do you believe in soulmates?

i feel like not a lot of people believe in these kind of things, ive an "ex" who is a virgo and truly believe he might be my soulmate, ive been with a lot of men, but the way he made me feel and the chemistry we had was unbelievable and never managed to get it with anyone else. After knowing him for like 5 years he still makes me feel some type of way, always making me blush or start shaking when i see him. I cant seem to forget him and no matter how many times i fall in love hes always in the back of my mind. I have come to the conclusion that maybe we are actual soulmates but had a rough time and just need to find our way back together. What are your thoughts on it?

i feel like not a lot of people believe in these kind of things, ive an "ex" who is a virgo and truly believe he might be my soulmate, ive been with a lot of men, but the way he made me feel and the chemistry we had was unbelievable and never managed to get it with anyone else. After knowing him for like 5 years he still makes me feel some type of way, always making me blush or start shaking when i see him. I cant seem to forget him and no matter how many times i fall in love hes always in the back of my mind. I have come to the conclusion that maybe we are actual soulmates but had a rough time and just need to find our way back together. What are your thoughts on it?

i feel like not a lot of people believe in these kind of things, ive an "ex" who is a virgo and truly believe he might be my soulmate, ive been with a lot of men, but the way he made me feel and the chemistry we had was unbelievable and never managed to get it with anyone else. After knowing him for like 5 years he still makes me feel some type of way, always making me blush or start shaking when i see him. I cant seem to forget him and no matter how many times i fall in love hes always in the back of my mind. I have come to the conclusion that maybe we are actual soulmates but had a rough time and just need to find our way back together. What are your thoughts on it?

Posted by Antiochus

I don't get it.

what dont you get?

Posted by -Pisco-

I believe in swolemates. That’s a thing, right?

what the hell is a swolemate lol

Posted by nakedgirlavalanche

yes and no because soulmates are forever or temporary

what do you mean by that?

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

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yes and no because soulmates are forever or temporary

what do you mean by that?

just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn't mean that it'll be forever

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but isnt that supposed to be the purpose of a soulmate? to end up with that person? or do you think you can have more than one soulmate?

i cant imagine knowing that u have one and just go on with your life without that person but at the same time knowing that you are soulmates, know what i mean?

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Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

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Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

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you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

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depressing isnt it? even if you try not to think about them somehow everything that happens in your life reminds you of them and then u're left alone crying, thinking about memories u once made and wishing u could go back in time an relive them. at least thats how i feel lol

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

depressing isnt it? even if you try not to think about them somehow everything that happens in your life reminds you of them and then u're left alone crying, thinking about memories u once made and wishing u could go back in time an relive them. at least thats how i feel lol

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I use to feel very similar. But I can’t change the past. I can only do better in the future.

I always believed there are different types of soulmates, platonic, karmic, romantic and twin flames.

Chemistry has nothing to do with the soul, and everything to do with biology.

You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel.

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

what did you do

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we were in love and i left him for an ex of mine. its a really long story. i dont blame him, i know he doesnt trust me now, he doesnt wanna fall in love with me because hes afraid that i'll do the same thing again. its been years and he cant forget it, even tho we always seem to come back to each other, and we cannot deny the mind blowing chemistry that we have he cant get over the fact that i left him for someone else, and now it doesnt matter how many times i try to prove that i have changed and that im all about him and just him he doesnt believe me. i truly believe we are soulmates but i fucked up and now i just have to live with it

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Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

depressing isnt it? even if you try not to think about them somehow everything that happens in your life reminds you of them and then u're left alone crying, thinking about memories u once made and wishing u could go back in time an relive them. at least thats how i feel lol

I use to feel very similar. But I can’t change the past. I can only do better in the future.

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so i guess u accepted the fact that u wont get back together and try to live ur life that way?

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

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I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

depressing isnt it? even if you try not to think about them somehow everything that happens in your life reminds you of them and then u're left alone crying, thinking about memories u once made and wishing u could go back in time an relive them. at least thats how i feel lol

I use to feel very similar. But I can’t change the past. I can only do better in the future.

so i guess u accepted the fact that u wont get back together and try to live ur life that way?

