OHNOXoxo
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Did he feel bad or something??!!
Posted by TomSawyer
Who initiated the conversation about the ex?
He had asked me if i was dating anyone! And i was just too good in the mood to discuss aboit it so i had changed the topic but yesterday again the topic came up so i opened up about my ex.
I don't know his trip !! It was him who was interested in knowing who all i dated and i only spoke of two men !!! But after that poof he said its all in past and hes happy to see me happy.
I haven't heard from him im like two day's!!
Posted by TurquoiseArrowHe asked me again ! Off course i couldn't keep it mysterious anymore!Posted by OHNOXoxoreally?
discussed about my ex boyfriend to my current Virgo crush!!!! After few dates of keeping it hush hush and him going on telling me how good I'm. He's not spoken to me in two day's will he come back??
We are just good friends but i think he likes me or its just my imagination. But i definitely like him but he doesn't know that too !!! This cold shoulder is killimg me
if he did not ask then do not discussclick to expand
Posted by sierraleooneHow much of a good person. Human being etc etcPosted by OHNOXoxohow much of a good what? friend?
discussed about my ex boyfriend to my current Virgo crush!!!! After few dates of keeping it hush hush and him going on telling me how good I'm. He's not spoken to me in two day's will he come back??
We are just good friends but i think he likes me or its just my imagination. But i definitely like him but he doesn't know that too !!! This cold shoulder is killimg meclick to expand
Posted by sierraleooneHe's such a great guy to be around always joking and a fun to be with! I seriously wasnt expecting a reaction loke this from him !! I dont know what caught him so off guard. I have double thoughts of asking him i don't want to make it a big deal in front of himPosted by OHNOXoxoeh just ask him outPosted by sierraleooneHow much of a good person. Human being etc etcPosted by OHNOXoxohow much of a good what? friend?
discussed about my ex boyfriend to my current Virgo crush!!!! After few dates of keeping it hush hush and him going on telling me how good I'm. He's not spoken to me in two day's will he come back??
We are just good friends but i think he likes me or its just my imagination. But i definitely like him but he doesn't know that too !!! This cold shoulder is killimg meclick to expand
I mean it was him who was curious to know!! I had brushed it off once i didnt feel right to do the same the second time.. the only difference was thid time he didn't directly asked me but we were talking about risks and life and adventures!!
So i brought up my past in a joking way and i said im quite an adventurous girl I Dated a guy knowing he wasnt good enough but very good looking and the inevitable happened as predicted he dumped me anf i was depressed but its okay!! I dont regret anything!!
He listened to all this banter for fifteen twenty minutes didnt say much and said he gotta hurry now hes got some work and left !!!
I really dont know what to think of this behaviour! Hes such a great sport otherwise
So i brought up my past in a joking way and i said im quite an adventurous girl I Dated a guy knowing he wasnt good enough but very good looking and the inevitable happened as predicted he dumped me anf i was depressed but its okay!! I dont regret anything!!
He listened to all this banter for fifteen twenty minutes didnt say much and said he gotta hurry now hes got some work and left !!!
I really dont know what to think of this behaviour! Hes such a great sport otherwise
I'm a Virgo with a Virgo Venus, and I don't get jealous at all. I commonly talk with crushes about their ex-boyfriends (and in one case, ex-girlfriends), and it doesn't upset me in the slightest.
Unless, of course, her tone makes me think that she's still in love with him and that she only sees me as a friend. Then I'll back off quickly, because the last thing I want to do is make a fool of myself.
If you like him, I'd suggest that you make it known. Don't hint, don't drop clues, just tell him. Personally, I hate playing games, and it's much more exciting when a girl is upfront and forward.
Unless, of course, her tone makes me think that she's still in love with him and that she only sees me as a friend. Then I'll back off quickly, because the last thing I want to do is make a fool of myself.
If you like him, I'd suggest that you make it known. Don't hint, don't drop clues, just tell him. Personally, I hate playing games, and it's much more exciting when a girl is upfront and forward.
