Help me pls. Two options, pick one!!

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summer00
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Okay, lets say you're 19. You're given two option. One, study (by the help of full scholarship) and in three years time you will be working with fixed job with considerably great amount of salary, you will be well off but never rich with this kind of job. And you're not interested in this job at all but get to stay close to your family.

Two, going after your dream. Study for not more than 5 years (with your own money) but theres no guarantee that you will get the job but if you do you can be rich not instantly, but yes eventually. You most probably going to be away from your family. But you're happy because its your dream.

If you're given this options which one will you pick?
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Posted by summer00
I'm so afraid of making bad decision. I feel like my life depends on this one decision. Right now I'm in the airport waiting to board. And I'm choosing the 2nd option. I need some mental support.
If you're sitting in the airport, ready to depart on your dream ..... and have zero support, in where you have to come to a forum of random strangers to get support .... then you're fucking up way worse than career choices.

It means - you don't any person in your life who agrees with your decision and nobody is backing you up.

If no person is backing you up ... then that means they all believe you are fucking up.

You should consider that they might be right. The fact that you don't consider that they might be right is an indication to me that you don't have enough senses to make a sound judgment call.
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by summer00
I'm so afraid of making bad decision. I feel like my life depends on this one decision. Right now I'm in the airport waiting to board. And I'm choosing the 2nd option. I need some mental support.
If you're sitting in the airport, ready to depart on your dream ..... and have zero support, in where you have to come to a forum of random strangers to get support .... then you're fucking up way worse than career choices.

It means - you don't any person in your life who agrees with your decision and nobody is backing you up.

If no person is backing you up ... then that means they all believe you are fucking up.

You should consider that they might be right. The fact that you don't consider that they might be right is an indication to me that you don't have enough senses to make a sound judgment call.
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Or simply they don't want to impose their ideas on her ?
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Posted by summer00
Okay, lets say you're 19. You're given two option. One, study (by the help of full scholarship) and in three years time you will be working with fixed job with considerably great amount of salary, you will be well off but never rich with this kind of job. And you're not interested in this job at all but get to stay close to your family.

Two, going after your dream. Study for not more than 5 years (with your own money) but theres no guarantee that you will get the job but if you do you can be rich not instantly, but yes eventually. You most probably going to be away from your family. But you're happy because its your dream.

If you're given this options which one will you pick?
Op who disagree with you :?