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Well this chick I meet last week working out at the park. Came up to me and gave me her number I only look at her for sec. We have been talking. She a gem she told me she had an only fans that she just started. I just want to fuck so I don't care. She told me she bipolar plus other red flags. I was going to do my virgo ghost out but she knows about astrology and told me already don't try it. So I'm like fuck.. I have to come up with some thing else. So i fuck yesterday it was alright, she was also showing me all these dudes that want to drink her toilet water. All I'm thinking about is my exit strategy any tips.

You’re having sex with strangers during the rona?

This it’s what’s wrong with the world. No self control. I hope you don’t go visit your vulnerable family members anytime soon.

Death wish

Ya know what Mss, I’m actually calling ducktales on the whole thing. A woman smart enough to sell her likeness online without having to touch countless strangers, wouldn’t walk up to a virtual stranger and give him sex within 24hrs for nothing. I just don’t believe it.

What?

Women in porn don't want or need real connection?

Or are you saying women just use sex as a commodity, and since she doesn't need anything from him, there's no point?
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Most people on OF are by themselves, not doing porn with other people. From my understanding/knowledge.

I’m saying if she’s smart enough to get that much money by herself without touching another person I find it odd that she would walk up to this dude offering her puss on a silver platter for no gain.
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i dont see the problem

It's tacky and vulgar to boast about money on the internet and a sure way to get a call from inland revenue/IRS.

Then you have an attention seeking post which to me sounds like "I know I fuck men for money, but I've made this much and he's my rock". What is the point in that, if not for attention. People like that usually have severe mental health issues.

I'm not criticizing anybody for filming porn just people who boast about it and their wealth. And no it isn't a nice post declaring her love.
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Would you date a woman who works in the porn industry?
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Depends on the material she has up, but for the most part no. Also, depends if she has any other ambitions.

Idk why it's so appalling to want to date someone who hasn't propped their starfish open for half the world on camera.

I'm also definitely not interested in dating the type of onlyfans performer that does it because she has no other skillset; would be a little boring.

I think they are drawn to the money, making up to 50k a month instead of £30k per year in a office role. Only taking their kit off with no porn.

Even if they had other skills they know they can’t make that kind of fast cash at a young age.

At some point revenge porn and leaked porn wouldn't mean a thing coz everyone's being ready to step up their game via socials like this. I personally don't have anything against it. Lol

For sure, as the PR strategy For Kim K and Paris Hilton launched them into celeb status.

As the shock value wears off cos everyone is doing it. Don’t think future gen will be as successful, and the legal systems are always a step too behind when it comes to revenge porn. As the tragic case of the British girl and those gangs of Israeli boys recently in the news just proved 😬

People tend to overdo things until it loses its value. I won't be surprised anymore about what's next. Basically because the legal system can't do anything about it and seeing some people gain success out of it, it's really just becoming a thing. Like this whole idea of social media influencers. Too many of them. To me, it's losing its appeal.

I didn't know about the Brit girl 😢 what was it?

Yeah, if everyone is an influencer or a brand then it becomes common. And lets face it everything and everyone is a commodity after all. Doesn’t matter what platform it’s advertised in.





As for the legal system in some countries... well you can read below if you want to.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9552391/brit-woman-gang-raped-israel-cadets/

It was in the news for a while, end of last year where a British girl agreed to sex with one Israeli boy, but later all his 12 other friends came into the room and apparently raped her.

When she reported it, the boys were held in cells for a while I think. But she was coerced into retracting her statement without any legal advisors present.

She wasn’t allowed to leave Cyprus without retracting, so so agreed but was in-prisoned for a few month. The boys were set free, no dna testing or follow up were taken and the legal system blaming the girl cos she must be easy or an attention seeking ho.

Now that she’s back in the UK, the case has reopened with actual proper lawyers.