Posted by csdude55
I'm a Virgo with a Virgo Venus, and I don't get jealous at all. I commonly talk with crushes about their ex-boyfriends (and in one case, ex-girlfriends), and it doesn't upset me in the slightest.
Unless, of course, her tone makes me think that she's still in love with him and that she only sees me as a friend. Then I'll back off quickly, because the last thing I want to do is make a fool of myself.
If you like him, I'd suggest that you make it known. Don't hint, don't drop clues, just tell him. Personally, I hate playing games, and it's much more exciting when a girl is upfront and forward.
I honestly have never shunned him when he tries the friendly flirt stunts on me. But being a Taurus im naturally little shy around the men i like.
Asking him anything directly!! I dont know if im up for it ?
But its a relief to know if Virgos doesn't mind takking about past flings or get jealous
As amusing as it sounds im unable to make anything of this cold behaviour right after discussing past !
And i had told him im over my ex the last time he had asked and this time again i made sure i tell him that whatever happened i have no regrets and i dont wish nothing bad
And i had told him im over my ex the last time he had asked and this time again i made sure i tell him that whatever happened i have no regrets and i dont wish nothing bad
There's obviously more to it than just the sun sign, but I can say this... if I've stopped talking to a girl for a few days, it's because:
1. I'm feeling like I've been doing all the work and I'm waiting for her to write back or make an effort.
2. I feel like I'm starting to look stupid so I'm backing off to protect myself.
3. Someone else has caught my eye that seems more in to me.
I can't think of a 4th reason.
So in any of those cases, if I were the guy you're talking about, then the right move on your part would be to make an effort.
1. I'm feeling like I've been doing all the work and I'm waiting for her to write back or make an effort.
2. I feel like I'm starting to look stupid so I'm backing off to protect myself.
3. Someone else has caught my eye that seems more in to me.
I can't think of a 4th reason.
So in any of those cases, if I were the guy you're talking about, then the right move on your part would be to make an effort.
Posted by TurquoiseArrowYeah! Any inputs will be appreciated. I really like him.
other than that it is a great topic for arguments
Posted by csdude55
There's obviously more to it than just the sun sign, but I can say this... if I've stopped talking to a girl for a few days, it's because:
1. I'm feeling like I've been doing all the work and I'm waiting for her to write back or make an effort.
2. I feel like I'm starting to look stupid so I'm backing off to protect myself.
3. Someone else has caught my eye that seems more in to me.
I can't think of a 4th reason.
So in any of those cases, if I were the guy you're talking about, then the right move on your part would be to make an effort.
And how do i do that?? He's not vocal about his feelings or never mentioned nothing like he's got a crush on me.
Its just my assumptions from the way he act's whrn with me.
He tries to makr faces to make me laugh
He pulls stupid joke's
He makes fun of other people. All that so he could make me laugh more!! And then he passes comments like my laugh is contagious, its good to see me smiling like that, I'm such a great company, he knows im wild inside with an Angel face lol
Twice he said its a man's loss to let me go ! Haha
All these sweet nothings all the freaking time but nothing up front !!!
Am i wrong in feeling he likes me??
Just speaking for me, of course, but if I message you for more than a few days in a row then it's cause I like you. I might get caught up in a short chat with a girl that I only like as a friend, but once the immediate conversations ends then I'll let it go.
A crush, though? I'll do my best to keep it going for as long as I can. When one conversation ends, I'll try to think of something else to talk about.
And I'm ALWAYS trying to entertain a crush, make her laugh or smile, make her feel good about herself.
If he's like me and you see this trend, then you're in. Or, you were a few days ago, anyway.
And I thought it was just my childhood background, but maybe all Virgos are like this... I'm VERY worried about looking or feeling stupid, so it's hard for me to make a move. I'll flirt all day, but when it comes time to make a physical move I need someone with landing lights or something. Hints don't work, I need you to be VERY clear.
Things I respond very well to (and these are exact messages I've had in the past):
"Hey, are you doing anything tomorrow night? You could come over to my place for dinner. Like, a date"
"Have I told you lately that I think you're super hot?"
"This might sound weird, but how do you like to kiss a girl? Like, if you and I were kissing, how would you do it?"
