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Virgo criticism?
Understanding Virgo Criticism and Control Traits
Virgos are often critical and detail-oriented because they care, but excessive criticism can feel controlling. This behavior may stem from their desire for perfection and to help others improve. Open communication can help address these issues and set healthy boundaries in relationships.
His Gemini Mars/Venus makes him brush off my comments with quips and one-liners as well. I just can't get through.
God it's annoying
I wonder what it's like to be perfect?
Lol
😇😇😇
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a shit about you.
You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Mine never criticizes me.. he's a virgo sun libra moon scorpio Mars.. I always thought this was a myth that virgos are like that. Or maybe it's because of his moon.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
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I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Posted by -sierra
geez it's just ramen noodles
he's got a stick up his bummaybe he's upset about something and channeling it on noodles..
☝🏽 Umm excuse me but
My ramen noodles have to be cooked a particular way if I expect me to eat them
1. Don’t even try cooking in the microwave🤢
2. Do let the water boil BEFORE adding the noodles
3. Let sit for 5 secs then shake with a fork to break up...DO NOT stir them.
4. Let them cook for exactly 3 minute then quickly remove *important*
If they are over or under cooked you just wasted your time🤷🏽♀️ I’m just tryna help bae out🙂
Gemini Venus must be interesting on a Virgo..
Since it's impossible.
Posted by Damnata
Gemini Venus must be interesting on a Virgo..Since it's impossible.
You got me. He's actually a Taurus with Virgo rising. 😉
But still! that rigid combo is enough to drive a clumsy Aries mooner crazy. Sorry, but he exudes Virgo energy. I never seen a Taurus that OCD. They are the exact opposit I told him it was CDO, he's like "whatever" and shrugs. Then yells at me if something drops on the floor. Is this his castle or his hospital? It was in his kitchen so I don't blame him for that. But it's not like I'm 5. Pick your battles Virgo/Taurus/whomever!
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
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Lol you know what.. you are right 😅 he knows how to talk to me.
Last sunday I was telling him not to sugar coat anything and to tell me if he thinks I've gotten lazy lol all he said was "you already know what you need to do" 🤔 I guess that counts? 😅
I ❤ you guys
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
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Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
Aren’t you the same cancer chick who gave advice to that other Virgo guy & it backfired?
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lol probably but which one?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
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Usually🤷🏽♀️
But they take it well🤣🤣🤣
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
Aren’t you the same cancer chick who gave advice to that other Virgo guy & it backfired?
lol probably but which one?
I don’t know something about buying flowers or something. Then he came back even more depressed lol Never trust a cancer to give relationship advice on dating a cancer. You sabotaged that man
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oooooh 😑😅 I remember..not fair
I tried and my heart was in a good place but she was a lost cause anyways lol.
Virgos needs a mature crab and she was still in her player faze 😅 I give good advice I swear
Posted by Yodi
Mine never criticizes me.. he's a virgo sun libra moon scorpio Mars.. I always thought this was a myth that virgos are like that. Or maybe it's because of his moon.His libra moon is saving his ass
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Yep my mans wants to keep the peace no matter what.
Posted by RollergirlOrc
I've unfortunately been on the end Virgo's criticism and control freak-ness. Does it ever end? He justifies by saying "Because I care!" But when you're policed around the kitchen because he doesn't want you "messing up", that shits gone too far. Way too far. I don't need adult supervision! For ex, I was "lectured" or helicopter boyfriended on how to make ramen noodles for goodness sake. Will this ever end? Or do I have to pretend that I'm 5 and listen to lecture each time he feels the need to drive his point to the ground. Yeesh.
That sounds annoying af.
Next time he starts following you around the kitchen hand him the pot and tell him to show you. “Babe, I’m a visual person. Pls show me”
3 months later he will realize he’s been doing all the cooking 😂
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
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You are right. Delivery is 100% more important than the actual message.
Posted by Yodi
Mine never criticizes me.. he's a virgo sun libra moon scorpio Mars.. I always thought this was a myth that virgos are like that. Or maybe it's because of his moon.His libra moon is saving his ass
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Right! 😂😂 😂😂 The libra moon definitely soothes the sun.. watch me switch up and start hating virgos if I ever date another one with a different moon.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
Aren’t you the same cancer chick who gave advice to that other Virgo guy & it backfired?
lol probably but which one?
I don’t know something about buying flowers or something. Then he came back even more depressed lol Never trust a cancer to give relationship advice on dating a cancer. You sabotaged that man
oooooh 😑😅 I remember..not fair
I tried and my heart was in a good place but she was a lost cause anyways lol.
Virgos needs a mature crab and she was still in her player faze 😅 I give good advice I swearThere’s only one good place for a mature crab in a Virgos life
That place is here:
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Lol.. Well you guys do like to eat 😌 so just do us a favor and don't use your teeth..
Posted by Yodi
Mine never criticizes me.. he's a virgo sun libra moon scorpio Mars.. I always thought this was a myth that virgos are like that. Or maybe it's because of his moon.His libra moon is saving his ass
Yep my mans wants to keep the peace no matter what.
They just want peace. Stress is annoying af
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It is. But when you go to any lengths to achieve peace, it's a bad thing.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
A Virgo that doesn't try to show/teach you something, anything, is a Virgo that doesn't give a butter about you.You should see the list my Virgin made for me - things that I need to work on/change. An actual list.
Or that too 😅😅
I find cancer ppl aren’t as sensitive about being told how to do things if told in a certain way. So lucky u might not have noticed all the things he’s “improved” about you🙂
Cancers don’t listen to us. They just stare really attentive & act like they are
Lol wrong again Mr. Virgo.. we do not mind self improvement because 9 out of 10 we are already aware of what we need to improve on. It's all about how you say it.
Learn us then you'll know how to keep us..
You are right. Delivery is 100% more important than the actual message.
What could a Pisces possibly know about delivery? Stay in your lane, fishface.
Ouch.
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😅
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I've unfortunately been on the end Virgo's criticism and control freak-ness. Does it ever end? He justifies by saying "Because I care!" But when you're policed around the kitchen because he doesn't want you "messing up", that shits gone too far. Way too far. I don't need adult supervision! For ex, I was "lectured" or helicopter boyfriended on how to make ramen noodles for goodness sake. Will this ever end? Or do I have to pretend that I'm 5 and listen to lecture each time he feels the need to drive his point to the ground. Yeesh.