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Pretty much but never say never

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

that's not water, that's just drama.

maybe its your leo moon

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I have a cancer rising too

Than a Venus in aqua

So it all evens its self out in a way

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Posted by Commodus

Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

what did you do

we were in love and i left him for an ex of mine. its a really long story. i dont blame him, i know he doesnt trust me now, he doesnt wanna fall in love with me because hes afraid that i'll do the same thing again. its been years and he cant forget it, even tho we always seem to come back to each other, and we cannot deny the mind blowing chemistry that we have he cant get over the fact that i left him for someone else, and now it doesnt matter how many times i try to prove that i have changed and that im all about him and just him he doesnt believe me. i truly believe we are soulmates but i fucked up and now i just have to live with it

thats too bad

but it might have been so devestating for him

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i believe it really was. its was for me too and i've been living with that regret since it happened which was almost two years ago. biggest mistake of my life. i think about him everyday, karma really is a baitch ..

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

that's not water, that's just drama.

maybe its your leo moon

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lmao ive a leo moon too

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Posted by Sag898

Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

that's not water, that's just drama.

maybe its your leo moon

lmao ive a leo moon too

Whats the virgos moon?

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libra

I do think it’s weird that you consider him your soulmate if you were willing to leave him for someone else tbh.

But yeah my Virgo believes I’m his soulmate, and vice versa.

Yes I do. For me it means a deeper connection than you cannot explain. And it’s not just one person.

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He’s a Virgo whatever so you better be ready to explain it logically not emotionally. Like this needed to happen so I could realize what I felt. Like even though there was nothing wrong with the relationship you were always in my mind and it’s been you. So give him something to think about. Appealing to his emotions I’m sorry please forgive me doesn’t do much

so you're telling me more actions less talking and more proving that i really am sorry, the thing is i have tho, i always try to like reconnect with him i know things would be better it we would actually MEET and sparks would fly but he never wanted to he has a different life style and he always prefered to be with his friends than with me and i of course was very persistent which drove him away as it seems virgo dont do well with pressure but i was desperate and yeah idk i reallt wanted to make things right and meet him and fight but he wouldnt let me

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

what did you do

we were in love and i left him for an ex of mine. its a really long story. i dont blame him, i know he doesnt trust me now, he doesnt wanna fall in love with me because hes afraid that i'll do the same thing again. its been years and he cant forget it, even tho we always seem to come back to each other, and we cannot deny the mind blowing chemistry that we have he cant get over the fact that i left him for someone else, and now it doesnt matter how many times i try to prove that i have changed and that im all about him and just him he doesnt believe me. i truly believe we are soulmates but i fucked up and now i just have to live with it

thats too bad

but it might have been so devestating for him

i believe it really was. its was for me too and i've been living with that regret since it happened which was almost two years ago. biggest mistake of my life. i think about him everyday, karma really is a baitch ..

tell him this, what's his moon sign?

Leo moons always think the grass is greener.

for me the GRASS is NEVER GREEN

maybe that's the problem

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i have. he always says i say something but i show something else, which i dont agree with tho because im literally dying and desperate tying to get him back and i know he does want me back i know he has feelings for me he hes just afraid ill do the same thing i did two years ago

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Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

that's not water, that's just drama.

maybe its your leo moon

lmao ive a leo moon too

Whats the virgos moon?

libra

oh lol then he's your little b!TCH

girl go take him

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he really was my lil biatch for a long time lol not anymore

Posted by Impulsv

How long did it take you to figure out you made a mistake. If life was grand would you even think about it. Or is it because life didn’t turn out how you expected it

That is what would be going through my mind that only because things didn’t work out for you not because you truly wanted me all along

life did expect to turn out how i wanted it to be and things have been great, the thing is no matter how hard i try i cant get him out my head, i have fallen in love with someone else after him but he was just in the back of my mind everytime, he has been since the day i met him i ended breaking up with that new person because i felt like i was cheating, no matter how much time its been hes always present. in my head i know and i understand that i fxcked up and theres nothing i can do about it. i have apolagised and i have fought for him, but i cant force him into accepting me back, if he cant get over it i need to respect that, but my heart cannot get over the fact of how we click and how strong out chemistry is. i have never felt this way about anyone. we havent talked in four months now and yet i think about him every single day.