(that was just vague enough to protect herself, but obvious enough that even I got the hint)
My all-time favorite:
"So, who's gonna make the first move here, you or me?"
A crush, though? I'll do my best to keep it going for as long as I can. When one conversation ends, I'll try to think of something else to talk about.
And I'm ALWAYS trying to entertain a crush, make her laugh or smile, make her feel good about herself.
If he's like me and you see this trend, then you're in. Or, you were a few days ago, anyway.
And I thought it was just my childhood background, but maybe all Virgos are like this... I'm VERY worried about looking or feeling stupid, so it's hard for me to make a move. I'll flirt all day, but when it comes time to make a physical move I need someone with landing lights or something. Hints don't work, I need you to be VERY clear.
Things I respond very well to (and these are exact messages I've had in the past):
"Hey, are you doing anything tomorrow night? You could come over to my place for dinner. Like, a date"
"Have I told you lately that I think you're super hot?"
"This might sound weird, but how do you like to kiss a girl? Like, if you and I were kissing, how would you do it?"
(that was just vague enough to protect herself, but obvious enough that even I got the hint)
My all-time favorite:
"So, who's gonna make the first move here, you or me?"
Posted by csdude55
Just speaking for me, of course, but if I message you for more than a few days in a row then it's cause I like you. I might get caught up in a short chat with a girl that I only like as a friend, but once the immediate conversations ends then I'll let it go.
A crush, though? I'll do my best to keep it going for as long as I can. When one conversation ends, I'll try to think of something else to talk about.
And I'm ALWAYS trying to entertain a crush, make her laugh or smile, make her feel good about herself.
If he's like me and you see this trend, then you're in. Or, you were a few days ago, anyway.
And I thought it was just my childhood background, but maybe all Virgos are like this... I'm VERY worried about looking or feeling stupid, so it's hard for me to make a move. I'll flirt all day, but when it comes time to make a physical move I need someone with landing lights or something. Hints don't work, I need you to be VERY clear.
Things I respond very well to (and these are exact messages I've had in the past):
"Hey, are you doing anything tomorrow night? You could come over to my place for dinner. Like, a date"
"Have I told you lately that I think you're super hot?"
"This might sound weird, but how do you like to kiss a girl? Like, if you and I were kissing, how would you do it?"
(that was just vague enough to protect herself, but obvious enough that even I got the hint)
My all-time favorite:
"So, who's gonna make the first move here, you or me?"
Whoa! Thats some really good information right there. Thanks for sharing
Posted by TurquoiseArrowWhat should be my next step now ?!
if hes asking about your past relationships....it may be a hint wanting to know if you are with someone now.
OR
to weed you out as a potential woman
Has he lost interest in me — Over something he alone knows ?
Posted by OHNOXoxoVirgos got me thinking the exact same ?
Has he lost interest in me — Over something he alone knows ?
Posted by TomSawyerPosted by OHNOXoxoPosted by TomSawyerHe's putting you through a shit test.
Who initiated the conversation about the ex?
He had asked me if i was dating anyone! And i was just too good in the mood to discuss aboit it so i had changed the topic but yesterday again the topic came up so i opened up about my ex.
I don't know his trip !! It was him who was interested in knowing who all i dated and i only spoke of two men !!! But after that poof he said its all in past and hes happy to see me happy.
I haven't heard from him im like two day's!!
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Shitt test— How do you pull that off !! Tell me more
3 Day's no call no show !!!
Posted by OHNOXoxoI agree with csdude55. I wish I would have realized this years ago with a Virgo crush that went on forever. He made all of the effort and in true Cancer fashion I hung back and let him take the lead. When he stopped reaching out first I couldn't figure out why and by the time I realized that he didn't think I was interested there were too many communication issues to resolve. Virgos don't let you start over. I recommend you grow a pair and participate equally in the building of a relationship if that's what you both want, he's not going to chase you.
