are virgos lonely people

i starting to think virgos are true loners of tha zodiac i cant stand when too much people are around me i feel trapped and corner and i feel that i can't breath i also like my space and i hate when people invade my space i guess you can call me a lion my leo moon lol.

do other virgos feel like dis

I guess people with air and fire in their chart like 2 be free like tha wind.

Yes I do...I am a loner and I'm quiet. If I do go out, I have to have a drink then I'm real outgoing but always in control...and a dork..haha

I just feel like I don't want to deal with peoples bs...their unrealness I guess. I need lots of space too and don't get nosy with me; I hate that but yet I ask alot of questions of a person I'm into.

I have an aquarius moon and leo venus....bachelorette for life maybe?

I like to have fun and go out tho.....but just not all the time.

So you virgos when you say you are loners and are quiet people how do you let people into your lives? And what if your partners are also reserved and quiet people?

werd its tha same for me people asking me questions it is annoying but its a rare if i answer them cuz im very standoffish i will only respond if im in a good mood im very sarcsitc can't help it im sharp with people and i dont take no butter from anybody.

My mercury is in libra
also have venus in libra
I feel like a supa Libra at times
I have aqua rising 2 which explain my detachment from people

If you want a virgo to open up it takes mega time Virgos are people with layers like a onion you have 2 enter a virgo life slowly and take ur time member Virgo is a earth sign which means aka doing things slow but is ruled by planet mercury which makes us mental people but practical Virgos are puzzles if you smart will can understand dem a little but you will never understand virgos fully that u know dem like a book Geminis aquas come close tho cuz they are mental people as well.

Yes. I'm a loner as well.lol but i'm outgoing when i'm hanging with my few "selective" friends. I don't like hanging out with a lot of people specially the stupid one. lol

My chart..

Moon Leo
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo


I guess i'm very generous and likes to get naked all the time. lol

Im a loner well more of both but i do like being alone. but i do love to hang out and see friends but i have my time were i just chill by myself and i think my friends hate this but o well. when i was in middle school i just love to be by myself. but yeah i am more lose when i get sum drinks lol. well this is true about us look at michael jackson thats wat he always said im lonley. i blame his moon if he had a earth moon he would be fine like me

I dont think this is just a virgo thing--it's probably an earth sign thing--I have a capricorn moon though i do have my sun in Gem but i like to be alone alot--prefer to do things on my own.

Most of my virgo buddies are loners. My virgo brother is a loner but he has a libra moon so he does like to have people around alittle more than usual.


My current virgo interest is a loner and like to do things without anyone around. However, he doesn't mind if I'm around 🙂

I'm a loner, always have been, think I always will be.

I was a mute in high school, stuck to myself and spoke to few.

Awww Cajun, I'm sure that quality made you more noticable ^_^.

You know I have a Virgo rising and I'm a loner... and I definitely like my personal space, it annoys the crap out of me when people get into my personal space. LOL I hate crowded places too.

To have a lot of people around means that you also have to deal with their emotional garbage, antics and dramas and eventually carry around their bags for sometimes too.

In no way I wish to create such a mess in my life keep it simple and low profile is my adoptive motto since ages ago and I am quite happy with.

Well i'm a Scorpio and i NEED my "alone" time. I dislike being around a bunch of people that are loud, childish (in the annoying way) and create unnesessary drama. I love being alone and "catching up"...i find it's like theropy. I read alot and listen to music, draw, give myself "goddess pamperings " (hehe 😛)

My friends find this weird. They think it's "unhealthy" but i find that it's actually very healthy to spend some quality time with just you and your mind. I actually think it's odd when people want to be around me 24/7...like they need their hands held through everything. When people constantly call me, text me and ask to do this, do that, come out this weekend (i do when i'm in the mood to mingle)....it feels like i've got poeple breathing down my throat and it becomes annoying...yet when they are upset i'm always there for them but at the same time i still find it weird when they always need someone around when sad. I actually want to be alone (even if i have to request it) when i'm sad so i can figure out what is going on.

I hate it when i've got to "request" to be alone because i feel rude but i'm all about keeping a sense of indapendance no matter how sad or scary a situation is. I find that it's unhealthy to depend on other poeple for your happiness.

Sky

Perhaps you have a bit Virgo around your sign because these Aquas I know all of them are social butterflies!

🙂

Mr. Defense, Yeah I am socially retarded. But I don't think most Virgos are.

We prefer to deal with small groups as opposed to a crowd.
That's why you'll faster find me at a dinner in a mellow restaurant as opposed to the hottest nightclub full of people.

My point is that i hate when too much people are under me with their drama it drives me insane i do prefer a small crowd to hang with like 2 to 3 people and i will rather go out to eat den be surrounded by a lot of people my personal opinion.

