Requested: Why Scorpios are Overrated

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This ain't a bashing thread, but just my experience with this astrological energy - in terms of the SUN SIGN.

So if you feel some type of way, you can say whatcha want but just know I stay ready.

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I can't really call this an opinion, but it's my observation.

I think with Scorpios, there are a lot of things that they don't live up to.

For example;

The Freakiness reputation/Sex God status:

I've dated about 3-5 Scorpio women.

I find it no coincidence at all that they ALL hated what their sign was associated with.

Sex.

Don't get me wrong, if I was a femme (Scorpio) woman just wanting to date a man - and I tell him my sign.. And he automatically, with no astrological knowledge, gets to lickin his lips and start actin all thirsty - I would be done with astrology.

These are fairly classy women who seem to protect their purity and keep their chastity until they meet someone they are 100% aroused by.

Scorpio women want to be aroused by a man, not just simply attracted to them. They choose their partners based on how much physical chemistry they share with the person.. While most people only date because they think someone is cute or interesting.

I don't think cute and interesting is enough for a Scorpio woman to date you.

I think energy plays a big role in getting them into bed. I'm talking sexual energy, physical, and mental energy. They wanna feel 100% attracted to you on every level, AROUSED.

So with that being said, the Scorpio women I have dated either were virgins or not very sexually active and never even planned on it.

It's like they were waiting on something.

I'm not calling these chicks pretty little angels, cuz if the right dude comes along - they will unleash a heap of sexual frustration.

I have gotten a Scorpio woman that lived in South Africa to send me her first nude ever.. And she was very shy about it, but sexy as they come, she was a natural in her nude photo sent to me, for me.

But bottom line, I think some-to-most Scorpio chicks HATE the reputation because they automatically get treated like a hoe and men treat them like a piece of meat or like they KNOW for SURE they are gonna get the drawls..

If you find you out a woman is a Scorpio, please save the sex talk and the cheesy ass "Ohhh Scorpio??!? 🤪😝🤤" thirsty ass reaction. They hate that shit.

It might have been cool the first few years of their adult life, but most of them have heard it time and time again. Don't be corny with these women.

Anyways, nobody is quite natural at sex. These women certainly don't even fuck that often unless they are in a relationship.

So to say Scorpios are big big freaks is a huge misconception.

They are people that simply are attracted to sex and sex is attracted to them.

Also death, also abandonment, and also entrapment.

Most of them I have dated have been molested or raped.

The men....

That's another story.

I personally just think the men are just typical guys trying to do typical shit.

Just guys simply trying to live up to what their astrological sign says about them.. Either they succeed at being sex gods or they suck.

But I talk astrology with a lot of different women, and most of them say that Scorpio men are wannabe freaks.

They wanna eat the ass, because they think it's what they should do. They wanna suck toes because they think it'll win them freak points...

But what Scorpio men don't realize, is that you can be as nasty as you want - but that don't make you a freak.

You can be as nasty as you want, but that don't mean the sensation is life changing and it actually FEELS GOOD.



Next;



Their determination:

These people as a whole are determined when their mind is set on a very specific goal, but they ain't determined for shit else.

I actually find Scorpios pretty lazy.

Every sign shares a common trait with their sister sign/opposite sign.

They are the opposite of Taurus. Taurus is known for their slow and easy nature, and can even be borderline lazy.

I think Scorpio takes the cake for laziness more than a Taurus. A Taurus Mars is a lazy asshole, but Scorpio Sun is just a lazy ass.

I am LITERALLY and currently taking score for many Scorpios house I have visited and they crib is what you would call.. "ASTROCIOUS".

I am rooting to meet one Scorpio who has a clean crib and wash their ass consistently.

I think the girls, they keep it clean for the most part.. But I have met a few that don't wash their ass as often as a woman should, or change their underwear. Just straight fonky.

But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere.

It's like it's invisible to them.. But ain't no way in hell you can't see your crib is fucked up and needs to be cleaned... Because, at the end of the day - being a sensitive water sign, if you say anything to them about their pigsty of a home.. They have the nerve to get a fucking attitude.

A lot of them don't make an effort to stay in shape. If they fall into depression, they could easily let themselves go...

A Scorpio ain't determined, shit.

They need to determine a fuckin Mary Poppins spirit and clean their crib and wash they ass.

Shave. Pick up a dumbbell. Damn you.



Their darkness

I get Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, but every sign gets their begging traits from the cardinal sign of their element.