3 Day's no call no show !!!
Posted by WildatHeartPosted by OHNOXoxoI agree with csdude55. I wish I would have realized this years ago with a Virgo crush that went on forever. He made all of the effort and in true Cancer fashion I hung back and let him take the lead. When he stopped reaching out first I couldn't figure out why and by the time I realized that he didn't think I was interested there were too many communication issues to resolve. Virgos don't let you start over. I recommend you grow a pair and participate equally in the building of a relationship if that's what you both want, he's not going to chase you.
3 Day's no call no show !!!click to expand
Errr okay!! May be ill drop him a text . Although he's been the one doing that every morning before this maddening behaviour of his.
Is laughing on his joke's sometimes the bad ones too , not good enough to know im interested in him ??
Posted by EarthgoddessPosted by OHNOXoxoCall him girl...he's probably waiting to see ur interest level
3 Day's no call no show !!!click to expand
He's acting like a girl here if that's what is making him go cold like this! Its like he's on SOME periods acting all aloof and so Moody! Its so opposite of how he's been from past week's.
Here i was thinking this man can never quit joking and he's sucha fun. And here he is acting all girlie
Is laughing on his joke's sometimes the bad ones too , not good enough to know im interested in him ??
Oh god, no, not by a mile!! The thing we Virgos realize is that girls laugh at our jokes when they like us... and also when they're being nice and don't know how to tell us to get lost. So that's not even close to a hint that's clear enough for us.
If he's like me, I go through phases: some days I'm full of confidence, some days I'm not. Sometimes I'll realize I've been doing all of the chasing and that your response is pretty vague, so I'll back off a little to protect myself. If you don't seem to notice that I've disappeared, then that's a pretty clear sign that you weren't really interested and you were replying just to be nice.
I've been told many, many times that I act like a woman sometimes (which isn't really too offensive, but it is a little emasculating), but you just have to accept that, like a real person, we have emotions, too.
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Whats so wrong in you saying....hey lets try to hang out tomorrow?
Okay! So i messaged him today
Me: Hey how you doing
Him : Im as great as always
( As great as always— Wtf!!! I have been going crazy here thinking what's wrong and he's having a ball there argh!!)
Me: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
No messages after that. Now just like him even im not someone who's comfortable chasing a person who doesn't show interest. So i think this won't go any further!!
Posted by csdude55Is laughing on his joke's sometimes the bad ones too , not good enough to know im interested in him ??
Oh god, no, not by a mile!! The thing we Virgos realize is that girls laugh at our jokes when they like us... and also when they're being nice and don't know how to tell us to get lost. So that's not even close to a hint that's clear enough for us.
If he's like me, I go through phases: some days I'm full of confidence, some days I'm not. Sometimes I'll realize I've been doing all of the chasing and that your response is pretty vague, so I'll back off a little to protect myself. If you don't seem to notice that I've disappeared, then that's a pretty clear sign that you weren't really interested and you were replying just to be nice.
I've been told many, many times that I act like a woman sometimes (which isn't really too offensive, but it is a little emasculating), but you just have to accept that, like a real person, we have emotions, too.click to expand
He sounds exactly like this!!! Somedays he's overlu excited and some day's he looks so off !! Its hard to know whats going on in his head.
Is there any way any sign which is a clear indicator he likes me?? Because I'm any day more shy than him to flirt away. Any subtle hints i can may be look at to know if he actually likes me and its not my imagination!
Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by OHNOXoxoYou right iit want go any farther because....you did not ask!Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Whats so wrong in you saying....hey lets try to hang out tomorrow?
Okay! So i messaged him today
Me: Hey how you doing
Him : Im as great as always
( As great as always— Wtf!!! I have been going crazy here thinking what's wrong and he's having a ball there argh!!)
Me: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
No messages after that. Now just like him even im not someone who's comfortable chasing a person who doesn't show interest. So i think this won't go any further!!
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What do you mean.. what i didnt ask?! Err im little confused can you elaborate
Totally agree, look at what you said:
You: Hey how you doing
Him: Im as great as always
You: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
And then you just... stopped? What's he supposed to be thinking right now? You messaged him out of the blue, then you left him hanging. If I were him, I would be super confused by this one and laying in bed all night wondering what the heck just happened.
Logical followups on your end:
"I feel like you've been kinda distant lately, I miss you. What's up?"