The point I was making is... society so desensitised to this stuff! Sad

Geezus. That's horrible. I feel sorry for her. I hope she gets justice. If she has an onlyfans account for example, it will be taken against her unfortunately. The sad thing about cases like this is the character assassination part. The other party would want to prove either she was in on it or she gave motive. It's unreasonable but it's what happens a lot 😢

I think before there was still a shock value in society if an abuse happens, but now we question the victim if she was asking for it.

This subject may needs its own thread some other time. I don’t want to detract from this thread, cos it’s the man cave and he’s asking other men if they would date a girl who does Only Fans

Yeah I completely agree with you!

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OnlyFans is not a porn site, it’s the next level up from Instagram like an 18+ version. Where the fans pay a subscription fee and the girls continuously chat to them and do webcam/chats, with some nudity but not essential. There are some couples who take it further

The top earners don’t do porn cos they are making lots of money, but it does open up doors to do porn.

If you have to be 18+ and it contains videos of people of being fucked that you pay for it is porn. It's a bit like saying Pornhub isn't a porn site it's a social networking site because you can leave comments and reviews.
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But they’re not having sex
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i dont see the problem

It's tacky and vulgar to boast about money on the internet and a sure way to get a call from inland revenue/IRS.

Then you have an attention seeking post which to me sounds like "I know I fuck men for money, but I've made this much and he's my rock". What is the point in that, if not for attention. People like that usually have severe mental health issues.

I'm not criticizing anybody for filming porn just people who boast about it and their wealth. And no it isn't a nice post declaring her love.

Would you date a woman who works in the porn industry?

No. If she did topless modelling I would be OK with that, but would worry about sleazy photographers and agents. Stripclubs 50/50 somewhere legit like Spearmint Rhinos or Stringfellows I wouldn't be 100% OK with, but I would accept it.

Actual porn with other men, no. Not because of insecurity, but more because of relationship dynamics. If someone is being paid for sex are they not being a prostitute? Most men wouldn't date a prostitute. Because it is porn we are lead to believe it is glamourous and cool when it is usually some guy's bedroom when his mother is out and filmed on the cheapest camcorder off eBay.
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Well said

It definitely isn’t glamourous or cool....the opposite 🥴
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OnlyFans is not a porn site, it’s the next level up from Instagram like an 18+ version. Where the fans pay a subscription fee and the girls continuously chat to them and do webcam/chats, with some nudity but not essential. There are some couples who take it further

The top earners don’t do porn cos they are making lots of money, but it does open up doors to do porn.

If you have to be 18+ and it contains videos of people of being fucked that you pay for it is porn. It's a bit like saying Pornhub isn't a porn site it's a social networking site because you can leave comments and reviews.

But they’re not having sex

"Porno mag" refers to a magazine full of naked women. That's how porn got started.

My point is there doesn't have to be an additional person or sexual congress happening for it to be porn.
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I get that all of it is classified as adult content. The boys are discussing if they would date a girl thats on it.

And I’m just saying they don’t have to be having sex. The lines are getting very blurry from seeing barely there bikini pics on Insta and the the lingerie pics of glamour girls
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OnlyFans is not a porn site, it’s the next level up from Instagram like an 18+ version. Where the fans pay a subscription fee and the girls continuously chat to them and do webcam/chats, with some nudity but not essential. There are some couples who take it further

The top earners don’t do porn cos they are making lots of money, but it does open up doors to do porn.

If you have to be 18+ and it contains videos of people of being fucked that you pay for it is porn. It's a bit like saying Pornhub isn't a porn site it's a social networking site because you can leave comments and reviews.

But they’re not having sex

"Porno mag" refers to a magazine full of naked women. That's how porn got started.

My point is there doesn't have to be an additional person or sexual congress happening for it to be porn.

I get that all of it is classified as adult content. The boys are discussing if they would date a girl thats on it.

