Had a Gay Dream and it’s bothering me (Page 2)

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

I remember reading in psychology class that there is a *theory* that our dreams are based on subconscious desires OR subconscious fears. Not saying that you are homophobic but if you are totally turned off by the thought of being with another man, that alone might be considered a “subconscious fear”.

I once had a dream as an adult that I was raped by a close family member. OBVIOUSLY that is not anything I desire, it’s repulsive and I woke up feeling so disturbed that I had dreamt about it. Thankfully I don’t have those types of nightmares often but yeah it really fucks you up mentally when you do. Then you feel like you can’t tell anyone about it either. But you’re not the only one.

Thanks this makes the most sense. I have no issues with anybody who is gay it’s just not me or what I’m into. I’d rather sexual dream about a women then a guy. But right before going to bed I watched Blind Love on Netflix and it was telling story about Bi guy who planned to marry a women. I also drank some apple juice and I’ve heard stories apple juice gives you lucid dreams. Idk

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Posted by Phantum

You worrying about this dream makes me more suspicious of your orientation than the dream. That goes for all the other homophobes in the thread too.

I’m not a homophobic I think gay guys are regular people who deserve respect equal rights. It’s just I’ve never presented interested in men to dream something like that.

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I dreamt once I was kissing a pig. It might have been a gay pig I don't know but that doesn't make me want to dress up farm animals.

I would rather a dream where I made out with a pig. I would have laughed that out and told ppl. I’m insecure about this dream.

I think the more you focus on this the more it's going to drive you cray cray so just forget about it.

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I’ve been doing better today. Just feel confused about the dream. Not confused that I question my sexual preference but the awkwardness of it.

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Trroll....

How? And why?

Donno..responses conveniently provocative/naive... writing style indicative of other users..past users..

Could be wrong

Just speaking from the guts

I'm wondering why OP answered for 7s herePosted by SuperSize9

Anyway, we need more details from the dream OP.

did you get pounded like a prison bitch, or it was just an under the sheets cousins jerking off thing? 😆

there are different interpretations for those 🤣

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No pounding or jerking it was ass grab and touching but as the dream progressed I realized I was doing something that’s not what I’m into. And I was horrified and awoke 2am and stayed up trying make sense of it.

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Posted by Echo

Your dream is probably showing a vision of a female scenario. But you’re not aware about it in your dream

How? I was all male in the dream. I’ve never had dreamed as myself in a women’s place or have ever wanted to trade places with a women.

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Posted by maiden

Trroll....

How? It’s a question asked about a dream I had. I swear some people not All but SOME just want be right that it makes them tight.

I had dream that made me uncomfortable before I tell my girlfriend I thought I’d jump on the web and ask random strangers. Which solidified me not telling my girlfriend or in matter of fact anybody else on the face of this fucking earth because of ppl like you.

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Posted by SuperSize9

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Your dream is probably showing a vision of a female scenario. But you’re not aware about it in your dream

How? I was all male in the dream. I’ve never had dreamed as myself in a women’s place or have ever wanted to trade places with a women.

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You don’t have to. I believe that usually when you get dreams like that, you’re usually looking into someone else’s perspective.

Past life. Or a story line of someone’s life.

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Posted by Echo

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Your dream is probably showing a vision of a female scenario. But you’re not aware about it in your dream

How? I was all male in the dream. I’ve never had dreamed as myself in a women’s place or have ever wanted to trade places with a women.

You don’t have to. I believe that usually when you get dreams like that, you’re usually looking into someone else’s perspective.

Past life. Or a story line of someone’s life.

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mmmmmmm nah I don’t think that it was that. I was myself. But idk I do believe in afterlife or another existence apart from this one. But regarding this dream it wasn’t out of body.

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You worrying about this dream makes me more suspicious of your orientation than the dream. That goes for all the other homophobes in the thread too.

I’m not a homophobic I think gay guys are regular people who deserve respect equal rights. It’s just I’ve never presented interested in men to dream something like that.

I'm using the term to mean you fear being gay instead of you hate gays. Maybe I'm wrong, but it sure seems to me that you fear being gay. If you know you're not, it was just a dream.

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I fear talking to some one close about it and them judging me for it, I guess that’s silly to think but I know perception of you that people close to you have can and effect your relationship with them.

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If I tell my good friend of 7 years Who is Straight that I had a one time gay dream about him. Our Friendship over

If i tell my girlfriend of 2 years I had a gay dream about a friend she will doubt and question my relationship with my other friends too.

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there's only one thing that matters OP, did you wake up with a hard on? Because if you did, then sorry you're gay.

Doesn't matter if you were not and never wanted to be, the dream made you and there's nothing you can do about it. Enjoy your new life.