"Let's hang out tomorrow" (as Turquoise suggested earlier)
"Still crazy about me and wanna have my babies?"
(that's a legit message I got from a girl once that made me laugh, but was also a very clear hint)
How quickly did he reply? If he read the message and replied immediately, he definitely likes you. If he read it and let it sit for a few hours, maybe he's either trying to play cool or isn't that excited to talk to you. If he replied a few days later, I don't think he's in to you.
You: Hey how you doing
Him: Im as great as always
You: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
And then you just... stopped? What's he supposed to be thinking right now? You messaged him out of the blue, then you left him hanging. If I were him, I would be super confused by this one and laying in bed all night wondering what the heck just happened.
Logical followups on your end:
"I feel like you've been kinda distant lately, I miss you. What's up?"
"Let's hang out tomorrow" (as Turquoise suggested earlier)
"Still crazy about me and wanna have my babies?"
(that's a legit message I got from a girl once that made me laugh, but was also a very clear hint)
Is there any way any sign which is a clear indicator he likes me?? Because I'm any day more shy than him to flirt away. Any subtle hints i can may be look at to know if he actually likes me and its not my imagination!
How quickly did he reply? If he read the message and replied immediately, he definitely likes you. If he read it and let it sit for a few hours, maybe he's either trying to play cool or isn't that excited to talk to you. If he replied a few days later, I don't think he's in to you.
Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by OHNOXoxoNo, you did not ask him to hang out.Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by OHNOXoxoYou right iit want go any farther because....you did not ask!Posted by TurquoiseArrow
Whats so wrong in you saying....hey lets try to hang out tomorrow?
Okay! So i messaged him today
Me: Hey how you doing
Him : Im as great as always
( As great as always— Wtf!!! I have been going crazy here thinking what's wrong and he's having a ball there argh!!)
Me: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
No messages after that. Now just like him even im not someone who's comfortable chasing a person who doesn't show interest. So i think this won't go any further!!
What do you mean.. what i didnt ask?! Err im little confused can you elaborateclick to expand
Oops, okay ! My bad
Posted by csdude55
Totally agree, look at what you said:
You: Hey how you doing
Him: Im as great as always
You: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
And then you just... stopped? What's he supposed to be thinking right now? You messaged him out of the blue, then you left him hanging. If I were him, I would be super confused by this one and laying in bed all night wondering what the heck just happened.
Logical followups on your end:
"I feel like you've been kinda distant lately, I miss you. What's up?"
"Let's hang out tomorrow" (as Turquoise suggested earlier)
"Still crazy about me and wanna have my babies?"
(that's a legit message I got from a girl once that made me laugh, but was also a very clear hint)Is there any way any sign which is a clear indicator he likes me?? Because I'm any day more shy than him to flirt away. Any subtle hints i can may be look at to know if he actually likes me and its not my imagination!
How quickly did he reply? If he read the message and replied immediately, he definitely likes you. If he read it and let it sit for a few hours, maybe he's either trying to play cool or isn't that excited to talk to you. If he replied a few days later, I don't think he's in to you.click to expand
I messaged him on what's app. He took fifteen to twenty minutes after reading it. For me straight up saying let's hang out i miss you.. will sound too forward! As he's been the one initiating most of our meets until the day we had a discussion about my past. And we both haven't spoken about our feelings openly! I mean we still haven't taken our friendship into the Lovey dovey stuff like i miss you or i cant wait to see you!
But this morning like always he messaged me Good morning wishing you a good day ! And i replied thanks wishing you the same ?
I have realised its going to take a long time for both of us to say how we feel because if he's shying away. Which is far from how he comes across from the outgoing person he is! Im even more shy ?
But at least he messaged a good morning text tbat looks good !