And I’m just saying they don’t have to be having sex. The lines are getting very blurry from seeing barely there bikini pics on Insta and the the lingerie pics of glamour girls

I didn't read the past couple pages. I just saw this and felt I had something to add since I'm ancient and remember porn before there was an internet. lol
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Haha me too, I’m glad I’m not from the generation z

It’s all about the hustle these days 😅

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OnlyFans is not a porn site, it’s the next level up from Instagram like an 18+ version. Where the fans pay a subscription fee and the girls continuously chat to them and do webcam/chats, with some nudity but not essential. There are some couples who take it further

The top earners don’t do porn cos they are making lots of money, but it does open up doors to do porn.

If you have to be 18+ and it contains videos of people of being fucked that you pay for it is porn. It's a bit like saying Pornhub isn't a porn site it's a social networking site because you can leave comments and reviews.

But they’re not having sex

This one has a video called riding the dick:

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But they don’t all do that, probably didn’t make enough money doing bare minimum.
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Well this chick I meet last week working out at the park. Came up to me and gave me her number I only look at her for sec. We have been talking. She a gem she told me she had an only fans that she just started. I just want to fuck so I don't care. She told me she bipolar plus other red flags. I was going to do my virgo ghost out but she knows about astrology and told me already don't try it. So I'm like fuck.. I have to come up with some thing else. So i fuck yesterday it was alright, she was also showing me all these dudes that want to drink her toilet water. All I'm thinking about is my exit strategy any tips.

You’re having sex with strangers during the rona?

This it’s what’s wrong with the world. No self control. I hope you don’t go visit your vulnerable family members anytime soon.

Death wish

Ya know what Mss, I’m actually calling ducktales on the whole thing. A woman smart enough to sell her likeness online without having to touch countless strangers, wouldn’t walk up to a virtual stranger and give him sex within 24hrs for nothing. I just don’t believe it.

What?

Women in porn don't want or need real connection?

Or are you saying women just use sex as a commodity, and since she doesn't need anything from him, there's no point?

Most people on OF are by themselves, not doing porn with other people. From my understanding/knowledge.

I’m saying if she’s smart enough to get that much money by herself without touching another person I find it odd that she would walk up to this dude offering her puss on a silver platter for no gain.

The gain is she can earn more if she fucks on cam.
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How did you come to that conclusion?

Also that’s not what happened here, you’re reaching and this thread ain’t even about you. OP said nothing of the sort. Yall need to stop with these fantasies.
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Porn stars are continuing to have sex for money on only fans is that such a shock?

But the average non porn star person is using only fans to thirst trap people into paying their bills. They are not having sex on camera. And the ones I personally know who have only fans aren’t even going fully nude.

Also I like how everyone is assuming only women have only fans accounts. Men are doing it as well. I know more men then women who’ve had to make them after the rona. Straight men targeting the gay audience because all/most of their insta followers are men to begin with.
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My sister, cousin, and I stole a porn magazine one time and practically memorized it. Then we ripped it into tiny pieces, put it in a paper bag, and burned it so we wouldn't be found out. That's what you had to do to look at porn when I was a kid.

And I had to walk five miles each way in the snow to school...

I remember when I was twelve going to that store buying those Playboy and porn stuff

Lmao I had to take so a str8 face, I was so scared to get bash by the seller, I respect my young me so bad lmao, now you just have to open your laptop.

That is brave! lol We weren't brave. We stole it from my uncle. lmao!
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Ye are destined for hell 👹🔥👹
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Porn stars are continuing to have sex for money on only fans is that such a shock?

But the average non porn star person is using only fans to thirst trap people into paying their bills. They are not having sex on camera. And the ones I personally know who have only fans aren’t even going fully nude.

Also I like how everyone is assuming only women have only fans accounts. Men are doing it as well. I know more men then women who’ve had to make them after the rona. Straight men targeting the gay audience because all/most of their insta followers are men to begin with.

Finally someone understand their business acumen
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My sister, cousin, and I stole a porn magazine one time and practically memorized it. Then we ripped it into tiny pieces, put it in a paper bag, and burned it so we wouldn't be found out. That's what you had to do to look at porn when I was a kid.

