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What do men really think of plus size women
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Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
Having a conversation with my friends and the question came up about plus size women and one of the guys said plus size women are the easiest targets for manipulation, cause they will never get a date? So men what do you think?Yes and no. It depends more on the woman's self-esteem than her size. I know a lot of plus size women who are the last people you wanna try to manipulate because they're self-assured and usually are more wary of unwanted attention.
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Drops mic lol
I say if she looks right not nasty with it and can carry her own who cares . There are skinny women who have a horrible personality.
I prefer and only date plus size women. I love everything about them.
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Don't hide your shit, we all saw it and there's nothing wrong what you said lol fuck what anyone cares.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
One thing for sure, two for certain and three to clear any doubt....... A manipulator cares very little about appearance and a lot more about actions cuz after all, your actions are what they are trying to manipulateIve seen it happen to ppl of all shapes and forms to ppl of "beauty" and the downtrodden. Manipulators don't care, they aren't looking for aesthetics, they are looking for a security to unleash the havoc that ravishes then day in and day out. They seek destruction plain and simple
As far as what men think of them? All men have different types of women they prefer. And plus sized, imo, is such a losses term so it just varies. Some care, some dont
do you care and I agree
In my country us women are curvy shaped and some are heavier but they say they heavier the more wealthy. Lol
i date black men and most like big white woman BBW however my most significant black love hates fat on women. he likes athletic thin and he's a dark cholcolate.
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Don't hide your shit, we all saw it and there's nothing wrong what you said lol fuck what anyone cares.
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Nah. I editted a typo and it looked like it duplicated my post but I suppose it didn't. Why would I ever be ashamed of that? Lol
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
y ? you are a "plus size women" ?
YES I Am HAVR A Big Heart AMONGST Other Things
Have *
Posted by Vixen2
The article this came from says she is a 14/16. I think she looks great sans those type of undies...
Her head is too small for her thighs lol
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
In my country us women are curvy shaped and some are heavier but they say they heavier the more wealthy. LolI remember I watched a program long ago on some travel channel, in a certain country, women with fuller heavy figures are considered to bring wealth and are lucky charm..
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Ethiopia?
Posted by Vixen2
The article this came from says she is a 14/16. I think she looks great sans those type of undies...
Her head is too small for her thighs lol
What's wrong with her head? She's very attractive imo
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Just her head looks too small for her thighs, like it's been photoshopped
Posted by Vixen2
The article this came from says she is a 14/16. I think she looks great sans those type of undies...Her head is too small for her thighs lol
Since when does the circumference of the head equaling to the thighs become a problem? That's the weirdest comment I've read from a man lol
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I'm telling you I'm sitting here sipping my coffee going like this
"Is it a Picasso?"
Posted by Vixen2
The article this came from says she is a 14/16. I think she looks great sans those type of undies...Her head is too small for her thighs lol
Since when does the circumference of the head equaling to the thighs become a problem? That's the weirdest comment I've read from a man lol
I'm telling you I'm sitting here sipping my coffee going like this
"Is it a Picasso?"
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i agree,, it's looks like a bad photoshop..the head is too small fo her entire body not just the thighs,... LOL it's not even sitting on her neck correctly LOLOL
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
In my country us women are curvy shaped and some are heavier but they say they heavier the more wealthy. LolI remember I watched a program long ago on some travel channel, in a certain country, women with fuller heavy figures are considered to bring wealth and are lucky charm..
Ethiopia?
IDK..but yes, somewhere in middle East or North-East Africa.. There is a practice of force-feeding girl child so she will look "full" and heavy..
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I think i might know what your referring to?
Theres a North African country that force feeds milk to young girls in order gain weight? Something like 15k calories a day. So much so that they vomit. - if so i watched the same special :p
Some of the comments here make me feel very happy- not only about where in the world i live, but my current and past relationships.
My appearance- how i dress, how i wear my hair, my makeup, my clothes- are based on my judgement, and my opinion- i view all those things as an act of self expression.