Posted by TotiThere are different ways of going about it, but what has always worked for me was this: Be his friend. When we are confronted it builds up pressure. Building a friendship helps to relieve the pressure. Instead of going out on a date, just suggest a place to hang out "Want to grab a bite to eat?" Be the one to go to him for help, but find a balance to not take advantage over it. Be inquisitive, ask about his interests, bring up topics that expand his mind. Delve on about your passions-We love to hear of the experiences of others and what drives them. Eventually, we will want to be part of it. Lightly flirt with him, banter, keep it playful. If the initial attraction is there it will grow stronger over time. I'm female, but as a Virgo I begin to fall the better I know a man. However, from my experience it's only worked if the initial attraction was there.Posted by csdude55
Totally agree, look at what you said:
You: Hey how you doing
Him: Im as great as always
You: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
And then you just... stopped? What's he supposed to be thinking right now? You messaged him out of the blue, then you left him hanging. If I were him, I would be super confused by this one and laying in bed all night wondering what the heck just happened.
Logical followups on your end:
"I feel like you've been kinda distant lately, I miss you. What's up?"
"Let's hang out tomorrow" (as Turquoise suggested earlier)
"Still crazy about me and wanna have my babies?"
(that's a legit message I got from a girl once that made me laugh, but was also a very clear hint)Is there any way any sign which is a clear indicator he likes me?? Because I'm any day more shy than him to flirt away. Any subtle hints i can may be look at to know if he actually likes me and its not my imagination!
How quickly did he reply? If he read the message and replied immediately, he definitely likes you. If he read it and let it sit for a few hours, maybe he's either trying to play cool or isn't that excited to talk to you. If he replied a few days later, I don't think he's in to you.
I'm into a virgo who is 40, indecisive and very analytical. Successful in what he does, but seems very confused when it comes to relationships. What do you suggest a good approach would be? When I'm direct, he seems to panic, backs off and disappears for a while. Then he comes back and acts like nothing has ever happened. Virgo, Venus in libra. I'm Scorpio, Venus in virgo.
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Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by OHNOXoxoGet a girlfriend friend involved that you trust that want try to take him away from you and enlist her help to get him for you.....Posted by csdude55
Totally agree, look at what you said:
You: Hey how you doing
Him: Im as great as always
You: You seem busy , i didnt hear from you so i wondered if we are good?
Him: Oh yes , we are good !
And then you just... stopped? What's he supposed to be thinking right now? You messaged him out of the blue, then you left him hanging. If I were him, I would be super confused by this one and laying in bed all night wondering what the heck just happened.
Logical followups on your end:
"I feel like you've been kinda distant lately, I miss you. What's up?"
"Let's hang out tomorrow" (as Turquoise suggested earlier)
"Still crazy about me and wanna have my babies?"
(that's a legit message I got from a girl once that made me laugh, but was also a very clear hint)Is there any way any sign which is a clear indicator he likes me?? Because I'm any day more shy than him to flirt away. Any subtle hints i can may be look at to know if he actually likes me and its not my imagination!
How quickly did he reply? If he read the message and replied immediately, he definitely likes you. If he read it and let it sit for a few hours, maybe he's either trying to play cool or isn't that excited to talk to you. If he replied a few days later, I don't think he's in to you.
I messaged him on what's app. He took fifteen to twenty minutes after reading it. For me straight up saying let's hang out i miss you.. will sound too forward! As he's been the one initiating most of our meets until the day we had a discussion about my past. And we both haven't spoken about our feelings openly! I mean we still haven't taken our friendship into the Lovey dovey stuff like i miss you or i cant wait to see you!
But this morning like always he messaged me Good morning wishing you a good day ! And i replied thanks wishing you the same ?
I have realised its going to take a long time for both of us to say how we feel because if he's shying away. Which is far from how he comes across from the outgoing person he is! Im even more shy ?
But at least he messaged a good morning text tbat looks good !
Is that still to direct?click to expand
Is this a joke?
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
How about a double date night out? Is that to direct?
Options are running out here....
When he said good morning...why did you let the convo stop?
Haha ! Oh i get your joke now.
Well ! Err that's how we been keeping it together like i said earlier we usually only wish eachother greetings and since he's at work most of the time. Its him who decides when we meet or see eachother!!
I work from home so im free mostly .
