Case of the ex.

Virgal ex called me, drunk, crying, saying she wanted to kill herself.

Says she didn’t have anyone else to talk to and she thought of me because I knew her so well when we were together.

We chatted for about 90 minutes, just sharing where we are in life.

Eventually she asks if i’m dating someone and i say no and she asks why and i’m like, well, just cause... i then ask her if she’s dating and she says she’s dating this guy but they’re not super close yet.

She’s got no job or money (due to corona), her parents are currently supporting her. I didn’t think she’d be the type to date if she couldn’t really afford it. And I don’t think she’s completely over me yet. Perhaps she wants to be but I don’t think she is. She likes to do this thing where she calls me drunk every 2 or so months. And plus she frequently visits my blog.

Ahh i don’t know why I haven’t blocked her yet.

She told me not to worry about her but I can’t help it.

Oh and at one stage she said she just wants me to be as happy as she is.

Yeah... cause calling up your ex drunk and saying you want to kill yourself shows how happy you really are... not.

What’s wrong with this virgo girl—? Seriously🥵

Posted by PinsAndNeedles

"I don't know what I haven't blocked her yet"

So you can come here to make fun of her. Gotta keep some entertainment around when life is dull, am-I-rite? 😄

pretty much

I wish you send this post to her

so she can finally leave you alone

You meant a lot to her. She misses you in her life. It doesn’t necessarily mean that she still wants you or is In love with you but it seems like she def still cares about you as well

If someone made an impact in your life, you don’t just forget about them over night .... or even weeks or months

She called me up to tell me she has to block me again because her boyfriend knows about us. She said she thought long and hard about it before she made the decision to block me again.

Wuuuuuuuut. Where’s the logic?

I had a Virgo ex that left this on my voicemail after I broke up with her...

...with this part...

I guess this is our last goodbye

And you don't care, so I won't cry

And you'll be sorry when I'm dead

When all this guilt will be on your head

She had mental health issues..but...

...she was a manipulator.

A few days later she shows up at my place out of the blue with a male friend to get this crappy t-shirt (possibly some others stuff)...he was a big guy...more fat than muscular...boy was I scared. lol 😉

I didn't appreciate the drama though.

Now back to our story...

...do you actually want to get back with her in any shape or form?

Do you feel sorry for her?

Do you care for her?

Are you worried about that she's going to harm herself when she calls you up like this out of the blue?

Have you ever encouraged her to seek help? Talk to family/friends?

IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO SAVE HER!

You're not a yo-yo. If she contacts you again, try to ignore her...unless you want her for some miraculous reason?

FDB