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do virgos ever own up to their mistakes??
Posted by AWadol
I dont hate all virgos but I gotta say the experience with some taurus and virgos they are just too emotionless.
yeah that was a big issue here too... he never knew how to apologize or address things properly he'd always wait for things to cool down/go away instead of saying hey sorry i did that.
Virgos are way to prideful to take ownership of any wrongful doings and admit it was there fault.
They are like Leo's, we dont appologise unless we feel like we have truly done something wrong.
On that note, I have received apologies from Virgos. A lot of the times have been when I have not asked for one. And a part of those times have been because I didn't think an apology was needed or expected probably because I didnt realize he had done anything wrong. Lol But, despite popular belief they are capable of it.
They do not respond well to over dramatic emotions tho lmao
On that note, I have received apologies from Virgos. A lot of the times have been when I have not asked for one. And a part of those times have been because I didn't think an apology was needed or expected probably because I didnt realize he had done anything wrong. Lol But, despite popular belief they are capable of it.
They do not respond well to over dramatic emotions tho lmao
In my experience, no. They do not apologize. Similar to my experience with Pisces, they take every day like they hit a restart button.
It is always the other persons fault so why should they apologize?? LOL the logic is kinda amazing yet completely draining. They don’t understand their own feelings and motivations so why should they understand yours— Very tit for tat. There is no discussing your feelings about anything about them without them lashing out.
It is always the other persons fault so why should they apologize?? LOL the logic is kinda amazing yet completely draining. They don’t understand their own feelings and motivations so why should they understand yours— Very tit for tat. There is no discussing your feelings about anything about them without them lashing out.
Of course we will...but it's only if we feel there is something to apologize or own up to. Just because you think or feel like it's our fault doesn't make it so...we may feel the opposite hence no apologies.
If someone was to text me a list of mistakes they think I made...good luck to that person cause I would pop the fuck off. Like who the fuck do you think you are?! Ngl...I'd probably mull them over tho 😆
If someone was to text me a list of mistakes they think I made...good luck to that person cause I would pop the fuck off. Like who the fuck do you think you are?! Ngl...I'd probably mull them over tho 😆
only reason virgos serial murder so much
is coz we always have to get rid of people
who found out we made these things called 'mistakes'
is coz we always have to get rid of people
who found out we made these things called 'mistakes'
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Of course we will...but it's only if we feel there is something to apologize or own up to. Just because you think or feel like it's our fault doesn't make it so...we may feel the opposite hence no apologies.
If someone was to text me a list of mistakes they think I made...good luck to that person cause I would pop the fuck off. Like who the fuck do you think you are?! Ngl...I'd probably mull them over tho 😆
the things i listed are things hes aware of/acknowledged he'd done wrong before though....yet never an apology for it. its mind boggling. he knows what hes doing, i didnt go off emotionally out of nowhere, i reasonably explained things he had already had an awareness of because i told him to his face prior multiple times and hed always say its giving him something to reflect on and then nothing ever comes of it.
Posted by mars_in_cappy
No, you won't get much of an admission from a virgo. I'm not sure what is wrong with them, but they're generally arrogant.
Good work on being assertive. I'd say the only reason he approached you was his cognitive disonnence on having to face himself after being challenged.
Stick to your guns and keep moving forward.
im sorry what do you mean cognitive dissonance on having to face himself??
Posted by aquatar1Posted by LostinmyMind11
Of course we will...but it's only if we feel there is something to apologize or own up to. Just because you think or feel like it's our fault doesn't make it so...we may feel the opposite hence no apologies.
If someone was to text me a list of mistakes they think I made...good luck to that person cause I would pop the fuck off. Like who the fuck do you think you are?! Ngl...I'd probably mull them over tho 😆
the things i listed are things hes aware of/acknowledged he'd done wrong before though....yet never an apology for it. its mind boggling. he knows what hes doing, i didnt go off emotionally out of nowhere, i reasonably explained things he had already had an awareness of because i told him to his face prior multiple times and hed always say its giving him something to reflect on and then nothing ever comes of it.click to expand
Gotcha... sometimes it takes other longer to reflect on things and come around. He may still yet apologize but who knows when that could be.
