Attention Mr.Q

Hey there dear one...I have a question for you and hopefully you won't mind sharing your unbiased thoughts with me.

I have a friend (male cappy) who I have known for about 6 yrs. He had a serious girlfriend but that was NOT a good relationship...he woke up - saw it for what it was and ended it. He would share some of this stuff with me. He is a very kind person with a great sense of humor that gets me everytime! Over the years we remembered each others b-days and would take each other out. For some reason...we would not talk or see each other...never really bothered me cuz I was not that "into him". He has had his relationships, I've had mine. We've connected again and each time that we have gone out he has asked for it to be for dinner (dinner to me is more of a serious thing than a lunch date which we used to do).

I continue to have a great time with him....he kids around with me about being married and I am not sure if this is his way of testing the waters or just messing....got me on that one. Cappies can lack self confidence - personally I think we all do at some time or another. So, the other night we go out.....he tells the hostess that we are celebrating 5 yrs...she says five years for what? He says marriage. I play along and we make friends with the whole darn staff at the restaurant....we eventually tell them that we have been friends for a long time and only kissed one time (can you believe that ONE?) He remembers it being very good. They brought us a free ice cream sundae and it was so neat....

He emailed me the next day saying he had a great time and I responded likewise.

Today, I email him saying hi wishing him a good day. He responds - thanking me and then asking me if I am doing anything fun this weekend? Says he has a long bike ride on Sat. and will be forsure hurting after that.

My question to you or anyone else that feels inclined to offer wisdom is: Is he wanting to know if I want to go out with him?

I am a direct kinda girl...just ask me, for me to figure out all of these clues or undercurrents drives me batty....I prefer for someone to "just say it".

Oh side note - not sure if it matters or not....we went out the night after Valentines Day he asked me if I had received any flowers I told him that yes I did...he asked from who and I told him. Also told him that this guy is just a friend and no more than that. He says....that guy doesn't think so. Well it is so!

Enough babbling on here....thanks for your insights to the male mind.

Hugs and Freebird kisses!

Aww... Aww...

SO SWEET STORY....

I mean it ?..honestly from bottom of my heart? I haven?t have this kind of sweetness for ages? looks like out of Hollywood movie or something.. why are you ladies are so lucky..??

Anyway in my humble opinion?. I would say yes to this but?..BUT?. don?t burn your wings lady?you might need it? this doesn?t mean you need to be cautious?on the contrary?ease up and lower down your defence shield and enjoy the ride as long as it possible?.

If you try to analyse your relationship with this guy, you ruined the fly? ease up on this please and go for your enjoyments (as it is) and do not expect more..!! Relax and enjoy the ride lets see what will happen in a couple of months later?. I need more data bout that (dude) >>(wish I was that lucky bastard).
Wowww?

However

Here is a brief outcast?remember I need Chinese sign of both you to analyse.. the westerns sucks big time..!!

"This match may be off to a roaring start, as these two Signs share great sexual dynamism, but what began as a gymnastics exercise will quickly degenerate into a daily shouting match, as the lovers metamorphose into fighters. Both Aries and Capricorn like to be in the lead position in the great race of life, and neither will be the first to relinquish pride of place to the other.
Female Aries will grow disillusioned and seek out more pleasant company to satisfy their social urges, which will male Capricorn feeling cheated of quality, thus breeding the unwelcome specter of jealousy. It will be a very close call, but eventually Aries will break and run from the collapsing relationship. It's couples like this one that give a bad name to romance."
That?s why I am telling you.. DON'T BURN YOUR WINGS?.just enjoy the ride..🙂
Am I trusting this outcast..??...NO.. but?for security reason?keep that in mind.
Good luck my lady and I wish you happiness.
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Aries, the Sign of the Ram, is the first in the Western Zodiac cycle, running from March 21 to April 19. It is the cardinal Fire Sign, making those born under its influence especially energetic. Typical aspects of the Aries person include an eagerness to forge ahead and take risks, perseverance in the face of adversity, the belief that others are innocent until proven guilty, and an overall quality of leadership.

These are counterbalanced by a tendency towards intolerance, jealousy, selfishness and stubbornness as well. The Aries individual can also be an extremely poor judge of character, concerned as they are with the surface appearance of things and people. Winning for an Aries isn't everything -- it's the only thing.


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Capricorn, the Sign of the Goat, is the tenth Sign of the Western Zodiac, occurring between December 22 and January 19 of the following year. It is the cardinal Earth Sign, and this quality is made manifest in the intensely pragmatic nature of those who are natives of Capricorn.

All of the traits associated with this Sign mirror this essential nature: good organizational skills, neatness and tidiness, hardheaded practicality, cautious realism, a strong work ethic, materialistic tendencies, a conservative streak a mile wide, conventionality and great respect for authority. The down side to all of these admirable traits is obvious to the less regimented observer: egotism, the tendency to be a cruel taskmaster, servility when on the bottom rung of the ladder, and excess perfectionism.

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To tell you the truth again.....I don't believe in this kind of stuff 100% and I still insist that each individual are responsible for their action (based upon their childhood and family and communities).

The rest is just abracadabra..!!