I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with someone who either told me, or suggested that i shouldn't wear something, or that i should be a certain weight.
Like you have to live up to their own personal standards. That's pretty messed up.
My little brother is overweight and is a drag queen, I would design his costumes and glamourise him in outfits to give him an idea of silhouettes for his size and shape and I now prefer to draw plus size women because I love generous curves.
I get offended though when women don't dress for their body shape and don't take the opportunity to flatter their shapes, I can't help it.
It's. Not my fashion advice she needs
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
i dont care, i just want a compatible soulGooober is already mine but she's dont know it yet
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Posted by FrenchKpricorn
i dont care, i just want a compatible soulGooober is already mine but she's dont know it yet
no dissrecpect goobabe but —? is this the right thread ? lol !
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Is this the right thread——————
Posted by Rambunctious76
God I lovesss this woman! #tesshollidayftw
oh wow she is beautiful.
Posted by starlover
Average dress size in uk and Ireland is 14-16Is that considered plus size in America?
YES it is
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
My little brother is overweight and is a drag queen, I would design his costumes and glamourise him in outfits to give him an idea of silhouettes for his size and shape and I now prefer to draw plus size women because I love generous curves.I get offended though when women don't dress for their body shape and don't take the opportunity to flatter their shapes, I can't help it.
What you mean flatter their shapes
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
i dont care, i just want a compatible soulGooober is already mine but she's dont know it yet
no dissrecpect goobabe but —? is this the right thread ? lol !
Is this the right thread——————
sorry brain shutdowned
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Lol.
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
y ? you are a "plus size women" ?YES I Am HAVR A Big Heart AMONGST Other Things
big capital letters ?
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I don't know why my iPad did that.
Sexy.
I mean really all woman are sexy. Thin athletic, petite, average, thick. Doesn't matter. All sizes will show attractiveunattractive women.
It makes sense that white guys are going for Asian girls because the Caucasian girls are getting into the plus sizes.
Posted by Finbuff
Generally not attractive to me at all, because most of the "plus" size women where I live are fatties with no muscle tone at all. The pic on the 1st page I wouldn't consider plus size, and if she is, she'd be an exception to the rule.Nice try you rainbow colored gay boy.
All of dxp knows you like big thick chicken right up the pooper, that is when your not sucking that meat stick like a porn star. Then you wear that pearl necklace with pride. Boy howdy!
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God I love the fact bitchmuff ignored soul.
I love even more the awkward silence bitchmuff shows when you force that mother fucker to read your posts.
So what have we learned thread? It's not cool to bully people or not accept them for who they are. Unless it's a disgusting dxp member like bitchmuff.
I was plus size always. Had been dating since 13. Then had no one for years.
I don't know why. Lots of boy friends but no boyfriend.
Married at 26 being fat. Always got heads turned because I had dressed properly.
I was 250lb for a while. Now I had lost 75lb and my husband says it doesn't
matter to him. I had men being after me in either size, however I think I would
turn into a slut if I was skinnier 🙂
The plus sized models like the first picture shown in this thread usually have a waist to hip ratio that creates the classic hourglass shape and that seems to be a big factor in plus sized women looking attractive to the men I've talked to about this. Some of the models will be corsetted to get that look.
Looking at beauty ideals going back centuries, the waist to hip ratio is usually creating the hourglass shape. Other body parts in ideal depictions were sometimes large, including stomach, but the small waist compared to hips stands out.
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.
Those pretty girls you posted are gorgeous.
However in non model world plus size women aren't that sexy looking.
Most I mean aren't sexy looking. The bodies on a regular woman plus
size would never be this great unless airbrushed and photoshoped.
In real life fat is hanging - not being so evenly distributed.
I used to hate looking at myself in the mirror. NOW I love it.
And I never felt completely sexy in a sack...
I don't know, I think we are just kidding ourselves when we are saying
fat is attractive.