Scorpios darkness comes from Cancer. Cancer being the ruling sign of the night's satellite. I think some Scorpios actually resemble Cancers sometimes...

But I digress.

I'm just gonna say, I always found scorpios to be very uplifting and bright in their nature.

They like bright colors and cool clothes. The men are attracted to the color orange, it seems like as well.. They are definitely one of the weirdo signs and are attracted to extraordinary clothing, furniture, and music.

I admire their style sometimes. Not for me, but it looks good on them.

I don't think Scorpios can dress, but they definitely have a certain taste and it if was put together right, they'd be onto something.

These people like to have fun. They like to joke and say dumb shit. They are so offbeat... It's nothing dark about them in my opinion.

I always thought the "brooding" and darkness would be associated with Cancer, hell all water signs in general.





Their intensity:

They ain't super intense. I think they are just serious about their thoughts and feelings, and how you treat them. Other than that, a Scorpio is chill..

I think the way they say things is so real and serious, that it can come off intense... But I leave intensity to Leos or even Aquarians.

They just really real people and can be blunt if they not intimidated by you.

I think it's 50/50 with their honesty.

They are honest people, but can still beat around the bush because they don't wanna cause no drama. They ain't scared of it, but they ain't finna start no shit.

I have Scorpio friends that would rather tell me they not home than actually tell me I can't come by.. But ain't nobody breaking no door down to sit in they nasty ass crib anyway. So I don't get why my Scorpio friends just don't keep it real everyday all day.



But to end this on a good note.

They are brave as fuck.

I think if a Scorpio knew their was no death at the end of the cliff, they would jump off that mothafucka with no parachute just to see what it's like... While most people definitely would not.

Not a fan of their jealously, cuz I've been victim to it.. But being a fellow water sign, I get on with them very easily in the beginning. Like I do with Pisces. I feel at home with Scorpio and Pisces until shit goes left..

Hopefully I have meet a good Scorpio friend and we do ballsy shit together.
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Posted by Emhendo

This ain't a bashing thread, but just my experience with this astrological energy - in terms of the SUN SIGN.

So if you feel some type of way, you can say whatcha want but just know I stay ready.

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I can't really call this an opinion, but it's my observation.

I think with Scorpios, there are a lot of things that they don't live up to.

For example;

The Freakiness reputation/Sex God status:

I've dated about 3-5 Scorpio women.

I find it no coincidence at all that they ALL hated what their sign was associated with.

Sex.

Don't get me wrong, if I was a femme (Scorpio) woman just wanting to date a man - and I tell him my sign.. And he automatically, with no astrological knowledge, gets to lickin his lips and start actin all thirsty - I would be done with astrology.

These are fairly classy women who seem to protect their purity and keep their chastity until they meet someone they are 100% aroused by.

Scorpio women want to be aroused by a man, not just simply attracted to them. They choose their partners based on how much physical chemistry they share with the person.. While most people only date because they think someone is cute or interesting.


I don't think cute and interesting is enough for a Scorpio woman to date you.

I think energy plays a big role in getting them into bed. I'm talking sexual energy, physical, and mental energy. They wanna feel 100% attracted to you on every level, AROUSED.

So with that being said, the Scorpio women I have dated either were virgins or not very sexually active and never even planned on it.

It's like they were waiting on something.

I'm not calling these chicks pretty little angels, cuz if the right dude comes along - they will unleash a heap of sexual frustration.

I have gotten a Scorpio woman that lived in South Africa to send me her first nude ever.. And she was very shy about it, but sexy as they come, she was a natural in her nude photo sent to me, for me.

But bottom line, I think some-to-most Scorpio chicks HATE the reputation because they automatically get treated like a hoe and men treat them like a piece of meat or like they KNOW for SURE they are gonna get the drawls..

If you find you out a woman is a Scorpio, please save the sex talk and the cheesy ass "Ohhh Scorpio??!? 🤪😝🤤" thirsty ass reaction. They hate that shit.

It might have been cool the first few years of their adult life, but most of them have heard it time and time again. Don't be corny with these women.

Anyways, nobody is quite natural at sex. These women certainly don't even fuck that often unless they are in a relationship.

So to say Scorpios are big big freaks is a huge misconception.

They are people that simply are attracted to sex and sex is attracted to them.

Also death, also abandonment, and also entrapment.

Most of them I have dated have been molested or raped.

The men....

That's another story.