Posted by Black-Mamba

crossing my fingers i meet a virgo sun libra moon man

i need someone i can demand things too

if u happen to find someone like my virgo i wish you luck, he was my lil biatch but he was young and naive back then. i guess i took him for granted. now its hard they are too focused on friendships and dont care about being single or not. they dont mind being single for like forever lmao its hard to convince them that you can be in a relationship with someone and still have a lot of fun and being in one doesnt meet you cant be with friends anymore.

Posted by Impulsv

He can’t make you pay forever

Why you have to forgive yourself so you don’t give off the desperate vibe which is a turn off

Speak ur truth know your audience n tell him if he can’t get past this you’ll understand n move on

Then move on 😢 as best you can

You will.

i guess the last time we talked i really did come off desperate i kept replying so fast to his texts and usually i play hard to get i guess thats a scorpio characteristic bc ive always been like that and i reallt think thats what attracted him the most and now i guess i made him less interested by being the opposite. i couldnt help myself tho. all i kept thinking was 'i need to prove him that im really sorry and that im willing to fight a lot to get him back' i know i need to get over him its just so difficult i feel like we could really work and we would make each other very happy if he would let me so

Posted by Impulsv

Why don’t you sit down wityour thoughts and write down why you did what you did what is change what are you going to do differently make sure it’s From your heart. Don’t send it

its been 5 years. u think me as a sensitive and dramatic biatch hasnt done that yet? i have lmao it doesnt work my friends are dond with my bullshxt bc all i keep talking about is how much i miss him and how much i wish i could go back in time and make things differently bur whatever

so we havent talked in four months and tomorrow is his birthday i was thinking about wishing him a happt birthday, should i or not? is that gonna change anything? im so confused, i want him to know that i still think of him and that i know when his birthday is, but i also dont wanna get all my hopes up and get more heartbroken than i already am. we have wished each other a happy birthday every single year even when we didnt have any contact, kind of like 'hey ik we dont talk but i still remember ur birthday' but things might be different now he might have a completely different mindset than me and i might be creatint stories and fairy tales in my head while hes like done with my shxt yk? idk man

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Libra moons are hella passive aggressive tho, has he slept with your best friend yet?

he's actually a calm person. kind of flipps out when he doesnt know the full story of something or when he asks me questions and i act all mysterious and dont tell him things but even if hes mad or something like that he never shows it. i dont see him as an aggressive person, hes really sweet. just really curious and always wants to know everything besides that hes the definition of cute

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

what did you do

we were in love and i left him for an ex of mine. its a really long story. i dont blame him, i know he doesnt trust me now, he doesnt wanna fall in love with me because hes afraid that i'll do the same thing again. its been years and he cant forget it, even tho we always seem to come back to each other, and we cannot deny the mind blowing chemistry that we have he cant get over the fact that i left him for someone else, and now it doesnt matter how many times i try to prove that i have changed and that im all about him and just him he doesnt believe me. i truly believe we are soulmates but i fucked up and now i just have to live with it

thats too bad

but it might have been so devestating for him

i believe it really was. its was for me too and i've been living with that regret since it happened which was almost two years ago. biggest mistake of my life. i think about him everyday, karma really is a baitch ..