Posted by CopperDove
The plus sized models like the first picture shown in this thread usually have a waist to hip ratio that creates the classic hourglass shape and that seems to be a big factor in plus sized women looking attractive to the men I've talked to about this. Some of the models will be corsetted to get that look.Looking at beauty ideals going back centuries, the waist to hip ratio is usually creating the hourglass shape. Other body parts in ideal depictions were sometimes large, including stomach, but the small waist compared to hips stands out.
0.7 is the ideal ratio right? On the evolutionary scale
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Yes. I come close, but I'm a petite person (in height and body size). If I cinch with a belt to be even a bit smaller than that (say, .69 ratio) men seem to notice me even more.
I don't think men, in general, prefer plus size women, we just find the anorexic ones painful to observe.
Posted by Aquistorm
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.
So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
Posted by CopperDove
The plus sized models like the first picture shown in this thread usually have a waist to hip ratio that creates the classic hourglass shape and that seems to be a big factor in plus sized women looking attractive to the men I've talked to about this. Some of the models will be corsetted to get that look.Looking at beauty ideals going back centuries, the waist to hip ratio is usually creating the hourglass shape. Other body parts in ideal depictions were sometimes large, including stomach, but the small waist compared to hips stands out.
0.7 is the ideal ratio right? On the evolutionary scale
Yes. I come close, but I'm a petite person (in height and body size). If I cinch with a belt to be even a bit smaller than that (say, .69 ratio) men seem to notice me even more.
Aha, tricks of the trade : P
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Yes indeed! And that's been going on for a long time. In my mother's day (as a teenager in the 50s) women wore girdles to create the look. I work to have it naturally as much as possible with specific forms of exercise and diet, then sometimes cinch in more for fun with clothing - I like the look myself too.
Posted by tiziani
Just with one photo they can make us think "she'd be an excellent mother for my kids"Man I guess you can't fight millions of years of conditioning
Why fight it? I love it.... to be fair I am a cancer. Someone who wants to be the mother to my kids? Whatttt lmao
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*Cough
*she would look perfect in the center of a gang bang*
cough*
Excise me tiz, sorry. I'm a little under the weather today.
A whole half gallon of rum in 3 days will do that to ya!
Posted by Aquistorm
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
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I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
Posted by Aquistorm
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
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What if she's grungy, emo, or scene?
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
Having a conversation with my friends and the question came up about plus size women and one of the guys said plus size women are the easiest targets for manipulation, cause they will never get a date? So men what do you think?
Depends on how Plus is Plus-sized, it is not a dealbreaker but in general, I do not find them attractive. Regarding manipulation, there is some truth to this, but it depends on the self-esteem of the person. It says a lot about the person manipulating though, sadly.
Posted by Aquistorm
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
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So I see now. Capricorn. 🙂
Where would you take her? Dark place?
Her appearance wouldn't bother me. Her personality would if she was insane, clingy, negative or wasn't true to herself or anyone else.
Posted by Aquistorm
I go for a woman's mind and personality rather then physical appearance. It's more attractive IMO.So you would go for that goth woman if she was...what?
I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
So I see now. Capricorn. 🙂
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I would take her around Miami at night.
I wouldn't mind her. As long she isn't a punk ether.
What if she's grungy, emo, or scene?
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Lol 😆
Posted by feby
Emo:
But @soul what's the difference between emo and scene? They seem similar
They are. See emo is all about a fashion statement. You keep adding more and more to the original goth look by adding colors, beads, and other weird shit. Scene is taking emo to the point your look is just a mess of weird shit.
A true goth only wears black. You will never see a goth with weird ass colors, mixing pink and black with other bs.
Are we referring to plus-size in terms of "hey they aren't really plus-size they are actually sexy as shit and not twigs with chopstick legs. or are we referring to plus-size for the sake of making obesity more appealing.
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Having a conversation with my friends and the question came up about plus size women and one of the guys said plus size women are the easiest targets for manipulation, cause they will never get a date? So men what do you think?