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Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe
Weird, OP turned the starting post into a beta male appreciation video.


It seems you can't see how nuanced humans really are and think in extremes. This is through lack of understanding mostly and taking things at face value often which is not always linked to you being anything other than a messenger but just sharing a message but you invested a lot of personal time here so it's definitely more than.


All of this selfish judgementalism is just going to make you bitter not the other way around.


And from my experienced of DXP no one here keeps partners, so it says more about you really.


My father watches that kind of stuff and as an insecure sexist man his entire life based on the fact women rejected him in his younger years, Libra Sun and Moon with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Mars.


Settled with my mother who he deemed as ugly and abused her.


My mum never had this thing for how people looked, she endured abuse from her family so was codependant, this was a psychological hold.


Father has Pluto in Virgo conjunct North Node, never worked in his life and controlled everything, a complete narcissist.


But this is Plutonian issues, what you put in the OP is a very shallow and on the surface look branding all people who are male and marry a woman who has a child as a beta, it suits you that way because it upholds your narrow world view and ego. You are part of the problem.

where in this did i express that?


only thing that really struck me is how someone will say specifically what they don't want, may even hate or feel disgusted by and then choose that exact thing (for what nefarious motivation?)


but as for the video, what of it?


i made no such appreciation of anything.

Your understanding is based on a false notion that every man who would be with a mother who has a child is nefarious, sadly the videos you watch are also like that too where he states they are now too beta males (This heirarchy crap don't exist with humans), these people are dumber than rocks even if some of what they say holds any merit it misses way more than it hits.

There is no upstairs without a downstairs and most, the majority are not upstairs, the foundations are greater and stronger.

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beyond the whole single mom thing, it's women they claim to be fat, ugly, basically unattractive or any various list of what they find unattractive in someone. it is setting and claiming a standard that says: "i will never go down to this level." and then EXACTLY going there the next minute.

Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe
Weird, OP turned the starting post into a beta male appreciation video.


It seems you can't see how nuanced humans really are and think in extremes. This is through lack of understanding mostly and taking things at face value often which is not always linked to you being anything other than a messenger but just sharing a message but you invested a lot of personal time here so it's definitely more than.


All of this selfish judgementalism is just going to make you bitter not the other way around.


And from my experienced of DXP no one here keeps partners, so it says more about you really.


My father watches that kind of stuff and as an insecure sexist man his entire life based on the fact women rejected him in his younger years, Libra Sun and Moon with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Mars.


Settled with my mother who he deemed as ugly and abused her.


My mum never had this thing for how people looked, she endured abuse from her family so was codependant, this was a psychological hold.


Father has Pluto in Virgo conjunct North Node, never worked in his life and controlled everything, a complete narcissist.


But this is Plutonian issues, what you put in the OP is a very shallow and on the surface look branding all people who are male and marry a woman who has a child as a beta, it suits you that way because it upholds your narrow world view and ego. You are part of the problem.

where in this did i express that?




only thing that really struck me is how someone will say specifically what they don't want, may even hate or feel disgusted by and then choose that exact thing (for what nefarious motivation?)




but as for the video, what of it?




i made no such appreciation of anything.

Your understanding is based on a false notion that every man who would be with a mother who has a child is nefarious, sadly the videos you watch are also like that too where he states they are now too beta males (This heirarchy crap don't exist with humans), these people are dumber than rocks even if some of what they say holds any merit it misses way more than it hits.



There is no upstairs without a downstairs and most, the majority are not upstairs, the foundations are greater and stronger.

beyond the whole single mom thing, it's women they claim to be fat, ugly, basically unattractive or any various list of what they find unattractive in someone. it is setting and claiming a standard that says: "i will never go down to this level." and then EXACTLY going there the next minute.

Likely because those people can't accept themselves it's not about accepting anyone else.

Do you have a chart for this person you speak of? As it sounds like either Venus in Scorpio, Virgo or Pluto hard aspecting Venus.

The world has a shallow societal image but a lot of allowances are there to allow people the freedom fo expression (I see this as natural I have Uranus trine Mars and Moon and Uranus is my North Node and Ascendant ruler).

It could possibly be a badly aspected Uranus too or even Saturn.

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cap sun/aqua venus is the guy

Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe
Weird, OP turned the starting post into a beta male appreciation video.


It seems you can't see how nuanced humans really are and think in extremes. This is through lack of understanding mostly and taking things at face value often which is not always linked to you being anything other than a messenger but just sharing a message but you invested a lot of personal time here so it's definitely more than.


All of this selfish judgementalism is just going to make you bitter not the other way around.


And from my experienced of DXP no one here keeps partners, so it says more about you really.


My father watches that kind of stuff and as an insecure sexist man his entire life based on the fact women rejected him in his younger years, Libra Sun and Moon with Scorpio Venus and Cancer Mars.


Settled with my mother who he deemed as ugly and abused her.


My mum never had this thing for how people looked, she endured abuse from her family so was codependant, this was a psychological hold.


Father has Pluto in Virgo conjunct North Node, never worked in his life and controlled everything, a complete narcissist.


But this is Plutonian issues, what you put in the OP is a very shallow and on the surface look branding all people who are male and marry a woman who has a child as a beta, it suits you that way because it upholds your narrow world view and ego. You are part of the problem.

where in this did i express that?






only thing that really struck me is how someone will say specifically what they don't want, may even hate or feel disgusted by and then choose that exact thing (for what nefarious motivation?)






but as for the video, what of it?






i made no such appreciation of anything.