I personally just think the men are just typical guys trying to do typical shit.

Just guys simply trying to live up to what their astrological sign says about them.. Either they succeed at being sex gods or they suck.

But I talk astrology with a lot of different women, and most of them say that Scorpio men are wannabe freaks.

They wanna eat the ass, because they think it's what they should do. They wanna suck toes because they think it'll win them freak points...

But what Scorpio men don't realize, is that you can be as nasty as you want - but that don't make you a freak.

You can be as nasty as you want, but that don't mean the sensation is life changing and it actually FEELS GOOD.



Next;



Their determination:

These people as a whole are determined when their mind is set on a very specific goal, but they ain't determined for shit else.

I actually find Scorpios pretty lazy.

Every sign shares a common trait with their sister sign/opposite sign.

They are the opposite of Taurus. Taurus is known for their slow and easy nature, and can even be borderline lazy.

I think Scorpio takes the cake for laziness more than a Taurus. A Taurus Mars is a lazy asshole, but Scorpio Sun is just a lazy ass.

I am LITERALLY and currently taking score for many Scorpios house I have visited and they crib is what you would call.. "ASTROCIOUS".

I am rooting to meet one Scorpio who has a clean crib and wash their ass consistently.

I think the girls, they keep it clean for the most part.. But I have met a few that don't wash their ass as often as a woman should, or change their underwear. Just straight fonky.

But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere.

It's like it's invisible to them.. But ain't no way in hell you can't see your crib is fucked up and needs to be cleaned... Because, at the end of the day - being a sensitive water sign, if you say anything to them about their pigsty of a home.. They have the nerve to get a fucking attitude.

A lot of them don't make an effort to stay in shape. If they fall into depression, they could easily let themselves go...

A Scorpio ain't determined, shit.

They need to determine a fuckin Mary Poppins spirit and clean their crib and wash they ass.

Shave. Pick up a dumbbell. Damn you.



Their darkness

I get Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, but every sign gets their begging traits from the cardinal sign of their element.

Scorpios darkness comes from Cancer. Cancer being the ruling sign of the night's satellite. I think some Scorpios actually resemble Cancers sometimes...

But I digress.

I'm just gonna say, I always found scorpios to be very uplifting and bright in their nature.

They like bright colors and cool clothes. The men are attracted to the color orange, it seems like as well.. They are definitely one of the weirdo signs and are attracted to extraordinary clothing, furniture, and music.

I admire their style sometimes. Not for me, but it looks good on them.

I don't think Scorpios can dress, but they definitely have a certain taste and it if was put together right, they'd be onto something.

These people like to have fun. They like to joke and say dumb shit. They are so offbeat... It's nothing dark about them in my opinion.

I always thought the "brooding" and darkness would be associated with Cancer, hell all water signs in general.





Their intensity:

They ain't super intense. I think they are just serious about their thoughts and feelings, and how you treat them. Other than that, a Scorpio is chill..

I think the way they say things is so real and serious, that it can come off intense... But I leave intensity to Leos or even Aquarians.

They just really real people and can be blunt if they not intimidated by you.

I think it's 50/50 with their honesty.

They are honest people, but can still beat around the bush because they don't wanna cause no drama. They ain't scared of it, but they ain't finna start no shit.

I have Scorpio friends that would rather tell me they not home than actually tell me I can't come by.. But ain't nobody breaking no door down to sit in they nasty ass crib anyway. So I don't get why my Scorpio friends just don't keep it real everyday all day.



But to end this on a good note.

They are brave as fuck.

I think if a Scorpio knew their was no death at the end of the cliff, they would jump off that mothafucka with no parachute just to see what it's like... While most people definitely would not.


Not a fan of their jealously, cuz I've been victim to it.. But being a fellow water sign, I get on with them very easily in the beginning. Like I do with Pisces. I feel at home with Scorpio and Pisces until shit goes left..

Hopefully I have meet a good Scorpio friend and we do ballsy shit together.


Totally agree with the parts in bold.

They are also ruled by Mars, which explains the last bolded sentence.
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"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...
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Aquas intense? 😁 As mentioned before aqua is one of my favourite signs, but most are passive aggressive and the men at their worse can be a bit whiny. I love them, but not intense; busy, hard working and a bit flakey sure.

Leos intense? I used to date one, would have loved to have made more of a go of it. A bit of a diva and shout when they don't get their own way. Like fire signs they are aggressive aggressive not passive, but that's not intensity.