At the time you did know you felt that way about him

Why did you chose ex over him

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its a really long story believe me, basically me and virgo were really starting to fall in love after knowing each other for three years and being too shy to do something about it we decided to finally put our stubborness aside and try to be together everything felt like destiny we had perfect chemistry u could really look at us and see how much in love we were for one another. i was living in a romantic movie seriously sorry for being cheesy. Before i tried it with the virgo i had been in a relationship with a scorpio for almost a year, when scorpio ex found out i was with virgo he texted me some sad shit. i felt SO BAD i had to go back to him. i really hurt myself and i hurt my dear virgo. i couldnt stand knowing that i was the happiest i had ever been while someone was sufferint because of me, i didnt think that was fair. so i dropped everything and sacrificed my own happiness to be with the scorpio. after a few months i realized i had done a huge mistake i came back for virgo but he was already done, he tried to understand when i explained my situation and how i felt at that time but he didnt think it wad logical, he said 'i cant understand how you could leave someone who made you happy to be with someone who made you unhappy' which is true. i dont expect anyone to understand, i just felt too bad about it and i sacrificed my own happiness because of someone i didnt even have feelings for and i didnt realize i was hurting someone else in the process. its the biggest mistake of my life. and after two years i might think that he was mt actual soulmate, because i was with other people and no one ever made me feel the way he did, and let me tell you we werent together for very ling and he made me feel things my scorpio ex never managed to do in almosf a year.

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Are the feelings youre experiencing mutual?

i believe i hurt him in the past and he cant get over it. but i know he feels the same, he has told me multiple times that he cant get me out of his head no matter how much time passes and somehow we always come back together but then we separate ways once again because he gets reminded of what i did to him

Ah, so he's being a little bitch ass and thats why youre not together. Typical of virgos. Sorry.

you are right tho, everytime we start talking i apologise for what i did and i try so hard every damn time but then he just disappears once again just to come back months later to tell me 'idk why i just cant get you out of my head' its so complicated, i feel like this just isnt the right time for us and we need like years or something to get more mature and maybe then things would work. i cant go back in time and undo what i did, i wish i could and he doesnt seem to get it

what did you do

we were in love and i left him for an ex of mine. its a really long story. i dont blame him, i know he doesnt trust me now, he doesnt wanna fall in love with me because hes afraid that i'll do the same thing again. its been years and he cant forget it, even tho we always seem to come back to each other, and we cannot deny the mind blowing chemistry that we have he cant get over the fact that i left him for someone else, and now it doesnt matter how many times i try to prove that i have changed and that im all about him and just him he doesnt believe me. i truly believe we are soulmates but i fucked up and now i just have to live with it

thats too bad

but it might have been so devestating for him

i believe it really was. its was for me too and i've been living with that regret since it happened which was almost two years ago. biggest mistake of my life. i think about him everyday, karma really is a baitch ..

At the time you did know you felt that way about him

Why did you chose ex over him

its a really long story believe me, basically me and virgo were really starting to fall in love after knowing each other for three years and being too shy to do something about it we decided to finally put our stubborness aside and try to be together everything felt like destiny we had perfect chemistry u could really look at us and see how much in love we were for one another. i was living in a romantic movie seriously sorry for being cheesy. Before i tried it with the virgo i had been in a relationship with a scorpio for almost a year, when scorpio ex found out i was with virgo he texted me some sad shit. i felt SO BAD i had to go back to him. i really hurt myself and i hurt my dear virgo. i couldnt stand knowing that i was the happiest i had ever been while someone was sufferint because of me, i didnt think that was fair. so i dropped everything and sacrificed my own happiness to be with the scorpio. after a few months i realized i had done a huge mistake i came back for virgo but he was already done, he tried to understand when i explained my situation and how i felt at that time but he didnt think it wad logical, he said 'i cant understand how you could leave someone who made you happy to be with someone who made you unhappy' which is true. i dont expect anyone to understand, i just felt too bad about it and i sacrificed my own happiness because of someone i didnt even have feelings for and i didnt realize i was hurting someone else in the process. its the biggest mistake of my life. and after two years i might think that he was mt actual soulmate, because i was with other people and no one ever made me feel the way he did, and let me tell you we werent together for very ling and he made me feel things my scorpio ex never managed to do in almosf a year.

