Advice with virgo man being distant

I think they are all born to be distant ! A true virgo trait!.. dont spend your precious time thinking about what hes doing, Just take it easy. You ll soon see his true colors.

Thanks for your reply Ritaleona! I guess my main concern is whether he is acting distant because he isn't interested or whether it is because he just needs more time/ has other things on his plate. Are there usually any distinguishing signs?

Thank you for your advice! No, we are not in a relationship so it makes sense for me to not expect too much from him...I guess I've just fallen a little bit harder for him than I should.

Logged in just to say that you are aware we are in a Mercury rx period right now right? Did he become distant some time around the 2nd to last week of May? Not sure of what you wrote because you hid it, but I'm willing to guess that's when it started. People with anything in Virgo or Gemini are kinda having a hard time right now (Mercury in Gemini and Virgo moon right here). So give it some time he will probably come back around after it's over and if not, you didn't lose much time anyway a few dates is not a huge investment..well at least it's not supposed to be anyway.

Hey MintSprinkles! Yea, that's exactly when he started acting distant...in the beginning (2nd of May--it's actually scarily accurate), still haven't had much contact right now. Sorry I hid the post, but do you know when the Mercury rx period will end? Thanks!

A Virgo being in his head, rather than in yours has nothing to do with Mercury's retrograde.

To be silent, rather than obvious is a Virgo trait. Don't make an excuse for a natural trait.

Virgo's aren't going to be all up in your daily drama, they aren't going to just chatter with you, simply because you are female and so looking for your insecurities to be catered to.

You aren't even in a relationship with him.


Seriously .... take a step back to realize that he isn't responsible for calling you and texting you on the daily. And if that's what you expect of him, then you already lost.