My Virgo older brother will rather fall on a sword than apologize. He's so calculating that in his mind it's never his fault but the victim's who felt harm. Lol I love his robot mentality.
Posted by aquatar1
heya, so long story short, i was in a situationship with a virgo male for some time... he treated me poorly/was disrespectful and selfish multiple times etc.
before i ended the situationship i texted him a polite, direct summary of the mistakes he made, and ended it on a good note telling him hes an awesome person but this is how it is and i wont be disrespected like this anymore. everything i said had factual basis. then i removed him off all my socials and that was that.
he didnt respond to my text, but he came to my workplace to try bump into me for some reason, but i avoided him that day. since then he's avoided me right back.
i never got so much as a "sorry" from him. in all the years ive known him hes never said sorry for anything despite being wrong many times. he doesnt own up to things nor does he handle communication well at all, hes very avoidant..... so i guess i should've expected this.... we were friends before our situationship and i guess even that friendship is dead and gone now.... i'm confused i guess
what's with virgos and their inability to communicate/address anything?? is this common or is this just a special case of me meeting an idiot? do i now just move on or wait for this friendship to be salvaged??
So he came to your job to bump into you, then you avoided him? Maybe he trying to say sorry Gemini and Virgo share same quality so Virgo is a earth sign that acts like a air sign. So by you avoiding him you let him know to F off. If I make effort to go see some one in person instead of texting I must really really really care about them. And if they shrug me off then that’s it for me too. Even if that’s not the case.
Also I only stress the ppl I care about because I just care too much and it comes off as me being too direct or mean. But I deeply care if your worth me getting mad at.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by aquatar1
heya, so long story short, i was in a situationship with a virgo male for some time... he treated me poorly/was disrespectful and selfish multiple times etc.
before i ended the situationship i texted him a polite, direct summary of the mistakes he made, and ended it on a good note telling him hes an awesome person but this is how it is and i wont be disrespected like this anymore. everything i said had factual basis. then i removed him off all my socials and that was that.
he didnt respond to my text, but he came to my workplace to try bump into me for some reason, but i avoided him that day. since then he's avoided me right back.
i never got so much as a "sorry" from him. in all the years ive known him hes never said sorry for anything despite being wrong many times. he doesnt own up to things nor does he handle communication well at all, hes very avoidant..... so i guess i should've expected this.... we were friends before our situationship and i guess even that friendship is dead and gone now.... i'm confused i guess
what's with virgos and their inability to communicate/address anything?? is this common or is this just a special case of me meeting an idiot? do i now just move on or wait for this friendship to be salvaged??
So he came to your job to bump into you, then you avoided him? Maybe he trying to say sorry Gemini and Virgo share same quality so Virgo is a earth sign that acts like a air sign. So by you avoiding him you let him know to F off. If I make effort to go see some one in person instead of texting I must really really really care about them. And if they shrug me off then that’s it for me too. Even if that’s not the case.click to expand
we work in the same building different wings, so it wasnt really an inconvenience for him to come find me. he isnt good at texting and usually avoids it/prefers face to face, i dont think it had anything to do with him mending things precisely... but im confused as to why even bother if you wont apologize kinda thing? lol
Posted by aquatar1Posted by SuperSize9Posted by aquatar1
heya, so long story short, i was in a situationship with a virgo male for some time... he treated me poorly/was disrespectful and selfish multiple times etc.
before i ended the situationship i texted him a polite, direct summary of the mistakes he made, and ended it on a good note telling him hes an awesome person but this is how it is and i wont be disrespected like this anymore. everything i said had factual basis. then i removed him off all my socials and that was that.