I read some place you shouldn't push a Virgo for dates theyll tell you when they are free! And i tend to give my men as much space as possible. I simply can never ask them upfront as casual as let's meet !! I know it's nothing much but im a very shy girl
I posted here for suggestions or SOME understanding because i wasnt able to understand his absence right after our past discussion about ny past!
But guess what ! Today he messaged me again in the evening asking hows my day and said one should let whatever happened in the past stay in the past !! Hahaha how sweet !! Im totally falling for this man.
Posted by TomSawyer
@OHNOXoxo
Everything you read here apparently confuses you even more.
Can't blame you... even the dudes sound like fuckin princesses.
Okay.
This is what you do if you want a virguy to show up and give you the time of your life.
(Assuming you're over 18..)
Step 1) Message this guy on Whatsapp: "Hey there, I have this problem at home that I don't understand how to fix, could you come and help me, please? 🙂"
Step 2) Put on something sexy and make sure you look good.
Step 3) When he arrives, open the door, take him to the bedroom.
Step 4) Once there, show him idk the remote from your tv or something.
Step 5) Once he's looked and analyzed the remote for like 15 minutes, make an innocent look and stare him in the eyes.
Step 6) He will most likely understand the signal and take you right then and there --> Have sex and all the tension is GONE.
Step 7) If he for some reason misses the signal -- grab his d1ck.
*****NOTE*****
------- If he's more interested in your tv than you -- HE IS GAY or HE IS A PUSSAY.
very simple, darling.
If that happens, dump him and get with a new dude.
@Toti What was your problem again?
Hahaha —
Oh My GOD!!! You literally got me laughing so hard that my neighbours could hear!!!
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I'm into a virgo who is 40, indecisive and very analytical. Successful in what he does, but seems very confused when it comes to relationships. What do you suggest a good approach would be? When I'm direct, he seems to panic, backs off and disappears for a while. Then he comes back and acts like nothing has ever happened. Virgo, Venus in libra. I'm Scorpio, Venus in virgo.
Toti, we should probably talk about this on a different thread, you're getting mixed up with OHNOX's. PM me if you create a new one and I'll reply there.
To answer your question, though... my Venus is in Virgo so I may be different from your guy, but I'm close to the same age.
I've only dated one Scorpio. She was very forward and direct, which I thought was very attractive. But she would be hot one day, then ice cold the next. She would go through phases of completely ignoring me for days, sometimes even for weeks at a time, then later acting like everything was fine and dandy. That eventually killed whatever potential we had.
When you say you're being direct, do you mean like, "hey, let's do dinner Friday", "hey, let's have sex Friday", or "hey, let's get married Friday"?
If you're asking him to dinner, I can't imagine why he's backing off, unless maybe he's hiding something. Are you sure he's single?
If you're asking him to have sex, that might be a bit too direct. I enjoy a bit of build-up, so sexy flirting, exchanging pics, things like that are a lot more fun than a hit-it-and-quit-it.
If you're talking about love and marriage, he could easily be backing off for fear of getting hurt, or more likely, fear of hurting you. Especially if you've openly talked about getting hurt in the past.
I would like to see what message you sent that made him disappear, and what he said when he finally came back.
This is never required in any type of relashionships to talk about exes!
OHNOXoxo... the Pisces girl I've chatted with lately has been doing similar things that you're doing, and I can't read her at all. She seems in to me one minute, then a million miles away the next. We'll chat for a few days, then she'll disappear for a week. And she's making me do all the work, which doesn't make me feel very desired.
So assuming your guy is like me, it's pretty off-putting to be the one starting every conversation. And it sounds like you're leaving him hanging all the time. If I message you then it's because I'm thinking of you and want to chat... if you stop replying then it makes me think I'm bugging you or that you really don't want to talk. Do that enough time, and I'll get the hint that you're just not that in to me.
Once we're dating, sure, I like a little space. But during those beginning parts? Nope, not really, I love it when a girl shows that she's really in to me and excited to talk to me or see me. Her excitement makes ME more excited... and by the same token, when she acts like she's not that interested then it makes me feel not that interested.
You might be shy, but if you want to keep this guy then you're going to have to make SOME sort of an effort. It sounds like what you're doing is sending out pretty negative signals, making him think you're not interested. He keeps trying, but you keep brushing him off.