Scorpios like Aries choose their battles, but unlike Aries they won't let you know what they know - I've seen Taurus and caps do this. It's 3D chess. People are scared by what they can't see.

Chilled but angry. It's a contradiction, but it's descriptive.


I think its because she's Cancer

Cancers usually don't take scorpio intensity seriously or may laugh on the inside at them
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As a bisexual female

I can agree with scorpio women.. they're usually not slutty

If I ever witnessed them being gay/bi its because some fire sign forced it out of them........ they always prefer dominate women that knows how to please them or take charge



Except that one scorpio girl that liked me but she was so passive about it

I couldn't tell until I put the pieces together years later...

But boy if I ever see her again. 😈😈
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Posted by MyStarsShine

"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...


I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...

I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.
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What isn't the Scorpio energy?
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by MyStarsShine

"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...

I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.

What isn't the Scorpio energy?
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His tidiness.
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by MyStarsShine

"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...

I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.

What isn't the Scorpio energy?

His tidiness.
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But you said Scorpio men are gross

He's a Scorpio man....
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Posted by Emhendo
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Emhendo
Posted by MyStarsShine

"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...

I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.

What isn't the Scorpio energy?

His tidiness.

But you said Scorpio men are gross

He's a Scorpio man....
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I mean.. I guesssss

But you just told me what other placements play into factor.

I guess Scorpio men should have Virgo and 6th house placements to be more cleaner.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by Emhendo
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"But the men... The men are straight up gross. They don't give a fuck about piss and shit being on the floor. They let their pets do what the fuck they want and make a mess. They hardly shower. Their rooms are a pigsty and they have the AUDACITY to invite people over and have company like they don't see all this bullshit all over the floor and the mess everywhere"

One of the cleanest, tidiest, germphobic people I know is a Scorpio Sun and Venus man

He is 6th house and Virgo dom

To say all Scorpio men are gross is absurd 😐 and makes a mockery of astrology in its truest form...

I guess. Aha... But you see it's not the Scorpio energy.

Y'all actually attract bugs too, by the way.

What isn't the Scorpio energy?

His tidiness.

But you said Scorpio men are gross

He's a Scorpio man....

I mean.. I guesssss

But you just told me what other placements play into factor.

I guess Scorpio men should have Virgo and 6th house placements to be more cleaner.
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....but that is true of all charts......different influences
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Aquas intense? 😁 As mentioned before aqua is one of my favourite signs, but most are passive aggressive and the men at their worse can be a bit whiny. I love them, but not intense; busy, hard working and a bit flakey sure.

Leos intense? I used to date one, would have loved to have made more of a go of it. A bit of a diva and shout when they don't get their own way. Like fire signs they are aggressive aggressive not passive, but that's not intensity.

Scorpios like Aries choose their battles, but unlike Aries they won't let you know what they know - I've seen Taurus and caps do this. It's 3D chess. People are scared by what they can't see.

Chilled but angry. It's a contradiction, but it's descriptive.

We Aries are the most aggressive, but have a childlike naivety... I like that about us. we just move on 🤷🏻‍♀️
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I have yet to meet an aggressive Aries. You lot can be fun and adventurous, but the aggressive bit is a reach and a stereotype you all cling to that isn’t true most of the time.
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Here's my Scorpio Sun theory:

- Scorpio is technically a Feminine Water Sign, but are the co-ruler of Mars as well...I feel like this makes them a unique case in terms of how they operate, since Scorpio Suns are naturally very intense. Any imbalance of Feminine/Masculine energy could be dangerous for them, but at their best, they're pretty damn powerful (when they've been able to balance the two).

- I think the Moon placement/aspects for a Scorpio Sun is as important as it is for any Sun Sign. This might bother some, but I've found that Scorpio Suns with a Fire or Air Moon are more likely to be the "pain in the ass" type of Scorpio, as they are either emotionally impulsive (Fire Moon) or emotionally disconnected from themselves (Air Moon), and Scorpio Suns are naturally very passionate -- so they are often intense in an immature way. This can obviously change as they mature.

- I think having an Earth/Water Moon can help Scorpio Suns temper their passion on the outside, as they're naturally reflective/receptive inside. There are definitely exceptions though (I think we all know a Scorpio Sun/Cancer Moon combo that's way too much).

I'm drawn to them either way, I have a lot of Scorpios in my life. But there's definitely a trend with the ones with Fire/Air Moons.