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How about some Virgo stuff...heehaws
(laughing devilishly)

Virgo is the sixth Sign of the Western Zodiac. It is an Earth Sign and extends from August 23 to September 22. The typical Virgo personality is very concerned with structure, neatness and order, to the exclusion of nearly everything else. They are very cerebral, and tend to make few, if any, concessions to the often dirty and distracting nature of reality.
This may make them seem too demanding at times, with a nitpicking attention to detail that can drive the denizens of other Signs batty. But Virgo is really a very friendly type, and quite knowledgeable about nearly every subject under the rainbow. As long as everyone learns to play by their rules, they can be quite accommodating and rather good company, having about themselves an air of quiet wit.

Hihihihi

And I am honoured that you ask me for advice?.I am sure that by the time you wrote the article, you already made up your mind? and this was just a test?

You don?t need my advice lady.. you know already what to do..!!
I just playing along..
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Hi Q and thank you sooooo much for taking your time to respond to my post. Very, very helpful advice was given and is much appreciated my friend.

No, I have not made up my mind yet...I do agree with you - just enjoy the ride and have fun and that I have no problem doing - what is on my mind is the question that he asked me in his email? Is he fishing and wanting me to suggest perhaps going out? Is he testing me to see how I feel about him? I am leaving for my trip Monday AM....not sure why I have such a defense up...this does not usually happen to me - hmmmmm,...get over here and let me practice on you!

So glad that you are "playing" along - you know how us Aries love to play and finding a good playmate can be hard at times...so, thanks for playing my friend 🙂

I read your Aries description - I also have a Cappy moon. I don't really fit the Aries desc, for some reason....no one ever thinks I am one of them.....leave it to me to throw them off and give them something to wonder about.

tag - you're it 😉

LOL?. You are lovely as ever?:!

MY ex "that I have two kids with is Aries" the fire 10x one?hehehe.. you guys rocks..🙂

Anyway ? we humans are easily get fooled by some signals.. specially when we are in need of close encounters both "feeling and physical wise"? this is a most dangerous and difficult passages to get there were we want it to be..!!

No one can say for sure what will be the outcome of this encounter?if you prepare for the worse you ruin the ride, and if you openly accept the ride, you may fall.. how about take some chances..??

I would suggest that you stop thinking like business man for a while and see what this new relationship will bring it up. BUT? don?t burn your lovely wings for it, cause your freedom is worth 100,000,000 times more.

At the end if all get wrong.. I'll promises you to tender your heart in my all power.. that?s the promises and never forget it lady..

Now.. stop shaking and biting your finger nails?.go on my lovely lady and get what is yours? you are the LOVE warrior aren?t you..?..
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And no need to thak me..what friends are good for..??
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One other thing..
90% of males out there thinking by their penises ?. I'm sure that you know it already.. It's just a reminder that don't fall for the "Emotional" type. Those scams are ruin the human and their communities.

Yeah...they gotta think with something so I guess that is their first choice..especially when young...need to because their sole job at that point in life is to procreate...later in life, they settle down and realize that there is more to a relationship and they desire the closeness in other ways besides just physical. And I'm thinking here (that is a good thing) that there is so much stress out there that men need to release it somehow so...you got it - SEX and if they have someone to play along with then why not.

Smart women can pick up the difference if a man is just after sex....they will after a few lessons that is.

This guy has had plenty of chances to initiate if he really wanted to but he hasn't - not the right time, wants friendship first? slow learner? who knows...gee, maybe I will "spark" him alive and then he will never be the same - that I know forsure!

The other night when he brought me home I was determined for him to give me a kiss soooooo...when I got to the door I said to him, "is this the time where I fumble for my keys?" He smiled, paused, looked at me and then came in for a quick kiss on the lips.....he'll be back.

I do appreciate your words...and I can say thank you if I want to...I feel it so I say it....I am grateful for your friendship Mr. "Q"

Glad to see that "you see some positive side" on this guy,..."you already defending him)...🙂
Wish you good luck and good adventures...🙂
Best wishes....
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Sorry for the delay... I was busy with "conspirational theories on other message boards"... you know how long will it take to get around for those stuffs.
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Defending him....well, I didn't really see it that way but you do have a good point. Actions speak louder than words. What I meant by that was that we were not dating, just friends hanging and if he was after just having sex with me he had plenty of opportunities to act on that desire. So, I do enjoy his friendship and for now...good enough for me. No expectations...who needs those!

I know ...you must think of me as "mixed up"...I am mixed up when I begin to think rather than just going with the flow...

I'm off the "man ride" ....

Just don't make me worry about you my lady..🙂

I happen to know this "Aries specialties, taking a chance", and Aries people always take a chance where even angels fear to treat..!!! Let alone a poor Virgo like me that needed to know everything in advance.. lol.

And? NO?.my thought about you is a angel like lady with a nice wing span 2 meters in each directions "4 meters in total"?hehe, you are not "mixed up" you are in love and everything is GREAT when you are in love, its credible enough for me anyway.. what's great is that you have "this special feeling in your belly" strangely, here in Norway we named this feeling as "sommerfugl I magen" , "butterfly felling in belly". And it feels great.. 🙂


Have a nice Flight , and keep us updated with your new adventures please?!!
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Okay....for the THIRD time....I am not sure exactly what is happening here...I have typed two other msg. to you and then without notice there is a click and they are gone out to cyberville....

I'll attempt later after I collect my bird thoughts...gonna send now so perhaps you will receive...

Freebird flappin her wings feeling in a conundrum state....

Hmm... haven't got any messages..!!
Is there anything I can do..??
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