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How do I fairly handle a Virguy friend/co-worker?
after you said that if he's not a weird virgo i dont think he'll be flirting with you anymore.
virgo men have a high ego . He probably don't think much of it to begin with if he's still flirting after you said that.
since you're not interested, i wouldn't worry about this going anywhere
virgo men have a high ego . He probably don't think much of it to begin with if he's still flirting after you said that.
since you're not interested, i wouldn't worry about this going anywhere
Posted by SunMoonStars
I tell him that he's my friend and if that ever changes and I want more, I'll let him know.
That's very vague, and quite honestly, it sounds like you purposely left that open-ended, so he would continue to give you flirty attention.
If you really want/wanted to have him stop, then you have to be direct. And this goes for any person. If you leave it like you did above, then you're sending the message that you might still be interested if the situation was right.
Why lead him on? I''m not so sure your intentions are for the good. You're leading him on by saying that.
Tell him straight up: "I'm not comfortable with your flirting with me. We are just friends, nothing more, so I would appreciate it if you refrained from making flirting suggestions with me. Thank you."
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