Are Virgo men so slow?

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Foreign_flower
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9 Years

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I like this Virgo man(30), I am Scorpio female(27). I met him through friends when we hung out at the local bar. He was watching me the whole night and we exchanged numbers. third time when we hung out with out friends they left earlier and I ended up staying over his place. It's been two months I stay over every week once or twice. We haven't had sex yet! He wants to but I want to get to know him better so we only cuddle up... it's sooo cute!

Here is the thing that bothers me.. he doesn't really text me, if I text him he response right away tho. I asked him he said he is not big on texting. He doesn't also initiate spending time with me when we don't drink. I told him the last time that and said let's go on a hike, I am not sure if he will follow through tho. The other guys hit on me all the time but not he.. he is always reserved and holds it back.. wow

I think he likes me, he is very honest, extremely affectionate, he asks me questions and he listens very carefully. Today when I was leaving his place he kissed me for good bye which he usually doesn't do.

What should I do? I want him to commit but he is soooo slow!!
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HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Posted by Foreign_flower
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Not everything is about you 😉

If you ain't willing to give him his breathing space when he needs it......
I give him plenty of space.. I text him once every two three days or so and it's usually something small
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If he's not in a good head space, then that probably annoys him. Being pushy with a Virgo has the opposite effect than what you want.
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Pisces1803
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If you don't like the way he conducts himself in this relationship..you can tell him that you'd like for him to text more..initiate more etc..good luck.

He seems to exhibit very feminine energy to me and that might grate on your nerves in the long run especially if you're a girl who liked to be chased, courted etc..and who likes to be the feminine one in the relationship.. if you're happy to take the masculine role then you'd probably will continually be the aggressor/initiator...otherwise find someone else who will provide you with the attention that you require.
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irenekim
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8 Years

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Posted by MissDiamond
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That guy might be slow, but Virgo men are not slow in general 🙂
virgo guy chased you before?
Yep, my husband is a Virgo and he did. 😛 I have dated another Virgo man before I met him and he chased me too 🙂
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The reason is u r pretty. Sagittarius and virgo are not very compatible. Sagittarius is sociable and passionate. one is super positive n one is utra negative. Do your husband always check on you? checking your phones, fb. maybe virgo male is so difference from virgo girl, i always checked my sagit boy before n he feel like he cant breathe but i feel bad too
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Foreign_flower
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9 Years

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Posted by YoVirgo
How'd it go??
A little update on here.. so he actually told me to not fell in love with him because he is emotionally unavailable and can't feel.. WTF? He said that once and i ignored it because in the end of the conversation he said that he wants to take his words back and hugged me. Last week when I saw him I didn't want to go to his place and he made me do it. We went to sleep and he warned me again to not fell in love with him.. I got so pissed, jumped out of the bed and left. He was trying to hold me back in the bed( not aggressively) and asked why do I want to leave. He couldn't believe I am doing it. I said that I just realized that I lost my time. I guess it didn't go well at all. I got all emotional and drama which he doesn't like. Over all i don't think he is interested in something deeper and looks like he has issues. I can't risk my heart and keep going in this