And I had to walk five miles each way in the snow to school...

I remember when I was twelve going to that store buying those Playboy and porn stuff

Lmao I had to take so a str8 face, I was so scared to get bash by the seller, I respect my young me so bad lmao, now you just have to open your laptop.

That is brave! lol We weren't brave. We stole it from my uncle. lmao!

Ye are destined for hell 👹🔥👹

We thought we were!! lol
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Haha 😆
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hehe I think it's sad that some of us don't have intimate relationship with nudity and sex. It's just a commodity to get off on.

We call it being "modern".... it's just losing touch with our human essence where intimacy/nudity/sex is sacred... and not just for anyone and everyone who flashes money or compliments.

say yes or no
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i don't date girls... so you answer yes or no
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hehe I think it's sad that some of us don't have intimate relationship with nudity and sex. It's just a commodity to get off on.

We call it being "modern".... it's just losing touch with our human essence where intimacy/nudity/sex is sacred... and not just for anyone and everyone who flashes money or compliments.

say yes or no

i don't date girls... so you answer yes or no

whats your opinion on that book

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i haven't read it but sounds like a disaster. IMO, keeping in mind i'm not some investing guru or even beginner lmao, best thing to look at is Data Analytics and find patterns.

Check out this dude.....


I think that day-trading is bs and maybe for the youngins. If you want a solid future, plan for the long-run with strong foundations... David Ramsey explains it pretty well. His methods are doable and practical for day-to-day life.
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Tech Guys: imagine if we built a platform where people like artists and fitness professionals could share their original content with the entire world and earn money in the process while avoiding the costs of setting up.and hosting a traditional ecommerce site...

Users: *shows butthole for money*


really the only pornstar whose Twitter I check, has a pinned tweet at the top of her feed linked to her OF site, and it is indeed her showing her butthole....
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Tech Guys: imagine if we built a platform where people like artists and fitness professionals could share their original content with the entire world and earn money in the process while avoiding the costs of setting up.and hosting a traditional ecommerce site...

Users: *shows butthole for money*

really the only pornstar whose Twitter I check, has a pinned tweet at the top of her feed linked to her OF site, and it is indeed her showing her butthole....
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and I'd date her lol....
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Tech Guys: imagine if we built a platform where people like artists and fitness professionals could share their original content with the entire world and earn money in the process while avoiding the costs of setting up.and hosting a traditional ecommerce site...

Users: *shows butthole for money*

really the only pornstar whose Twitter I check, has a pinned tweet at the top of her feed linked to her OF site, and it is indeed her showing her butthole....

I mean people will always find a way to monetize their butthole...
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lmao I'm not even into butt stuff, but its a really nice butthole....
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Tech Guys: imagine if we built a platform where people like artists and fitness professionals could share their original content with the entire world and earn money in the process while avoiding the costs of setting up.and hosting a traditional ecommerce site...

Users: *shows butthole for money*

really the only pornstar whose Twitter I check, has a pinned tweet at the top of her feed linked to her OF site, and it is indeed her showing her butthole....

and I'd date her lol....

Cheichek?
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lol Vina Sky....good guess though....
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Well this chick I meet last week working out at the park. Came up to me and gave me her number I only look at her for sec. We have been talking. She a gem she told me she had an only fans that she just started. I just want to fuck so I don't care. She told me she bipolar plus other red flags. I was going to do my virgo ghost out but she knows about astrology and told me already don't try it. So I'm like fuck.. I have to come up with some thing else. So i fuck yesterday it was alright, she was also showing me all these dudes that want to drink her toilet water. All I'm thinking about is my exit strategy any tips.

You’re having sex with strangers during the rona?

This it’s what’s wrong with the world. No self control. I hope you don’t go visit your vulnerable family members anytime soon.

