Another Virgo Male Tale

Ha, just scanning the topics I see this is a hot one.

I’ve been talking to a Virgo guy (Scorpio girl here) for about five months now. We met through work, my work contracts the place he works for essentially. By fluke one day ended up calling him looking for an update and that is how it started.

He used to call me about 10-16 times a day. He lives in a different state than me. Talking to him so much we obviously got to know each other more and more. It seems like we have the same crappy upbringing. One night he had a bit too much to drink and ended up saying how I made him “feel like home” and how is it not that obvious that he “likes me”

I wasn’t expecting it and I was like awww. We both agreed that this is all a gray area of where we are with this relationship. I care about him a lot.

Recently though I noticed the calls started to decrease. I even asked him is everything okay with us, and he assured me that it was that he just has a lot going on, that he would just tell me if it wasn’t.

His job is becoming very very busy, I talked to him everyday last week but they were 5 min conversations and at the end he was like “I’ll call you when I get out” ...never happened.

When he said it on Thursday I said “yeah ok” and he was like “I don’t have time for this.” Didn’t hear from him until today. When we were talking I was like, “I miss talking to you.”

He said he did to, just a lot going on, that he had some things to talk to me about.

To me that is the dreaded “we need to talk.”

I was like well, what does that mean? He was like “just some things I was thinking about. Like how I don’t know how much longer I’m going to be here.” Meaning his current job role.

He said he wasn’t going to get out of work late and that he’ll just call me tomorrow.

Throughout all of this, and reading about Virgos I have read that they enjoy their space and when he does go silent, I let him be.

I just hate the fact that I feel like a “it’s not you, it’s me.” Talk will be coming and I’m sad over it.

Posted by Tayharvick
Ha, just scanning the topics I see this is a hot one.

I’ve been talking to a Virgo guy (Scorpio girl here) for about five months now. We met through work, my work contracts the place he works for essentially. By fluke one day ended up calling him looking for an update and that is how it started.

He used to call me about 10-16 times a day. He lives in a different state than me. Talking to him so much we obviously got to know each other more and more. It seems like we have the same crappy upbringing. One night he had a bit too much to drink and ended up saying how I made him “feel like home” and how is it not that obvious that he “likes me”

I wasn’t expecting it and I was like awww. We (you)both agreed that this is all a gray area of where we are with this relationship. I care about him a lot.

Recently though I noticed the calls started to decrease. I even asked him is everything okay with us, and he assured me that it was that he just has a lot going on, that he would just tell me if it wasn’t.

His job is becoming very very busy, I talked to him everyday last week but they were 5 min conversations and at the end he was like “I’ll call you when I get out” ...never happened.

When he said it on Thursday I said “yeah ok” and he was like “I don’t have time for this.” Didn’t hear from him until today. When we were talking I was like, “I miss talking to you.”

He said he did to, just a lot going on, that he had some things to talk to me about.

To me that is the dreaded “we need to talk.”

I was like well, what does that mean? He was like “just some things I was thinking about. Like how I don’t know how much longer I’m going to be here.” Meaning his current job role.

He said he wasn’t going to get out of work late and that he’ll just call me tomorrow.

Throughout all of this, and reading about Virgos I have read that they enjoy their space and when he does go silent, I let him be.

I just hate the fact that I feel like a “it’s not you, it’s me.” Talk will be coming and I’m sad over it.

The guy tells you he likes you. Then comes the 'gray area'.

Now do you understand why the calls decreased dramatically?...why you got the, 'I have to work excuse'?

How is this so hard to understand? It's like you were maybe misleading him by even accepting all his calls that many times he called.

This is not about him enjoying his space and stop believing the contrived up internet bs you hear or read.

If you are looking for the why answers, only he can give them to you.

Posted by Toti
Hope it works out. Scorpio and virgo have magical connection!

LoL loco