he didnt respond to my text, but he came to my workplace to try bump into me for some reason, but i avoided him that day. since then he's avoided me right back.
i never got so much as a "sorry" from him. in all the years ive known him hes never said sorry for anything despite being wrong many times. he doesnt own up to things nor does he handle communication well at all, hes very avoidant..... so i guess i should've expected this.... we were friends before our situationship and i guess even that friendship is dead and gone now.... i'm confused i guess
what's with virgos and their inability to communicate/address anything?? is this common or is this just a special case of me meeting an idiot? do i now just move on or wait for this friendship to be salvaged??
So he came to your job to bump into you, then you avoided him? Maybe he trying to say sorry Gemini and Virgo share same quality so Virgo is a earth sign that acts like a air sign. So by you avoiding him you let him know to F off. If I make effort to go see some one in person instead of texting I must really really really care about them. And if they shrug me off then that’s it for me too. Even if that’s not the case.
we work in the same building different wings, so it wasnt really an inconvenience for him to come find me. he isnt good at texting and usually avoids it/prefers face to face, i dont think it had anything to do with him mending things precisely... but im confused as to why even bother if you wont apologize kinda thing? lolclick to expand
your answer is in your question. Why bother, he made effort to bother you. If your aqua I understand your position, it’s over done move on on the outside. But you also want peace and understanding of why. And Conversation about it would have given closure. Aqua is never done in the mind, and the mind is all heart for you guys. Maybe take the first step approach him and just “can we talk”
I know for me(Virgo guy) when I avoid a girl it’s only 2 reasons 1-I hate her, 2-I love her and I don’t want to get hurt.
Love it or hate it, it’s our
“Lux et Veritas”
Hmmm only if we have a good dam reason to explaining the mistake was not really a mistake ...
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
Hmmm only if we have a good dam reason to explaining the mistake was not really a mistake ...
Virguuuuuuy not virgaaaaaal
Yeah... Eventually.. One day... Unfortunately/fortunately by then you'll no longer care. 🤷♀️
yes buts it’s very hard
Posted by mars_in_cappyPosted by aquatar1
im sorry what do you mean cognitive dissonance on having to face himself??
Sorry, cognitive dissonance is a psychological state of conflict, like your mind is in disharmony.
Eg. I behave in a way that i would not normally behave in. There was some fallout (but not major). I go home and have an uneasy feeling all night and maybe for a few days because the mental structures i have built up for myself and the way that i behaved are not consistent with each other. What i did does not make sense to me because it was out of character or i am not 100% comfortable with how i behaved. That is cognitive dissonance.
I was saying that he had cognitive dissonance because he had a certain self-concept (whatever that is) and you challenged it by being honest and assertive with him. He is not used to this.. The dissonance occurred because the idea he has of himself conflicted with how somebody else has perceived him, so in his own mind, he is now wondering "who am i?".
So, cognitive dissonance is really an interrupted in thought processes. I was suggesting that he contacted you to reassure himself that he is "okay" and to therefore remove his cognitive dissonance! Sorry it was so complicated.
Basically, he is seeking self-validation by contacting you, it doesn't mean he is remorseful or empathetic in any way.click to expand
oooh that makes sense. thank you! ❤️
Posted by MyuMe84Posted by Phantum
I'm not sure I would respond to a polite, direct summary of my faults either. Depends on the context.
If someone sent me a message detailing everything I did wrong I wouldn't reply.click to expand
how come? if you know you hurt someone with your behavior wouldnt you apologize??
Posted by Skeleton
Their ego stuck up in their asses as they're to pride of what they did wrong.
Especially if they have leo placements.
They do apologize even those with leo stellium. Proven.
But it took him a week of both of us not speaking. I didnt move an inch after i made a summary just like this aqua.. but i guess a more dramatic version with images to illustrate what i thought he did to me. Im a watery libra after all 👻😂 I can express like a telenovela cast
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