.
In any case, this convo is moot because you and I both know we aren't each other's types anyway. I hope you find your dream girl.
Posted by Wirewalker
1) Dishonesty
2) Rude to strangers or people in general
3) Secretive
4) Close-mindedness
5) Not following through on promises
6) Giving up on goals easily
7) Not liking to eat
But think about the money you'd be saving! :p
Posted by Gobbuttere
A loud and brash demeanour
Lacking basic intelligence and/or making dumb statements
Argumentative, obnoxious and/or confrontational
Selfish and/or demanding
Lacking grace, style and/or decorum
Being too flirty with, and/or eyeing up, others in my presence
Being non-responsive and/or too closed
Paying too much attention to their mobile phone
Prying and/or being too nosy
Poor punctualityDude, you'd HATE me. I have a punctuality problem. 🙈
No, you'd just be mentally placed in the 'hump and dump' category...
What a dream boat!
I don't have time for time-wasters, but would expect some form of compensation for the unnecessary ordeal...
Ah, this is where your assumption has led you to an incorrect conclusion. My punctuality problem stems from doing too much, not too little. So, if I have to be somewhere at noon, I'll wake up early, get my yoga in, do laundry, vacuume, take care of my pets, make sure my special needs brother is ready for school, watch an episode of 'Blue Planet,' listen to my sister's story, finish that chapter on my Kindle, get a jumpstart on the chemistry homework...realize I only have X number of minutes to get to where I need to be. It's one of my shortcomings, for sure "because," most would reason, "why don't you simply
NOT do all of those things? They seem unnecessary." Not to me, though. I'm known for being late simply because I feel inspired to walk and take the scenic, long way.In any case, this convo is moot because you and I both know we aren't each other's types anyway. I hope you find your dream girl.
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Sidenote: I need help in chemistry.
Posted by Gobbuttere
A loud and brash demeanour
Lacking basic intelligence and/or making dumb statements
Argumentative, obnoxious and/or confrontational
Selfish and/or demanding
Lacking grace, style and/or decorum
Being too flirty with, and/or eyeing up, others in my presence
Being non-responsive and/or too closed
Paying too much attention to their mobile phone
Prying and/or being too nosy
Poor punctualityDude, you'd HATE me. I have a punctuality problem. 🙈
No, you'd just be mentally placed in the 'hump and dump' category...
What a dream boat!
I don't have time for time-wasters, but would expect some form of compensation for the unnecessary ordeal...
Ah, this is where your assumption has led you to an incorrect conclusion. My punctuality problem stems from doing too much, not too little. So, if I have to be somewhere at noon, I'll wake up early, get my yoga in, do laundry, vacuume, take care of my pets, make sure my special needs brother is ready for school, watch an episode of 'Blue Planet,' listen to my sister's story, finish that chapter on my Kindle, get a jumpstart on the chemistry homework...realize I only have X number of minutes to get to where I need to be. It's one of my shortcomings, for sure "because," most would reason, "why don't you simply
NOT do all of those things? They seem unnecessary." Not to me, though. I'm known for being late simply because I feel inspired to walk and take the scenic, long way.In any case, this convo is moot because you and I both know we aren't each other's types anyway. I hope you find your dream girl.
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I got a headache just to read your morning 😄 😄 I am a female, so no need to worry, but I would run away from a person soooo active like you🙂 🙂
And the follow up question to all you men...how many of you are in a serious relationship? 🤔
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Assuming you're initially attracted to them, what are some things women do that make you stop seeing them as romantic potential and start seeing them as more of a "buddy"?