So assuming your guy is like me, it's pretty off-putting to be the one starting every conversation. And it sounds like you're leaving him hanging all the time. If I message you then it's because I'm thinking of you and want to chat... if you stop replying then it makes me think I'm bugging you or that you really don't want to talk. Do that enough time, and I'll get the hint that you're just not that in to me.
Once we're dating, sure, I like a little space. But during those beginning parts? Nope, not really, I love it when a girl shows that she's really in to me and excited to talk to me or see me. Her excitement makes ME more excited... and by the same token, when she acts like she's not that interested then it makes me feel not that interested.
You might be shy, but if you want to keep this guy then you're going to have to make SOME sort of an effort. It sounds like what you're doing is sending out pretty negative signals, making him think you're not interested. He keeps trying, but you keep brushing him off.
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OHNOXoxo... the Pisces girl I've chatted with lately has been doing similar things that you're doing, and I can't read her at all. She seems in to me one minute, then a million miles away the next. We'll chat for a few days, then she'll disappear for a week. And she's making me do all the work, which doesn't make me feel very desired.
So assuming your guy is like me, it's pretty off-putting to be the one starting every conversation. And it sounds like you're leaving him hanging all the time. If I message you then it's because I'm thinking of you and want to chat... if you stop replying then it makes me think I'm bugging you or that you really don't want to talk. Do that enough time, and I'll get the hint that you're just not that in to me.
Once we're dating, sure, I like a little space. But during those beginning parts? Nope, not really, I love it when a girl shows that she's really in to me and excited to talk to me or see me. Her excitement makes ME more excited... and by the same token, when she acts like she's not that interested then it makes me feel not that interested.
You might be shy, but if you want to keep this guy then you're going to have to make SOME sort of an effort. It sounds like what you're doing is sending out pretty negative signals, making him think you're not interested. He keeps trying, but you keep brushing him off.
Noted!!
If my shying away is giving a negative signals then you are right i should put efforts to keep the conversation going. It's just that im not sure if he's really into me and that kinda confuses me.. Im only shy till the time i know a person is into me! Once im clear on that i can be pretty wild in love. And may be thats why im taking so much time debating if i should bother him with my talks or i should wait a little more to be sure of his feelings towards me !
I know myself. Once i get a green signal i can be very outgoing even asking him out for sex! I just dont want to get into the line of girls he's already got!
I mean im 100% sure im not the only one he's talking to you and there are competitions like i have seen it with my own eye's how my other friends were all over him and he was loving the attention.
All im trying to say is .. if only i could get any hints from him that he's interested not just being nice!
I had a rondevouz with a former Virgo. If he's texting every morning and night
----> he's fucking crazy
----> he's fucking crazy
If I send a girl texts every morning and night.
---> I'm interested
This. Exactly.
I mentioned that I was talking to a Pisces girl earlier. A few months ago we were chatting every day, about everything (including her ex), and I loved every minute of it. I would wake up to have a message from her that just said "Hey", and it would make my day. It made me feel special and desired.
Out of the blue, though, one day it just stopped. If I sent her a message she would reply immediately, but she definitely wasn't chatting like before. And those GM and GN messages? No more.
She keeps saying that she's just gotten really busy, but it's been like that for over a month. I'm really trying, but now that she doesn't act interested anymore, I'm losing interest, too.
My point here is that you can control his level of interest by showing your own interest. He's texting you, he likes you. If you like him, then initiate a few messages and make him feel special, too. If you keep acting like you're not interested then you can't really be too surprised when he loses interest.
Thank you everyone for your grear suggestions!!
Looks like we are back on track , right where we left. ?
The morning and night greetings are back and i cant wait to see him on weekend
Thank you and love you all . Peace
Looks like we are back on track , right where we left. ?
The morning and night greetings are back and i cant wait to see him on weekend
Thank you and love you all . Peace
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Thank you.
By far the best I've read so far.
Taken from:
http://virgomansecrets.com/blog/why-a-virgo-man-ignores-your-text-messages/
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