Posted by xtina
You know I have a Virgo rising and I'm a loner... and I definitely like my personal space, it annoys the crap out of me when people get into my personal space. LOL I hate crowded places too.

I'm virgo rising too and I couldn't agree more.

Posted by LibScorp2210
maybe the title should have been "are virgos loners ?" .. I've never understood why people think that because you love being by yourself, this means you're lonely.

"No one prefers to be alone"
I prefer being alone. To interact with people annoys me because I always have to put up with their bs (emotions, stories I really don't care about, etc). I think I wouldn't mind being often around people if they weren't so dramatic. But since you're not supposed to change people, you can only change the way and how often you will interact with them.

When I am by myself, I do things I want and whenever I feel like doing them. It makes life easier because you have the feeling you don't owe anything to anyone but this is not something conceivable on the long run.

I am not saying I can live (or survive) all by myself (I don't think anybody can) but I prefer being alone than surrounded by people. And I am not lying to myself.

I'm virgo rising and completely agree. I don't know why people think there is something wrong with me, or that I am lonely. It's 100% untrue.

being lonely and wanting to be alone are 2 different things.

all virgos i know do have that loner streak within them. every last one of them! it's ok by me cuz i get it.

I do agree that Virgos are the loners of the zodiac (and it sucks lol). Out of all my friends I'm usually the single one most of the time. But I do believe it is very possible for us to let someone into our lives, we just have to trust that person whole heartedly. I do have a lot of friends and I do enjoy social gatherings but I appreciate my time alone as well. When I was younger I always dreamed of traveling the world, gathering knowledge, and helping people. But this was all imagined that I did this alone, with no one with me because it would be a personal journey. So that's what i think it is all about, a personal journey until we find what we are looking for. We are like the "Hermit" in the tarot cards.

I'm usually into the slightly arrogant, free-spirited, adventurous types but lately I've been into more serious, quiet types. Idk why...

It's called introversion. Introverts are more sensitive to dopamine. Constant social settings for an introvert is unhealthy.

I find that I feel alone because I can't relate to people so I lose interest in them. But when I started telling more personal things it became alot easier.

First off, I agree with MANY replies to this thread. To sum it up for me, I go through phases that I have absolutely no problem being alone, but other times, love to interact with friends and socialize. My alone time is my recharge or reflect time usually. However, I have no problem going to a club or bar, but def. get more social (social butterfly) after a few drinks. I like people of all different types and have found that all my friends dont always mesh.. but always have those certain ones that are core. I almoat always enjoy my time with someone I am around. Different people really fascinate me, and I feel that there is a lot to learn out of the people you meet in your life. Independence keeps me from wanting to commit to a person or event more than anything. I do find myself indecisive a lot of the time because I don't want to commit to something I am not totally up for. Loner definitely rings true... until you find the right one.

YES! i feel understood...

Im the definition of loner man. Even when im by myself, i wish no one was around.

My loneliness comes from not trusting anyone and going through things all on my own. Plus i have a very rich inner life that allows me the freedom to pick and choose the spots when I want to be social and not need other people.
Im a Virgo and an ENTP personality unless you are a movie person or animal lover, we probably dont have much in common.

Michael Jackson (who was born the day after me) once said that he was the loneliest man in the world and I often feel that same way too. I think it's something to do with feeling emotionally abandoned/starved in childhood (and after) which makes it hard to trust people. I do enjoy being alone sometimes but it can get too much: however I don't think people understand the idea that you want to be alone SOMETIMES - people want things to be simple so they want to categorise you into sociable or unsociable, and unless you are definitely sociable I think you then get classed as unsociable and perhaps weird.

Isn't it better than being needy and clingy?

Posted by Cajunspirit
I'm a loner, always have been, think I always will be.

I was a mute in high school, stuck to myself and spoke to few.

Me too, I barely talked with anyone in high school. I hate crowded places and situations, I feel extremely uncomfortable when my personal space is violated (unless done by a sexy girl, that is). However, I don't mind being with 3-4 people whose company I enjoy, anything more than this is a crowd.

I think one should only look at the sun sign because when looking at 3-4 signs, it's easy to explain any kind of behavior. I have a lot of virgo in me (sun, rising, mercury).

Posted by virgodog58
Michael Jackson (who was born the day after me) once said that he was the loneliest man in the world and I often feel that same way too. I think it's something to do with feeling emotionally abandoned/starved in childhood (and after) which makes it hard to trust people. I do enjoy being alone sometimes but it can get too much: however I don't think people understand the idea that you want to be alone SOMETIMES - people want things to be simple so they want to categorise you into sociable or unsociable, and unless you are definitely sociable I think you then get classed as unsociable and perhaps weird.

That's very true. I disappear sometimes for weeks or longer and people can't accept that and write you off.