The core isssue is you felt you weren’t deserving of that happiness . Virgo might understand that

Otherwise why sacrifice yourself for another

Yet! A question he might have was why didn’t you care about hurting him yet exbf you did?

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i guess the answer for that is i had been with scorpio for almost a year, we had been throught so much together and he had helped me go throught one of the toughest times of my life. i felt like i owned it to scorpio, i couldnt stand the thought of him suffering because j was happy with someone else and me not giving a damn about it yk?

i have tried to talk to virgo and tried to explain, but i came off too desperate and wayyyyy too clingy, i felt too bad and i wanted to make things go back to how they were but i guess thats impossible, everyone talks about how scorpios hold grudges bt i guess virgos do too

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I don't get it.

what dont you get?

The concept as a whole.

Always seemed to be rather unfair to me.

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It’s probably you’ve never met one yet. Those who haven’t thinking it’s a madeup bullshit. Until you do.

Imagine knowing a person for a longest time, seeing them almost every day and not having one disagreement, being totally in tune...

feeling like there is nothing you rather do then be in their presence...

And when you are - you are feeling happy and at peace with yourself.

Imagine?

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yes and no because soulmates are forever or temporary

what do you mean by that?

just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn't mean that it'll be forever

but isnt that supposed to be the purpose of a soulmate? to end up with that person? or do you think you can have more than one soulmate?

i cant imagine knowing that u have one and just go on with your life without that person but at the same time knowing that you are soulmates, know what i mean?

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You can have your friend being soulmate. Person you adore and feeling whole in their presence.

And no. You don’t always end up with them. If you are - you are blessed.

Mostly you don’t but you dream about it and they always are on the back of your mind no matter whom are you with and where you are.

I am feeling it’s like description of a Heaven. Love is so pure and not all all demanding...just a joy.

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yes and no because soulmates are forever or temporary

what do you mean by that?

just because someone is your soulmate, it doesn't mean that it'll be forever

but isnt that supposed to be the purpose of a soulmate? to end up with that person? or do you think you can have more than one soulmate?

i cant imagine knowing that u have one and just go on with your life without that person but at the same time knowing that you are soulmates, know what i mean?

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I know exactly what you mean.

What is the point of soulmates, if you can't be with that one special person!

You're thinking too negatively about his reaction. If anything, he may understand to some extent. Just contact him like you said you would...or did and be patient.

It's hard finding chemistry though and filling that void of having a soul connection, so I feel your pain..

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You're thinking too negatively about his reaction. If anything, he may understand to some extent. Just contact him like you said you would...or did and be patient.

It's hard finding chemistry though and filling that void of having a soul connection, so I feel your pain..

i know it really is, i feel like thats why i cant get over him, bc no one has ever made me feel the way he did.

anyway, we usually stop talking and then we have no contact for months almost a year, and then we come back, we give an update on life, he wants to know if im dating someone or not, if i have been with someone or not, im not really sure if he just wants to know if i managed to move on with my life without him or wth is going on. He has been with one woman in the past 3 years and it didnt last long, everyone just keeps telling me about how hes waiting for me, and a few years back i thought that too, but im not so certain now.

Cant forget that everything happened 2 years ago, a lot can change and happen in 2 years, im afraid im living this fairy tale in my head and in reality maybe we dont even match anymore because we changed too much and have completely different life style s know what i mean?

im kind of done with that routine, we dont really settle, we just start talking, give an update and then get lost again, months later everything happens the same, and its been like that since i did what i did. i dont want it to be that way, because when we get to the point where we start talking i get all hyped and emotional and then weeks after we go back to not talking and then im the heartbroken one. Its devastating.

i want us to put our problems aside and try hard one last time but i guess he maybe thinks differently, as i said he doestn really care about relationships, hes all about his friends and friendships, all the time out and about, chilling and hes never home, hes not one to go after girls or smth. I remember when we talked the last time i talked to him about how long he takes to reply to my texts he literally said "2 years ago id be in bed chilling next to my phone waiting for a reply from u so that i could reply as fast as i could, i never went out because i wanted to talk to u as much as possible, but now i realize that its not like that anymore, i like being with my friends and i hate when they're on their phones replying to their girlfriends every single minute instead of just enjoying the moments with us and im not going to be one of those people." so theres that