Death wish

Ya know what Mss, I’m actually calling ducktales on the whole thing. A woman smart enough to sell her likeness online without having to touch countless strangers, wouldn’t walk up to a virtual stranger and give him sex within 24hrs for nothing. I just don’t believe it.

What?

Women in porn don't want or need real connection?

Or are you saying women just use sex as a commodity, and since she doesn't need anything from him, there's no point?

Most people on OF are by themselves, not doing porn with other people. From my understanding/knowledge.

I’m saying if she’s smart enough to get that much money by herself without touching another person I find it odd that she would walk up to this dude offering her puss on a silver platter for no gain.

The gain is she can earn more if she fucks on cam.

How did you come to that conclusion?

Also that’s not what happened here, you’re reaching and this thread ain’t even about you. OP said nothing of the sort. Yall need to stop with these fantasies.

Lmao you're the one who came up with the conclusion that he is lieing.

His thread is literally about would a guy fuck a cam girl to make lots of money's with her hahahahahaha. Shush.
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And? Did I address you? Are OP? Why are you offended for another man? And no his thread was a humble brag that I’m sure is a lie. The OP isn’t even this pressed. Beat it.
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i dont see the problem

It's tacky and vulgar to boast about money on the internet and a sure way to get a call from inland revenue/IRS.

Then you have an attention seeking post which to me sounds like "I know I fuck men for money, but I've made this much and he's my rock". What is the point in that, if not for attention. People like that usually have severe mental health issues.

I'm not criticizing anybody for filming porn just people who boast about it and their wealth. And no it isn't a nice post declaring her love.
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live and let live I say
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What are you saying is right, miss?
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Not discriminating against a potential love interest based on how open she is about her sexuality or sharing her body with the world. I can understand discriminating against someone’s job if they don’t make a lot of money, but if you’re discriminating because you (not you specifically MSS) can’t handle the thought of “sharing” her with the world then you should check yourself. Times are ever changing; modern love is starting to look more and more like polyamory and open relationships; these possessive men are behind the curve.
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What are you saying is right, miss?

Not discriminating against a potential love interest based on how open she is about her sexuality or sharing her body with the world. I can understand discriminating against someone’s job if they don’t make a lot of money, but if you’re discriminating because you (not you specifically MSS) can’t handle the thought of “sharing” her with the world then you should check yourself. Times are ever changing; modern love is starting to look more and more like polyamory and open relationships; these possessive men are behind the curve.
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I agree with what you say about times changing wrt sexual openness, polyamory, etc., and largely think its for the better, but I also don't think there's anything wrong with old school possessiveness/exclusiveness....to each his own....
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The bottom line for me is if you really value people outside of seeing them as commodities, then this whole thing is a non issue.

This is such a strange idea to me, and one that I try to understand. I don't like prostitution because it makes people into commodities.
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only if you see the act of sex as constitutive of the whole person....
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Posted by Fanta You think it's cool to discriminate against people for not making a lot of money, but men shouldn't be able to decide what level of prostitution they're comfortable involving in their lives?

I think there’s a difference between wanting to date someone who is financially independent (though I think a lot of men have a tendency to catastrophize and think a woman making significantly less than himself will end up using him even if she had been surviving just fine on her own) and wanting to date someone whose pussy isn’t viewable on the internet.
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The bottom line for me is if you really value people outside of seeing them as commodities, then this whole thing is a non issue.

This is such a strange idea to me, and one that I try to understand. I don't like prostitution because it makes people into commodities.

only if you see the act of sex as constitutive of the whole person....

I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.
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do I reduce myself to a body when I offer my services as a masseuse, a surgeon, a chef, etc.? All human activity is embodied activity. I'm not sure why sexuality as a service "reduces" one's personhood *to* that service any more than these others.
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I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

What’s wrong with this? If a person is happy, or even proud, to be reduced to what their body can do for people, why does it effect you? And for the record, they aren’t just reduced to their body; clients enjoy personality too.
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Posted by WhorpioI think there’s a difference between wanting to date someone who is financially independent (though I think a lot of men have a tendency to catastrophize and think a woman making significantly less than himself will end up using him even if she had been surviving just fine on her own) and wanting to date someone whose pussy isn’t viewable on the internet.