Your understanding is based on a false notion that every man who would be with a mother who has a child is nefarious, sadly the videos you watch are also like that too where he states they are now too beta males (This heirarchy crap don't exist with humans), these people are dumber than rocks even if some of what they say holds any merit it misses way more than it hits.





There is no upstairs without a downstairs and most, the majority are not upstairs, the foundations are greater and stronger.

beyond the whole single mom thing, it's women they claim to be fat, ugly, basically unattractive or any various list of what they find unattractive in someone. it is setting and claiming a standard that says: "i will never go down to this level." and then EXACTLY going there the next minute.

Likely because those people can't accept themselves it's not about accepting anyone else.



Do you have a chart for this person you speak of? As it sounds like either Venus in Scorpio, Virgo or Pluto hard aspecting Venus.



The world has a shallow societal image but a lot of allowances are there to allow people the freedom fo expression (I see this as natural I have Uranus trine Mars and Moon and Uranus is my North Node and Ascendant ruler).



It could possibly be a badly aspected Uranus too or even Saturn.

cap sun/aqua venus is the guy

Anything else? I want depth please.

Aspects, heck just throw a chart up without any personal info.

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i'll run the chart later but i don't really know the exact birth time but do know the birthday

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Posted by Strobe
Maybe he wants to fuck the kid?

But then that would be my 8th house Scorp Pluto being extreme.

I dunno, I like quirky people and tend to not have any vision for beauty but yeah I don't date extremes.

It could also just be trhe fact you have biases and are projecting. It could be he loves her but wishes to fix her like most of you Virgo's try to do?

Toxic Virgo issues, never take their own medicine.

uhm no he's not a virgo


i'm not into ugly dudes i can't post on fb


the kind of 'fixing' i'm into is balancing the budget, updating your wardrobe, scheduling etc.


i'm no plastic surgeon

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🤣🤣🤣 I don’t think you realize how funny you are

Reminds me of my Virgo bestie

You’re a Pisces moon, right? Where’s your Venus?

Posted by nanochip
My dad married a woman who was kind, loyal, and in love with him, despite not being into her at all (he told me), because he was a single dad and didn’t know how to raise 3 small kids on his own at the time. It’s ulterior motives, whatever benefit they can get from it and at whatever cost. Maybe this made sense at the time, when he’s young and scared, so he justified it. But he used to tear her down regularly about her appearance and her weight. I remember she’d have potlucks at work and he would call her at work to make sure she wasn’t eating too much at the potluck. He really hurt her, she was a good lady.

Reading this just hurt my feelings so I can only imagine what this lady must have felt. 😣

I hope she eventually found the “happy” that she deserved.

Posted by Sleepyquantro1

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe
Maybe he wants to fuck the kid?

But then that would be my 8th house Scorp Pluto being extreme.

I dunno, I like quirky people and tend to not have any vision for beauty but yeah I don't date extremes.

It could also just be trhe fact you have biases and are projecting. It could be he loves her but wishes to fix her like most of you Virgo's try to do?

Toxic Virgo issues, never take their own medicine.

uhm no he's not a virgo


i'm not into ugly dudes i can't post on fb


the kind of 'fixing' i'm into is balancing the budget, updating your wardrobe, scheduling etc.


i'm no plastic surgeon

🤣🤣🤣 I don’t think you realize how funny you are
Reminds me of my Virgo bestie
You’re a Pisces moon, right? Where’s your Venus?

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cancer almost leo

Posted by Soul
Also I just want to save grace for a second and admit the actual reason I don't date anymore is because I'm at absolute rock bottom of my own personal mental state, and don't want to bring other humans into my personal turmoil. I don't believe any human should have to feel the need to "fix" my problems. My mental state is at an all time low, yet I can just continue to function and survive because I'm resilient, and good at pretending. I can just write it out out here because this is all just text, and not actual life right?


Though there is an Aquarius woman I really like that asks me if I'm feeling ok every now and then. Yet as much as I deeply want to write back and express every single thing I'm feeling, I simply write little to nothing, because I refuse to lie, yet there is truly no good news. She doesn't need to know the reality of how I truly feel. Last thing I want to be is the bad vibe, or darkness in her life. She can find someone better with less baggage, and I will survive fine on my own. So I sent the idea of her to the void, and continue living life alone.

Why don’t you seek help? Maybe try talking to a professional.

For some people, things/their situation can feel worse than it actually is.

I’m not trying to negate your feelings, just that sometimes when you’re in it (state of depression) it’s hard to see pass that.

Maybe try doing things that used to make you happy.

When I get sad long walks in nature, listening to music, just being outdoors helps. When I stay inside and seclude myself it makes it so much worse.

Remember when you’re down the only way to go is up ⬆️ 🙂

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Sleepyquantro1

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Strobe
Maybe he wants to fuck the kid?

But then that would be my 8th house Scorp Pluto being extreme.

I dunno, I like quirky people and tend to not have any vision for beauty but yeah I don't date extremes.

It could also just be trhe fact you have biases and are projecting. It could be he loves her but wishes to fix her like most of you Virgo's try to do?

Toxic Virgo issues, never take their own medicine.

uhm no he's not a virgo


i'm not into ugly dudes i can't post on fb


the kind of 'fixing' i'm into is balancing the budget, updating your wardrobe, scheduling etc.


i'm no plastic surgeon

🤣🤣🤣 I don’t think you realize how funny you are

Reminds me of my Virgo bestie

You’re a Pisces moon, right? Where’s your Venus?

cancer almost leo

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Some of my closest friends are Cancer Suns… don’t think I know any Cancer venuses, although I would imagine they are somewhat like Cancer suns in their close relationships