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Idk, probably good for him since you left him for someone else and considered him your little biatch

my friends used to tell me that, "you treat him like a dog, u leave and come back because you know he'll be waiting for you no matter what, some day he's going to have enough of it" i guess he has. now that i changed and i really wanted to try, he might be done with me

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Yes I do. I feel the same way about my Ex Leo. I'm not sure they are the ones you end up with though. Is that the purpose? I'm still trying to figure this one out.

is it not painful? i mean just by thinking that you might be soulmates it means you really love that person otherwise you wouldnt think about them for such a long period of time or regretting decisions u made in the past that made you not have any contact in the present right? its weird lol

Well, they are still in my life almost every single day now lol....

So it's a bit different for me. We have had our periods of not speaking and yes I felt like I was going to die than.

Which is so silly and dramatic to say but it's how I felt at the time. I'd pine for them when I was with others, I'd see things that would reminded me of them and break down crying, write them love poems that I never sent and

I'd pretend my pillow was even them lol the whole 9 yards right?

I try now to look at it with a more appropriate detached view.

Since I don't know what the outcome will be.

Live in the moment.

wOW LOL

YOU MUST HAVE WATER IN YOUR CHART

I have a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

that's not water, that's just drama.

maybe its your leo moon

lmao ive a leo moon too

Whats the virgos moon?

libra

I think I should give up on a leo moon lol. I have cancer moon.

i like cancer moons

Enough to date them though? What do you like about them?

oh god, idk, i just said that to make you feel better

Lmao I see... 😔🔫

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lmaooooooooo

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You're thinking too negatively about his reaction. If anything, he may understand to some extent. Just contact him like you said you would...or did and be patient.

It's hard finding chemistry though and filling that void of having a soul connection, so I feel your pain..

i know it really is, i feel like thats why i cant get over him, bc no one has ever made me feel the way he did.

anyway, we usually stop talking and then we have no contact for months almost a year, and then we come back, we give an update on life, he wants to know if im dating someone or not, if i have been with someone or not, im not really sure if he just wants to know if i managed to move on with my life without him or wth is going on. He has been with one woman in the past 3 years and it didnt last long, everyone just keeps telling me about how hes waiting for me, and a few years back i thought that too, but im not so certain now.

Cant forget that everything happened 2 years ago, a lot can change and happen in 2 years, im afraid im living this fairy tale in my head and in reality maybe we dont even match anymore because we changed too much and have completely different life style s know what i mean?

im kind of done with that routine, we dont really settle, we just start talking, give an update and then get lost again, months later everything happens the same, and its been like that since i did what i did. i dont want it to be that way, because when we get to the point where we start talking i get all hyped and emotional and then weeks after we go back to not talking and then im the heartbroken one. Its devastating.

i want us to put our problems aside and try hard one last time but i guess he maybe thinks differently, as i said he doestn really care about relationships, hes all about his friends and friendships, all the time out and about, chilling and hes never home, hes not one to go after girls or smth. I remember when we talked the last time i talked to him about how long he takes to reply to my texts he literally said "2 years ago id be in bed chilling next to my phone waiting for a reply from u so that i could reply as fast as i could, i never went out because i wanted to talk to u as much as possible, but now i realize that its not like that anymore, i like being with my friends and i hate when they're on their phones replying to their girlfriends every single minute instead of just enjoying the moments with us and im not going to be one of those people." so theres that

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Since so much time has passed he probably has changed and If he really is waiting for you, then you have nothing to worry about as far as y'all making another attempt at falling in love. He could like the fact that you really want to settle because otherwise what's the point? He may want to go deeper than you. You may be overwhelmed by it. Are you sure you're ready to be in a real relationship as you say you are? Do you know what that is?