While the Virgo Greta Garbo is famous for having said "I want to be alone", what she ACTUALLY said was "I want to be LEFT alone" (i.e. not hassled): surely everybody can relate to THAT? The Virgo singers Michael Jackson and Hugh Cornwell each recorded a song called "Leave Me Alone", but again I think they were just saying "back off and let me have some peace and quiet" and not "I don't need anybody".

First of all, being alone is not necessarily being lonely. There is one world outside my mind and one world inside my mind. Even when I'm alone in that outer world, I don't feel lonely because in my inner world there are lots of things that interest me way more than outer world??s attractions. Plus I can enjoy the company of non-living things too, I can enjoy rain, sea-side, moon, flowers, breeze, books, poetry, music etc. It doesn't mean that I don't like the company of people but yes, I'm selective, instead of listening blabbering of someone that is total nonsense to me I would prefer to read a good book. But being in company of someone with whom I can relate and enjoy, is most preferable to me than reading that book.

This quote by Francis Bacon truly describes me.. "For a crowd is not company; and faces are but a gallery of pictures; and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love."

Cancer rising and I'm a loner as well.

I have a Virgo moon, and a Capricorn rising. If I'm around people too much, day after day, I start to feel drained. I need time to myself in order to refresh my mental and emotional state. My boyfriend is a Virgo and he always has considered himself a loner. What i find surprising is the fact that recently I'm the one who told him that just because i need my own space once in a while doesn't mean i don't like being around you it's just essential to me being me. To which he didn't understand at all! He said I always want to be with you, if I need to be away from you it would mean somethings wrong. Does anyone else find this somewhat umm suffocating. I am an Aries after all.

I am definitely a loner, I can get along with almost anyone and I am a good conversationalist so I've been told but I prefer to just be to myself. If I go to the club/bar I usually am ready to go pretty quickly unless I have been drinking. As far as friends, I have them but I don't see them much. For instance my birthday just happened and I spent it with my boyfriend doing pretty much nothing and I was completely happy about it, but my friends wanted to go to a bar/restaurant and still do, my bday was 10 days ago and I have no intention of going out. In situations where there are a lot of people I am usually really quiet, even if I know them all. However, if I have to do a briefing or talk to people about my job like how to do something, its easy for me. I just prefer to be to myself, away from people... when I was younger I wasn't as bad as I am now but I think thats because I was partying and living it up.

I am a proud Virgo man myself, and I find it quite comforting to be alone at times. I wouldn’t swap for another zodiac sign for anything in the world. We do have our quirks about us, but we have been blessed with a supreme gift of discernment and intuition that cannot be paralleled by any other sign of the zodiac (hence the Virgo symbolism being that of a woman, of whom is typically endowed with exceptional intuition).

Keeping with the subject, I don’t think it’s accurate to generalize or insinuate that a Virgo is inherently plagued with the (unflattering) condition of loneliness. Let’s step back and take a moment to define “loneliness”. Loneliness is a state of being in solitude, and not being content in said state. For Virgos, this is not generally the case. At least 90% of the times that we are alone, it is on purpose…and we are quite content with being in solitude as it’s usually deliberate. There is a clear and concise difference between being “lonely” and “intentionally being alone”. So, I just wanted to take the time to help abate the insinuendo of disparity from this thread.

A Virgo deciding to be alone should in no way be misconstrued as being weak, insecure, depressed, or sympathy-bating, In fact, it’s quite the opposite. Virgos are typically the overly confident (and sometimes just downright cocky) bunch. However, it is a quiet confidence that others can seldom understand or describe, let alone emulate. Once again, these are characteristics of a woman, hence the Virgo symbolism. It would be much more befitting to reserve any and all sympathetic overtures for others, as Virgo has no need or use for it.

A more accurate statement would be to say that a Virgo has “a tendency to be alone”, not lonely.

replace the word "chickeny" in my above post with the word "cocky". Somehow this was auto-corrected during typing but is wrong.

LOL...see, it won't even let me correct the word, it's c-o-c-k-y.

Well, i am. I have the urge to be alone

Posted by UnicornSag
If I read well many said they love loneliness...I wonder then why I kept hearing from my ex Virgo he hates to be alone. When I wanted my alone time that is. Somehow hates too much being alone. And while I on the other hand have fear of being lonely I actually love some alone time...so this Virgo seems confusing then :/

I think he still likes you...

I am constantly alone. During parties, I feel uncomfortable and want to go home to my safe space so I can obsess over whatever I need to obsess about. I don't like visitors. I feel extremely uncomfortable until they leave. Lol

However I must say that when I'm in love, I am a butterfly and into going to visit family or friends. Happy, confident and in love is the best feeling if you know someone is thinking about you.