There is a huge difference. I agree on that. We're just on opposing sides of which view is offensive, I guess.
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I’d like to find common ground with you. Do you at least find it offensive if a man says “I don’t want to be with a woman who has had more than 3 sex partners”?
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I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

What’s wrong with this? If a person is happy, or even proud, to be reduced to what their body can do for people, why does it effect you? And for the record, they aren’t just reduced to their body; clients enjoy personality too.
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exactly...how about just the feeling of companionship, or of spending time with a beautiful woman, experiencing their acceptance....I'm 100% sure that there are clients who don't even ask for sex....I think I read recently that there are services where people pay for cuddling lol...
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The bottom line for me is if you really value people outside of seeing them as commodities, then this whole thing is a non issue.

This is such a strange idea to me, and one that I try to understand. I don't like prostitution because it makes people into commodities.

only if you see the act of sex as constitutive of the whole person....

I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

My girlfriend has an only fans. She’s extremely open with her sexuality. She posts nudes for free on her naughty twitter as well. She can just post more extreme ones in only fans. Imo I’d you’re that jealous or think you own the pussy you need to be checked.
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The bottom line for me is if you really value people outside of seeing them as commodities, then this whole thing is a non issue.

This is such a strange idea to me, and one that I try to understand. I don't like prostitution because it makes people into commodities.

only if you see the act of sex as constitutive of the whole person....

I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

do I reduce myself to a body when I offer my services as a masseuse, a surgeon, a chef, etc.? All human activity is embodied activity. I'm not sure why sexuality as a service "reduces" one's personhood *to* that service any more than these others.

I guess because sex is sacred to me.
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and that's really what it comes down to, personal views around sex....and I don't think there's anything wrong with that at all....I share that view. But you can have a view of sex as sacred, and be as liberal with it as you like. Depending on how you define sacredness, its not necessarily antithetical to prostitution. The two concepts are actually combined particularly in the ancient world, but also in the modern, in pagan religions.

on some level, no matter your view, I still think its problematic to argue that sex as a service reduces a person to just a body, in any way....
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I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

What’s wrong with this? If a person is happy, or even proud, to be reduced to what their body can do for people, why does it effect you? And for the record, they aren’t just reduced to their body; clients enjoy personality too.

My worst nightmare is to be reduced to a body.
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Its interesting how back in the days it was a mean to survive and nowadays its like a potential sideline for some people ... By the way from what I've seen on YouTube ( people literally bragging about the money they're making on OF & Inviting viewers to join... Referral commissions $ $ $ ) men & couples are also joining of & making....content.
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Posted by Fanta Okay, but you want everyone to be cool with it, right? You want men at large to be cool with dating someone who does it. So, you must want all of society to go this way...toward pornification and commodification of human sexual interactions. Is that not true?

I want society to steer away from “slut”-shaming and veer towards acceptance.
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The bottom line for me is if you really value people outside of seeing them as commodities, then this whole thing is a non issue.

This is such a strange idea to me, and one that I try to understand. I don't like prostitution because it makes people into commodities.

only if you see the act of sex as constitutive of the whole person....

I don't see how that follows. I see a whole person, capable of so much, reducing themselves to one thing...a body.

My girlfriend has an only fans. She’s extremely open with her sexuality. She posts nudes for free on her naughty twitter as well. She can just post more extreme ones in only fans. Imo I’d you’re that jealous or think you own the pussy you need to be checked.

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My girlfriend has a boyfriend as well. Your limited old fashioned views of sexuality don’t matter to me my dude
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if you like being cucked cool that's your thing lol. just get a pregnancy test ok when she gets pregnant.