Him changing could be for the benefit of the relationship, no? Maybe you could put him in a mental place as to where he feels comfortable naturally being in your mixure again. Maybe you would be more of an fruit or vegatable than just a vitamin supplement. Two intertwined spirits can't change that much without having that same middleground in which brought them together in the first place. And for all you know, the change may be the vitamin supplement to the fruit and vegitation already present which would make the relationship even stronger for the long haul. Maybe you are the bullets to his semi-automatic rifle. It could be temporary changes to get somewhere you may already be, or not. Either way, when there is love, there is always a path. Putting action behind it almost guarantees a solution.

I doubt if he loved you THAT much that he would not go out at all just to talk to you or be next to you, that it would be stopped up in the sink and if it is, a half of bottle of draino MAX should unclog it. At least enough until y'all can afford to get the pipes professionally cleared. I wouldn't dwell on the friends part so much. That changed when y'all were breaking up if I'm reading correctly. He put you first, but then decided that was a mistake when you put him second. Time heals wounds, but so does communication, effort, and forgiveness. Being in a relationship is hard work, but having chemistry and factually loving the other, makes it worthwhile and fun for the both.

"People thing a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mate's purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little but, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life..."

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"People thing a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mate's purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little but, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life..."

think* lol

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You're thinking too negatively about his reaction. If anything, he may understand to some extent. Just contact him like you said you would...or did and be patient.

It's hard finding chemistry though and filling that void of having a soul connection, so I feel your pain..

i know it really is, i feel like thats why i cant get over him, bc no one has ever made me feel the way he did.

anyway, we usually stop talking and then we have no contact for months almost a year, and then we come back, we give an update on life, he wants to know if im dating someone or not, if i have been with someone or not, im not really sure if he just wants to know if i managed to move on with my life without him or wth is going on. He has been with one woman in the past 3 years and it didnt last long, everyone just keeps telling me about how hes waiting for me, and a few years back i thought that too, but im not so certain now.

Cant forget that everything happened 2 years ago, a lot can change and happen in 2 years, im afraid im living this fairy tale in my head and in reality maybe we dont even match anymore because we changed too much and have completely different life style s know what i mean?

im kind of done with that routine, we dont really settle, we just start talking, give an update and then get lost again, months later everything happens the same, and its been like that since i did what i did. i dont want it to be that way, because when we get to the point where we start talking i get all hyped and emotional and then weeks after we go back to not talking and then im the heartbroken one. Its devastating.

i want us to put our problems aside and try hard one last time but i guess he maybe thinks differently, as i said he doestn really care about relationships, hes all about his friends and friendships, all the time out and about, chilling and hes never home, hes not one to go after girls or smth. I remember when we talked the last time i talked to him about how long he takes to reply to my texts he literally said "2 years ago id be in bed chilling next to my phone waiting for a reply from u so that i could reply as fast as i could, i never went out because i wanted to talk to u as much as possible, but now i realize that its not like that anymore, i like being with my friends and i hate when they're on their phones replying to their girlfriends every single minute instead of just enjoying the moments with us and im not going to be one of those people." so theres that

Since so much time has passed he probably has changed and If he really is waiting for you, then you have nothing to worry about as far as y'all making another attempt at falling in love. He could like the fact that you really want to settle because otherwise what's the point? He may want to go deeper than you. You may be overwhelmed by it. Are you sure you're ready to be in a real relationship as you say you are? Do you know what that is?

Him changing could be for the benefit of the relationship, no? Maybe you could put him in a mental place as to where he feels comfortable naturally being in your mixure again. Maybe you would be more of an fruit or vegatable than just a vitamin supplement. Two intertwined spirits can't change that much without having that same middleground in which brought them together in the first place. And for all you know, the change may be the vitamin supplement to the fruit and vegitation already present which would make the relationship even stronger for the long haul. Maybe you are the bullets to his semi-automatic rifle. It could be temporary changes to get somewhere you may already be, or not. Either way, when there is love, there is always a path. Putting action behind it almost guarantees a solution.

I doubt if he loved you THAT much that he would not go out at all just to talk to you or be next to you, that it would be stopped up in the sink and if it is, a half of bottle of draino MAX should unclog it. At least enough until y'all can afford to get the pipes professionally cleared. I wouldn't dwell on the friends part so much. That changed when y'all were breaking up if I'm reading correctly. He put you first, but then decided that was a mistake when you put him second. Time heals wounds, but so does communication, effort, and forgiveness. Being in a relationship is hard work, but having chemistry and factually loving the other, makes it worthwhile and fun for the both.

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so if i understood what you said, you think that maybe him changing might be something good for us?

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You're thinking too negatively about his reaction. If anything, he may understand to some extent. Just contact him like you said you would...or did and be patient.

It's hard finding chemistry though and filling that void of having a soul connection, so I feel your pain..

i know it really is, i feel like thats why i cant get over him, bc no one has ever made me feel the way he did.

anyway, we usually stop talking and then we have no contact for months almost a year, and then we come back, we give an update on life, he wants to know if im dating someone or not, if i have been with someone or not, im not really sure if he just wants to know if i managed to move on with my life without him or wth is going on. He has been with one woman in the past 3 years and it didnt last long, everyone just keeps telling me about how hes waiting for me, and a few years back i thought that too, but im not so certain now.

Cant forget that everything happened 2 years ago, a lot can change and happen in 2 years, im afraid im living this fairy tale in my head and in reality maybe we dont even match anymore because we changed too much and have completely different life style s know what i mean?

im kind of done with that routine, we dont really settle, we just start talking, give an update and then get lost again, months later everything happens the same, and its been like that since i did what i did. i dont want it to be that way, because when we get to the point where we start talking i get all hyped and emotional and then weeks after we go back to not talking and then im the heartbroken one. Its devastating.

i want us to put our problems aside and try hard one last time but i guess he maybe thinks differently, as i said he doestn really care about relationships, hes all about his friends and friendships, all the time out and about, chilling and hes never home, hes not one to go after girls or smth. I remember when we talked the last time i talked to him about how long he takes to reply to my texts he literally said "2 years ago id be in bed chilling next to my phone waiting for a reply from u so that i could reply as fast as i could, i never went out because i wanted to talk to u as much as possible, but now i realize that its not like that anymore, i like being with my friends and i hate when they're on their phones replying to their girlfriends every single minute instead of just enjoying the moments with us and im not going to be one of those people." so theres that

Since so much time has passed he probably has changed and If he really is waiting for you, then you have nothing to worry about as far as y'all making another attempt at falling in love. He could like the fact that you really want to settle because otherwise what's the point? He may want to go deeper than you. You may be overwhelmed by it. Are you sure you're ready to be in a real relationship as you say you are? Do you know what that is?

Him changing could be for the benefit of the relationship, no? Maybe you could put him in a mental place as to where he feels comfortable naturally being in your mixure again. Maybe you would be more of an fruit or vegatable than just a vitamin supplement. Two intertwined spirits can't change that much without having that same middleground in which brought them together in the first place. And for all you know, the change may be the vitamin supplement to the fruit and vegitation already present which would make the relationship even stronger for the long haul. Maybe you are the bullets to his semi-automatic rifle. It could be temporary changes to get somewhere you may already be, or not. Either way, when there is love, there is always a path. Putting action behind it almost guarantees a solution.

I doubt if he loved you THAT much that he would not go out at all just to talk to you or be next to you, that it would be stopped up in the sink and if it is, a half of bottle of draino MAX should unclog it. At least enough until y'all can afford to get the pipes professionally cleared. I wouldn't dwell on the friends part so much. That changed when y'all were breaking up if I'm reading correctly. He put you first, but then decided that was a mistake when you put him second. Time heals wounds, but so does communication, effort, and forgiveness. Being in a relationship is hard work, but having chemistry and factually loving the other, makes it worthwhile and fun for the both.

so if i understood what you said, you think that maybe him changing might be something good for us?

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Correct.